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for Mercer Oast
Dorothee Papendorf
March 25, 2019
Ten years already that an unforgettable and unforgotten friend has left us. We still keep best memories of good times with a wonderful person. Gerhard, Dorothee, Feli und Ise, from Germany
Dennis Pearson
April 24, 2009
Sharon, so sorry to hear about Mercer. In his memory I purchased amendments and tilled a garden for a family who recently became unemployed. We dedicated the garden to him. Hopefully, this will help feed them during some rought time. I know this would have pleased him. I loved Mercer, he was a great person (kid)
His work Dad - Dennis Pearson
Betty Axson
April 9, 2009
To the entire Oast family,
This came as such a shock, especially after having just lost Judge Oast...one of my favortie people. The Oast family and my family have been friends for over 60 years.
Mercer and I are the same age and I am thankful I was able to see him recently. He has a lovely family with Sharon and the girls, and they certainly will have many wonderful family memories to share and keep close always.
Thinking of you and keeping you all in my prayers and thoughts.
Elizabeth "Betty Page" Axson
Pamela Glover
April 9, 2009
We just learned of Mercer's passing in a letter recieved today from Carolina Bank. We are heart broken. Mercer is the reason we are still in business because we were about to loose everthing. He is and will be missed.
Glover White Investments Inc.
Karen Jackson
April 7, 2009
Edward Jones Co. extends our heartfelt
condolences.
Gary Holtzmann
April 6, 2009
Dear Sharon, Katherine and Courtney,
Sharon, I do not know if you remember me from AC I pledged Sig Ep spring 79. I guess you and Mercer graduated that spring. Even though it was a short time, I still remember ya'll like it was yesterday. You two helped me make my mind up to pledge Sig Ep. Mercer always had something going on but it was never a doubt he have much he loved his sweetheart or her him. Girls, your Mama is one of the kindness persons I have ever met. I'm sorry I lost touch over the years. Seems Mercer was quite the outsdoorsman which surprised me but then again I only new him from AC. Sharon, there are no words I can print or say that I feel would adequately express my sorry for you and the girls in Mercer sudden passing. I can only pray for you all. I pray God will comfort you, strengthen you, give you peace, give you an abounding love for each other and the hope of an joyful reunion one day. Sharon, if you ever need help, I am only a call away.
Peace my brother Mercer!
"Holy Friendship Forever".......
Holly and David Wright
April 5, 2009
Dear Sharon, Katherine and Courtney,
David and I are still in shock over the news about Mercer. Oh how we loved him! He was the closest family I ever had in Elizabeth City. He will never know how much it meant for me to have someone I grew up with and knew as a child in the same town with me. It was so special for me to visit with him and we would talk about our times growing up in Portsmouth and all the people we knew.
Just to be in Mercer's presence would make me laugh and put a smile on my face. David has been lost since you all moved because Mercer would fix anything and everything. He even helped with the boys school projects!!
There is no man on earth who adored his wife and his two beautiful daughters more than Mercer. I cannot imagine the void and emptiness all of you are experiencing. Please feel comforted that we all love you and we are lifting you up in prayer daily.
Fleet Roberts
April 5, 2009
Sharon and the Girls:
I have such fond memories of you and Mercer in Suffolk and Portsmouth. You two had the greatest love story. I watched it develop in High School. My thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult days. Keep the faith.
Fleet Lynch Roberts
Latoya Brown
April 3, 2009
Sharon, I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Wendy Snyder-Erneston
April 3, 2009
Marty and family...I am so saddened to hear about Mercer's accident. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Paulette & Blake Morant
April 3, 2009
We send our prayers and sympathy to you as friends of Bill and Pam Oast. Bill told us frequently about his brother Mercer, his wonderful family, and the wedding which brought you all such joy last June. May you all find continued comfort, blessings and strength at this very special time.
Adam Halstead
April 2, 2009
Sharon, Katherine, and Courtney,
I am so sorry to have heard heard about Mercer. I was lucky to have had him as a friend and sailing buddy and will always remember how much fun we had racing "Utmoast", or as Mercer called it, "Ultimate Oast" together years ago. He has brought happiness to the lives of so many, and for that I am thankful to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with you. We will miss him.
