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R.J. Hendley Obituary

By all accounts, Elder R.J. Hendley Jr. had a knack for turning small things into something big. He did it as the pastor of Greater Bethel Primitive Baptist Church and as founder of the private Christian school that bears his name. On Monday, Elder Hendley died of prostate cancer. He was 77. In 1966, Elder Hendley took Greater Bethel, a fledging church of 38 and developed it into a community anchor of 800-plus members. Under Primitive Baptist doctrine, a minister is referred to as an elder. He used the church's after-school tutorial program to launch the R.J. Hendley Christian Education Center. The school began in 1982 with 17 students and three staff members. Today, it boasts an enrollment of nearly 500 students and is a fixture in Palm Beach County. Elder Hendley's son, Dr. Leon Hendley, said his father's compassion for children and his desire to see them learn in a Christian environment helped prompt him to start the school. The school covers kindergarten to 12th grade. "He had a love for kids and always wanted to see them get the right type of discipline and continue to have Christ in their life," said the 51-year-old Vero Beach cardiologist. In 1997, Elder Hendley was confronted by a former student who tried to rob the school. The youngster pointed a shotgun at secretaries and yelled, "Where's the money?" "I told him to put that thing away before he got into serious trouble," Elder Hendley told The Palm Beach Post at the time. The young robber was caught with an unloaded shotgun and eventually confessed. He had stolen $3. Elder Hendley's ministry went beyond the church and school. He was an ecumenical pastor, serving in various ministerial and community organizations. He served as moderator from 1990 to 2004 of the East Florida Primitive Baptist Association, overseeing all Primitive Baptist Churches from Key West to Jacksonville. In 1996, he served as a torch bearer for Palm Beach County as part of the Olympic celebration. From time to time, his voice was heard at city hall, fighting on such issues as services for the needy and maintaining the Rivera Beach Police Department. "His involvement wasn't limited to the just the pulpit," said the Rev. Herman McCray, a community activist and assistant pastor at Greater Bethel. When it came to preaching, Elder Hendley taught strictly from the Bible and rarely used an outline, McCray said. His sermons were laced with humor and yet he preached with the passion characteristic of great black orators. "He wasn't a college graduate, but his words were profound," McCray said. "Every now and then, he'd do like the old Baptist preachers and kick his leg up." Elder Hendley is survived by his wife, Mae Thelma, and six children as well as grandchildren and great-grandchildren. His funeral will be at 11 a.m. Saturday at Christ Fellowship, 5343 Northlake Blvd.

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Published by The Palm Beach Post on Jul. 2, 2007.

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amya hendley

July 20, 2012

Rj Hendley was my great granfather known as (Big Daddy) I would always go to his house and spend time with him because I loved him and he was my favorite person in the family. I feel really bad i was not at his funneral because i was being selfish and wanted to go see my mom but that was before i knew he had die . I love him very much and i miss him but i know he's in a better place . ~ Amya Hendley

Grace DeShazer

January 18, 2012

Dear Elder R.J. Hendley,Jr.-
My cousin, I think of you so many times that desperately want to hear from you. I realize you are in the spirit, and I belive you from above. I love you and miss you.

keitriana augustin

February 25, 2011

hey my name is keitriana augustin and this is my uncle. I didnt get to see him that much but i still love him

tyriq stewart

May 28, 2009

hi my name is tyriq. I go to r.j hendly. I am in the thrid grade. Mrs. berryclass keep rj hendly in your prayers God bless.

monika smith

November 8, 2008

hi, my name is monika smith and i got to r.j.hendley christian community school but it used to be called r.j.hendley christian education center,and the new head of school changed it.i loved mr.hendley very much because he taught us right from wrong,wrong to right, and he always treated us with respect.i was very sad when he died,but i know that he is in a better place and God is looking after him.God bless.make peace.be prepared to leave this great place.you will never know when it's your time to go.Have A Blessed Day

keitriana augustin

November 3, 2008

hey uncle hendley i will always miss you and that you will always be on my mind love u.

