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Freddie Jefferson Obituary

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FREDDIE STEBBINS JEFFERSON February 1, 1936 – October 27, 2007 Freddie Lee Stebbins was born on February 1, 1936, to David “Fred” Stebbins and Minnie Lee Martin Stebbins at home in Arcadia, FL. Freddie was named after her father, whose nickname “Fred” was used by all in Arcadia. She joined her older sister, Verlene, and was followed later by her baby sister, Gwendolyn. Noting that hers was a premature birth, Freddie once said that the odds were stacked against her living through the night. She lived through her first night and thrived for 71 years. An avid reader, she recounted tales of imaginary characters and faraway places to her sisters, Verlene and Gwendolyn. Freddie's love of the written word was insatiable. She once remarked that she could check out a book from Arcadia's little library and travel anywhere in the world in her mind. After graduating as valedictorian of her Arcadia high school class, Freddie attended Florida A&M University, graduating in 1957, receiving a bachelor of arts degree in English, with a minor in History. Freddie's first job in Palm Beach County, FL, was teaching English at Lake Shore High School in the city of Belle Glade. It was there that Freddie met science teacher James J. Jefferson. They married on November 22, 1959. Combining career and family was not an easy task, but James and Freddie complemented each other admirably and produced three wonderful children: Lea Jenine, James Byron, and Trevor Maurice. Freddie placed her family and children above all but never wavered in her commitment to teaching and to her own education. Freddie Stebbins Jefferson furthered her lifetime commitment to learning by completing requirements for a master's degree in English from Stetson University in 1967, the year her youngest child was born, and an Education Specialist degree in 1979 from Florida State University. From classroom teacher at Lake Shore High School to Curriculum Coordinator at John F. Kennedy High, from English Professor at Palm Beach Junior College to Division I-Humanities Chairperson at Palm Beach Community College, her philosophy of life was “to create good and eliminate evil without desire for self-aggrandizement,” as that “yields the only true happiness.” At every turn, she touched lives, taught people that they mattered and that knowledge is a gift to oneself that lasts forever. She was a role model and teacher of uncompromising excellence, whose lessons, words and quiet example still guide those who knew her, in her classroom or in her living room. She lived her philosophy by avoiding self-centered ego as she constantly and often exhaustively focused her attention on the needs of others. Indeed, the depth of her compassion and empathy for others was evident to all. While working at Palm Beach Community College in 1989, Freddie Stebbins Jefferson started educating with her words of wisdom, truth and knowledge as a weekly columnist for The Palm Beach Post. Finding a new outlet for her lessons, Freddie left the classroom, but never left teaching when she became a full-time columnist and editorial writer as a member of the Editorial Board of The Palm Beach Post from 1992 to 1995. She was intensely proud to represent her ethnic community, offering a voice and perspective she felt was sorely needed. She strived to “do good” without self-promotion, cognizant that her voice spoke for many but not all. Freddie's family and close friends knew the private woman apart from the regal and striking presence she cast in public. She was wife, Mama, Aunt Freddie or dear friend, able to listen to and feel your pains and ask a question that cuts to the heart of any issue. A sensitive soul, she was careful of other's feelings. She used her insight and life experience to help her family and close friends, nudging them in the right direction, helping them overcome obstacles or simply rejoicing in their success. Freddie loved to shake up those around her by breaking her formal manners with a joke. Her legendary smile and laughter, so quick and warm, cast a glow sought by all. Freddie was active in her community throughout her life. She was a member of the Las Novias Society and the West Palm Beach Chapter of The Links, Inc.; a Golden Life member of the West Palm Beach Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority; a life member of the Florida A&M Alumni Association; a member of the Quettes of the Palm Beaches; a life member of NAACP; and a member of St. Patrick's Episcopal Church. She also was involved with the Palm Beach County Minority Arts Consortium; Executive Women of the Palm Beaches; Toward a More Perfect Union; Community Foundation of Palm Beach and Martin Counties; and Hospice of Palm Beach County. Freddie's talents were recognized often. In 1963, she received a Ford Foundation Fellowship. In 1969, she was awarded the Experienced Teacher Fellowship. In 1976, Essence magazine published her prized short story, Aunt Melia's Visit: Memories from the Forties. A recipient of countless awards and commendations, Freddie received the Women of Excellence Award in Journalism from Delta Sigma Theta Sorority and was most recently honored in March 2007 by the Urban League of Palm Beach County with the Martin Luther King Jr., Humanitarian Award. An excellent speaker, Freddie frequently was invited to host events and give speeches to civic organizations, churches and schools. A two-time breast cancer survivor from the early 1970s and 1980s, Freddie faced heart surgery on Thursday, October 25, 2007, with the same wisdom, wit and courage she used to face all of her life's challenges. Not one to be maudlin, Freddie did not desire family or public vigil, but encouraged those nearest to her to live their daily lives, noting that she would see them all soon. After complications from her surgery and with a body weakened by the radiation that treated her cancer decades earlier, Freddie Stebbins Jefferson died at Mt. Sinai Medical Center in Miami Beach surrounded by her family and friends as they said goodbye on Saturday afternoon, October 27, 2007 at approximately 4:20 pm. She is survived and deeply missed by her loving husband, James J. Jefferson; her adoring children, Lea Jefferson and J. Byron Jefferson (Tracy) of West Palm Beach, and Trevor Jefferson (René Vañessa) of Gaithersburg, MD; special niece, Dora Budd (Donnel) of Royal Palm Beach, FL; sisters, Verlene Hickson (Eugene Sr.) of Arcadia, and Gwendolyn Stebbins of Greenacres, FL; uncles, Adolphus Grisby (Mary), of Riverdale, GA, and Richard Stebbins (Helen) of Fort Myers, FL; aunt, Inez Langmade, of Arcadia; goddaughter, Patricia Burke Lewis; and an adoring host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. A viewing and wake service will be held at Grace Episcopal Church, 3600 Australian Ave., West Palm Beach, Fla., 33407, from 4:00 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. on Friday, Nov. 2, 2007. The family welcomes family, friends and various civic organizations to share their memories of Freddie Stebbins Jefferson and proclamations in her honor. The West Palm Beach Chapter of the Links, Inc., and the West Palm Beach Alumna Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta will end the program with their respective services for a fallen member. Funeral Services for Freddie Stebbins Jefferson will take place on Saturday, November 3, 2007, at Grace Episcopal Church at 11:00 am. There will be no viewing at the service, and speakers are limited to Freddie's children and special niece. In lieu of flowers, the family requests your continued prayers and, if you are so moved, a donation to “The Stebbins Jefferson Family Fund” at the Community Foundation for Palm Beach and Martin Counties. This fund, now directed by her family, was established by Freddie in 2000 to carry on her passions and philosophy via scholarship or charitable giving. To give, please visit http://www.cfpbmc.org/page30081.cfm and select “The Stebbins Jefferson Family Fund” from the pull-down menu or follow instructions on the website to mail a donation.

