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June 20, 2019
Linda, we're so dissapointed we missed the service, we've been out of town a lot and just found out. I can't begin to express my sadness, Tom without a doubt was one of the most generous gentleman I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. He was no stranger to anyone;his zest for life was contagious to all.
We are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
David & Nancy Wills
Robert Misfeldt
May 29, 2019
He truly has always been a free spirit. Staying true to his humble ways and willing to give in any aspect he could. Thank you personally for making everyone feel not only invited but welcomed and comfortable in your presence. You were always the warmth of the event no matter the occasion. Thank you for sharing such a kind soul.
GERALD AND ARDIS PHELPS
May 29, 2019
OUR SORROW AND SADNESS FOR THE LOST OF A FRIEND AND NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR. IT IS WONDERFUL TO KNOW AND TO HEAR AND READ THE LOVE AND MEMORIES OF A MAN OF CHARACTER WITH A STRONG WORK ETHIC. HIS SERVICE TO HIS COUNTRY, COMMUNITY, AND HIS ENJOYMENT OF LIFE, IS AN INSPIRATION TO ALL OF US.
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May 28, 2019
Dear Linda and Family, Tommy was an inspiration to all of us. He will be truly be missed. We are so sorry for your families loss. May your heart be filled wit-this loving memories.
chip fraser
May 27, 2019
what a gentleman! It was a pleadure to call him a friend...
Dave Iannuzzi
May 27, 2019
I was young and wandering and Tom saw something in me that I couldn't see. He wasn't just a boss, he was a friend He will always have a special place in my heart.
Lindy Casale-Rinaldi
May 27, 2019
His love and light will shine forever..
May 27, 2019
It is still so hard to believe a man like him is gone. Bigger than life was he. His smile and generous heart, a guiding light for all to see. I so admire the love you two shared. You truly still are an inspiration. Some of my best yachting memories include you two. My heart goes out to you and all those whose life he touched. Much love, Joanne
Janet Coulson
May 27, 2019
Tom was such an inspiring and positive man. He will be missed greatly. Sending all our love to Linda and family. Eric & Janet Coulson
Elaine Burgess
May 26, 2019
My thoughts and prayers go out to Linda during this difficult time. Tommy was the love of her life and together they were the perfect couple. Their time together was too brief. I am grateful to have known Tommy and enjoyed his and Linda's company many times over the years. He will be missed.
Barbara Deal
May 26, 2019
I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. He was such a caring and loving man.
Laura Jahnke
May 26, 2019
Dearest Linda and Family, My condolences to you and your family . I am very saddened to know of your loss. A life taken so soon. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts. May your heart be filled with loving memories and peaceful thoughts.God be with you in this time of sorrow. Laura Jahnke

Little Island Crew 1988
Kendra McQueen
May 26, 2019
I had some of the best summers of my life working as a lifeguard for Tom Shell at Little Island Park in Sandbridge. He was a very kind and inspirational person. I know he is dancing the Carolina Shag to his favorite beach music in Heaven. Peace be with all of you in this difficult time; I am happy to have known him. ❤
Dr. Samuel Ina
May 25, 2019
We were shocked to learn of Toms passing. He was always smiling and friendly and will be missed. We hope your many pleasant memories of him will somehow ease the pain of so great a loss. He will be remembered in our thoughts and prayers. Love. Sam&Carol Ina
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