Keitriana Augustin

March 22, 2008

he was my uncle and I did not see him that much so this is why I am signing this book


R.I.P. Uncle

Annette Rodgers

August 19, 2007

To: The Hendley Family; Keep his
memory alive and close to your
heart. Our prayers will remain
with you. May God Bless.
The Rodgers Family
(Annette, Tanya and Kim)

Regina and Dejanai Williams

July 12, 2007

Our deepest condolennces to the family.

James and Ann Chester

July 12, 2007

With our greatest sympathy, We love you all and will continue to pray for you all.

Elder Maurice and Sis. Marshell Anderson

July 11, 2007

We send our condolences to the entire Hendley family.

Wilma Brown & Family

July 10, 2007

Our deepest condolences to the family.

Nadine Flythe

July 9, 2007

To Aunt Mae & The Entire Hendley Family,

I was deeply saddened of the passing of Uncle Shake. He was so loving and caring, and I will miss him deeply.

May GOD BLESS the entire Hendley Family during this time of sorrow.

Love your niece and cousin Nadine.

Keesha Dillingham

July 9, 2007

To the Hendley family-
May the blessings of love be upon you
May its peace abide with you
May its essence illuminate your heart
Now and forever more
God Bless You All!

Shirley B. Gaines

July 8, 2007

Therefore we are always confident, knowing that, whilst we are at home in the body, we are absent from the Lord: We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord.

I was saddened to hear of Elder Hendley's passing, yet, knowing that he lived a good, full and joyous life working for the Lord eased the sadness. He was truly loved and will be sorely missed by many. What an Icon, Mentor and Legend. Condolences to the Hendley and Greater Bethel family. Take the torch and run. Keep it burning. May God be with you is my prayer.

Laura Ward and Family

July 8, 2007

Elder Hendley had such a profound impact on all who knew him. He will surely be missed. May God continue to bless all whom Elder Hendley held closest to him.

LINDA WRIGHT-MOORE

July 8, 2007

Uncle Shake, (as we use to call you) You will always be loved and surely will be missed. You will always have a special place in my heart. Thank you for all your strength and guidance and all you've ever done for me and my family. I could never thank you enough. We mourn, but also realize that we will all be toghether someday. To my HENDLEY FAMILY You are in my prayers and I LOVE YOU ALL. We should be proud to have known a man with such integrity. He was very special,and showed his care and concern for everyone. He will truly be missed. May GOD be with you all. I LOVE YOU ALL! Your cousin and neice LINDA WRIGHT-MOORE

Benjamin, Gracie, and Renitta Knight

July 8, 2007

To the Hendley Family:
Your loss is our loss because we were a part of the original 38 and you all have shared him with our family for over 40 years. Thank you! One thing we can rest assured in is that God has "Welcomed" Rev. home. Our prayers are and shall always be with you all.

God Bless You All

Julian Wilson

July 7, 2007

He was a really good head master,
during my time at the school.
Love, Julian & Marquis Wilson

K-GOD(KING'S GENERATION OF DIVINITY PRAISE DANCERS) INTERNET INTERCESSORY PRAYER MINISTRY

July 7, 2007

TO THE BERIEVED FAMILY: behind every dark cloud, there is a silver lining, after the rain comes sunshine! take comfort in knowing he's in a better place, they tell me everyday will be sunday, there will be no more pain, sorrows, headaches, the trials and tribulations, of this old world, are over, so look up to the hills, from which cometh your help, for all of, our help and strength, cometh from thwe lord! amen
from the "K-GOD PRAISE DANCE INTERCESSORY PRAYER MINISTRY"

Gina Jordan, M.D.