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Published by The Palm Beach Post from Nov. 1 to Nov. 3, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Freddie Jefferson

210 Entries

Trevor

February 1, 2024

Miss you always Mama!!

Karen Steanson

August 17, 2020

I met Freddie the summer that she attended a summer program for high school English teacher at Stetson University, where I was an assistant teacher for her course. I so enjoyed knowing her and talking with her that summer--1963, 1964? Just now, as I went through old files, I came across an editorial that she had written for the Palm Beach newspaper that had been reprinted in the Atlanta Journal-Constitution. Her subject was her excitement in the fall, the season of preparing lesson plans for the upcoming year, even though she no longer taught. So wise and loving. I googled her name just now, hoping to write to her. Her obituary portrayed the blooming and development of the woman I knew so long ago. To her family and friends, I send my condolences, for the wonderful friend and guide that you had for many years and now have lost.

Original pencil sketch by Laura Collie

Linda Collie

July 8, 2018

This is an original pencil sketch that my Mother, Laura Collie did on January 21, 1998 of Stebbins Jefferson. Of interest as she had just broken her artist, right hand and did this with her left hand. If any family member would like the original as a gift contact me at 561-627-2299

art piergrossi

July 27, 2009

I will always remember and cherish your words that unless we strive for excellence, we will have to accept mediocrity as our due.

James Andrews

January 16, 2009

I thank you Ms Jefferson for instilling in me the passion for knowledge that I carry to this day more than 44 years after having you as my english teacher at Lincoln Middle/High School.

Manuel Vivar

December 20, 2008

My prayers go out to the Jefferson family. I had the honor being one of her students at the 45th Street Campus of PBCC. It was a Speech class and I will forever treasure the memories of that class. She was a caring and honest teacher who opened up her soul and shared it with the class. I now have a daughter who plans to become a teacher and I hope and pray she turns out like Mrs. Jefferson.

Cassandra Smith-Strachan

December 19, 2008

I am a better writer today because of Ms. Jefferson. She also instilled in me a love of literature. Her family remain in my thoughts and prayers. A grateful member of JFK Class of 1965...

A.B. Miller

December 3, 2008

I am so sorry to hear this news. I LOVED reading Ms. Jefferson's beautifully written, passionate, intelligent and just plain smart musings.
My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Stephanie Brown-Hammond

September 24, 2008

To the Jefferson Family,

I grew up reading the Mrs. Jefferson's columns as a high School student. I can remember my mother pointing out stories she had written for me to read. Although, I didn't know her personally, her name and work were a fixture in our home. She will truly be missed.

Nathaniel Garvin

August 18, 2008

It has been nearly 10 months since your passing. The Senior Class of John F. Kennedy High School just celebrated its 40th Reunion and you were remembered as a sponsor and a well loved teacher. We are so proud to have had you as an integral part of our lives and you will never be forgotten. The beauty of your smile and the firmness of your voice in class is burned into the souls of all who knew you. On behalf of the Class of 1968, thank you for being there because we never could have made it without you.

Germaine

July 29, 2008

She was my speech teacher @PBCC when we had the 45th Street temp. campus. I loved that class, she was a great addition to the college. God Bless her family who must carry on.

Lorraine Griffin

July 29, 2008

Ms. Jefferson was my college speech professor and she was one of the persons in my life I saw as a role model. She was a lady and I respected her. She is going to be missed.

Thomas Dean

July 8, 2008

To the Stebbins Family,

Please accept my sincerest sympathy. I always loved her stories of her family at Christmas time. May God Bless her always.

