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1935
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2020
Betty Merritt Obituary
Betty married her first love Garland Barlow until his passing in 1976 and her second love and forever companion, Bud Merritt in 1985. Betty worked selflessly in and out of the home, retiring from the City of Va. Beach Social Services after serving over 20 years. Betty was a singer, painter, dancer and a general ‘force of nature'. She knew no strangers and loved unconditionally with a compassion in her heart for everyone. She will always be remembered for her smile, laughter and the love she had for her husband, family and friends. She would always say, "I am so blessed." and yet, it is we who were blessed by her presence.
Betty was predeceased by her parents Theodore Plyler and Pearl White, her late husband Garland Barlow and her daughter in-law Sharon Barlow.
Betty is survived by her Step Mother Ella; brother Douglas (Beth); sisters Georgie (Patrick), Teddi (Bob) and Carolyn; sons Michael (Maureen), Kevin, Paul and Robert; Grandchildren Elizabeth (Aaron), Christopher and Cole, Lillian Sky, Cecelia ; Great Grandchildren Andrew, Logan, Isaac; countless number of nieces, nephews and dearest friends.
The family due to safety precautions related to the COVID-19 virus have decided the there will not be an immediate service for Betty's countless family and friends. Rather there will be announced later, safer time, a Celebration of Betty's Life. In this way we can all safely gather in this wonderful woman's name.
We also ask that everyone consider making a donation to your favorite charity in lieu of flowers. Betty always supported the Wounded Warriors and the Children's Hospital of the Kings Daughters. www.vacremationsociety.com
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Paul Lemma
May 20, 2020
Bud, Jane and I are so sorry for your loss. Betty was a great lady whom always added sunshine in the lives of others. She was a great Help Mate for you and one whom kept you grounded. Betty and you are always in our prayers.
Roseanne Dickerson
April 8, 2020
Bud, I am sorry for your loss. She was a great
lady. I worked with her at Social Services for many years. She made my wedding anniversary cakes. She was loads of fun and I am sure she will be missed by many. You are in my prayers. God Bless.
April 8, 2020
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Terry Bryan
April 1, 2020
Dear Bud,
I worked with Betty at Social Services. My husband and I would see you and Betty attending the Virginia Beach Memorial Day celebration parades, Betty was always so proud of wearing the red, white and blue colors to the event. May her sweet soul be resting at peace. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Ben and Lyndsey Lemmond
March 31, 2020
She was a very kind and loving person and we will miss her very much. Love you Aunt Betty.
May your memories bring you comfort and may time bring you peace.
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