July 7, 2007

To Mother Hendley and Family,
I extend my deepest condolences in this time of great loss. But I also extend joyful reassurance that Rev. Hendley's legacy will always live on. I can recall his generosity in buying some grapefruit slices that I whined for in the grocery store because he didn't want his "member" upset and (as he told my mother)I was asking for something healthy. I'm thankful for every Thursday night that we studied Proverbs, as I now preach to adults who have never heard the wisdom in each verse. I smile with pride as I can boast that our church had a Christian school when it was unheard of for Black southern congregations.His generosity, wisdom and courage to do all he could for His Lord lives on in me. Love, blessings, and prayers go out to you all.

Valerie Whitehead

July 7, 2007

To Mother Hendley and the Hendley Family
You are in my prayers at this time and Rev. Hendley will be missed. God has everything under control! Earth has no sorrows that Heaven cannot heal! May God continue to comfort your hearts in your loss.

Janie Banks-Johnson/Councilman Cedrick Thomas Family

July 7, 2007

Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us From the moment we are born, the race of life is set before us. Today, let me tell you that the trick is not just to run the race and finish it daily but, rather how we run the race and how we will finish it; it is how we will finish the race that will make the difference. In other words, you are not finished when you lose, you are finished when you quit. The minute you give up or just stop, you are finished because you quit. We must take the life of Elder Hendley as a guide to how we are to run this race and prayerfully we will meet him again. I have much respect for this great warrior of God and my heart and condolences goes out to the Hendley family.

Dolores Hughes

July 7, 2007

To Mother Hendley and Family:
I would like to express my deepest symphathy to you and your entire family. Rev. was a jewel and a blessings to my family. He will truly be missed by all. We know that weeping may endure for a night but joy cometh in the morning. I pray that the Lord will continue to keep you during this hour. You are in my prayers.

Love you

Alfreda (Snoddy) Augustin, Robert & Keitriana Augustin, Demario Sanders, and Sallie Snoddy

July 6, 2007

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Samur Hewitt-Hendley

July 6, 2007

I am very sorry to hear about the loss of Uncle Shake. Love Always

LaTanya Hewitt and Family

July 6, 2007

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

James and Mary Hendley

July 6, 2007

The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.

Jeffery and Nathan Hendley

July 6, 2007

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Barbara Washington, Gonzalez

July 6, 2007

Earth is missing an angel, a man with the sweetest dispositon I've ever known.

Kerry and Keisha Lynn

July 6, 2007

To the Entire Hendley Family, I would like to he's done his course down here. But please remain strong in keeping his work going. A great vessle for God, was He.

Dorothy Rollins&family

July 6, 2007

Be Still
TO THE FAMILY
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Karen Plummer

July 6, 2007

Rev Hendley has ministered to my family ( The Bergman family) many times and many ways May God bless his family in their hour of need, and as the Bible says To be absent from the body means to be present with the Lord, so we know that Rev Hendley is in a better place.

Joni M. Jordan

July 6, 2007

To the Hendley Family,
The Joy of the Lord shall be your strength. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Dorothy Rollins&family

July 6, 2007

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Renard & Tracy

July 6, 2007

He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even though you grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

Reverend Hendley you will truly be missed in the community, in the church & in the school but God saw that your work here on earth was done & called you to a glorious place. You will indeed be missed in the school, in the church & in the community.

Margarita Stepherson

July 6, 2007

I am deeply saddened by the news of Elder Hendley's death. Elder Hendley has known me since my birth, and my family even longer. Rev. Hendley not only touched hearts, but also souls. There are no words that I can say to express the love and respect that I had for such an upstanding man of God. May the Lord bless and keep the Hendley family in this time of sorrow.

Ministers Dwight and Mechelle Kitchings of Love Life Christian Fellowship Church

July 6, 2007

May God be with you during this time of sorrow. Daddy Hendley was a GREAT MAN OF GOD who exemplified Christ in EVERYTHING he did. To know him was to Love him and we will truly miss his smile, his character and his love he showed to everyone he met. We will be praying for your strength.

horace mccutchen

July 6, 2007

To the Family;
May the Lord comfort you as you go through your loss. God's plan has been planned and He will comfort you at this time. Be bless with the Love that was given and returned. Be bless and cherished the memories will last forever. By way of Kigstree, south Carolina.