Sincerely,

Mary Kendall

June 28, 2008

Sincere thanks are extended to the family for sharing such a powerful role model during such times as these.

Ann Romer

June 17, 2008

She was a real lady. I valued her standards and ideas; and agreed with her on most issues. I was a resident of Boca Raton for 40 years. Even though I've lived in Richmond, VA, for almost 8 years now, I still remember Ms. Jefferson.

Jay Worsham

June 1, 2008

She was one of a few really effective teachers at Palm Beach Community College. I was fortunate to be in her American Literature class in the early '80s, and I found her to be tough but fair. Although I was just one of many faces in her classroom, I came away feeling that there was a special friendship between us. That was part of her gift as a teacher.

June 1, 2008

To the Bereaved Family:
I am a former student of Mrs. Jefferson from Lincoln High School. And I think Mrs Jefferson was ione of the most highly educational teachers I had. She was an informative, intellectual, and forthright lady. She will be missed sincerely. Most of all I will miss reading her column.

Jeffrey Eugene

April 21, 2008

my condolences goes out to the family. in times like this we all need comforting words and GOD'S word the bible provided that for us. john 5:28,29

Kathy Malone

April 15, 2008

She was my English teacher at PBJC in the late '70s. I just loved her class...she was so talented. So sorry to hear of her death. Kathy Cavanaugh Malone, High Springs, FL (formerly of West Palm Beach)

Lauren Kincus (Caprara)

April 4, 2008

Dear Byron,
I was signing the Guest Book of a friend who passed away this week and I saw your mom's beautiful face. I have not seen you in ages but we took golf lessons together years ago and even played in that silly tournament in Ft.Lauderdale, you were the best in our foursome. I always admired your mother. I spent over 10 years teaching at Palm Beach Public School and always looked forward to her columns and educational perspective. Such an inspiration to many. Take care and God Bless.

EMILIA MOLLINER

March 19, 2008

NOT TOO OFTEN, BUT I READ HER ARTICLES AT THE POST COLUMM, SHE WAS A BEAUTIFULL SOUL AS SHE WAS AS A WOMAN.
MY CONDOLENCES TO HER FAMILY
Emilia Molliner

Jacquelyn Hails/Fields

February 29, 2008

Brother Jefferson my heart goes out to you and your family. We love you and your family, Mrs Jefferson was an inspiration to my whole family. it was truly a blessing to know her. God bless you. Please take care of yourself. Jackie. (The late Rev J. B. and Geneva Fields daughter.)

Sherry D

January 22, 2008

Ms. Jefferson was my Speech teacher at Palm Beach Community College. I learned so much from her class and kept in contact with her during my time spent there. Ms. Jefferson was a wonderful instructor and her teaching and guidance had a significant positive impact on my educational experience. She will certainly be missed.

Ruby H. Finley

January 10, 2008

Dear Family,
Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). Lake Shore High –Class of 1967

George Lockhart

December 26, 2007

It takes a whole village to raise a child.

This adage was not suspended from Mrs. Jefferson rather perpetuated by her. Growing up in the Westward (Expansion), we were all raised by every mother in the neighborhood. It was nothing to walk into their (Mrs. Jefferson’s) home and eat a home cooked meal or what ever was being baked that day.

There were justifications by her, however. No split infinitives, dangling participles or run-on sentences. Always yes sir, yes ma’am, thank you and please, no swearing and the hint of drinking, smoking must NOT be present, cleanup after yourselves and leave at a reasonable time. As I look back we were being raised to be successful men on all points.

We (African-American boys) never asked nor questioned the educative or religious background of Mrs. Jefferson. But it was clear - she was well spoken, smartly dressed, and watched you with both eyes (similar to the moms of that day). Always examining, questioning, probing, and prodding when you stepped into her home. “Are you ready for society young black leader are you ready to trail blaze – are you the one?” I assumed her to steadily convey to me when I saw her. Uh…I’m just thirteen ma’am.

In 1980 at John I. Leonard HS (4,000 students), Byron (son) was a star pitcher who threw 90 an hour. As one of two African-Americans on the team (Kevin Suarez) - he permeated this mostly white high school and its sport and through adversity – and dominated (UF, Chicago Whitesox)! Though he was two years older that I, he his life at home and at school was closely observed. I was there in the beginning (little, pony, and summer league baseball) to know his foundation which allowed him to take on the onslaught of racism and prejudice. Many nights, as a group of black boys, we played ‘fastpitch’ with a tennis ball by the lake (Clear Lake) until the mosquitoes chased us inside and many nights we had equal success against each other to create a comfort zone. Consequently, I (too) went out for the baseball team two years later and achieved. During tryouts we played the alumni. On the mound was the 6’3” intimidating current star (PBJC) facing me at bat. Amid the sixty players on the field (two blacks – he and I) evaluative charts, stopwatches, coaches and former players - my knees stop rattling, my heart pace slowed, my pulse returned to normal, my sight became clearer, the mound seemed further away and the baseball appeared to be a beach ball (smile) as I recognized the pitcher. This was no behemoth on the mound…it was just Byron. My success was undeniable that evening and I made the team. My confidence was sustained by Byron and what was instilled to him by his mother.

In my mind Byron brought the neighborhood to field that autumn evening. The bleachers would have included the Jeffersons, my folks and all of the parents in the neighborhood cheering two African-American young men on to success. The next two years I was the only African-American on the team - mirroring Byron’s upbringing to digest similar acts of predominance.

