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Joseph Scalco Obituary

The light in this world grew a bit dimmer on June 6, 2023, as Joseph A. Scalco, IV, 50, suddenly left this earthly world for his eternal home. His infectious smile was always certain to light up a room and his heart of service was a constant example. He will be missed, loved, and forever remembered by many family, friends and friends who became family, but especially by the loved ones for whom he provided a firm shelter in this life, including, his wife, Vonda W. Chappell; his son, Owen F. Chappell, together with his wife, Sarah; his mother, Marie C. Scalco, and his father-in-law, Frederick E. Ward. Joe was a master of many things, a perfectionist in all that he did and often the first call in times of need. He took great pride in his family, his work and the home he and Vonda built together. He will forever be in our hearts.

The family will receive friends on Tuesday, June 20, 2023, from 6-8 p.m. at Graham Funeral Home, 1112 Kempsville Road, Chesapeake. A service to celebrate his life will be held Wednesday, June 21, 2023, at 11 a.m. at River Oak Church, 255 Great Bridge Blvd, Chesapeake with Pastor Heath Burris officiating. He will be laid to rest in a private service. Please visit www.grahamfuneralhome.com to leave a condolence to the family.

Those who knew Joe, recognized his affection for bright colors. The family would ask that you wear bright colors to his service to honor him and reflect the light he brought to our lives.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jun. 18, 2023.

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6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Graham Funeral Home

1112 Kempsville Road, Chesapeake, VA 23320

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11:00 a.m.

River Oak Church

255 Great Bridge Boulevard, Chesapeake, VA 23320

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