Mother Sandra Turner

July 6, 2007

You have my condolences my prayer
are with you I did't know him long
but the time I did I fell in love with him He was a wonderful man
a loving man and a man who truly
love God

Regina (Harper) Williams

July 6, 2007

To The Hendley Family,
Our prayers are with you during this time of bereavement. Pastor Hendley was a powerful man of God and we are blessed to have known him. He supported us during the lost of our loves ones allowing us to use the fellowship hall and etc…. . Mother Hendley the legacy that he left will not be forgotten. God blessed you all and continue to streghten you .

Doris Dennard

July 6, 2007

In your bereavement God can do everything but fail. The eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and His ears are open to their cry. Psalm 34:15
Love Mr.& Mrs. Dennard

Tia Wilkerson

July 6, 2007

My prayers go out to the Hendley Family in the time of their sorrow and bereavement. May God Bless you and keep you in our prayers!

Gloria Hatchett

July 6, 2007

God can do all things except fail, to the Hendley & Turner, Bentley Family I also share in your loss. Just know that God do not make any mistakes and he Love you so much.

Love and Sympathy
Gloria Hatchett

Dr. Walter T. Richardson

July 6, 2007

As a young minister in the 70's he greatly impacted my life, though I was not a member of the Primitive Baptist Church. His zeal for young people was contagious. He will be greatly missed. My prayers are for the Hendley family and the wider church community he touched.

EDWINA WADE

July 6, 2007

TO THE BEREAVED FAMILY
MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS TIME OF SORROW
ELIZABETH LIZ WADE AND EDWINA WADE SAUNDERS

Michael Cooper

July 5, 2007

We send our prayers to the Hendley family. From Michael, Michael and Stephanie Cooper.

Covington

July 5, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this your time of grief. May your memories of "Big Daddy" bring you comfort and places a smile upon your faces. We share this grief with you. Elder Hendley will forever be in our hearts. Peace be unto you,
the Covington Family
Deaconess Regina (the late Deacon William), and Katrinka (Kristin & Kristina). NJPBC

Rhonda Moses

July 5, 2007

Weep not, weep not,
He is not dead;
He's resting in the bosom of Jesus.
Heart-broken family...weep no more;
He only just gone home.

Rhonda B. Moses & Jeffrey A. Bowen

Catherine (Hendley) & Jessie Hanks

July 5, 2007

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Sharon Cooper-Sims & Family

July 5, 2007

The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.

Lee Hooks

July 5, 2007

My deepest sympathy to the Hendley Family and the extended family of
Greater Bethel. A truly great man of GOD has joined the Heavenly Angels. Elder Hendley will be deeply missed and leaves a void that will be very difficult to fill. Know that he is at rest after
running a great race. May GOD contnue to bless you and keep you in your time of sorrow.
Respectfully,
Lee A. Hooks
West Palm Beach

charles falana

July 5, 2007

Any thing so universal as death must be a blessing.
Sincerely
the Falana

Pastor Randy&Shirley Hightower

July 5, 2007

May the works you'ved done speak for you. This day a cloud hangs over this city but a little more light in heaven. May the blessings of the Lord be with this family forever and forever.

Bernette Snead

July 5, 2007

To The Hendley family; I am trully sorry of your loss; Rev. was a man of wisdom; I will never forget his laughter. God Bless!

Luevera Outler

July 5, 2007

To The Hendley family; My prayers go out to you; I am really sorry about Rev; Keep your head up; God bless!

Mother Mattie Townsend

July 5, 2007

Mother Mae Thelma and Family, Just keep remembering Elder's laughter and the joy he had in Christ Jesus. God will be with you through every tomorrow.