Adam Halstead
April 2, 2009
We were so sorry to hear about your loss.
Jean & Dudley Weeks
(Tom & Debbie Woodley's family)
Emiley Turner
April 2, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. The service yesterday was a true celebration of the memories and lives Mercer touched, and I hope the stories shared give you comfort and peace.
Kyra Seaver
April 2, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lynne Bell
April 2, 2009
Sharon, You and the girls are in my prayers during this difficult time.
John Cooke
April 2, 2009
I remember that cute couple from ACC. I'm so sorry for your loss. Mercer was a great guy and fraternity brother. Fleetwood, Billy C and myself send our condolences.
Thomas Haynes
April 2, 2009
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Danny Leonard
April 2, 2009
May the peace of God be with you now and forever.
Susan Sechrest
April 2, 2009
Courtney and family, I am so sad for you all. What a tragic loss. May the Lord be your comfort and strength and peace.
Elizabeth Curtiss
April 2, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies are with you.
Marianne Henderson
April 2, 2009
Our prayers and thoughts are with Mercer's family. His impact on the community went well beyond his career. His wife carried the values they shared in their home into her classroom, and his daughter is a treasure.
Tom and Jill Cooke
April 1, 2009
We are truly sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Todd
April 1, 2009
Mercer was one of my favorite people at the bank. There are so many things that will be missed like how he would stop and chat or joke whenever he walked by or just walk in my office and start playing with something on my bookshelf without asking. Every time I spoke with or saw Mercer I was either laughing or smiling, even it was just seeing him in those crazy bow ties he liked to wear. I keep thinking about the time he let me borrow his truck to do some errands for the bank. He will be missed.
Jim and Carolyn Davis
April 1, 2009
Dear Sharon and Family, We were saddened to learn of Mercer's accident, but found consolation that he was involved in an activity he truly enjoyed. When remembering Mercer, we will always think of his enthusiastic greeting when calling us to just "catch -up". He always had a funny story to share about your latest travels or family events. He truly loved his family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mercer fishing with Dad and Friends back in the 1960's
April 1, 2009
Hazel Phelps
April 1, 2009
To the entire Oast family, my deepest sympathies are with you. It's been many years since I have seen Mercer but remember so well all of our kids running in and out of each others houses in their younger days in Sterling Point. I feel such sorrow in this tragic accident. Sharon I never met you but,please know that time does heal and with GODS help and all of our prayers for you, you will find comfort.
Mark Mitchell
April 1, 2009
Sharon and the lovely daughters (and even an approved son in law). You guys had a very large blessing and were able to enjoy in a shorter amount of time as you wish a very filling time with your husband/dad. You should be very proud of your time with him and I am sure you are. I enjoyed his celebration of life, as it should be. I will pray for you all.
Kelley Branch
April 1, 2009
Sharon,
I pray that you and the girls will feel God's comfort and strength now and in the days ahead. Know that you are loved and have the support of your peers at Western.
Rod Pitt
April 1, 2009
Mrs. Oast
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of bereavement. God will be your light.
April 1, 2009
Sharon and family, I had the wonderful pleasure of working closely with Mercer at Carolina Bank and always looked forward to his "visits". He made work much more enjoyable and taught us alot about looking outside of ourselves. Sharon you were blessed to have Mercer come into your life and he felt the same, not everyone can honestly say that. The days ahead will be lonely but you have such good memories to help each of you through.
Fran Cabe
Paul Willsey
April 1, 2009
Sharon, Courtenay and Kate: Your husband and Dad always said to me that he was the luckiest man in the world; all because of you. After I got to know you a little bit I saw why.
I'm one of the luckiest guys in the world because of your Husband and Dad. he welcomed me with open arms, never judged me and always stood by me in times of cloudy thought. He will always be close to my heart. I'm so sorry that your time with him was cut short but I do know this; the time you had with him was very, very special. My prayers to all of you.
favorite street
April 1, 2009
Standing on my head
April 1, 2009
Bill and Refilwe Steffen
April 1, 2009
Please accept our sincere sympathies.
