Ralph M. Spoelman

Ralph Spoelman Obituary

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RALPH M. SPOELMAN 'Bud' Heaven has another angel. God called our Dad home rewarding him for his many years of faithful service. Born in 1918, raised in Muskegon, Michigan. The oldest of six children born to Cornelius and Jennie Spoelman and nicknamed 'Bud'. Married in 1939 to Edith (Spahr). Devoted parents raising two daughters, Ellen Mae (Ron Walker) and Carol Marie (Mike Sharkey) and offering a loving home to numerous foster children. He was a very proud WW II Vet having served as a Rear Gunner aboard the USS Aulick earning a Victory Medal and the Bronze Star for his role in saving his ship. Retired in 1979 as Manager of ADT after 30 years of service and moved to Florida. Widower in 1986 after 47 years of marriage. When he remarried his present wife, Lodine, his family grew instantly with her seven children, Emmitt, Robert, Neal, Earl, Michael, Kathy and Linda. Between the two families, he leaves behind numerous grandchildren and great- grandchildren. He enjoyed serving the Lord in every church he attended as a Custodian, Deacon, Head Usher, Board of Director or Door Greeter. Whatever he did he did it with a smile, a hug or hand shake. By looking at him, you would never know he was 89 years old - he would have been 90 in 2 weeks. He did his own yard work, held a part-time job, drove everyday, even painted his house. He was young at heart and loved by everyone. He will be truly missed but we rejoice in knowing he is with the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Public viewing will be held on Friday, December 5 from 7:30 - 9:30 PM at the Royal Palm Funeral Home, 5601 Greenwood Ave, West Palm Beach, FL 33407. A service will be held at Palm Beach Baptist Church, 6201 Military Trail, Lake Worth , FL on Saturday, December 6 at 1:00 PM followed by a burial at the Royal Palm Funeral Home, Veterans Section at approximately 2:30 PM. In lieu of flowers, a monetary contribution can be made to the Palm Beach Baptist Church in his name. To express condolences and/or make donations Visit PalmBeachPost.com/obituaries

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Published by The Palm Beach Post on Dec. 5, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Ralph Spoelman

14 Entries

Judy and Dwain Thornton

December 8, 2008

Uncle Bud will be truly miss. He was my uncle and my girls great Uncle. I wish he could have known my grandchildren, his great-great nephews and neice. We love you, Uncle Bud. We take comfort in knowing that you are at home with the lord.

Connie Ramos

December 6, 2008

Bud was a fine example of a true Christian. He was kind, caring and brought happiness to many people's lives. May he rest in the comfort of the house of the Lord. May his memory live long and fill your heart with hope and happiness.

LINDA LA FLEUR

December 6, 2008

I JUST WANT TO TAKE A MOMENT TO TELL EVERYONE WHAT A WONDERFUL FATHER THAT DAD(RALPH OR BUD) WAS TO ME. I WILL SADLY MISS MY DAD AND I WILL LOOK FORWARD TO JOINING BACK WITH HIM IN HEAVEN. HE WAS A FATHER THAT I NEVER REALLY HAD. I MISS DEARLY AND I WILL MAKE A PROMISE TO EACH AND EVERYONE THAT I WILL STILL TAKE CARE OF MOM FOR HIM. HE WAS ALSO A WONDERFUL HUSBAND TO MY MOM. DADDY I MISS YOU VERY MUCH.

Beth Walker

December 6, 2008

My deepest sympathy goes out to Lodine and family on your loss. I was saddened to read of Ralph's passing. I am a Medical Assistant at his Drs. office and feel blessed that I had a chance to know him. I always enjoyed seeing him and he was a very kind and pleasant man. He will be missed. May God give you comfort and peace at this sorrowful time.

Mike Walker

December 6, 2008

Grandpa, I will miss you and miss our birthdays together. Ty and Levi send their love and say Hi to Grandma for me. Love you!!

Mike Quinn

December 5, 2008

Uncle Ralph was a devout christian, a true patriot, and an altogether admirable person. He never stopped trying to make a difference, and usually succeeded. Expect heaven to be a better place now that he's there to look after it.

Iri Tatur

December 5, 2008

Father we ask you to sent the Holy Spirit to comfort the Sharkey/Spoelman families in their time of grief in the blessed name of our lord Jesus Christ.
Carol May the lord caress you in your loss and comfort you and you know i will be there for you in good times and bad times. Angel of God my guardian dear to whom Gods love commits me here, ever this day be at my side to light and guard to rule and guide
Amen

Laura Jean Carrano

December 5, 2008

You will be truely missed. I wish I could have got to know more of you. From what I have seen you were a great person and very liked by all. Hope to see you again in paradise. My condolences to Ma and family. :}

With Lots of Love,
The Carrano's &
The Thomas Family

Gillian Neil

December 5, 2008

I never got a chance to meet Bud, but Carol told me so many wonderful things about him he will be missed.

Dick & Connie

December 5, 2008

We were so sorry to recieve this news. You and your family are in our prayers.

Ron & Ellen Walker

December 5, 2008

We are missing you very much Dad. I am so glad that God choose you to be my father. Take care now, and am looking forward to being with You and Mom.

With all our Love,

Ron & Ellen

Ethel Rasure

December 5, 2008

Bud was a big part of my life since 1935........he never failed to be there for me...I loved him dearly and shall miss him... We are blessed that my nieces, Ellen and Carol are carrying on his tradition of loving service to others. Bud's example lives on in them.