Mrs. Jefferson’s residual effects echo through every young African-American male she came into contact. I am a much better husband, father, worker, as a result of her and the likes of her. Mrs. Jefferson, yes ma’am I am a leader and to my family I - am the one.

George L. Lockhart

Selwyn Darbeau

December 12, 2007

Our meeting was for a short time, but your dynamic personality and your warm smile will always be remembered. To the family, may God continue to strenghten and keep you as you comfort one another "with the hope of the resurrection" and your eventual future reunion with Freddy.
Peace & Love. (Uncle Emmet's friend)

TRACY FLEMING-MIKES

November 29, 2007

TO THE JEFFERSON FAMILY
I REMEMBER MRS. JEFFERSON FROM PBJC (PBCC NOW).
I MUST SAY SHE WAS A LADY AT ALL TIMES AND COULD BE USED AS AN EXAMPLE OF A STRONG & KNOWLEDGEABLE BLACK WOMAN.
DEEPEST SYMPATHY
TRACY FLEMING-MIKES

Michael Findley

November 29, 2007

My heart goes out to her family. I remember truly enjoying her editorials. I really enjoyed her candor and honestly. May all of us strive to follow her example.

Karen Gramenz

November 29, 2007

As a "white" reader and fan of Mrs. Jefferson for many years, I missed her when I moved to Georgia earlier this year. She never was afraid to speak her thoughts but neither was she ever racist, hateful, or vindictive. Now we all will miss this wonderful woman and my condolences go out to her family.

Yolanda Hamby

November 28, 2007

I am so sorry about Mrs. Jefferson's crossing to be in the Lord's house. I will miss her poignant columns. One only needs to look at her picture and right away realize that this person was a special person. Goodness and kindness is written all over her face. I wish I had had the honor of having known her personally. I wish the family peace of heart and mind and may they be blessed with all her memories for the rest of your lives. God bless you!

Ozzie Monzon

November 12, 2007

Dear Lea and family,
We only met Mrs. Jefferson on a couple of occasions. Mauricio and I always commented to each other how she always left one with the impression that one had met someone very special. She was. Her presence was warm and engaging. Her smile was contagious and in the depth of her eyes one could see the sparkle of intelect and the firmness of her integrity.
We are both sadden by her passing. Our thoughs and prayers are with you and your family. We are very sorry that we were not in town to pay her our respect.
Your friends, Ozzie Monzon and Mauricio Botero.

Richard Brown

November 10, 2007

Bro Jefferson, stay strong as we Omega men know how to do. You are in our prayers as you begin this ever important healing process.

Bro. Richard Brown and family

Helen Roberts Mays

November 8, 2007

WOW!What a Royal celebration for a Royal lady at Grace last Saturday!
To Mr James Jefferson & Family -
Your loss is all our loss. But "Through it all"..."To God be the glory for the things He has done".

Maritza Arroyo

November 8, 2007

Dear Jefferson family,

My deepest sympathy to you all. It was truly an honor to have met your mother at Byron's wedding and witnessing the closeness between you.

Glenda Byrd

November 7, 2007

My Dear Lea and Family,

Your mother was a real jewel! As a member of Delta, she will be truly missed! Her outstanding columns and words of wisdom will be
forever remembered. Since I have also lost my mother this year, I can
understand the pain you are going through, but with the Lord's help,
each day will get a little bit better. TTBOD

Amy Devore

November 7, 2007

Dear Byron,
I never met your mom, but have read her column for years. Please accept my deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences at your mom's passing. I have been thinking of you during this time.

Amy Devore

Andrew Bernstein

November 7, 2007

I have been in FL for the past 8 years and I always looked forward to reading Ms. Jefferson's column. She was always thought provoking and not afraid to say what was right. I will miss her

Pam Saulsby

November 6, 2007

My heart is so heavy with a profound sense of loss.
I was a student in one of Ms Jefferson's speech classes at PBJC in 1976. She made a huge impact on my life and I considered her a great role model. I will always remember her professionalism, smile, and energy.

Nicole Winslow

November 5, 2007

Dear Byron -
My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. During my years at WPTV working right next to you, I enjoyed hearing you talk about your mom. I remember on so many occasions us talking about our moms together and I rememeber specifically admiring how highly you spoke about your mom. I never got to meet her in person but I did read her columns every week.
Be strong during this tough time.
The bond between a mother and her child is one of the strongest bonds that exists.. She will be with you every single day.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
xoxo

Martha Gillespie Beeman

November 5, 2007

Dear Byron (aka Byronious) and family:

Please know my prayers and thoughts are with you all during this sad and difficult time.

Martha Gillespie-Beeman

Shirley Poole Hammond

November 5, 2007

I have been on vacation out of state and I just found out about the passing of a very wonderful friend, Freddie Jefferson. I worked with Freddie in The Opinion Section of The Palm Beach Post for many years. She was a very intelligent, and compassionate Lady and my thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Beatrice Jokines

November 5, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time. Please know you are not alone.

God Bless
Beatrice Jokines

Gayle Harper

November 5, 2007

Mr. Jefferson, Lea, Byron & Tracy, Trevor & Rene:

Saturday's service was a wonderful tribute to your wife and mother. Freddie was indeed a wonderful teacher, mentor and friend.

