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Mary Peris Obituary

Mary Allwyn Peris (76) of Norfolk passed away in a memory care unit after a courageous four year battle with Alzheimer's disease.

After graduating from University of Lynchburg, she pursued a nursing career and attended Norfolk General School of Nursing, becoming an R.N. working in home health, area hospitals, CHKD, and finally, school nurse at Olive Branch Elementary School in Portsmouth.

Mary was also a major in the Army Reserves. She loved her church and staying in touch with her college friends. Mary loved to help others and volunteered feeding and housing the homeless. She loved the mountains and was the camp nurse at Craig Springs for many years.

Mary is predeceased by her parents, William and Viola (Moore) Whitehurst, and her sister-in-law, Lois (Umburger) Whitehurst. Left to cherish her memory is her husband of 21 years, Anthony M. Peris; brother, Bill Whitehurst; nephews, Allen and Tod Whitehurst and their families; and many cousins in the California area.

A graveside service will be conducted by the Rev. Mark Poindexter on Saturday, November 13 at 11:00am at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Norfolk.

In lieu of flowers, please make memorial donations to the Alzheimer's Association or to West Side Christian Church, 535 Cherokee Rd, Portsmouth, VA 23701.

H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Norfolk Chapel is handling arrangements. Online condolences may be made to the family at hdoliver.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 10, 2021.

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Uwe Scharf

December 1, 2021

Please accept our condolences for Mary´s death. Andrea and I remember her fondly as a welcoming presence in worship when we joined West Side six or seven years ago. She was always happy to see us and she thanked me warmly for my sermons when I preached regularly before we called Pastor Mark. Mary is in eternity now. May God comfort you and give you peace. Uwe

Earl and Debbie Ripley

November 12, 2021

So sorry to hear of Marys passing. We think of you often Tony and wish you well in this time of grief. Mary was such a kind and thoughtful person.

Rev. Cheryl Robinson-Intrepid Hospice

November 10, 2021

Heartfelt sympathy is being extended to the family of Mary Peris. Our hearts and prayers are with you. Thank you for allowing us to provide care and compassion to her during her illness

Pat Denlinger

November 10, 2021

Tony, I am so sorry to hear of your wife's death. Please accept my most sincere sympathy.

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