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Kyle J. Milliken

Virginia Beach - Navy Special Warfare Operator Senior Chief Petty Officer (SEAL) Kyle J. Milliken, 38, of Falmouth, Maine, died May 5, 2017 in East Africa of wounds sustained during combat operations.

He was assigned to an East Coast based Naval Special Warfare unit.

Kyle enlisted in the U.S. Navy in July 2002. On December 12, 2002, he entered Basic Underwater Demolition/SEAL (BUD/S) Training in Coronado, CA. After nine months of the most grueling and demanding training in the military, he graduated in September 2003. He served in East coast-based Naval Special Warfare units throughout his career.

Kyle was a highly decorated combat veteran with numerous awards and 10 deployments. His awards include the Silver Star Medal (Posthumously) for heroic actions in combat.

Additional awards include Bronze Star Medal with Valor (5); Purple Heart Medal; Defense Meritorious Service Medal; Joint Service Commendation Medal (2); Navy and Marine Corps Commendation Medal with Valor; Navy and Marine Corps Commendation Medal; Joint Service Achievement Medal; Navy and Marine Crops Achievement Medal (3); Combat Action Ribbon (3); Presidential Unit Citation (3); Good Conduct Medal (4); National Defense Service Medal; Afghanistan Campaign Medal (4); Iraq Campaign Medal; Global War on Terrorism Expeditionary Medal; Global War on Terrorism Service Medal and numerous other personal and unit decorations.

Kyle was an amazing father, husband, son, brother, and friend, whose passion for life was contagious. His sharp wit and magnetic personality made lasting impressions on everyone he met. Kyle was highly competitive in all aspects of his life. He displayed incredible talent as a dedicated warrior, yet he stayed grounded through his faith, family and teammates. Kyle's captivating presence and colorful storytelling regularly had an entire room in hysterics. He was the cornerstone of his family, friends, and team and will be profoundly missed.

Kyle is survived by his wife, two children, father, mother, brother, and countless other family, friends and teammates.

The Milliken Family would like to extend their gratitude to the community for their support and prayers.

Services for Kyle will be held privately in the near future. Kyle will be buried at Arlington National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, friends have set up a fund for Kyle's children where donations can be made To donate: All In All The Time http://aiatt.org/donate/

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on May 14, 2017.

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Nate Alfiero

May 18, 2019

Great day today KJM. The crew was tight-many peeps and we ran a good/fun race. An angel came down from the sky and everyone-especially the kids loved it before the race. SuperMarioBros. Great gig!

May 15, 2018

Thinking of you right now ... the spirit never dies

Mark Carberry

October 27, 2017

From an Ex Soldier from the UK My heart and prayers go out to the family,friends and team mates of Kyle. He was a brave man and we are all proud of him. May God Bless you all RIP Kyle.

A Singh

July 14, 2017

Rest in piece sir.

July 13, 2017

To a Great Warrior, Rest in Peace

Richard and Juliana L'Heureux

June 10, 2017

Kyle Milliken was a brave Senior Chief Petty Officer. My husband and I are extending our deepest condolences to his grieving family, in Virginia and in Maine. My husband is a retired Master Chief Petty Officer- USN, Ret., and, therefore, as a US Navy family, we share your bereavement and extend our sympathy to his family, the community and to the US Navy Seals.

May 30, 2017

Thank you for your service to our country and giving the ultimate sacrifice. God bless you and your family.

Nancy Rodway Stanley

May 19, 2017

Jeff and family,
My sincere condolences on the loss of you son. I can relate to the grief that you must be experiencing. I lost my son 2 1/2 years ago in an automobile accident.

Christina Page Hobbs

May 18, 2017

Dearest Dottie, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your son. I know how proud you are of both your boys. God bless you all.

Jack Looney

May 18, 2017

RIP Chief. Thank you for your service.

Cathy Kranzfelder

May 17, 2017

I went to UConn with Kyle. He went out of his way to show me kindness during a difficult time in my life, when it would have been just as easy for him to look the other way. I have never forgotten that about him, and I never will. My deepest sympathy to his wife, children, family, and friends.

John 15:13

Paul Abney

May 17, 2017

My heart and prayers go out to the family and friends of Kyle. May God Bless you and give you peace in this time of grief.

shaun stauffer

May 16, 2017

In my thoughts and prayers forever.

Shannon McKnew

May 14, 2017

Milliken Family, we are so terribly sorry for your loss. We can't even imagine how difficult this has been. We were fortunate to know the family man... the kind, gentle, fun and caring father that was clearly the center of your world. Thank you for all you sacrificed for Kyle to support all of us. We are forever grateful and in awe. Love, The McKnews

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