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Carolyne Kelley Obituary

Carolyne Lanxon Kelley, a former Toledo and Sanford resident, passed away peacefully in her Florida home on Jan. 18, 2012, following a long illness.

Carolyne was born on July 8, 1927, in Newburgh, N.Y., to Catherine and Arthur Ford, and lived in that area until her marriage to Harold Kelley, the love of her life, for 65 years. They met at West Point in 1945 when she attended a dance as a blind date.

Carolyne was particularly proud of the roles her ancestors played in the beginnings of our nation. She was born in one of the historical homes of her mother's family, the Ellisons, who were prominent settlers of New Windsor, N.Y. Their two homesteads were used by George Washington and Henry Knox when each made their headquarters on Ellison farms during the terrible winter the Colonial troops spent in the New Windsor Cantonment. The family supplied critical help with food and firewood.

Another prominent patriot ancestor, Jacob Morton, was selected by Washington as the Marshal for his 1789 New York inauguration. His father, John Morton, was a signer of the Declaration of Independence and known by the British as the "Rebel Banker." Yet another ancestor, Charles McKnight, the first Surgeon General of Washington's Colonial Army, was the source of Carolyne's approval for membership in the Daughters of the American Revolution.

Carolyne was a lifelong musician, studying voice from an early age, attending Julliard School of Music in New York, and continuing to perform up to the last year of her life. In Toledo, she was the soprano soloist in The Messiah with The Toledo Symphony. She sang in choirs wherever she lived, including New York, New Mexico, Arkansas, Ohio and Florida. As director of the Briny Breezes, Fla., Chorale, she produced annual spectacular musical productions for many years. She was also the soprano soloist in Toledo's First Unitarian Church Choir for 37 years.

Sharing a longtime interest in reading and education, Carolyne and Harold endowed two reading and study rooms at the main branch of the Toledo-Lucas County Public Library in their names and their childrens.

Carole and Harold loved visiting the Senior Center at Trailside where they enjoyed lunch and companionship with their friends. They also enjoyed Dahlia Hill, the Midland Center for the Arts and the lovely plantings along Eastman Road.

Carolyne is survived by her husband and three children, Kathleen Putnam (Lou), Keith (Shahla Emadi) and Kristen Scheibert-Mizell (Chess); grandchildren, Andrea Kelley Pogany (Andy), Brendan Putnam, Erin Kelley May (Nate), Kelley Putnam Necioglu (Ali Kemal), Stephen Kelley, Kevin Scheibert, Katherine Scheibert and Kayla Mizell; three step-grandchildren, Nazanin Farchtchi, Nazgul Farchtchi Fearnow (Kevin), Chess Mizell; and one great-grandchild, Hannah Carolyne Pogany. She was preceded in death by her sister, Harriet Ellison Ford in 1980.

Services will be held in Florida on January 22, 2012, and a memorial service will follow at a date to be set for friends and family in Toledo, Ohio. The family requested memorial donations be sent to the First Unitarian Church of Toledo, 3205 Glendale Avenue, Toledo, OH 43614, or to Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation, 5300 East Avenue, West Palm Beach, FL 33407.

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Published by Midland Daily News on Jan. 22, 2012.

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January 23, 2012

To the Kelley Family. We are thinking of you during this difficult time.

From: Your Friends at the Toledo Symphony League.

Margie & Steve Brown

January 23, 2012

To all the Kelley family,
Steve & I feel privileged to have known your wife, mother, and grandmother. She always welcomed us with warmth and friendship at your family gatherings. As we read the tributes to her robust talent, we regret never having heard her sing. Her life enriched many others. You are all in our thoughts.

linda rector

January 22, 2012

It's been awhile since I remember seeing the two of you on Sunday morning, but I also know you're often away from Midland.

Harold, I'm so sorry to learn about Carolyne's passing. Know that folks in our Fellowship will be thinking about you and your family.

And, know that you'll always be welcome at the UU Fellowship in Midland.

Evelyn Lipowitz

January 22, 2012

Mid-Michigan was graced by her presence in recent years. May her family know thoughts are with them at this time.

January 22, 2012

It is with sadness that those of us left behind face life in Briny without Carolyne, but at the same time we celebrate the life of an extraordinary person. May you sing in the choirs of heaven, dearest friend.
Darlene Erickson

January 21, 2012

My deepest Sympathy to All of you,,Carolyne will be missed in Briny. She was very talented.In everything she did. Sincerely, Halen Rogers

Zoe May

January 21, 2012

To the Kelley Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. It was a privilege to have known your wife, mother, and grandmother. We are thinking of you and wish you peace.

with deepest sympathy,
The Putnam Family

David Lindsley

January 20, 2012

Harold and family,
Carolyne has always meant so much to my daughter Kelly and me both as a teacher and as a friend. We both took lessons from her at the same time at her home on Manley Road. Only wish I had been a better student. May she rest in peace now that her ordeal is over. The world has lost a marvelous and incredibly talented woman!

Constance

January 20, 2012

Kelly Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all and may the God of comfort and peace be with you.

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