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Stephen Moline Bowers

June 14, 1951 - February 12, 2012

Stephen Moline Bowers obituary, June 14, 1951-February 12, 2012

BORN

June 14, 1951

DIED

February 12, 2012

Stephen Bowers Obituary



Stephen went to be with our Lord and Savior on February 12, 2012. He had battled esophageal cancer since 2005.

His passion to live was evident by his love of family and friends and never complaining during treatment, even when he endured complications. Stephen's personality was warm and caring, and when he encountered others, he would always ask about their welfare with a warm "How are you?"

Stephen was born and raised in Chicago Heights, Illinois, to Harold and Irene Bowers. He graduated from Chicago Heights Bloom High School and attended DePaul University.

Leaving Illinois in 1977 for the sunshine of Long Beach, California, he met the love of his life, Deborah. Married on April 29, 1978, they enjoyed living in California until they relocated to Sequim in 1996.

They ventured into the coffee business in Port Angeles with the purchase of Mombasa Coffee Co. Ltd., enjoying coffee roasting and the retail aspect of the business, closing in 2005. The remainder of days was spent together enjoying the blessings of the Lord.

Stephen was proud to be a Mason, past master of San Fernando Masonic Lodge No. 343 in California and lifetime member of Sequim Masonic Lodge No. 213. Although Steve was not a military veteran, you would have thought otherwise. He was devoted to God, family and country. His family often adopted deployed soldiers through www.soldiersangels.org.

He worked as a maintenance mechanic machinist working for Stauffer Chemical, Interlake Steel, Union Oil, Standard Oil and Monsanto Chemical and ended his career with Anheuser-Busch in Van Nuys, California.

He had a passion for metal fabrications, loved wood working, gardening and puttering around the house, making lists and checking them twice. He was an avid Chicago Cubs and Bears fan and could be found rooting for the Seattle Seahawks with friends.

In addition to being surrounded by his family in his illness, he was loved and comforted by his animals he adored: his cat, two American Eskimos and his chocolate Lab. Steve enjoyed traveling and was fortunate to have traveled abroad and across the United States with his wife, family and friends.

Stephen is survived by his wife, Deborah Bowers of Sequim; son Stephen Michael Bowers of Sequim; daughter and husband Stacy Michelle Bowers Watzka and Rick Watzka of Two Rivers, Wisconsin; daughter and husband Shelly Marlene Bowers Myers and Michael Myers of Bowie, Arizona; four beloved grandchildren, Michelle, Kristin, Christianna and Wesley; and many loving cousins, nephews and nieces. Stephen was preceded in death by his parents.

Memorial services: Saturday, March, 24, 2012, at 4 p.m. at Sequim Masonic Lodge, 700 South Fifth Avenue, Sequim.

Donations may be made to Dream Foundation (Adult Make a Wish), 1528 Chapala Street, Suite 304, Santa Barbara, CA 93101; or to Olympic Medical Center Center Patient Navigator Fund, 844 North Fifth Avenue, Sequim, WA 98382.

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Published by Peninsula Daily News on Mar. 11, 2012.

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Leonard Vavra

March 5, 2025

You haven't been forgotten but you have been missed.

Leonard Vavra

March 5, 2021

9 years ago a cousin and a friend left us for a better place.

Leonard Vavra

March 5, 2020

Gone but never forgotten.

Steve & Shelly

June 22, 2014

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our wedding 4-29-1978

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Stacy & her Papa 2009

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Steve meets the Cubs 2010

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Steve & Cubbie 2010

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Steve & Michael 1984

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1996

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2010

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1996, cruise to Mexico

Deborah Bowers

February 11, 2013

It has been a year since you went to live with Jesus, my sweet Husband. The year has been a crazy without you, but I have survived. Your love pushed me through it, remembering you said to me " You are the most resourceful person I have ever known".... that gave me strength to go on. I know we will be together again, until then know I love you and always will... I miss you..

