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Mary Stuart Gaskill

1940 - 2019

Mary Stuart Gaskill obituary, 1940-2019, Virginia Beach, VA

Mary Gaskill Obituary

Mary Stuart Gaskill, 78, of Virginia Beach, VA, passed away peacefully on the 25th of May 2019 in her daughter’s home in New York City. A service in her memory will be held June 8th 2019 at 2pm with the Reverend Justine of the Coastal Virginia Unitarian Church, officiating. The church is located at 809 S. Military Highway in Virginia Beach, VA.Mary was born on the 4th of July 1940 in Chattanooga, Tennessee to Gordon Gaskill and Betty Milton, both veteran war correspondents, and schooled in England and Switzerland. She attended Swarthmore College and then graduated from George Washington University in 1961. Mary was a lover of walks and enjoyed nature. She was passionate about green politics and social justice. Mary is survived by her two sons, Kyle and Skye Hauptman, daughter Tara Averill and three grandchildren, Fiona, Liam and Ethan. The family of Mary wishes to extend our sincere thanks to the Coastal Virginia Unitarian Church, The Edgar Cayce Foundation, siddha yoga and the members of her community garden where she found friendship, guidance and inspiration throughout her life.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jun. 3, 2019.

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Diana Tressler

June 8, 2019

Love, light, and comfort to Mary's beautiful family. Mary was a lovely lady in every way. Compassionate heart, wonderful friend, brilliant mind, bright sparkling smile and gorgeous soul. Thank you for sharing our lives.

Ms. Alston

June 7, 2019

May Mary's soul rest in peace. I will never forget the many late evenings that we all sat in the community room at Silver Hill, watched television, and debated so many current events. Mary always had a lot to add to the debates. In addition, I will never forget the many late nights that we would go upstairs to the library also to use the computer before going to our respective apartments to retire for the night. Mary will be missed a whole lot.

And though her family and other friends also certainly will grieve and emphatically will miss her, let us all celebrate her life through our memories because she loved living, and she was a great inspiration to all of us, even taking one of my grandsons to school one morning when he had stayed overnight and he missed the school bus.

Mary' work here on Earth is done and our God has called her home to prepare the way for others. I pray that I will see her again one day in Heaven for I am so blessed to have known her here on Earth.

June 5, 2019

Psalm 90:10 says that the days of our years are 70 years, And if because of special mightiness they are 80 years.
May the memories of the wonderful times you shared together bring a smile and joy in your heart.

Maryland Hallman

June 4, 2019

Much love and condolences to the family and friends of Mary Gaskill. Such a beautiful soul with high minded ideals, a deep love of nature, people, sustainability and always holding a positive vision for a healthier planet for everyone. She taught me a lot in such a short time and was a real blessing in my life. I feel I have a good road map now on how to leave the world a better place. God speed dear friend.

June 4, 2019

My sincere condolences to the family. May you find comfort in knowing God hears your prayers and sees your tears. Isaiah 38:5

Tara White

June 3, 2019

Much love, light and comfort to the family and friends of Mary Gaskill. My heart is heavy to lose such a beautiful person. She was one of my all time favorite people - spiritually wise, a sharp mind and a wonderfully articulate intellectual conversationalist. I always learned something valuable and inspirational with every encounter with her. Best of all, she was unfailingly enthusiastic in actively making the world a better place. Thank you, Mary, for being a much beloved, life-enhancing presence in so many lives.

A P

June 3, 2019

To the Family: Life is like a mist. Its here today and gone tomorrow. Continue to stay close to each other to give comfort, along with heartfelt prayers and loving support from friends to make enough room in your hearts to cope with your loss.
(Psalms 119:32)

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