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Thomas Baxter Shell Jr.

1947 - 2019

Thomas Baxter Shell Jr. obituary, 1947-2019, Virginia Beach, VA

BORN

1947

DIED

2019

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H.D Oliver Funeral Apartments, Inc. - Laskin Road Chapel

2002 Laskin Road

Virginia Beach, Virginia

Thomas Shell Obituary

Thomas (Tommy) Baxter Shell, Jr., 71, a beautiful and faithful soul to all who were blessed with the opportunity to know, honor and love him, went to be in God’s eternal home on May 21, 2019. He was born in Norfolk, VA on September 1, 1947 to the late Thomas B. Shell, Sr. and the late Clara Crikmore Shell. He lived in Virginia Beach (Sandbridge), VA and Ft. Myers, FL, graduated from Norview High School in 1965 and attended Old Dominion University. He was married to his loving wife, Linda Brown Shell, for 22 years. Surviving him and cherishing his legacy and unselfish generosity are his wife Linda, cousin-Jerry Shell (Kay), cousin-Marie Exum (Bruce), Linda’s family - Tina Brown, Vonnie Whitworth (Tom) and Jennifer Estes (Gene), Steven Jahnke (Kim), as well as, many other extended family members. In addition, he was an inspirational role model to two very special young men whom he loved dearly, Rob Lindauer and Jeremy McClendon. He also relied heavily on the services of Jim, Lynn, Cindy, Tina, Robert, Sergio, Kristy, Jack and more who were instrumental in his success.He served as Commodore of the Landings Yacht Club in 2016-17. His Florida family of friends brought an amazing life of cruising onboard his beautiful “Shells of the Sea�, a love for extraordinary sunsets along the Caloosahatchee River and dancing to hours of “Beach Music� with Linda by his side. Tommy served on the Sandbridge Rescue Squad for 13 years. He was co-owner of Sandbridge Realty since 1992. Business partner, Betsy Atkinson, and Sandbridge Realty staff will miss his special gifts for bringing out the best in others and lifting up those who would seek his counsel. Tommy was also one of four original partners who formed CCP Commercial Real Estate in 2013. His leadership and guidance was instrumental in growing the company to its present success. He proudly served in the U.S. Army and National Guard for 22 years, ending his service in Battery C, 3rd Battalion, 111th Artillery, AAA Anti-Aircraft Artillery. He was also a General’s Aide to General Bill McCaddin of Richmond, VA and retired with the rank of Major.In lieu of flowers, the family asks that memorial donations be made to the Sandbridge Volunteer Rescue Squad, 305 Sandbridge Road, Va. Beach, VA 23456. The family will receive friends on Tuesday, May 28, 2019 from 6 to 8 pm at H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts. Laskin Road Chapel. Funeral service will be held at 1:30 pm on May 29, 2019, Nimmo United Methodist Church, 2200 Princess Anne Rd., Va. Beach, VA 23456. The burial, reserved for family only, will follow in Norfolk. A Celebration of Life will take place from 4-6 pm at Princess Anne Country Club in Virginia Beach. Online condolences may be made at www.hdoliver.com

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on May 26, 2019.

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June 20, 2019

Linda, we're so dissapointed we missed the service, we've been out of town a lot and just found out. I can't begin to express my sadness, Tom without a doubt was one of the most generous gentleman I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. He was no stranger to anyone;his zest for life was contagious to all.
We are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

David & Nancy Wills

Robert Misfeldt

May 29, 2019

He truly has always been a free spirit. Staying true to his humble ways and willing to give in any aspect he could. Thank you personally for making everyone feel not only invited but welcomed and comfortable in your presence. You were always the warmth of the event no matter the occasion. Thank you for sharing such a kind soul.

GERALD AND ARDIS PHELPS

May 29, 2019

OUR SORROW AND SADNESS FOR THE LOST OF A FRIEND AND NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR. IT IS WONDERFUL TO KNOW AND TO HEAR AND READ THE LOVE AND MEMORIES OF A MAN OF CHARACTER WITH A STRONG WORK ETHIC. HIS SERVICE TO HIS COUNTRY, COMMUNITY, AND HIS ENJOYMENT OF LIFE, IS AN INSPIRATION TO ALL OF US.

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May 28, 2019

Dear Linda and Family, Tommy was an inspiration to all of us. He will be truly be missed. We are so sorry for your families loss. May your heart be filled wit-this loving memories.

chip fraser

May 27, 2019

what a gentleman! It was a pleadure to call him a friend...

Dave Iannuzzi

May 27, 2019

I was young and wandering and Tom saw something in me that I couldn't see. He wasn't just a boss, he was a friend He will always have a special place in my heart.

Lindy Casale-Rinaldi

May 27, 2019

His love and light will shine forever..

May 27, 2019

It is still so hard to believe a man like him is gone. Bigger than life was he. His smile and generous heart, a guiding light for all to see. I so admire the love you two shared. You truly still are an inspiration. Some of my best yachting memories include you two. My heart goes out to you and all those whose life he touched. Much love, Joanne

Janet Coulson

May 27, 2019

Tom was such an inspiring and positive man. He will be missed greatly. Sending all our love to Linda and family. Eric & Janet Coulson

Elaine Burgess

May 26, 2019

My thoughts and prayers go out to Linda during this difficult time. Tommy was the love of her life and together they were the perfect couple. Their time together was too brief. I am grateful to have known Tommy and enjoyed his and Linda's company many times over the years. He will be missed.

Barbara Deal

May 26, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. He was such a caring and loving man.

Laura Jahnke

May 26, 2019

Dearest Linda and Family, My condolences to you and your family . I am very saddened to know of your loss. A life taken so soon. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts. May your heart be filled with loving memories and peaceful thoughts.God be with you in this time of sorrow. Laura Jahnke

Little Island Crew 1988

Kendra McQueen

May 26, 2019

I had some of the best summers of my life working as a lifeguard for Tom Shell at Little Island Park in Sandbridge. He was a very kind and inspirational person. I know he is dancing the Carolina Shag to his favorite beach music in Heaven. Peace be with all of you in this difficult time; I am happy to have known him. ❤

Dr. Samuel Ina

May 25, 2019

We were shocked to learn of Toms passing. He was always smiling and friendly and will be missed. We hope your many pleasant memories of him will somehow ease the pain of so great a loss. He will be remembered in our thoughts and prayers. Love. Sam&Carol Ina

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2002 Laskin Road, Virginia Beach, VA

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2200 Princess Anne Rd., Va. Beach, VA

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