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Marlene Harmon Obituary

Marlene R. Harmon VIRGINIA BEACH - Marlene Dietrich Russ Harmon died March 3, 2010 at Sentara Leigh Hospital in Norfolk after a brief illness. She was born Sept. 25, 1933 to Bernice Allen Russ and Nancy Lucille Pigott in Ash, N.C. The wife of a military service man, she was a homemaker who enjoyed several hobbies during her life including painting, hat making, and cake decorating. She loved to shop at thrift stores and lived for the thrill of a good find. She was an accomplished seamstress and an avid reader. She loved God and her family and was an active member of her church and community. She was preceded in death by her husband of 57 years, Paul N. Harmon; her parents; and a brother, Rodney A. Russ, formerly of Marianna, Fla. She is survived by her siblings, Shirley Gore of Wilmington, N.C., and Lowell Russ of Panama City, Fla.; her loving daughters, Teresa Ingerson and husband Tom Patton of Virginia Beach, Abbe Haymaker and her husband Wayne of Chesapeake; and grandchildren, Russell Ingerson of Ahoskie, Meredith Hoffler of Portsmouth, Natalie Hoffler of Virginia Beach, Abbe Ingerson of Richmond and Caroline Haymaker of Chesapeake; as well as nieces and nephews around the country. The family will receive friends Sunday, March 7, at Smith and Williams Funeral Home, 4889 Princess Anne Road, Virginia Beach, from 2 to 4 p.m. A funeral will be held Monday, March 8, at Virginia Heights Baptist Church, 1251 Kempsville Road, Norfolk, at noon, with a viewing one half hour prior. Burial will follow at Albert G. Horton Jr. Memorial Veterans Cemetery in Suffolk. In lieu of flowers, please make memorial donations to Virginia Heights Baptist Church, The Gideons or a charity of one's choice. Please share your love and condolences with the family at www.smithandwilliamskempsville.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Mar. 6, 2010.

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March 12, 2010

Dear, Mr. Haymaker our prayers go out to you your wife and family.May God Bless.
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Lou Ziegler

March 8, 2010

Abbe, All my hearth felt sympathies go to you and your family during this time of need. Rely on the big guy, he will help you get through it. God bless and my prayers are with you. Lou Z

missy Isley Viohl

March 8, 2010

Dear Abbe and Teresa:
Your mom was one of my favorite people ever. I still remember staying with her when I was little and how much I enjoyed being with her, the poodle, the mutt, the cats, etc. She was sweet and kind to everyone, and she treated me just like a daughter. She will be missed by all of us, especially my parents who loved her like family, which she was.

Robin Richlie

March 8, 2010

Dear Teresa and Family, Dickie was a very colorful personality who we had gotten to know through our friendship with Tom and Teresa. We loved her free spirit and she will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all

Elizabeth Isley

March 7, 2010

Dear Teresa and Abbe, It seems like yesterday that we were teens and our Mothers were chasing after us. I have so many fond memories of your Mother and her ability to make stressful situations funny. My thoughts are with you, and your family.

March 6, 2010

Teresa, we will always remember your mom and the love she showed to all at Lake Taylor during your Dad's illness. She was a very special warm Lady...We had many laughs and the joy she brought all of us will never be forgotten. The Beck family.

Velma Beck

March 6, 2010

Teresa, we will always remember your mom and the love she showed to all at Lake Taylor during your Dad's illness. She was a very special warm Lady...We had many laughs and the joy she brought all of us will never be forgotten. The Beck family.

March 6, 2010

Abbe,
I love you and I loved her. I am so thankful that my family had the opportunity to visit with her at Christmas after so many years. You know I'm here for you. Pam

Larry Thurston

March 6, 2010

Dear Teresa and Abbe,
I was saddened to read of your mother's passing. She was truly a wonderful lady. May the Lord comfort you. Sincerely, Larry

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