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John Howard Stephenson III

1948 - 2021

John Howard Stephenson III obituary, 1948-2021, Morehead City, Nc

BORN

1948

DIED

2021

John Stephenson Obituary

WAKEFIELD - John Howard Stephenson III, age 72, a life-long resident of Wakefield and beloved husband of Jane Darden Stephenson for the past 44 years, died Sunday March 21, 2021 in Emerald Island, North Carolina after a brief illness. Born on Dec. 3, 1948, John was the son of the late John Howard Stephenson Jr. and Anna Terriciano Stephenson. He is pre-deceased by a sister, Cheryl Stephenson Patterson.

In addition to his wife Jane, he is survived by three children: John IV of Radford, Virginia, Willis of Wakefield and Iris S. Williams of Wake Forest, North Carolina and Jane's son, Ryan Karp (Tina) of Medway, Massachusetts; his siblings: Pam Stephenson (Mike), Joe Stephenson (Tammy), Lewis Stephenson (Jeanne), Mary Carol Wayner (David), Sandra Spain and Charles Stephenson (Diane); grandsons, Corbin, 2 and Cole, 10 months, Williams of Wake Forest, North Carolina and Jane's grandchildren: Mackenzie Karp, Chandler Campbell (Cody), Maxine Karp and Jackson Karp.

His lifelong best buddies, Sammy Purviance and Woody Griffin and numerous nieces and nephews, a host of good friends and extended family.

John's enduring success as a man, husband, father, son, brother and friend stemmed from his humility, his kind and modest character, his strong work ethic, sense of fairness, good humor and his willingness and ability to change and grow with the times.

He was a lifelong Sussex and Southampton County farmer, first with his father and grandfather and later as a partner in Stephenson Farms with his brother, Joe for 43 years. John retired from farming in 2015. He was a member of Wakefield United Methodist Church and held several agricultural association positions during his career. He was a proud 1971 graduate of the University of Virginia with a bachelors degree in psychology and avid Cavaliers fan through and through. Go Hoos!

John considered one of the crowning achievements of his life to be the creation of the business, Sweet Corn of Wakefield with his wife Jane. In his mid-twenties, John would give away free produce at the railroad tracks and his passion blossomed into a small stand on the side of Route 460 in Wakefield as a family affair. Sweet Corn of Wakefield grew to become a regional institution sought out by folks from as far away as Washington, D.C. and many surrounding states. Around July 4 of each year, when their sweet corn crop matured, lines of cars would fill their lot with folks eagerly awaiting the day's fresh-picked ears and the friendly fellowship of the Stephenson's and their crew. The hundreds of ears picked and bagged by hand at dawn each day would sell out in an hour or two. With John's passing this week, there will be an empty spot in our hearts and on our summer plates. The family sends heartfelt thank you to all the young men and women who worked at the stand over the years.

A private celebration of his life will be held by family at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly suggests memorial donations be made to Wakefield Volunteer Fire Department.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Mar. 23, 2021.

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Celia E Jarvis

October 18, 2021

Jane,
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Celia

Rob Topping

April 21, 2021

Always looked forward to meeting with John and Jane. For all his success, he was a humble man who was enjoyable to be around.

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Jennifer Goodrich Bond

April 3, 2021

I have so many wonderful childhood memories of your dad. Lots of summers picking corn and blueberries. Great meals around your dinner table. Playing monopoly. Going to your softball games. He always has that big grin on his face, just like in the photo. I'll continue to cherish these memories and carry them with me. All my love to you and your family, now and always.

Tony and Lynda Elliott

March 27, 2021

He is the kindest person I have ever known. We only knew John a short time, and I am sorry we did not have more precious time. He will be missed, a true friend, indeed! Love Tony and Lynda

Donnie Thompson

March 26, 2021

I had worked with John since 1994 when I began to work for FSA. John became a good friend. He was honest to a fault in all of the business dealing we had. A kind hearted, caring person, believed in helping his family and friends in any way possible. A strong leader in his community. Strong supporter of Tidewater Academy. He will be missed by everyone who's life he touched. May God watch over his family and help heal their pain during this time of sorrow.

Dianne Gwaltney

March 25, 2021

To the Stephenson Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of loss. John was a great guy.
May God surround you with his love.
With love,
Celia Parsons & Dianne Gwaltney

james epperson

March 24, 2021

So sad to hear the passing of John.
He was a wonderful man with a positive outlook on life, full of energy and always had a smile on his face.
I/we enjoyed for many years of trying to one up each other in our game of "REPENT" fist raise! Your family knows what this is about because you all got involved in it!
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
God bless.

Jay and Chris Epperson

Winston Shultz

March 24, 2021

John was a fine person to do business with and an all around great man.
Winston Shultz

Sandy Bowden

March 23, 2021

Jane and family. So sorry to hear about your loss. John was a kind and friendly man, he will be missed by many. You all will be in our prayers. Take care of yourself.
Thinking of you
Sandy and Dallas Bowden

Doug Chesson

March 23, 2021

Sorry for your loss.

Robert and Diana McEwem

March 23, 2021

We will miss you what a wonderful man. So sorry Jane for you and all your family.

Robert and Diana McEwen

March 23, 2021

We will truly miss him,wonderful man. So sorry Jane for you and all the family.

Jim Clements

March 23, 2021

John was always a kind considerate person. I always felt a calm when I was in his presence. What a good person he was.

Lynn Reust

March 23, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. Your cuz Lynn

Ann Andrews

March 23, 2021

Dear Stephenson Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending my deepest sympathies.
Ann Edwards Andrews

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Sandra, Samantha, and Michael

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Cynthia Williams Amicone

March 23, 2021

John was such a sweet sweet soul! He always had a smile on his face and a gentleness about him. As a teenager I always thought he was so handsome and had the prettiest eyes and eyelashes. He will be missed.

Earl Edwards

March 23, 2021

Prayers for John’s family

Nancy Burgess

March 23, 2021

My heartfelt condolences to the family. He always had a smile on his face and was a very genuine man. He will be missed.

Buddy & Nancy Faison

March 23, 2021

Our condolences to John's family during this sad time. He was a good man.

Robert and Martha Lohr

March 23, 2021

We met John one time and felt like family. ♥

Brenda Mashtare

March 23, 2021

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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