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Donald Wilder Obituary

Donald, 82, died June 11, 2023 at his daughter's house surrounded by his children, fiancé and her children. He retired as a Captain in the Portsmouth Fire Dept, owned Eagle Construction and was an Air Force veteran and member of the Jaycees. He had his own unusual window to the world.

Don was predeceased by his parents, Thomas Lloyd and Essie Wilder; older brother Billy; and long-time friend Joe Lehtinen. Don was Pop to West (Mary, step-son Colin), he was Dad to Kelly (Steve) and Sergio (Francoise, son André). He was his granddaughter Aubrey's "Happy" - how she first pronounced Pappy. Don is also survived by fianceé, Dianna Edwards. He was affectionately known as Pop to others who loved him including Dianna's sons Danny (Ashley) and Michael, eight grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.

A funeral service will be held on Friday, June 16, at 1 PM at Sturtevant Funeral Home, Portsmouth Blvd Chapel. Burial will be in Olive Branch Cemetery. Reception with light food to follow. The family will receive friends at the funeral home on Thursday from 6-8 PM. www.SturtevantFH.com

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jun. 14, 2023.

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Sandy Dailey

June 15, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jim Rigsby

June 14, 2023

Peggy & I are so sorry for your loss. Donald & Billy were a big part of our lives back in the day. Jim Rigsby

Bernie Kirsch

June 14, 2023

I first met Don as young Jaycee more than fifty years ago when we´re both young men and I have followed his career through the PFD as he rose to his Captaincy. He was always looking to improve himself and was kind to those in service with him.

My deepest sympathy to his family and friends who are grieving his loss.

May he rest in eternal peace.

Dave Leonard

June 14, 2023

Met Don at fire dispatch office in 1970. Got me into Jaycees, then a very large group. Introduced me to my wife after a chance encounter at very small TCC bookstore. Helped him with algebra class. Hope you all have many memories to sustain you at this time just as I do. Dave Leonard

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