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for Victor Decker
Meg & Carey Manugo
November 4, 2010
Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers as you mourn this tragic loss. My husband and I both taught Victor, and we have such fond memories of his smile, sense of humor, and those crazy blond curls! We are so pleased (and not surprised) to see his professional and personal success as a decorated police officer and a loving husband and father. His caring and geniune personality made him a joy to know and to teach. Please accept our deepest sympathy and condolences.
Mr. & Mrs. Thomas Phillips
November 2, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Decker family and the Norfolk Police Dept. In peace and understanding...
Mr & Mrs AM1 Stidham
November 1, 2010
As we sit here trying to make sense of it all. We say to ourselves "How could one of our own Officers take such a fall."
We fight crime all day to protect and serve This type of tragedy we don't deserve. Taken Much Too Soon!
Although you were only known for such a short period of time That great smile and joy of laughter will weigh heavily on our minds.
You may be gone from this world, as we know in sight But memories of you, we will hold in our heart ever so tight.
Taken Much Too Soon! Here today and gone tomorrow Our deepest sympathies go out to your family during their time of sorrow.
Yet taken from us at the tender age of twenty-five We can only say "The Lord had other plans for you"
So go on dear Victor, on to a better place You have fought your battle, and run your last race.
So do us a favor and watch over us throughout the days and nights Because you my friend will be in our thoughts, Good Night!
"Taken Much Too Soon"
Megan Rooney
November 1, 2010
Decker Family and NPD,
My words cannot heal your pain but my heart shares your sadness. Rest in Peace my brother....Its our watch NOW!
C Pisani
November 1, 2010
Just in meeting Vic a few times through my boyfriend, who is also a Norfolk police officer, he seemed like a great guy - very sweet. The memorial service was absolutely beautiful and my heart goes out to Dawn, baby Charlotte and family. Baby Charlotte - may you grow up knowing your father was a hero. May God bless you all.
Grace &Steve Rose
November 1, 2010
Words cannot express my true feelings for your loss and what you may be going through. May Victor rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of your family and friends. Sincerely, Grace & Steve Rose, Virginia Beach.
Sandra Gearhart
November 1, 2010
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Mary Anne Vandivort
October 31, 2010
The world is a better place & Norfolk a better city because of Victor having been here. My thoughts, prayers & sympathy to his family, friends & fellow police officers.
Leslie Rutherford
October 31, 2010
Dawn, I was so sad to her about Victor, but so pleased to know that his life was making such a difference. I remember him always wanting to be a police officer; to know he achieved his goal is precious to me. I watched some of your interview online, and I am proud of the heroic woman you have become. You and your daughter will be in my prayers always.
October 31, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. May God be with you at this time and give you strength.
October 30, 2010
God Bless the family and remember he will be watching over you all
KENNETH SMOAK
October 30, 2010
as a native of norfolk, and a former va. beach resident, i would like to send my sincerest condolences to OFFICER DECKER'S wife and family. MAY GOD BLESS!
Stephanie Diaz
October 30, 2010
Please accept my deepest sympathies. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Linda Eadie
October 30, 2010
Dawn, I was so shocked when I saw you on TV and realized what was happening to you. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your little one all the best. Take comfort that your husband touched many lives despite his short time and he is remembered so fondly by so many. I am sure you are so proud of him as he was of you. Ms. Cobb was just saying what a likeable young man he was as her student. God bless you and your family.
Melissa Miller
October 30, 2010
My prayers and thoughts go to his wife, daughter, and family. He will always be remembered and missed. You were a great one, Vic, and I'm honored to have known you.
Destiney White
October 30, 2010
My prayers and thought go out to the Decker family. Victor you will never be forgotten. We shared alot of laughs. We will miss you and will never forget you.
Lynn Baker
October 30, 2010
My prayers and thoughts go out to the Decker Family, this story really affected me. God bless you all.
October 30, 2010
To the Decker & Kitchen Family. Our thougts and prayers are with you.
Marlow Family, Virginia Beach
Wendy & Eric Palmer
October 30, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Decker family as well as the NPD. Words can't express the pain and sorrow that everyone must feel. At this time, may God bless you all.
Holly Ellison
October 30, 2010
Rest in Peace Officer Decker. You will always be remembered as a hero. I never met you, but you sounded like an amazing man and a stellar police officer.
Dave Walker
October 30, 2010
Gonna miss you my friend
Sylvia Dempsey
October 30, 2010
Dear Mrs. Decker and family; I did not know your husband, but I am deeply saddened by his death. I have a number of family members who serve as police officers, sheriff deputys and fire dept. personnel. I know how brave and dedicated they are to their jobs and the people that they want to help and protect. My prayers are with you at this time and I pray that God will give you the strength you will need during the coming months.
Sincerely,
Sylvia
Bristol, VA
October 30, 2010
god bless
Billie Clifton
October 30, 2010
I pray the peace of God will rest upon the loved ones Victor has left behind. I first met Victor when he was in Elementary School with my daughter, Jessica. He was such a sweet and beautiful little boy who grew into an amazing young man who cared enough to give back to his. community, taking an oath to keep it safe. My heart goes out to the family. In Jesus' love, Reverend Billie L. Clifton.
Traycee McCall Bailey
October 30, 2010
My heart breaks for this Officer's family. God bless you all...I will keep you in my prayers. I hope his little girl grows up knowing her Daddy was a true hero.
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