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Memories and Condolences
for Jay Effross
Karl Dickl
September 25, 2025
Continuing best wishes to the Efross family. With highest regards for Coach Efross. May he continue to rest in peace!
[email protected]
Leon Michael Phillips
November 18, 2021
I still think of you regularly Mr. Effross. You have meant a great deal to me throughout my life. You are still, truly missed.
Richard Holoch
December 16, 2019
Jay and I were roommates at the Phi Mu Delta fraternity house. I think of Jay every now and then because he was a funny guy and a good friend. I grew up near Stroudsburg in Newton, NJ
Kelli Mitchell-Orpen
April 26, 2012
You were a great man.
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February 6, 2011
I'm very sorry I just learned of Jay's passing a few years ago. My deepest sympathy to the family. We went to Clearview together then 7th grade SHS Jr. High then my family departed the SHS area. I never saw Jay again. My condolences.
Lawrence Ashton Berkeley Springs, WV
Kathleen Kelly Halverson
March 19, 2008
I was shocked and saddened to read of Jay's passing. I was a friend of his brother Andy years and years ago(we both went to Bloomsburg U), so I got to know Jay, and he was a very nice guy. I express my deepest sympathy to Mr. and Mrs. Effross, to Jay's sister, to Andy, and to Sarah.
Robyn Bauder
March 12, 2008
I knew his name immediately upon opening the Perspective from Lock Haven University. Shock and extreme sadness for a wonderful person. I had not seen him since graduating from LHU in 1982 but he was a wonderful guy. My condolences to everyone close to him.
Kim Daransky-Rose
November 29, 2007
Just heard about Mr. Efross..even though I only attended SHS for one year I still knew who the man was...he had a wonderful and honest reputation in the school. So sorry he has passed away. Our thougths and prayers are with you.
Paulette Brown
September 22, 2007
My condolences to his family, he was a well liked teacher.
Trish (Goodman) Hackett
August 14, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the Effross family. It seems like I always knew Mr. Effross, Clearview Rec, Gym at the Middle School, Gym at the High School and through Andy. He was a wonderful man and excellant teacher! (class of 88)
Barbara A Roberts- Lake
July 19, 2007
Dear Irv,
I was shocked to hear of the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers have been with you. Although I never met your son, I know the pain you are going through.With many prayers,,,,,,,,,
Barbara
Lisa Berman
July 18, 2007
To the Effross Family,
I was very saddened & surprised to hear of Jay's passing. My heartfelt condolences go out to you all.
N B
July 13, 2007
Mr. Effross was not only a great man but a great teacher. He made everything about school fun. Just passing him in the hallway and saying hello everyday made school better. He will be missed greatly. His death was a shocker, I found out late. My sympathy and prayers go out to his family. God Bless You!
Meghan Wakefield
July 13, 2007
From a former classmate Clearview to SHS. My sympathys go out to Jay's family and Loved ones.
May the light of his life, and memory of his love ever be a flame in your hearts to keep him close to you!
July 11, 2007
I was not a friend of Jay Effross, just an acquaintance, but still, the news of his passing hit me very hard. He was a wonderful teacher, I know this because of my children (he taught all three)...But from the response to his passing, both at his funeral and on these 32 pages of testimony, he was above all a wonderful human being in a multitude of ways. To Mr. and Mrs. Effross, this is a testament to your charactors. To Sarah, from all that I hear, your father has left you his spirit.
My most heartfelt sympathies to the family and friends of Jay Effross. Keep his spirit alive in all of you.
Dawn Ritzie-Beaver class of 97
July 11, 2007
Like so many others, I have several fond memories of coach Effross. Of course he taught many of us gym, but for the girls soccer team he taught us how to be just as good as the boys. It was a shock to see his name in the paper. He will always be remembered as a man so enthralled by life. A spirit like that doesnt just disappear. My condolences to his family.