Mary Lou "Moo" Whiteleather and Burgess Family
April 1, 2009
I was saddened to hear the loss of Mercer. I was fortunate to meet the Oast family on vacation at the Outer Banks. Every year we would get to visit with Mercer, Sharon, Katherine and Courtney. My granddaughters grew up with all the kids who vacationed the same time at Corolla from year to year. I remember Mercer with a big smile on his face and an interesting story to tell. Always friendly and talkative, with energy to spare was typical Mercer. My thoughts are with Sharon, Katherine, Courtney and family.
With sympathy, Mary Lou "Moo" Whiteleather and Burgess Family
Linda Veneris
April 1, 2009
Sharon,
My heart and prayers are with you and your girls in this difficult time. Please know we are thinking of you and praying for your family.
Bryson Betts
April 1, 2009
We are thinking about you here at WGHS.
Jennifer Wall
April 1, 2009
My family and I would like to express our deepest sympathy in the loss you have suffered recently. We know this is very tough right now, as it will be for a while. We pray for you each day and know God has his arms wrapped around each of you tightly. In time, may the peace that passes all understanding be a part of you. We hope you find comfort in knowing there are many people out there that love you guys and adored Mercer. Just know that God is with you always and you will get through this! God bless you all! Peace and grace,
April 1, 2009
WGHS OCS Crew extends our deepest sympathy to our favorite computer teacher and family at this most difficult time. We are touched by the many lives your husband and the girls father influenced and the happy memories shared with all. Ben, Candy, Marisol, Michael, amd Salwa each with their families have extended their sincere sympathy as well. "We really miss you," says our crew. with love, WGHS OCS
Courtney Fromen Thomsen
April 1, 2009
You have friends in California praying for you right now. My dad worked with Mercer and thought the world of him. Whenever we visited the bank, Mercer always greeted us warmly and with a hug. We are praying for the God of all comfort to wrap your family in His loving arms.
Scott Shelton
April 1, 2009
It's amply obvious here and to anyone who knew him that, like Frank Capra's "George Bailey," Mercer lived a truly Wonderful Life. My sincere condolences to the entire Oast Family.
Stacey Hasty
April 1, 2009
Mrs. Oast,
I had the honor of getting to know Mercer when he took me to and from Campbell University many years ago. My father, Mike Twiford, and Mercer were college buddies and old friends. Mercer was a very kind and compassionate person. I extend my thoughts and prayers go to you and your family!
Steve, Tana, and Teddy Wirtz
April 1, 2009
To Sharon and your entire family, I cannot express our family’s heartfelt feeling we have for you and your family. You are all in our prayers. I always liked to be in the presence of Mercer. I loved how he would ineract with and rib my son Teddy. He would always give him a tough time when we were together at various Rotary functions; like getting down and dirty in a creek during a Greensboro Clean Sweep; or while working at Camp Carefree. I think he liked to give Teddy and other boys a tough time as it was his guy thing, a way he could tease and be tougher than he was to his daughters who he loved and talked about so often. Mercer, hearing that Teddy has a Kayak, offered to help Teddy with his kayak training sometime this next summer. Teddy shared my joy of being around Mercer. We always liked hearing Mercer’s quips, quotes and instantaneous responses, often sarcastic, but always in fun, to whatever topic being discussed, and to whoever was there. Mercer was one of our Gate City Rotary Club's shining lights at every Rotary meeting I attended. He recently met with me in his office on a Saturday morning, graceiously providing sound advice and counseling in these troubling times. Mercer will be truly be missed by all.
Dennis and Cathy Mays
April 1, 2009
Sharon
Cathy and I send our deepest sympathy. Mercer was my best friend, from elementary school to playing on the river with Mrs Oast always keeping an eye on us to make sure we were safe. I grew up in the Oast family and it was the same as my own. I remember Mercer as we double dated when he first met Sharon, the ultimate love of his life. Cathy and I were lucky to have Mercer as one of our Groomsmen at out wedding and Mercer always brought fun and friendship to any gathering. Sharon, you are in our prayers. Mercer was loved by all. He was like a brother to me.
