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Clayton Mamele Obituary

On August 21, 2023, CDR Clayton C. Mamele USN died peacefully in his sleep, two months shy of his 99th birthday. Clay was strong, sharp and witty to the very end.

Clay was born on October 22, 1924 in upstate (very cold) Rome, New York to Charles and Vera Mamele. His father died when Clay was 5 years old. His young mother moved Clay and younger brother Pete to his grandparents farm in Osceola, New York (even colder).

At age 18 and the valedictorian of his class, he joined the U.S. Navy as World War II broke out. His first assignment was to a bomber squadron on the Aleutions Islands. Thus began his love affair with Navy aircraft. During the Korean War, the Navy advanced his knowledge and skills with Jet Aircraft and he became a commissioned officer.

In 1960, he was assigned to a heavy attack Vigilante squadron in Sanford, Florida. In 1966 and 1967, during the Vietnam War, Clay and his squadron were deployed for two consecutive years to the Gulf of Tonkin aboard the nuclear aircraft carrier, Enterprise. A tremendous sacrifice for such a devoted family man. The Navy rewarded Clay with the rank of Commander and assigned him as military of attaché to an Air Wing of the Royal Navy outside of London, England. He ended his 30 year military career as a Commander in the North Atlantic Fleet Air Wing with the responsibility of keeping the fleets most advanced aircraft flying.

At the beginning of World War II, Clay found the love of his life in a town near Hollywood, California. Sally Hoff, a beautiful farm girl from South Dakota was an undiscovered star who could sing, dance, play the piano and light up the room. After the war, on January 14, 1946, Clay married that that undiscovered star and began a 70 year honeymoon that took the two farm kids around the globe. Their 70 year honeymoon was briefly interrupted by four children, Charles, Richard , Dale and Kathryn. "Poppe" was loved and adored by six grandchildren, Carly, Jenna, Chris, Ashley, Chaz and Colt and six great-grandchildren, Harper, Holland, Liam, Eliza, Storie and Madeline.

Upon retirement from the Navy in 1974, Clay and Sally embarked on a 40 year mission of volunteer service to the poor through the St. Vincent De Paul Society. They served on various boards to ensure that food, shelter and clothing were provided to the needy. Clay drove thousands of miles to acquire food for a pantry that is now known as "Clay's Pantry". He accomplished this while constantly draining blood from his body, having donated 55 gallons to the blood bank.

Clay was a man of great faith, kind and humble, possessing a great sense of humor. His devotion to God, country and family was beyond reproach. Although highly decorated, his proudest accolade came from the young men under his command, who returned each and every year to the Navy reunions to thank him for the guidance, care and the impact he made in their lives.

The family will receive friends on Tuesday, August 29, 2023 from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Lohman Funeral Home, 1201 Dunlawton Avenue, Port Orange, Florida (386) 999-4887. A Funeral Mass will be held on Wednesday, August 30, 2023 at 11:00 a.m. at Our Lady Star of the Sea, 4000 S. Atlantic Avenue, New Smyrna Beach, Florida (386) 427-4530, followed by the burial at 2:00 p.m. at Pine Forest Cemetery, 1801 N. Donnelly Street, Mt. Dora, Florida.

In lieu of flowers, Clay would appreciate any donations be sent to:

St. Vincent de Paul Society

218 Ocklawaha

Eustis, Florida 32726

Attention: "Clay's Pantry"

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Published by Orlando Sentinel from Aug. 24 to Aug. 26, 2023.

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John Scheiter

October 5, 2023

It was a privilege to know and volunteer alongside Clay. He was the kindest and most genuine person I have know. My deepest sympathy to all.
John Scheiter
St. Vincent de Paul Society (Eustis FL)

Barbara Mamele

August 29, 2023

Clay Mamele, my father-in -law for 32 years, was one of the most loving persons I´ve ever known. He was a true Giver, not expecting anything in return. He gave his love and attention to all of his family members. It was evident through his actions that family was one of his highest values, It was very close to his devotion to God where he demonstrated Good Works through many actions in his communities, including blood donations, running the food pantry and participation in the church. Wherever he was, he was helpful. That includes helping me in the kitchen for our big family gatherings. He was great at peeling potatoes! Now that says a lot about being truly helpful!
He was also fun. I remember him as smiling and laughing when he´d tell funny stories.
He was Love in this world. I am grateful to have had him in my life, and for the opportunity to extend his goodness through our son, Clayton "Colt" Mamele.
May we, all who knew him, continue his legacy of making the world a better, more loving place by remembering Him and following his example of Love, Service and Remembering God in all that we think, say and do.

I am deeply grateful to have had this wonderful man in my life.
Love is eternal.
In Love, Babs

David Hoff

August 28, 2023

Many sympathies to the Mamele´s & their families. Our thoughts & prayers go out to those in need. Dave & Sharon

Yvonne Arsenault

August 27, 2023

Our deepest condolences to the family, from Ray and Yvonne Arsenault, Halifax Nova Scotia, Canada.

Joyce McCloskey

August 27, 2023

Such a beautiful life, praying that your father is being comforted by the Lord Jesus Christ and all of the family. Love and God bless you, Joyce McCloskey.

Fr. Blase Romano, TOR

August 26, 2023

Dear Mamele Family: Please accept my most sincere condolences on the passing of your dear (grand)Dad! I have many fond memories of both he and your dear Mom during my days at St. Patrick Church/Mt. Dora. Both were true gems - always ready to help in whatever way they could...esp. recall Dad loading his car with donated foods for SVDS! I pray your memories of your Dad & Mum bring you many graces. May they rest in peace!

Doug & Cat Mamele

August 26, 2023

Uncle Clay,

Your love, kindness, and smile will be with us eternally. Rest in Peace with our lovely Aunt Sally. CSM Douglas Mamele & MSgt Cat Briggs-Mamele

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Doug and Cat Mamele

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Jean Mary Becraft

August 26, 2023

A lovely, kind & generous man who was well loved by all. He made a difference in many lives.
My deepest sympathy to all.

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29

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Lohman Funeral Home- Port Orange

1201 Dunlawton Avenue, Port Orange, FL 32127

Aug

30

Funeral Mass

11:00 a.m.

Our Lady Star of the Sea

4000 S. Atlantic Avenue, New Smyrna, FL 32169

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30

Burial

2:00 p.m.

Pine Forest Cemetery

1801 N Donnelly Street, Mt Dora, FL 32757

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