Elder Vandairy Cleckley, Refreshing Spring Ministires, C.O.T.L.G.

July 5, 2007

To the Family,

Elder Hendley was a man of wisdom and the Kingdom has suffered a great loss. He cross denominational lines, he reached people, he was a legend in his own time and a powerful man of God.

Edward, Bettye, and Paul Bryant

July 5, 2007

To The Hendley Family:
May the Lord be near at this sorrowful time. May His love, His word and His presence bring you comfort and peace of mind. We are praying for you.

Desiree Footman

July 5, 2007

Dear Hendley Family,

My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. May God keep you during this difficult time.

Rosalyne Wheeler-Butts

July 5, 2007

The Hall, Peake & Hughes Family would like to express our deepest sympathy to the family. We are the family of Willie Foster and have adopted Polly as one of us. I only met Elder Hendley one time, but it felt like I had known he and his family all of my life. He will be greatly missed. Rely on God and the support of family and friends.

Ronald & Gloria Faulk

July 5, 2007

To The Hendley Family
You are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless and keep all of you.

Julius & Lovette Brown

July 5, 2007

Julius and I were deep;y sadden when we heard of Rev passing. Our hearts goes out to each of you during this difficult time in your life.

Laconza & Katherine Brown

July 5, 2007

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

Carl Wright Sr.

July 4, 2007

To Mae T Hendley and All the Hendley Family:
I was deeply saddened to learn of the passing of Uncle Robert and on behalf of the entire Wright family I would like to express our sincerest sympathy to you and your family. Uncle Robert was highly cherished, respected and loved by all of us. He was regarded as a visionary and spiritual leader by anyone who ever knew him and listened closely to him.
Please accept our heartfelt condolences at this difficult time and I ask you to please pass these sentiments on to your children as well. Robert Hendley Jr. was a remarkable man in many ways. Knowing the kindness and gentleness he showed us for so many years, we are more than thankful and surely blessed for all the positive differences he made in the lives of many people, both in Florida, and in Connecticut as well. We love and miss you always Uncle Robert.
He will be missed by us all.
With sincere sympathy,
Randy Wright, Linda Wright, Jacqueline Wright, Carl S Wright Jr. and Family, Shanoa R. Taylor, Jarvis T Wright, Marcus C Wright, Hannah R Wright, Mariah A Wright, Anjena R Wright.
Rev Samuel Wright and Rose Hendley Wright

Rev. Charles R. & Vivian C. Jackson

July 4, 2007

To the Hendley Family: I was deeply saddened to hear of the demise of my dear Friend, "R.J.". But, R. J. left all of us a legacy to live by - that is to live the life you teach and preach about to others. I know that R.J. did just that and he will be greatly missed by all. But if we really want to see R. J. again - we need to imitate his walk with the Man (Jesus Christ) as we too, need to perfect. May the peace of the Lord be with each of you, Rev. Charles R. & Vivian O. Jackson of Hurst Chapel AME Church in Orlando, FL. 32808.

Richard & Alma Morgan

July 4, 2007

To the Hendley family may the Lord be with you and your faimly durning this hour of beveavment.I love you all, my family Mrs Hendley sis Rose sis Polly bro Pete bro Wallace im praying for all of you,

Keith Monroe

July 4, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Roger and Regina Carthon

July 4, 2007

Our daughter attended Greater Bethel Christian School from pre-school through kindergarden. She graduated with honors from high school and is now a pre-med major in college. We do appreciate his vision and principles that help create a great school.

Gloria Johnson

July 4, 2007

My prayers go out to the family as they remember their beloved. I attended Greater Bethel Primitive Baptist 2-3 time many years ago, but have always admired this leader. What a wonderful contagious personality. Bless you family, and be encouraged.

