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Joan Kelly Obituary

Joan Elaine Kelly VIRGINIA BEACH - Joan Elaine "Bubbie" Kelly, 75, of the 5400 block of Wesleyan Drive, died Saturday, June 26, 2010. A native of Philadelphia, Joanie was the daughter of the late Elizabeth and Harry Torrante. She was preceded in death by her husband, William Dixon Kelly. Left to cherish her memory are two daughters, Karen Hollerbach and her husband Bob, and Leslie Safrit and her husband Chris and three granddaughters, Olivia, Carly and Jessica Safrit, all of Virginia Beach; and one brother, Mark Rosen and his wife Brenda of Lancaster, Pa. Joan's full life included being a Marine Corps wife for 26 years, an active member of the Marine Corps Officer Wive's Club and the Thoroughgood Garden Club, and an administrator at St. Leo College. Most importantly, in her later years her time was devoted to being a loving and dedicated grandmother to her three granddaughters. A celebration of her life will be held at 2 p.m. Thursday, July 8, at Baylake United Methodist Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project and St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. Cremation Society of Virginia is assisting the family, online condolences may be made at www.cremate.org.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot from Jul. 6 to Jul. 7, 2010.

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Bubbie and I in the pool when I was a baby.

Olivia Safrit

July 6, 2010

From the time I was born, you gave me everything and you were the best grandma possible, you are my one and only Bubbie. We always had such a special and irreplaceable connection. You always made sure I was happy, and I am who I am because of you. We spent so much time together, even until the very end.

The day that you passed away, was the worst day of my life, not a second goes by that I am not thinking about you. I know you are with Dixon though, and I know you are looking down on me from heaven. There aren't enough words in the world to explain how much I miss you, and how much I love you. This all feels like a dream, and I keep waiting to wake up, but then I remember that all this is reality. Sometimes I forget you are not here on this earth anymore, the other day at work I thought to myself "I think i will go visit Bubbie today" and the other day at Target I saw a cat sculpture and I thought to myself "oh I should buy this for Bubbie" but then I remember you are not here anymore. I do know, however that you will always be by my side, for the rest of my life.

I miss you so much, I miss having long talks about life with you, I miss you leaving me voicemails that always started with "Hey Liv! it's Bubbie," I miss holding your hand, I miss taking you shopping, I miss being able to see you every single day, I miss hearing your voice over the telephone, I miss every memory that we shared.

You always cared about me, believed in me, supported me, and loved me like know other person has. I never could bring myself to tell you 'goodbye' because I never wanted to let you know that I knew you were close to passing away. Looking back I am glad I never said goodbye, because this isn't 'goodbye,' it is 'see you later,' because I know one day I will see you again in heaven.

I love you Bubbie, and I always will. A piece of you will always remain in me, and your ashes will always remain in the dove that hangs from my neck.

<3

Cindy Gavrity

July 6, 2010

Dear Leslie and family,

I am sorry for your loss and I will always remember Joan as a smart and funny woman.. I am sorry I can't make it but I am thinking of you..

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