April 1, 2009
Sharon,
It has been many years since we have talked, and I have often wondered how you were doing since school.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My heart goes out to you and your girls. I will pray for you during this very sad time.
Cindy Norfleet
Gloria Powell-Vann
April 1, 2009
Sharon,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am keeping you and the girls in my prayers. My heart goes out to each of you.
Paula and Steven Hightower
April 1, 2009
We are so sorry to hear of your family's loss. We had the pleasure of meeting your family on a scuba diving vacation to Cozumel several years ago. You will be in our prayers!
Steve Phelps
April 1, 2009
My prayers are with the Oast family
I have known Mercer since the mid 1960's
He grew up in my nieghborhood in Portsmouth, VA.
Debbie Hargis
April 1, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Mercer Oast. I didn't know him well personally, however, he was the little brother of one of my best childhood friends, Marty Oast. Always, little Merci was lurking around as we would be doing our girl things. I do remember Marty saying he had met the girl of his dreams and all was going well for him and his family. I would just like to extend my condolences and say that from what I have read here on-line he was dearly loved and will be missed. My prayers are for those he left behind and I am sure his memory will live on in the lives he touched. Blessings......
Tim Bishop
April 1, 2009
To the Family of Mercer Oast, I was heartbroken to here of his passing. He and I grew up together as childhood friends but separated after high school. Allen Psimas told me of this tragedy. He will be truely missed. I will keep you in my prayers in your time of need. God Bless.
April 1, 2009
Sharon,
So sorry to hear about your loss. I remember you as a little girl and have kept up with your life through the friendship I have with your mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Peggy Dee and Dick Newhall
Trent Fentress
April 1, 2009
Sharon,Katherine and Courtney, I do not have words that can express how much we will all miss Mercer. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Trent Fentress
Greg Messinger
April 1, 2009
Oast Family,
My most deepest sympathies to you all for the loss of Mercer. I had the great pleasure of getting to know him over the last five years as the loan officer at Carolina Bank who provided oversight to Piedmont Land Conservancy and the Guilford Battleground Company for projects at the Guilford Courthouse National Military Park. But I knew from day one working with Mercer that he was so much more than that. I greatly enjoyed our conversations as he inquired about land trust conservation work and I found out about his outdoor interests and pursuits. Our conversations always moved quickly away from business to personal interests and I knew that I was speaking with a real friend. Mercer will be greatly missed and I feel I am a much better person for having known him. Again my most heartfelt condolences to you all.
March 31, 2009
Mercer, no words can speak about how your Carolina Bank friends are feeling right now. We have lost a family member and we so miss your daily rounds with comments that without a doubt cheer us up! (though may confuse us as well!!!!) But as we say . . . . that's MERCER! We are consoling one another because we realize you were such an imprint, example,in all of our daily lives. Full of earnest compassion for each one of us and other living things. We love you Mercer and look forward to seeing you in heaven above, and pray for Sharon, Katherine and Courtney.
Put in a good word for me up there. I am hoping I am riding the escalator versus the stairs.
No kinder man. Love you much. Patty
Delane Heath
March 31, 2009
I am so happy to have known Mercer. He was such a unique and wonderful personality. I not only enjoyed the fun that he brought to each camping trip, but also the stories that he told about his family. He was so proud of his daughters and I learned quite a lot about lacrosse during our conversations on and off the river. I recall a post on our club site a couple of years ago, where Mercer advised everyone to be with their children every chance they could. As a father of two young boys, that advice resonated with me and I haven't forgotten it. Mercer ended that message with the post script "Currently the Western Guilford Girl's Lacrosse Team is ranked # 1
in the state!!!" He truly was a very proud husband and father. You are all in my thoughts and I'm very sorry for your loss.
Susan Thomson Weybright
March 31, 2009
Although we haven't seen each other in many, many years, I'm very saddened by the news about Mercer. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time.