I have many fond memories of her dating back to the late 60's at John F. Kennedy High. She later taught me at PBCC. I have always admired her - a woman of great intellect, grace and charm.

In 1995, I got to know her on a more personal level. That's the year she became my Las Novias sister. Our monthly meetings will not be the same without her. We will greatly miss her pleasant demeanor, wit, humor, and friendship. She was an extraordinary woman and she left a great impact on this community. She kept the faith, fought a good fight, and now she has received a higher calling.

Thanks for sharing her. May God continue to strenghten and comfort each of you.

Sincerely,
Gayle W. Harper

Phyllis Pittman

November 5, 2007

Mrs. Stebbins Jefferson touched so many lives and leaves a wonderful legacy for the next generation. One of the poetical books of the Bible, the book of Ecclesiastes, summarizes the character of Mrs. Stebbins Jefferson in this verse, it states, ' A GOOD name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death than the day of one's birth'.

Although I met Mrs. Stebbins Jefferson on only one occassion, the impact that she made with her elegance and warmth will last forever.

Sandra Close Turnquest

November 4, 2007

I met Freddie Stebbins Jefferson in 1978 at a Florida A & M University Alumni meeting which was hosted by she and her husband, Jeff at their home. She opened the door with that giant smile and welcomed me into their home. I thought she was the most beautiful Black Woman that I had ever met. And, she was a gracious host who welcomed the new Alumni member to the West Palm Beach area. That was the beginning of a long friendship.

I have so many wonderful memories of talking and sharing with Freddie about family, our Sorority and news event. The most memorable event was attending a Delta National Convention in Atlanta Georgia. As a long time member, she had never attended a National Convention. She was so excited that she came over and we completed her registration on line. It was the best convention to date for many of us and Freddie shared that convention with us!

I will miss her stopping by my home and chatting in the driveway. A classy, intelligent and beautiful human being has passed on but she has left a legacy for all who knew her for just being Freddie.

So long friend, you will be missed. I still can't comprehend that she is no longer with us.

Fondly,

Jim Cerullo

November 4, 2007

After retiring from the Navy in the mid 70's I took some classes at PBCC and I was lucky enough to have two classes with Mrs. Jefferson- speech and a writing class. We were almost the same age
but I learned a great deal from her that has been useful to me in my life right up to the present. I was shocked and saddened to read of her death. My condolences to her family.

Link Brenda Hodges-Tiller

November 4, 2007

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

John Niebch

November 4, 2007

Jim: Yesterday's service was a beautiful tribute to a beautiful lady who will be missed by everyone. Today, I read Freddie's words again in The Post's special edition. They reminded me again of her wisdom and her incredible ability to forthright and honest and right-on-target. Our country needs more spokespersons like Freddie. You will remember I met Freddie when she and I were teaching at the Community College. She stood out then, and she will stand out as one of the beautiful souls we met along life's journey. Jim, you and I worked together for a short time at Prudential. When I show you yesterday, I said we need to get together. I will call you next week. John Niebch

Marie Monroe-Ames

November 4, 2007

My heart saddened when I heard of the passing of Mrs. Jefferson. She was deeply loved by many and will be truly missed. As activist for this community, children and race relations we must continue to fight Ms. Jefferson's cause to bring closure to so many race issues. Her words should always be remembered and passed on to generations to follow us. I allowed my 12 year old to read the topics on her works and she recognized the words I always tell her about traveling through books. I told her good teachers are a blessings and should be honored above most professions because a child will carry forever things taught by a teacher. I am proud to have known Freddie Jefferson and will do my part to educate youth on the love of reading and learning. God will keep this family strong and carry you when needed so that all of you will get through this time period with the grace your loved one has bestowed upon you.

Sally Swartz

November 3, 2007

To the Jefferson children,
Your tributes to your mother at today’s service were touching, honest, loving and funny. In addition to being a gifted writer and teacher, Freddie succeeded at our most important task as humans: She reared great kids. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you come to terms with this loss.

Mary Moynihan

November 3, 2007

Dear Mr.Jefferson and family, I never knew your lovely wife and mother, but I have read so much about her, when I was visting my mother, who lives in Lantana. My prayers are wih you and your family

Joanne Blaise

November 3, 2007

My heartfelt sympathies to the loved ones of Mrs. Freddie Jefferson --a woman who was well respected and greatly admired.

Ronnie Johnson

November 2, 2007

To Mr. Jefferson and the entire Jefferson family: We were saddened to know of Mrs. Jefferson's passing. She was such a beautiful lady, loved by so many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. May all of your loving memories bring you comfort and peace. Love, Ruth, Pat, Timmie, Ronnie and Nat (Adams & Johnson)

Brenda Johnson

November 2, 2007

With Deepest Sympathy from extended family in Arcadia, Florida. Ophelia Sutton Lee, Oliver Sutton,Daisy Carter, Brenda,Willie,Carl,Sateria,Cedric and Carl Johnson

Bettye Bryant

November 2, 2007

Freddie was Chairman of the English Department my first year teaching in Palm Beach County at Lincoln and later John F. Kennedy High School. She assisted me in making the transition from a junior college English teacher to a high school English teacher. She was so kind and helpful. She will always remain a green spot in my memories.