Julia Wilcox-Anderson

April 22, 2012

I am so sorry I am just finding out of Steve's passing. I loved this man, such a gentle soul and sweet friend. I loved seeing his smiling face when I worked at Mombasa. I wish I got a chance to see him before he left us. Say hello to my Dad and I look forward to hanging with ya in the end.
RIP ~

Larry Avicola

April 2, 2012

Stephen,
You are a true brother, and friend. I enjoyed your company here on earth and I will resume that enjoyment when I meet you in heaven.
PM Lodge 343 F&AM San Fernando Lodge

March 20, 2012

I am so so sorry Debbie and Mike for your loss.....stephen was a wonderful person.....great father great husband and wonderful friend...he will be missed by all he come across....hugs to you both.....

Ed Swanke

March 20, 2012

Steve, I'll miss our talks no matter how infrequent they were.
Ed Swanke BTHS '69

Shelly Bowers Myers

March 20, 2012

PAPA ~
Finding you was the best thing ever, losing you is one of the hardest.
As I do pray each and every day, that one day, we will all Harvest.
I'm so very Proud to be your Daughter.
Spending time with you was full of Love and Laughter.
Learning all that We are, even being a “Dumb Swede”. Handing you the reigns, to take the lead. .
I could always be myself with you, never having to hide or fake,
Thank You, Papa, for Loving me so and Forgiving my mistakes.
Teaching me what a real Family can take.
You showed me unconditional love.
Even now, while you are up above.
We shared some pain and tears,
But still, never loved someone so dear.
Papa, I'm glad this pain Hurts so Intensely,
Meaning, I got to knowing you oh so genuinely.
I stare at the stars knowing you're watching down,
Slightly jealous you're in His Kingdom now.
You are the most stubborn, (thank you) bravest, Showing Life to the extreme fullest with patience and care.
Even when I shaved your hair down to bare.
You're a beautiful Grandpapa, For the impact you made in all of Us,
We never had anyone Love us without any fuss.
I cannot Thank you so much,
even through all the hot dogs we had for lunch.
Through the knowledge, teaching and tears,
With the smiles and the few years,
Your legacy lives on, within your children,
Spreading all the joy, love, and laughter, well beyond your grandchildren.
When that demon consumed you in all,
I will continue to say Good Morning and Good Night,
For you are up there with God, sitting at His right.
Our Heavenly Father came to call,
Through in my eyes Papa, you will Always be Nine Feet Tall
Love ~ Your Baby Girl

"Seven" and mom on his first birthday 2.8.2012

Lynn McClure

March 19, 2012

I'm so grateful to be able to have known you Steve. We met through our love of the wonderful American Eskimo Dog and you fell in love with our girl "Faith" Hootchie Mama as you lovingly called her. You said the same thing I did when I met my very first "Eskie"... you said, "Look at those beautiful white eyelashes" :-) You were so taken by them as I was. You fell in love with our boy "Seven" born just last February 2011 and encouraged us on in his show career with every win. You called him "your boy" even though he lived way over here in Seattle... LOL. You always told me I had to bring him when I came to visit and I had planned to bring him the next time I came. I'm so sorry I missed that last visit with you before you went home.... but know for sure that he and I will be at your memorial to remember you. You were and will always remain one the most loving, caring and joyful man I have had the honor of having in my life... God speed my friend until we meet again in those glorious mansions of our permanent home called Heaven. I have no doubt that you are waiting for us there!

March 19, 2012

Debbie and Michael you are always in my heart and prayers.
I know this is a difficult time but hopefully all your wonderful family memories will ease the sorrow and sustain you in the days ahead. Hold tight to each other. Love, Jeanne Thorn

My favorite Cubs fan..

Randy Perry

March 16, 2012

It's going to be hard watching my Seattle sports. Steve adopted my teams & rooted them on as I did. I am so happy to have been able to spend my Sundays with Steve watching Football & eating whatever Deb would fix up for us. Then we would both take a little nap. Steve I will never forget the wonderful day we spent in Seattle at the Mariners vs Cubs game. I still remember the look on your face when you saw the opening to the field as we went out to batting practice. A huge grin & a tear. Almost made me tear up too. Not a day will go by that I don't think about our times together. You will be missed my friend..

