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Lawrence Perse

1932 - 2023

Lawrence Perse obituary, 1932-2023, Norfolk, VA

BORN

1932

DIED

2023

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Lawrence Perse Obituary

Lawrence Perse of Cleveland Heights, OH and formerly of New York, NY and Norfolk, VA passed away August 27, 2023. He was 91. Larry was born July 17, 1932, in New York, New York, to the late Ben and Ruth Perse. He graduated from Horace Mann School in the Bronx and attended University of Miami in Coral Gables, Florida. After attending college for 2 years, Larry joined the United States Navy. It was while stationed in Norfolk, VA that he met Judy Reingold, to whom he was married for 51 years. Larry and Judy settled in Norfolk where they raised two children, John and Toby. After leaving the Navy, Larry founded Tidewater Insurance Agency of Virginia, Inc., a company that he ran for almost 30 years, until he and Judy returned to New York, where Larry joined the company business, Capital Motion Pictures Supply Corporation.

Larry was a lifelong sports enthusiast in general, and a diehard Giants, Yankees, Rangers and Knicks fan specifically. Even while living in the Cleveland area, he was always wearing his beloved Yankees cap. He was a jazz afficionado, playing the drums throughout his life, and it was this love and knowledge of jazz that was responsible for so many of the friendships he developed. Larry was a proud member of The Friars Club, as well as a frequent patron of various jazz clubs and storied watering holes around the city.

Larry had the good fortune to be surrounded by kind and loving people who cared deeply for him. He was nervous about moving to Ohio in 2018, but quickly became friends with people who felt like family. He acclimated easily because of these dear people, who made his end of life difficulties so much easier to navigate.

Larry was preceded in death by his wife Judy, 2007. He is survived by son John (Reeva) of Cleveland Heights, OH, his daughter Toby Lagarde (Doug) of Severna Park, MD, and his grandchildren Matt Perse of Asheville, NC, Will Lagarde (Becca) of Basking Ridge, NJ, and Katie Perse (Joe Echt) of Cleveland Heights, OH. Larry also leaves behind his many friends who will miss him dearly.

A funeral service will be held at H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., 1501 Colonial Ave, Norfolk, VA on Thursday, August 31, 2023, at 10:00 a.m. Interment to follow at Forest Lawn Cemetery.

Online condolences may be offered to the family at hdoliver.com

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Aug. 30, 2023.

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Joan Edghill

August 24, 2024

We were abroad, and just found out about Larry´s passing. I was an employee of Capitol Motion Picture Supply Corporation. After the company closed, we kept in touch and spoke on a regular basis our last conversation was on his birthday 2023. I will miss him but his memories will remain. My condolence to the entire family.
Joan Edghill

Larry Stevens

August 31, 2023

I met Larry at the Friars Club many years ago. He was a gentleman and you felt his love for music. Being a full time musician he was always so complimentary to me and many other performers on our Thursday night jam. And to the Perse family I send my condolences.
With Love, Larry Stevens

Jay Poffenberger

August 30, 2023

Dear Family,

I met Larry shortly after he moved to Cleveland Heights at Nighttown restaurant. Although nearly 30 years my senior, upon meeting, we immediately connected and became close friends. Over the ensuing years, we'd get together frequently, enjoy a fine dinner, and imbibe in a few cocktails. I relished our conversations, his friendship, and his stories. Larry made people feel special and he had many dear friends including my son, Justin. I will miss him.

Jay Poffenberger

Anonymous

August 30, 2023

Thank you for your service Sir.

Ivy Kopit

August 29, 2023

Dear John, Reeva and Family,
David and I are thinking of you and we are sorry for your loss. When I think of Larry, it brings a smile to my face.
Fondly, Ivy Kopit

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