Dennis,Versie,Cortney & Ashley Harris

November 2, 2007

Mr.Jefferson,Lea,Byron,Trevor and spouses.We send our deepest sympathy. Mrs. Jefferson was a proud,God fearing,beautiful lady inside and out. We are proud to have known and experienced her wisdom.Just trust in God and he will bring you comfort at this most difficult time.Our prayers and love are with each of you.May God Bless you.

Charles Falana

November 2, 2007

Any thing so university as death must be a blessing
Sincerely , Mr & ms CP Falana

Dennis,Versie,Cortney&Ashley Harris

November 2, 2007

Mr.Jefferson,Lea,Byron,Trevor and spouses.We send our deepest sympathy.Mrs.Jefferson was a God fearing proud beautiful lady inside and out.we are proud to have known and experenced her wisdom. God is so good I know he will bring you comfort at this most difficult time. Our prayers are with you all. God bless you.

Cheryl Holmes

November 2, 2007

BELOVED. Whether used as a noun or an adjective, beloved is the first word that comes to mind when I think of Mrs. Jefferson. She attracted what she so generously gave, an overflow of love. Freddie Jefferson was captivating. Her external radiance was only surpassed by her inner beauty. She personified the "most excellent way", the love that Paul wrote of in I Corinthians 13.

Mrs. Jefferson was an authentic Proverbs 31 woman. She loved and served her husband, children and community. She was brave enough to lead and confident enough to follow.

Her columns are evidence of how much she treasured and respected the written word. Her commentaries were lush tapestries woven with strands of truth, compassion and sage counsel.

I remember the first time I met Mrs. Jefferson. She came to Tallahassee to attend Lea's theatre performance. She rented a red Camaro and looked so good in it that I thought it was her car! She took a group of us to dinner and we were under her spell as she told us about her time at FAMU and gave us advice on how to thrive in college.

Mr. Jefferson, Lea, Byron and Trevor, it was a privilege, an honor and a blessing to have known Mrs. Jefferson. I am deeply sorry for your loss and share your grief as a friend. I will continue to pray for you and your family.

Donna Brosemer

November 2, 2007

Dear Mr. Jefferson,

I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of Mrs. Jefferson, and I regret that I will be out of town when her service is held on Saturday. She was a gracious lady who has left an important legacy for many of us.

Mrs. Jefferson was my public speaking professor at PBCC when the riots broke out in Los Angeles over the Rodney King verdict. I will never forget her profound distress at those events, and her comment to the class, said almost as if she was thinking--and feeling--out loud, "These things will continue to happen until we can openly discuss issues of race."

I valued her opinion, honored her judgment, and mourn her loss, for you, for your family, and for all of us.

Warm regards,
Donna Brosemer

A. Jackson & Joyce Pinkney

November 2, 2007

To The Jefferson Family:

Condolences and may God comfort you at this difficult time, is our prayer for you. Mrs. Jefferson was a beautiful lady, and she will be missed by all whose lives she touched.

The one thing I want from God, the thing I seek most of all, is the privilege of meditating in His Temple, living in His presence every day of my life, delighting in His incomparable perfections and glory.
Psalms 27:4

Ruth Chapman

November 2, 2007

Byron, I pray that you and your family receive great strength in knowing how much your mother was respected and love. She will never leave you.

Maureen Lehan (Oxford)

November 2, 2007

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Rev. and Mrs. Bobby Purvis

November 2, 2007

Jeff, Byron, Lea & Trevor
Our condolences to all. Freddie will be miss in the community, the churches and the article in the Post.

By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established: by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches. Proverbs 24:3-4

DONALD HARRINGTON

November 2, 2007

GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU IS MY PRAYER.
JFK CLASS OF 1965

DONALD HARRINGTON

November 2, 2007

GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU IS MY PRAYER.
JFK CLASS OF 1965. ALSO LIVED IN ARCADIA, FL. 1958 - 59.

Jane Pike

November 2, 2007

Condolences and expressions of HOPE for a time when you are re-united in the next life. Between the years of 1984-94 I was active in the Executive Women of the Palm Beaches and served with Freddie and Fran on committees. I then became the Association Executive. Freddie and Fran Hathaway were two of those unique individuals who always encouraged me, reminded me to use my institutional memory to better the organization, to keep it's focus of mentoring other women; especially those who would follow us. Hence the scholarship arm - Executive Women Outreach is very much alive and well. Due in part to the visionaries such as Freddie Stebbins Jefferson.

debi stewart

November 2, 2007

My shock at Freddie's sudden departure is matched only by the deep respect and admiration I have held for her since we first met many years ago. Heartfelt prayers for peace and comfort for her family from the Stewart family.

Erica & Jeff Balet

November 2, 2007

Mr. Jefferson & Family,
Our prayers are with you. May God grant you the peace of mind, heart and soul at this time. She is in the presence of our Lord Saviour. God bless you all.

Morris L. Bell

November 2, 2007

My sympathy to Mrs. Jefferson Family. I was a former student in her speech class at the North Campus of PBCC; then located at Palm Beach Gardens High School in the early 80's. She was so encouraging to me and my family. She inspired me to reach for the sky. And because of her inspiration then, I continue to reach today. May God bless her family and receive comfort in knowing that my family share your loss.