Lindsay Shaw
March 31, 2009
Sharon,
I can't imagine what you are going through. Although I never met him, it is clear Mercer was a wonderful husband and father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!! :)
Katie (Turtle) Farrar
March 31, 2009
My thoughts are with Mercer's family and friends. I only paddled with him a couple of times, but he and his spirit were certainly memorable.
Erin Stesch
March 31, 2009
Sharon, Courtney, and Katherine,
The Western Guilford family is thinking of you during this tragic time. We love you.
Tammy Ryals
March 31, 2009
Ol' Mercer--you will be missed! Everyone at Miller Vision knows Mercer and knew there would be a story with every visit he made to our office. Sometimes he would just stop in after getting a Red Bull at the BP--like he needed more energy! We have missed being "Mercer'ed" at the bank since he moved downtown (that's where you got stopped by him and his sense of humor and it took you 20 minutes to make a deposit at the bank and everyone at work wondered what took so long just making a deposit!!) I'm so glad I got to know him. He was a joy to be around and I know he will be missed by every one that he came into contact with. I pray that God brings peace and comfort into your lives. We are all better for having known such a funny, caring, fun-loving guy!
Claudia t
March 31, 2009
Sharon, Girls, and other family,
I was deeply shocked to learn about Mercer.I really missed you Sharon when you left NHS for a better life. I'll never forget the compassion Mercer felt for me when you and he saw pictures at Dr. S's office in Virginia. That he cared enough to be concerned for me when you were his main concern. My son is in banking in Wilmington now and I'll pass along this information to him, for I know he remembers the beautiful girls,
With much love and heartful reget for your loss,
Dennis Rasmussen
March 31, 2009
Sharon and girls,
Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you all. May Gods Love be with you.
Love, Your cousin Denny & Jane Rasmussen
Kurt Peterson
March 31, 2009
Mercer came to me looking to learn about hiking and backpacking and all things outdoors, but I feel it was I that came away learning so much more about life, compassion, and the importance of always staying young. Mercer, you and Sharon both will always remain an inspiration to us all. And our thoughts and prayers are with Sharon and the girls. Mercer, I look forward to seeing you one day on that trail up on high!
Fred Pinson
March 31, 2009
I had the priviledge of hiking and backpacking with Mercer and always laughing at the things he said. He had such a love of the outdoors and of his family. I will truely miss him and the trail will always be quieter without him. My thoughts and prayers are with the Oast family.
Randi Caruso
March 31, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
A Friend
March 31, 2009
Mercer was a great college friend with my brother at ACC. It was such a funny pleasure to have him in our home. The lyrics for Toys'R'Us remind me of him, I don't want to grow up...I am glad he left us doing something he loved. We should celebrate his life of crazy antics and just know that God probably needed to spread some silly cheer in heaven and called him to serve!! Hoping the family can smile back at him in the future and know he is crazily smiling at you! Your loss is heavens gain. You are in my prayers.
Jay & Dana Richardson
March 31, 2009
Sharon and all the Oast Family,We are so sorry to hear about Mercer. Ever since our High School days at NSA, I have loved that guy. We loved our times as neighbors in Castle Heights, when our children were babies. I always knew I didn't have to look any further than the end of the block for a fishing buddy or golf partner. I relished that because if Mercer was going, we were going to have fun. You all are in our prayers at this time.
Jeff Garrett
March 31, 2009
I got to know Mercer from kayak rolling at High Point University College. It was always fun to see him and listen to his river stories those Sunday afternoons. I am sure not a Sunday will pass that I don't think of Mercer rolling at HPU. He will be sorely missed. My deepest sympathies to the Oast family.
Jean Robb
March 31, 2009
I feel like I have lost one of my own children. Mercer and Sharon were model students when I taught them years ago. Sharon my heart goes out to you and the girls. Know Shirley is there holding you up. much love and many prayers, Jean W Robb
Tommy & E'Laine Mays
March 31, 2009
We had the privledge of sharing Thanksgiving dinner this past Nov 2008 with the Oast family in Portsmouth ,Va. We had great food and warm conversation. We shared great memories and stories . Mercer always made us laugh and he will be missed. He will always be remembered by us as a man who loved his family and was a friend to everyone he came in contact with. Our prayers go out to his beloved family; may God comfort you in this time of loss.