Cathy Primavera

March 15, 2012

As a fellow high school friend, I always thought of Steve as a kind and caring person. As many of us "move on" after high school, I was happy to find him on Facebook but saddened to learn of his illness. I thought kindly of him often and am comforted to know he was surrounded by a loving family. And hey he was a Cub fan! Cathy Primavera BTHS '69

Mickie Schnider

March 14, 2012

So sorry for your loss and I wish you the best. See you in May I have a hug for you
I wish you enough Mickie

donna tripp

March 14, 2012

So sorry for your loss.I have never understood why so many good people go instead of the bad ones.Must be true that God needs more angels. Take care Deb and enjoy your memories. Donna Tripp

Marilyn Freeman

March 14, 2012

My prayers are with you for the Holy Spirit to comfort and bring in memories of happyness.

Diane Amundson

March 13, 2012

I only recently met Debra and was not able to meet you, I prayed for you however, and knowing you are in the presence of the Lord warms my heart. God's peace and grace is yours now. Sincerely, Diane Amundson

March 12, 2012

Steve was like a brother to me - we talked frequently but I wish we could have been together to re-live the old days
I will never forget our Cub talks - Steve knew everything and everybody with the Cubs
Steve ,we love you man and Deb we're here for you
Craig and Mary

March 12, 2012

To Deb and Michael, My daughter Emily and I would like to send our sincere sympathy to the both of you. We share in all of the emotions that you two will go through. Our wish is that all of you and everyone else love each other deeply, love each other sweetly and live life to the fullest. God Bless you all. Marguerite

Michael Myers

March 11, 2012

I never thought I could be so comfortable around someone as I was with my Father In Law, Steve. I can say proudly that I too loved him. I can't wait to see him again. I didn't know him long but knew him forever.He showed me his love 2 minutes after walking through his front door. It would have been sooner but His Daughter Shelly, My Wife, pushed by me to hold her Papa like she did in pictures from her childhood. Rest Papa, You deserve it. If Debbie Needs ANYTHING rest assured we are here for her and your Son. Until we meet again in God's Kingdom, Your Son-in-law, Pastor Mike Myers

March 11, 2012

Although I didn't have the good fortune to know Steve personally, I knew him through his wife Debbie. She kept us up to date on their lives together. Debbie was such a joy to work with. Her constant good humor and cheerfulness let everyone know she was from a happy home. We learned that Steve was a fighter, trying his best to get well for his family. And we also knew that he chose the best partner to help him with his struggle. It's so tragic to lose the person you planned to spend your life with. But Debbie will survive this immeasurable loss. Her grief will be tempered by remembering the years she and Steve had together. These happy memories will sustain her and in time she will resume her joyful demeanor because that's what Steve would want her to do.

Bill Utley

March 11, 2012

Larry and I will miss you. I (Linda), will personally miss our conversations and how we were going to solve the problems of the world. You were a wonderful friend. God bless you and I sure hope our heavenly father has lots of things for you to repair. Larry and Linda Klinefelter

March 11, 2012

randy and i will never forget cooking lobster and sausage for hours on the bbq and never getting done RIP STEVE love randy michele and kids

March 11, 2012

Steve was a wonderful cousin and is missed dearly. Debbie and Michael, thank you for giving Steve many wonderful family years. I will always remember the years we had as cousins. He is gone but will always be in our hearts. Donna

Karen Wood

March 11, 2012

You were a valued friend in the short time we got to know each other.You will be fondly remembered. Karen & Wyn Wood.

Dr. Bill Klink

March 11, 2012

Steve,
I shall look forward to our reunion in God's great heaven. You and Deb have always been a blessing to me as well as so many others. Thanks for being the wonderful man I know.
Dr. Bill Klink

March 11, 2012

Thou I never met Steve in person, I knew him from his son Micheal and wife Debbie. I met them in Port Angeles, WA. while attending a conferance each May for several years. Steve was talked of often with love. I felt like I knew Steve as I did Micheal and Debbie. May the Great Spirit take him with as much love possible. Cheryl_Lynne Smith (Terry)

Stacy Watzka

March 11, 2012

Although the time wasn't long enough.. you will forever be in my thoughts..Papa..love, Your Golden One..

Laurie Jangord

March 11, 2012

Steve was a wonderful and kind man. He will be missed.

Leonard and Geri Vavra

March 11, 2012

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

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