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Phyllis Fary Obituary
Portsmouth - Phyllis Wiggins Fary, 96 years old, died August 21, 2016 at home.
For the last two years of her life, she was lovingly cared for by her two caregivers, Afia and Yuanita in her home where she could be surrounded by her family, friends and her precious dog, Sammie. She was predeceased by her husband, Albert Littleton Fary Sr., one son, Lawrence W. Fary, her son in law, Roy William (Billy) Adams, her parents Robert W. and Gertrude G. Wiggins and two brothers, Oird Keith and S. Carter. She is survived by one daughter, Margot F. Adams, one son, Albert L. Fary Jr. and wife Marilyn, eight grandchildren and seven great grandchildren, several nieces, nephews, many dear friends and Sammie.
Mrs. Fary was retired from Chesapeake Public Schools. As beloved Principal of the Chesapeake Demonstration School, she created an environment for children to meet success in learning and modeled how to be lovingly respectful and confident in life. Her touch will be felt for generations to come. She loved her God, her family, her school family, her friends, her animals, her country and the arts. She was a member of St. Christopher's Episcopal Church.
A memorial service will be held at St. Christopher's Episcopal Church, 3300 Cedar Lane, Portsmouth, VA 23703 on Sunday, August 28, 2016 at 1:00 p.m. by The Rev. Julia Dorsey Reed Loomis.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Christopher's Episcopal Church or The Animal Assistance League, 1149 New Mill Dr., Chesapeake, VA 23322. Condolences may be registered at BWFosterFuneralHome.com.
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Allison and Cindy Holthoff
August 30, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sorry to hear about your aunt , Mary Jo and Tammy
David Hart
August 29, 2016
Mrs. Fary,
I will always regret never having the opportunity to personally thank you for all you and so many others did to make CDS the special place that it was. You and all of the faculty and staff of that school were not just supremely gifted educators but loving and dedicated people as well. Rest in peace knowing that you changed the lives of so many for the better and once again, thank you.
dianne frederick
August 27, 2016
Margot, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I was not fortunate enough to have known her but I always knew how special she was to you. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Pat Hart
August 27, 2016
We loved Phyllis and her love for children and her sense of humor. She was a kind loving person who was so inspiring to be around. Will miss her!
August 27, 2016
Bert, you and your whole family have my deepest condolences on the loss of your dear, sweet mother. She was a shining light to all of us growing up and now that we can look back on her impact on so many lives. We lost our mother two years ago and not a day goes by that we don't see or think of a way she molded our lives from day one. They are both at rest an peace. Your friend, Jim Gaskins, Jacksonville, FL
Ruth Carol & Bob Coulbourne
August 26, 2016
Dear Bert & Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family with the passing of your mother and our long time neighbor and family friend.
Phyllis was a good next door neighbor to my parents, Ruth and Charles Culpepper while they were live, and today, a good next door neighbor mentor and friend to Bob and I.
We are saddened by your loss and our inability to attend Phyllis's Memorial Service, but will visit with you soon. because we are out of town.
Barbara Crumb
August 26, 2016
Rest in peace Mrs. Fary. Always had the highest regard for you. You always were kind to me and my family, especially my son. I know God has called a wonderful person to be his servant. My condolences to the family.
August 26, 2016
Bert, Margot, the Fary and Wiggins families,
We are saddened to learn of the passing of our favorite aunt and sister in law. You and Phyllis remain in our thoughts and prayers.
The Wiggins family north, Mike, Nicolle, Irene and Bob
Anna Teeuwen Davis
August 25, 2016
Mrs. Fary was a loved principal of a wonderful elementary school. I can honestly say my two sons, now in their late 40s reaped so much benefit from having attended the school. I will always remember the wonderful staff Mrs. Fary had. She was the glue that shaped so many, my sons included. I continue to have such fond memories of Mrs. Fary and the Demonstration School, as do my sons, Erik & Joseph Cofer. She touched so many lives.
Bernie Kirsch
August 25, 2016
Bert:
My deepest sympathy to you and your family upon the death of your mother this week.
She was a true community servant dedicated to making the lives of those around her better.
She lived a long and very full and rewarding life and folks who knew her well will surely hold her in their hearts.
August 24, 2016
Bert, your mother was a dear lady who was a constant in that generation that molded all of us. I know you miss her, but she's at peace. Jim Gaskins, Jacksonville, FL.
Larry Gaskins
August 24, 2016
Mary Ann and I extend our heartfelt condolences to Bert, Margot, and the entire family of Mrs. Fary. She meant a great deal to our family as a teacher and special friend. I will always appreciate her kindness and hospitality. She had a warm and beautiful countenance and will be missed.
August 24, 2016
Mrs. Fary has always had a special place in the hearts of the Ricks' family. The days of the Chesapeake Demonstration School were special and Mrs. Fary made them so. We are so sorry to learn of her passing and extend our sympathy to her family. She will never be forgotten. Ann Ricks
Judi Evans McArthur
August 24, 2016
I was saddened to hear about Phyllis and have many nice memories of her during my teaching career. She was nice to everyone, a lover of all children and all animals, and was the very essence of Chesapeake Demonstration School. She will be missed. Her family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Cliff and Laurie Forrest
August 24, 2016
Bert,
Sending prayers and heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Doris Wiggins Unser
August 24, 2016
Margot, Phyllis was my idol, my mentor, and my friend. She influenced my life in so many ways. My heart goes out to you.
Linda Sterling
August 24, 2016
Margot,
I remember your Mother well from so many years ago.I remember her vibrant personality. I know that this is a time of sadness for you and may our God give you comfort and peace in the days ahead. May your sweetest memories of your Mother make you smile again. Keep a song of remembrance in your heart.
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