Karen Hornfeck
March 31, 2009
I knew what a special person Mercer was when I saw him interact with children - his own children, my children and so many others. He connected with them because he never lost that child-like enthusiasm, wonder and ability to find joy in everything. He was a blessing to all of us, but especially my kids. The Pinewood Derby won't be the same with Mr. Mercer's help and enthusiam. What a life well-lived. Sending all our love, support and prayers to Sharon and the girls.
Ginger Hurdle
March 31, 2009
Sharon, Katherine, and Courtney-
On Monday I was told of Mercer's passing and was so sad and shocked to hear this news. I worked with Mercer at Gateway. He kept us all on our toes each and everyday. He had a truly unique personality and outlook on life enjoying each day to the fullest. There was never any doubt how much he loved Sharon and his girls. He would light up when you guys would stop by to see him. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Renee, Chuck, Kristen and Kelly Burgess
March 31, 2009
My heart goes out to Sharon, Katherine,Courtney and Family. Mercer was a great guy, that's all there is to it! He was full of life, often exuberant in a child-like way, with more zest for life than two people. He could get you excited just talking about one of his adventures. We were fortunate to meet the wonderful Oast Family on vacation at the Outer Banks where his mother and father owned a condominium. Mercer would have the biggest smile on his face coming back from the ocean and a friendly greeting to pass your way. Mercer will be greatly missed. Sharon, Katherine and Courtney, we are thinking of you folks and are sending our deepest condolences.
Larry & Nancy Underwood
March 31, 2009
We are friends of the Quakenbush family and had the wonderful opportunity to be at Mark & Katherine's wedding. At the reception, we met many friends and family members of the Oast family. We were blessed in the many great stories we heard about your family. Please know our prayers are with you all now and in the days to come.
March 31, 2009
sorry for your loss
March 31, 2009
We really enjoyed working with Mercer when you guys were in EC. Very sorry to hear this news.
Danny and Rhonda Gregory
Larry Buxton
March 31, 2009
I was privileged to be Mercer's next door neighbor while growing up in Sterling Point. Even as a youngster he was friendly, active and adventurous. It's good to read how he kept those qualities -- and added so many more talents -- to his life as an adult. The entire Buxton family shares your heartbreak. We know that God will safely enfold you all during this crisis. We pray that Mercer's legacy will guide you through your years with tremendous pride and gratitude.
Sarah Baumann
March 31, 2009
Mrs. Oast and girls,
I have been thinking about you all constantly since hearing about Mr. Oast's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
March 31, 2009
Sharon. Katherine and Courtney. There are no words to express how sad, shocked and sorry we are to hear of your great loss. Mercer was not only Feli's "American father" but also a very special friend to all of us. He loved the adventure and his enthusiasm will always be part of our memory.
May the thought that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you comfort you.
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Gerhard, Dorothee, Feli and Ise
Ron Bright
March 31, 2009
My condolences and prayers go out to Mercer's family. Mercer was one of the most like able people I ever met. I only paddles with him a few times on the river, but spent many Sundays in the pool at HPU with him. Mercer will be sadly missed.
Ann Somers
March 31, 2009
Mercer was a ton of fun. I loved talking with him because he was interested in everything and knowledgeable about so many subjects-or at least enough to carry on an lively conversation. He was always joking on the river. I had a great time paddling with him every time and especially riding with him to the French Broad River last spring. All the members of the Smith River Valley Canoe Club will hold him in our hearts for as long as we live.
Andrea Jones
March 31, 2009
Mercer was a fine person and a paddler who always enjoyed a beautiful day on the river. I paddled with him regularly for the last several years on the Russell Fork near Haysi, VA during the fall releases. His exuberance and willingness were always something to behold.
