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Steven Selman Obituary
ELMWOOD - Steven F. Selman, 58, of rural Elmwood died at 8:10 p.m. Saturday, Jan. 23, 2010, at Proctor Hospital in Peoria.
He was born on Sept. 28, 1951, in Peoria to James Selman and Mariann (Seffer) Selman Herath. He married Sally Groeper on May 20, 1972, in Peoria. She survives.
He is also survived by three sons, Maj. Steven (Katie) Selman Jr. of Tampa, Fla., Scott Selman of Trivoli and Sean (Jennifer) Selman of Elmwood; two sisters; two brothers; and was the proud grandfather of nine grandchildren, Katya, 10, Julia, 9, Adrian, 8, Lisa, 7, Abbey, 5, twins Ryan & Lily, 3, and twins Juliette & Bradley, 2.
He was preceded in death by his parents.
Steve was a 1969 graduate of Limestone Community High School and attended Illinois Central College.
He was a veteran of the Illinois Air National Guard in Bartonville.
Steve owned Pleasant Valley Egg Co. from 1980 to 1990. He then worked for American Pest Control until 1995. During this time, Steve and Sally remodeled an old 1950s barn for the RoadHouse Restaurant, opening on Dec. 31, 1995. The RoadHouse closed Dec. 31, 2010, due to Steve's sudden cancer illness.
Cremation rites have been accorded. The family will attend Mass on Saturday, Jan. 30, at 4 p.m. at St. Patrick's Catholic Church in Elmwood. Recitation of the rosary will follow at 5 p.m. at Oaks-Hines Funeral Home in Elmwood, with visitation following until 8 p.m.
Memorials may be made to the American Cancer Society.
Online condolences are available at www.oakshinesfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
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Clyde & Karen Petty
January 31, 2010
Sally, We are so sorry to hear about Steve. He was a great lifelong friend and will truely be missed. We are so glad we got to see him the last time we were at the Roadhouse. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family during this very difficult time
April and David Mitchell
January 28, 2010
Greg, we are sorry about your brother's passing. You and all your family are in our prayers
Bev & Manuel Fonseca
January 27, 2010
Sally and Sons, please accept our heartfelt sympathy for your loss of Steve. Even though we've never met, we feel we know you through Kerrek, our grandson. Sally, you and Steve were amazing mentors to Kerrek, and you have our greatest appreciation. Please know in your heart that Steve will always be with you through Jesus Christ, Our Lord.
Kent & Lisa Zessin
January 27, 2010
Sally, I hope you can take some comfort that Steve isn't suffering any longer and is at peace. You'll be together again one day.
We remember some of the good ole days we spent with you & Steve at the Warehouse. I know he will be missed by all!
Dan & Kathy Freerking
January 27, 2010
Sally, we are truly sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and the boys at this time.
Treva Ludolph
January 27, 2010
Sally and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Steve was always good to us whenever we came into the Roadhouse. He will be missed. Your family will be in our prayers.
Treva and Eric Ludolph
Joe Rogers
January 27, 2010
Sally, My deepest sympathy to you and the kids.
Steve Selaiden
January 26, 2010
We'll party in Heaven my friend.
Mel Hill
January 26, 2010
The Selman Family,
I always have great memories while working for Steve and Sally at Pleasant Valley Eggs. I am saddened to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts.
Lynnette Carter
January 26, 2010
Sally, I am so sorry for your loss, we all loved Steve, he was such a fun loving guy. Such a sad day. Love Lynnette Carter
Bobby Rogers
January 26, 2010
To the Selman Family, For many years you were like a second family to me. My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. I will never forget the memories I had with Steve and he will be missed forever.
Lee Lewis
January 26, 2010
To all Steve's family and friends I send my deepest condolences.I will raise a glass to your memory my friend.
Dan & Ruth Rusch
January 26, 2010
We are very sorry for your loss. You have our deepest sympathy. May God bless and comfort you during this difficult time.
Ada & Jim Stodgel
January 26, 2010
Our Deepest Sympathy goes out to the family.
Steve was great person and the best chef around.
God Bless you and give you comfort and peace.
January 26, 2010
Aunt Sally, Scott, Sean, Steve Jr.-
So sorry for your loss my love and prayers are with you always. I can't wait to see you and give you all big hugs. I will never forget my Uncle Steve!!! God i miss him so much. Love to all see you soon. Hugs and kisses Laura Ralston
Debbie Miller
January 26, 2010
Steve loved and is loved. He'll forever be as close as a heartbeat, for you carry those you love with you forever.
Ron Hunter
January 26, 2010
Sorry to hear of Steve's passing,one of the good guys,enjoyed many a good steak at "The Roadhouse",Good Food,Good People. Ron Hunter,Piedmont,MO formally Trivoli,IL
Roger Morris
January 26, 2010
Steve, You will be missed. God Bless your family and comfort them in this time of need
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