Maria Cole

November 2, 2007

'My' Freddie Jefferson was grace personified and the consumate woman.
She had that rare stunning beauty that originated from her heart and soul and shown its bright light on everyone around her.
As we all struggle to make sense of what is; she offfered a perspective born of compassion, faith and a deep sense of humanity.
Mrs. Jefferson had a way of seeing beyond physical and material evidence and connect with the true 'thread' of an individual that ties us all in the eyes of God. She believed in and sought in everyone the 'greatest common denominator'.
These past few days I have read the words and met many whose lives she touched, spirits she lifted, and dreams she inspired. She believed our greatest aspirations -- personally, for our community, and humanity, are indeed a possibility and encouraged each one of us to believe this as well.
This book is testimony to her vast sphere of influence and legacy of her inspiration.
Time with my dear friend has been too brief, but I find solace in a community and particularly in the women she has mentored, who carry will carry on in honor, to reflect the beauty and generosity of this tremendous woman.
I will forever be grateful to the Jefferson family for sharing her.

Freddie (with James Drayton), Mistress of Ceremonies, African American Film Festival, The Kravis Center, 2007

November 2, 2007

Craig Braziel

November 2, 2007

To the Jefferson Family.

My condolences and heart felt sympathy for your loss. As a teacher in a segregated school system she taught kids (me) to value the importance of a good education. Class of JFK '67.

Lynn Whitfield

November 1, 2007

To My Friend Lea, Byron and Trevor:
You were so blessed to have had your mother with you during your adult life. My mother died when I was just six years old so I don't have the memories that you have to reflect on. I thank you for not being selfish and keeping her to yourself but sharing her with the rest of us. I remember her telling a story during our first Kwanzaa celebration at Lea's house. Everyone was spellbound as she talked about growing up. I recently looked at a photograph of her reading to the children during a Kwanzaa celebration at Ron and Debra's. She had a way of capturing the audience no matter what the age. She was there when I first stepped on stage at World Famous to cheer me on. I can still see her smiling face at the end of my performance and her encouraging words. If you did not know her personally, you did not really know her unique sense of humor. She enjoyed a good joke. In fact since her death I was reminded of how I performed for the Las Novicas meeting and afterwards asked if anyone of them had a joke to tell and she readily voluteered one. Lea thank you for sharing with me the last joke you told her. Think about it she was laughing until the end.
Lea, your Northwood family grieves with you in your loss. She will be missed at all of our gatherings. She radient smile and words of encouragement meant so much to each of us. She will be forever with each of us.
Mr. J. I don't know what you are feeling having loved one person for so many years. My heart goes out to you in your loss. I want you to know that we all love you and wish only the best for you. You have lost your wife, but your life is still full of love. You are a special person.
Lea, Byron and Trevor,
your mother has left this earthly sphere, but she is still watching over you. You can still talk with her. You may not hear her response audibly, but in your heart you will know what she is saying to you. I speak from experience. Find comfort in knowing that she loved you and it was not her choice to leave you now, but God had a bigger and better plan for her in eternity and she obediently answered his call.
My love and prayers are with you

Ronald Hallback

November 1, 2007

Mrs. Jefferson was a wonderful person, and a great Lady. She was the best teacher I had. To the family, May God bless and keep you.

James Drayton

November 1, 2007

To the Family,
Divine Providence brought her to us as Host of the African American Film Festival. What a Wit! What an Intellect! What an experience and Oh, how she enriched our lives!
We thank her. We thank you for sharing her with us.

June Burke (Ross)

November 1, 2007

Hi Byron and Family

I received an email from Deeann and was so sad to hear the news about your beautiful mom. Byron it has been such a long time since I've spoken to you but I would love to talk to you. I know right now you are going through a tough time and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Only time will help you heal and I remember you had a very close family. When you can, I would love to hear from you - (914)419-2381. Take care and hope to hear from you soon......... June

Barbara Gillespie Nicklaus

November 1, 2007

Dear Byron,

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the passing of your beautiful mother. I had the privilege of being in her Literature class back in the 80's at PBJC and she instilled a love of reading in me that will last forever. She was such a lovely and classy woman whom we all aspired to be like. Thank you for sharing your mother with us. I will miss reading and most of all learning from her column.

Sincerely,

Jo Kaiser

November 1, 2007

Mr. Jefferson,
My sincere sympathy in the loss of your wife. You and your children are in my thoughts and prayers during this trying time.

I worked for you in the early 1980's on Belvedere Road.

Carleton Bryant

November 1, 2007

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

merrin parker

November 1, 2007

Our prayers are with you at this time of bereavement. WE LOVED FREDDIE. Cousins, Mamie T. Hoefer
(NJ)Collie Toland,Sr.,Delores Givens Kimbrough, Merrin Givens
Parker, Alice Givens Barnes,
and Frank Givens,Sr. (West Palm Beach)

Janine Rouson

November 1, 2007

To the Jefferson family, you welcomed my family, the Rousons, when we arrived in Palm Beach County as my father became VP for Student Affairs at PBJC. Freddie became a wonderful friend for my mother and Trevor became a wonderful friend for my brother. Be comforted at this time in knowing the beautiful spirit of Freddie will live on in those she touched throughout the years.

