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Thomas Nelson Waller, Sr. passed away peacefully, at home, with his family beside him on Friday, July 1, 2022. Tom leaves behind two children, two step children and five grandchildren: Tom Waller, Jr. and his wife Mary and their child Sarah, Mary Allen Waller, Taylor Dunn Kelly and her husband Michael and their two children Eamon and Cecilia and Wilcox Dunn and his wife Elizabeth and their two children Lelia and Maddie.

Born in Christiansburg, VA, on October 10,1930, Tom spent his childhood years in Blacksburg, VA and later graduated from Virginia Polytechnic Institute (Va. Tech) as a very proud Hokie. His ROTC experience at VPI led him to a decades long career in the U.S. Army Reserves, ultimately retiring as a full Colonel. Tom started his family and his business career in Lynchburg, VA. While in Lynchburg for more than twenty years, he held various management roles at Babcox & Wilcox, WLVA, Lynchburg Chamber of Commerce, and the Virginia Department of Economic Development. He later moved to Virginia Beach to continue his work in economic development for the town of Suffolk until his retirement. Tom is predeceased by both his first wife Nona Allen and his second wife Smiley Hubard.Tom, known to his grandchildren as Opa, was devoted to his family, his country, his church and to living his best life. He was an avid, international traveler and reader and never ceased to be curious about the world around him. He loved good food, good wine and a good glass of Irish. He will be missed by all who knew and loved him.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Aug. 7, 2022.

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Bernie Kirsch

August 7, 2022

Tom, Smiley and my wife ,Donna became friends when we were North End neighbors forty years ago. He was a great guy to visit in the evening on walks on the feeder road...always with polite, interesting and entertaining conversations. He introduced me to the phrase in response to "How are you?"..."Not bad for my age and my lifetime of bad habits"... which I used from age 42 till yesterday.
He was a hail fellow well met.

May he be remembered for his kindness and rest in everlasting peace.

I remember him fondly.

Bob Bradford

August 3, 2022

Tommy and I grew up together in Blacksburg and I was so sorry to hear of his passing. We were good friends and got into lots of trouble together. Lost track of each other over the years. I live now in Folsom, CA. So sorry.

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