Thanks, Mercer, for the memories. I think we now have a name for that unnamed rapid below 20 Stitches.
Charles Allen
March 31, 2009
Sharon, Katharine & Courtney,
I had the privilege of knowing Mercer through Gate City Rotary. As District Governor of District 7690 for 2008-2009 I've gotten to know Mercer over the past two years as a Rotarian committed to excellence in his passion to assist and reach out to others. I'm saddened for your loss and want you to know my prayer is for God's grace to embrace & comfort you at this time.
March 31, 2009
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. We enjoyed working with Mercer at First Citizens Bank in the Sunbury office. I also enjoyed keeping up with Sharon and the girls and especially his special mother-in-law, who was my high school business teacher. Sympathy and prayers. Susan Oliver Casper and Jeanette P. Floyd
March 31, 2009
Mercer was a great fraternity brother. I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family!
Tommy Chowns
Vince & Gail Howard
March 31, 2009
Our prayers go out for Mercer and his family. He was a wonderful man and a very respected individual.
Andy Saunders
March 31, 2009
I met Mercer at Atlantic Christian College and was a frat brother of his. He was a very nice guy. I am sorry to hear about his passing. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Jeff Wold
March 31, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Mercer will be sadly missed.
March 31, 2009
My deepest and sincere condolences and prayers to Mercer's wife Sharon and his daughters Katherine and Courtney.
Mercer was a friend to all on the river and off, one of the kindest souls I have ever known. I paddled with Mercer on and off at time for the past serveral years and always enjoyed his company. He was truely geniune and alway appreciated his friends and those who paddled with him.
My last recollecton of Mercer was at his first run of Wilson Creek Gorge in last December and what a great time he had that day, I will remember him the big smile on his face when we got off that day always. We will all miss Mercer but remember him with that same warm smile and as the friend he always was to all of us - a blessing to those who knew him.
Ed Boswell (aka paddlin-ed)
March 31, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Charlie and Jean Hobbs, Elizabeth City
Mary, George, Isa Thomas
March 31, 2009
Sharon, Katherine & Courtney, Mercer was such a special person. He always thought outside the box. He will truly be missed.
God Bless to you and his family.
March 31, 2009
Sharon and Family: My prayers are with you all, what a wonderful man and he will be missed a lot. Until you meet again and you will, remember all of life's blessing you had with each other; sounds like so many. God Bless!
Tammie Craig (Carolina Bank)
Marion Lyndon
March 31, 2009
My thoughts are prayers are with you during this difficult time. Mercer was one of kind and will be missed.
Tim Bryson
March 31, 2009
I am deeply sadden by the loss of such a great man. I always told him, "You are not my banker, you are my friend", and that is the way he treated everyone. I will miss his random calls to "CHECK IN" just to talk. Anyone who knew Mercer was lucky and blessed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Mercer will be missed but never forgotten!
Ralph DeGenova
March 31, 2009
Sharon, katherine & Courtney, we are truly sorry over the loss of Mercer. Over the years we have shared many great times cruising the highways and byways as well as social gatherings. Mercer was a man of power and compassion and will be missed by all. God Bless, Love, Ralph & Lynn
Kathryne Martin
March 31, 2009
Sharon,
I am so very sorry about your loss. Mercer was a truly unique individual. He never failed to make everybody laugh. I last saw him at his father's funeral a couple of months ago and we reminisced about how much fun we had growing up and going on boat trips. We both agreed it was some of the best times of our lives. I will always treasure my memories of Mercer.
Kathryne Pope Martin
Kay Acurio
March 31, 2009
Our hearts & prayers go out to all of you. Erika went to River Road with Courtney. Much love & many hugs go out to all of you. In His Love, Kay, Erika, & Ruben Acurio
Michael Davis
March 31, 2009
Mercer and I would often talk fly fishing and woodworking while at motorcycle club functions. He was diverse and talented and a first class person.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family and he will be missed.
Bill Stakes
March 31, 2009
Even though I haven't seen Mercer and Sharon in years I will always remeber your great friendship and days together in college. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.
May God bless you and keep you in the days to come.
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