Ann Carter

November 1, 2007

To the family of Freddie Jefferson,
Please accept my condolences. I hope your grief is eased by the knowledge that it is shared with so many whose lives were touched by Ms. Jefferson. She taught my 11th-grade drama class at Lake Worth High. The first day of class, we discovered we had different ideas about what the class should be. Rather than stick to what she prepared for, she shifted gears and presented an extremely useful class on theater arts, rather than spending our time reading and discussing plays. She was pretty stoic, seldom letting her emotions be seen, then every once in a while there would be this little twinkle in her eye. While the world is poorer for her loss, our lives are richer for having known her.

Karla Brown

November 1, 2007

Thank You for welcoming me into your home and family as a young girl. It went a long way with me.

Dr. Alvin Moore,EMBC

November 1, 2007

The members of Elizabeth Missionary Baptist Church extend to the family our deepest sympathy. Freddie's strong religious background began at this church. We want you to know that we know a soldier for Jesus Christ has passed over. She planted seeds such as spoken in Colossians 2:6-7(NASB)" As you therefore have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him, having been firmly rooted and now being built up in Him and established in your faith, just as you were instructed, and overflowing with gratitude.We know that Freddie made good investments from our look at her writings. May God give you comfort and strength.

Alberta Chastine-Williams

November 1, 2007

God blessed us to cross paths with a wonderful person. She will be missed.

The Curtis Family

November 1, 2007

To the Jefferson Family,
May your heart and your faith stay fixed upon Him as you go through this difficult time. Our deepest sympathy to all of you. We will never forget Mrs. Jefferson comforting Christopher by reading to him while he was in the hospital. Such a lovely woman who will be truly missed. Love,

Misty Anderson

November 1, 2007

I would not be an English professor today had it not been for Freddie Jefferson. And I know that my voice joins a chorus of others who trace the provenance of their lives and careers through her. I met her through my treasured friendship with her son Trevor and was instantly in awe of her. She offered to read some of my work while I was still in high school and told me that my writing reminded her of Kate Chopin's. I thought I could fly. She did not compliment lightly or generally, but with a specificity and urgency that let you know you had been read by a master of the craft who would also be expecting more of you. Later on, in my adult life, she sent me a copy of Quindlen's One True Thing, which was exactly the book I needed to read. How did she know? Mrs. Jefferson always wrote and spoke in ways that showed she understood the great power and responsibility that was given to her along with her extraordinary talent. Her work at the Palm Beach Post was that of a true public intellectual, fearless and honest. She continues to be an inspiration to me, and while I can't hope to accomplish what she did, I will be forever grateful to her for showing me what a life with a higher purpose looks like. Mr. Jefferson, Trevor, Rene, Lea, Byron, and Tracy, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lisa Juliano

November 1, 2007

I remember when I first read Ms. Jefferson's column in The Post. Surely, that couldn't be THE Ms. Jefferson I had for English at PBJC. But it was. I have always enjoyed English but she enhanced my feelings by being such a great teacher. I enjoyed her columns too...even if I didn't always agree with her. She is now a bright star in heaven. May the family find peace in knowing she touched so many lives.

Theodore & Arlinda Walker

November 1, 2007

Our deepest sympathy in the passing of Mrs. Jefferson. Our prayers are with you during this time.

God Bless,

Sharon Sheppard

November 1, 2007

Mr. Jefferson & Family,
I've read so many wonderful expressions of sympathy written to you. I hope that you find comfort in knowing that Mrs. Jefferson was loved and respected by many. When the Lord calls our loved one home, we leaves a gift of memories in exchange. Your memories are a legacy of love, cherish them. You are in my prayers.

John Pauly

November 1, 2007

Lea and Byron,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss and my love and honor for your mother and the wonderful qualities she embodied. After reading her columns the past few years and the recent story about how she raised you, I understand why, back at North Shore High in the late 1970s, you two were so smart, nice and well-adjusted. Your mom obviously gave you both a lasting gift, just as she did the community.
With peace and love,
John Pauly

Taunya/William Bryant

November 1, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Debra Braziel

November 1, 2007

With deepest sympathy

Christy Davis

November 1, 2007

I never had the opportunity to meet Ms. Jefferson, but have had the
privilage of working with her son Bryon for 20+ years at the Palm Beach
Post. I have always admired Byron's warm personality and friendliness.
I believe these qualities come from being raised by a special parent.
It sure shows that Byron's Mom was one of those wonderful Mothers. Her
children are very blessed to have had her in their lives. I also see
that she was well respected by those around her and the students she
came in contact with. May she rest in peace.

Diane Lusk

November 1, 2007

Byron, Trevor, Leah,
I only met your mom once and that was at Byron and Tracy's wedding. She seemed so happy to see her son married. I don't know her, but by talking with each one of you it is clear to see what kind of a person she was. She did a good job raising you all. I noticed...you all have her smile that lights up a room. My heart is with you and i am praying for you all. I am praying for you too, Tracy.

Thomas O'Brien

November 1, 2007

My thoughts and prayers have been with Freddie and her family all this week. I had the privilege of working with Freddie on a committee of the Community Foundation, on the Board of Toward A More Perfect Union, and of participating with her in a six week Study Circle on Racism. She made a great contribution to our community and her influence will continue to be felt in many ways. We were blessed that she was a part of our lives.

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