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Thomas J. Miklos Sr. VIRGINIA BEACH - Retired Cmdr. Thomas J. Miklos Sr., devoted husband and father, died Sept. 2, 2009, in his Palm Coast, Fla., home at the age of 75. Tom was born Feb. 19, 1934, in South Norwalk, Conn., to Joseph and Anna (Pogany) Miklos. He was the youngest of four children. He married Angela Lombardi April 12, 1958, in South Norwalk. The United States Naval Academy conferred a bachelor's degree on Tom in 1957. Prior to admission to the Naval Academy, Tom, a recipient of a football scholarship, attended the University of Connecticut for one year. He earned a master's degree in mechanical engineering from the United States Navy Post Graduate School in Monterey, Calif. He served 22 years as an engineering duty officer in the United States Navy. His military career included tours on destroyers, an aircraft carrier, shipyard and staff assignments. He retired from the Navy in 1979. In 1981, Tom, as part of a four-person team, founded American Systems Engineering Corporation (AMSEC) in Virginia Beach. While under their helm, AMSEC's success as a small business was featured in TIME (May 5, 1986) and INC. magazines. He worked at AMSEC as a vice president until his retirement in 1989. Tom moved to Palm Coast in 1994 to a home he designed. Throughout his life, Tom was active in church throughout his life from serving as an altar boy as a child to most recently as a Eucharistic minister at Santa Maria Del Mar Catholic Church in Flagler Beach, Fla. An avid golfer, Tom was a member of the Matanzas Men's Golf Association. From playing quarterback for Norwalk High and for UCONN to watching college and professional games, Tom had a true love of football. In addition, Tom enjoyed fishing, playing cards, and spending time with his granddaughters. Tom is survived by his wife, Angela of Palm Coast; son, Thomas Jr., daughter-in-law, Catherine (Simmons); granddaughters, Gabrielle and Caitlin; brother, Joseph; sister, Dorothy Roberts, who resides in Virginia Beach. He was preceded in death by his parents and his sister, Veronica Hippensteel. In addition, Tom leaves behind many friends and relatives to cherish his memory. A memorial service will be held at St. Nicholas Catholic Church, Virginia Beach, on Saturday, Sept. 19, at 11 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Stuart F. Meyer Hospice House, 150 Memorial Medical Parkway, Palm Coast, FL 32164.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Sep. 6, 2009.

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Kenneth Sydow

September 21, 2009

To the Miklos Family: I did not join AMSEC until July 1989, and so did not get to work with Tom, but his name was legend and his many contributions to the company continued long after he'd left.

Please accept my sincere sympathy. Ken Sydow

Jack Greenhalgh

September 8, 2009

I will always remember how vital Tom was to the founding and success of AMSEC. Both business partner and friend, he will be missed. Muriel and I send our prayers to everyone in the family.

Sybil & Bill West

September 8, 2009

Dear Angela and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Tom was one of the really good guys -- a friend, a classmate, and a 13th company-mate at the Naval Academy. We enjoyed and are so thankful for the opportunity to share some catch-up time with you at the 50th Reunion.

You and the family are in our prayers.

Jim Miklos

September 7, 2009

Eternal rest grant unto him o Lord, and let the perpetual light shine upon him. May the soul of Tom Miklos, through the mercy of God rest in peace Amen. We love and miss you Uncle Tom. Jim, Lori, and the girls.

Cindy Parker

September 6, 2009

Tom, Catherine and Family: We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Cindy Parker and Family

Chuck Needham

September 6, 2009

Tom, Catherine and family. I am sorry to hear of your loss. Your father probably knew my father in law, Bob Jones, who owned Q.E.D. Systems and graduated from the USNA in 1958, also an avid golfer. I lost my father 6 weeks before my father in law passed and it was really tough, but cherishing the wonderful memories really helps. Keep the memories alive and the smiles will soon return to your face after the greaving is done. Our prayers go out to you.

Chuck Needham and family

Catherine Miklos

September 6, 2009

As the girls rise out of bed, I remember him always telling them when they woke up:

Good morning, Mary Sunshine! What makes you rise so soon? You chase away the stars at night and far outshine the moon.

Pepa will be sorely missed.

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