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John McLaughlin Obituary

John Thomas McLaughlin, 66, passed away peacefully after a sudden illness on August 5, 2022. He was born on January 12, 1956, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, to parents John Thomas and Anne M. "Nancy" McLaughlin.

A devoted civil servant, John worked for decades as a Mechanical Engineer P.E. for the Navy, retiring as the Head of the Mechanical Engineering Branch of the Naval Facilities Engineering Command, Atlantic Division. Respected and beloved by a large network of peers in the engineering community, he then enjoyed a successful private sector career at CH2M Hill, followed by Jacobs, serving as their Navy Client Account Manager. His work took him all over the world. Iceland, Greece, Italy, Hawaii, and San Diego were just a few favorite destinations. He was well known for airfield fueling projects and energy conservation, and even more importantly, as a mentor and friend who was always willing to help a colleague.

John loved music and sports, and he was a fervent supporter of his alma mater, Old Dominion University. He was thrilled to see his youngest son attend and graduate from ODU, and they shared season tickets for multiple sports and traveled near and far to support the Monarchs. An excellent chef, he found great joy in cooking for loved ones, especially in the form of extravagant holiday feasts. Crab cakes, steak, and "dad potatoes" were just a few of his signature dishes. He was a storyteller extraordinaire and was always quick with a joke, anecdote, or kind word.

John was a devoted husband and father, and enthusiastically supported sporting events, performances, graduations, trips, and countless other family activities. Whether helping with calculus homework, coaching a basketball team, or cheering louder than the rest of the crowd during a concert or graduation, John was the biggest fan and supported his children in everything they did. He was their cheerleader in every moment, big or small. He will be remembered as a hard worker with a steadfast commitment to his family and a kind, loving heart.

John is survived by his wife, Debra Banks McLaughlin, children Jeffrey McLaughlin, Kelly McLaughlin and husband Zachary Herrmann, and Timothy McLaughlin, and sisters Sheila McLaughlin and Mary Stuck. The family is thankful for Bob, Doug, and the many other long-term friends who were special in John's life.

The family will receive friends from 7:00 to 8:30pm on Tuesday, August 16, 2022, at Hollomon-Brown Funeral Home, Great Neck Chapel. A funeral mass will be held at 11:00am on Wednesday, August 17, 2022, at Star of the Sea Catholic Church, with a burial to follow in Woodlawn Memorial Gardens. Condolences may be offered to the family at

www.hollomon-brown.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Aug. 14, 2022.

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David Cake

September 6, 2022

I am truly shocked and saddened to hear of Johnny´s passing. I only found out a few days ago from Keith Johnson "Zelmo". We all had nicknames back in the Great Neck Estates days, Johnny´s was "Roscoe"
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Johnny´s friends and family. Debbie, Miss Nancy, Sheila, the children and everyone else.
I´ve been out of touch with the old gang for years, spending half my life at sea for 43 years in the U.S. Merchant Marine as an engineer. I would definitely have come to the service had I known.
John was one of the kindest people I´ve ever known, and the funniest. He had the greatest laugh and a smile to go with it.
John will always be in our hearts and memories, and now the McLaughlin family has a new Guardian Angel

Mark Elde

August 16, 2022

I am so sorry for your loss.
I first met John when he started working with Navy, about 40 years ago. While thinking back on our relationship, it occurred to me that I have no recollection of any time when he did not have a smile on his face. He will be missed.

Bruce Seamans

August 15, 2022

My deepest condolences, I remember John for his easy going demeanor but very intelligent recommendations for work related solutions. Although he was a co-worker, I considered him a friend. He will truly be missed.

Phil Roy

August 14, 2022

Susan and I send our deepest condolences to Debbie, Jeffrey, Kelly and Tim. My friendship with John spanned over four decades and without hesitation John was one of the nicest people I´ve ever known. I fondly remember hearing John at ODU basketball games berating a referee after a bad or missed call but always respectfully saying SIR! John will be greatly missed.

Michael Breault and Ann Ramey

August 13, 2022

So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

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