Mercedes Jackson

July 4, 2007

Our prays and sympathy goes out to the Hendley Family. God Bless and keep you is our pray.
Mercedes, Travarious, and Chanika

DORETHA PERRY

July 4, 2007

Mo. Mae T. Hendley and Family,

May the Lord be with you and your family during this hour of bereavement. Elder Hendley has been preparing the church members and himself for this journey home for a long time. The Perry and Lawson Family will never forget his smiles, concern and compassion for people. Elder Hendley was a man of wisdom, he gave us what God gave him. Although he preached the Word with dignity, he also provided us with great humor and laughter. Our family will never forget him. He married all of us, Milton and Doretha, our children Troy and Sheritha. He aulogized both our mothers and father.

Eld. Hendley is really a missing rose bud in our garden. He was a man who was truely called by God. I beleive that there will never be a Pastor like him. May the Lord continue to bless you and your loving family now and in days to come. Look up and ask the Lord for strength.

Great Love,

Milton, Doretha, and Troy Perry, Sheritha and Issac Lawson

Bobby Young

July 4, 2007

To the family of Elder R.J. Hendley we extend our deepest sympathies from our family.
Decon Bobby G.Young, Sister Elise and Family Mount Zion Primitive Baptist Church

Alice McCullough

July 4, 2007

To the family of the late Elder Robert J. Hendley, my former Pastor: May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times that you all spent with "Big Daddy" as you celebrate his life and legacy,I will always remember what he did for Bethel, later Greater Bethel as a teenager, when the family first came to Riviera Beach from Ft. Pierce. We now know why "Rev" calls everyone "mama" we figured out that he didn't have to remember so many names, even though he may have known your name at some point. We will all missed him," a gentle giant"! May God give each of you strength as you strive to keep his legacy of our children learning in a Christian Environment. Love you all!

Kimbria Primous

July 4, 2007

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Myron & Nikki Hendley

July 4, 2007

To All Hendley Family Members

Although the passing of Uncle Robert is a great loss to our family,it is truly a blessing to know that he is in Heaven. I will always cherish the wonderful memories I have of him.

Renee Leonard-Blunt and Family

July 4, 2007

Mother Hendley and Family,
This world however beautiful was never meant to be the place that we would call home for all eternity. May God ease your hour of sorrow and surround you with His love. You are in my thoughts and prays.

Sherry Smith

July 4, 2007

Hendley Family

We know that GOD does not make any mistakes. Be encouraged and know that our pastor is in peace and rejoicing with the Lord. He will be truly missed.

Jinitra Goldwire-McGrady

July 4, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Rev. Dr. Clifton Montgomery, Jr.

July 4, 2007

To the family of Elder R. J. Hendley, Jr.

I received the news of the homegoing of God's faithful servant, Elder R. J. Hendley. I too have been touched and inspired by the outstanding contributions and accomplishments of this pioneer and trailblazer. I first met Pastor Hendley upon my arrival as Chief, Chaplain Service at the West Palm Beach VA Medical Center in 1994. We were honored to have Elder Hendley offer the prayer of dedication for the official opening of the medical center in June 1995. Elder R. J. Hendley finished his course. He kept the faith. The Almighty God has called him home to receive his crown.

Please know that you are in my prayers. First Lady Vivian and I plan to express our condolences in a more personal manner at a later date.

Sharonda (Tez) Corbin

July 4, 2007

Aunt Mae T and The Hendley Family
Be Encouraged. "For I know the Plans I have for you, says The Lord, "Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, Plans to give you Hope and a Future." Jeremiah 29:11
Be Encouraged and know that God is too wise to make a mistake. Uncle Shank has done his Kingdom Building. We Love You!

Vanessa McNish and Family

July 4, 2007

Mother Hendley and Family,

We are truly thankful that God gave us a true man of God as our pastor and that your family so graciously shared him with all of us. Elder Hendley touched our family tremendously. We will miss his dimples.

Our deepest sympathies are with your family. Be comforted in knowing that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. Elder Hendley now has peace which passeth all understanding.

We are continually praying for your strength. God bless you!

With Love,

Mrs Hester Williams

July 4, 2007

To The Hendley Family,
We love you and share your grief. Although we will never see him again on this side, be encouraged he's happy and at peace waiting to see us on the other side never to part again. Thank God for you, the Hendley Family for sharing him with us. One day at a time, Sweet Jesus
help them to take one day at a time.
Love You, Mother Hester, Eva Jane, Sam, Alvonza, Larry and Malorie

Ethel Jones

July 3, 2007

To my friends we will miss Pop but will never forget him.God looked down into his rose garden and pluck the one that was ready and in full blossom and took it.Take care of each other stay strong,love you all.

Charlene Slater

July 3, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Gretta George

July 3, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Cheryl George

July 3, 2007

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sharon and Rhonda Slater

July 3, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Marva Hendley

July 3, 2007

With a heavy heart, my deepest sympathy to all of the Hendley Family. John Chapter 17 is the Lord's Prayer which is complete. God Bless and Keep all of you.

Meda Hendley

July 3, 2007

To My Family:

I extend my Love and Condolences in our time of a great loss.

CARDELL SR, VALETA & CARDELL WILLIAMS

July 3, 2007

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Regina and Alexander Schmitt

July 3, 2007

To Mrs. Hendley and the entire family of Rev. R.J. Hendley along with the Greater Bethel Family: Our prayers are with you during this season of sorrow. Rev. Hendley touched our lives in ways that will NEVER be forgotten. Thank you Mrs. Hendley and family for sharing him with us. We will never forget.

Antonia Spence & Family

July 3, 2007

To Mother Hendley and the Hendley Family,
Praying that your hearts will be filled with the peace of God during this time and that you'll know He loves you more than my words can express. Elder Hendley has left his mark & God's love for everyone to know. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Diane Brinson Duval

July 3, 2007

You will always be a beacon of light to everyone that knew you. Your life has made an everlasting statement to all who knew you. I was blessed to be one of those lucky people. To your entire family I express my love and ask them to hold onto the many times of joy that you have shared with them over the years. Memories are everlasting so I know you will live on. I know your talking with the Lord. Thank You for praying for me.Much Love Diane Brinson Duval

Florestine Wilson

July 3, 2007

TO THE FAMILY OF REV. HENDLEY:

Every time I saw Rev. HendLEY HE HAD A SMILE ON HIS FACE. HE WAS A JOY TO ALL. I WILL SURELY MISS HIM, BUT GOD WANTS HIM TO SMILE IN HEAVEN.

GOD BLESS AND HE WILL KEEP YOU THROUGH THIS TRYING TIME.

FLO WILSON/MOUNT OLIVE MISSIONARY BAPTIST CHURCH, RIVIERA BEACH, FL

Jo Anne Rogers

July 3, 2007

My prayers are with the family. May God continue to bless and strengthen you during this difficult time.

ashley gardner

July 3, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

conrad jones

July 3, 2007

TO THE WIFE AND FAMILY OF REV HENDLEY, WE KNOW YOU HAVE LOST A LOVE ONE, BUT GOD HAS CHOSEN A GREAT ONE TO COME HOME. REV HENDLEY HAS SOME WORK TO DO IN HEAVEN FOR GOD. I KNOW HE WILL BE WAITING TO SEE EVERYONE HE HAS TOUCHED TO JOIN HIM ONE DAY. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS THIS WONDERFUL FAMILY.

Gary Hodges

July 3, 2007

Although I was unable to meet Pastor Hendley personally I was able to minister at his church where God used him incredibly to touch the lives of many people through the preaching of the gospel. Instead of this time being one of mourining, this is a time of rejoicing. Elder Hendley is in the presence of the lord, experiencing a home coming. I was honoured to be able to minister through the ministry of Pastor Hendley. May god bless and strengthen the family at this time.

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