Tim and Jane Tkach
July 9, 2007
Our condolences to the Effross family. Jay was a very special person to everybody. He always had a smile and Stroudsburg was his life. The 13 years that I had the opportunity to spend with Jay at Stroudsburg was very rewarding. Jay is physically gone from this earth, but his spirit and smile will live forever. He was one of the greatest that makes Stroudsburg High School what it is today: A great school and community with dedicated staff and great kids. Rest in peace Jay!!
Tom Colvin
July 3, 2007
My condolences to the Effross family.
I first remember Jay from playing basketball and soccer agianst him in grade school(I went to Arlington). I last saw him at our class reunion couple years ago. Jay was definitely someone who qualified as being "good people". And all the words here are a great testament to the postive impact he made on people. He will surely be missed.
Robyn Fusciardi
July 3, 2007
Mr. Effross was a very special man; a positive role model, mentor, teacher, confidant, and friend. Prior to meeting him, I recall my older son describing his outstanding personal qualities as a physical education teacher to our family during dinner one night. He described his positive attitude toward all of his students and his endless acts of kindness.
Later, I became acquainted with him through the soccer program as my younger son played for the team.
Last year I had the pleasure of working with Jay in the high school. He demonstrated extreme character to all people he came in contact with; administrators, his colleagues and students.
His compassion for family and moralistic values will always be remembered.One thing was very obvious. Sarah was his whole world. His face lit up whenever they were together. Sarah, your father will be with you always. He loved you more than anything else in this world.
Keith Bolcar
July 3, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the Effross family. From Clearview elementary to SHS class of '78, Jay will always live fondly in my memory. I last saw him at the reunion in 2005 and (as always) shared some laughs. He was a truly a special man. Godspeed my friend.
Judy and Jack Berman
July 2, 2007
Edie and Irv,
We want you to know we are thinking of you and your family. Our most sincere sympathy to you all.
Carol Cleary
July 2, 2007
To The Effross Family- Jay was a wonderful man and colleague. The short time I spent working at the HS, he made easier with his smile and kindness. It is a sad day for our school community to lose such an outstanding teacher. Your family are all in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless. Sarah - hold on to those wonderful memories that you have with your Dad, they will give you strength.
July 2, 2007
Teachers and Coaches have always been known for touching lives. Jay not only touched many lives, he changed and enriched all the lives with which he came in contact. Thank you Jay. Our sincere sympanthy to the family. May you find strenth and peace.
Gregg('00), Todd('04) and Bob & Sally Hallman
Barb
July 2, 2007
To the Effross Family: Please accept my condolences on your loss. I never had the oppurtunity to meet Jay, but whenever I passed him by he always had a smile and good morning. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lori Kelly
July 2, 2007
Mark and I would like to send our deepest sympathy to the Effross Family. I went to school with Jay and his presence here on earth will be missed by too many to count. He will be remembered by all. Mark and Lori Kelly.
Al Schoch
July 2, 2007
I knew Jay since he was a skinny little basketball wanna-be, and watched him become a starter for the Mounties. I can still see his half-court shot against Palmerton during his senior season. During my visits back east in recent years, I would see Jay at the high school doing some sort of activity with students. You don't find that kind of devotion among too many teachers. I'll miss seeing his ever-present smile. Condolences to Marilyn and family.
Al Schoch
SHS Class of 1974
Mary Lee Sebring
July 2, 2007
Dear Effross Family,
I am so sorry to learn about Jay's passing. He is a well loved man and my thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Beth Spedding
July 1, 2007
I was Jay's colleague for a year before moving over to the elementary for the next 5 years...I will never forget your messy desk and that you always stole my pens!! May God keep you...
My deepest condolences to the Effross family.
Tammi Card
July 1, 2007
I was deeply saddened when I heard about Mr. Effross. I had the pleasure of being in one of his classes all four years of high school. He always had a smile on his face. I will never forget his motto of "NO WHINING". He will forever be in my heart. My condolences go out to the entire Effross family.
Chris, Christa (Callahan) and Sofia Forgione
July 1, 2007
We heard the sad news of Mr. Effross' passing while on our family vacation and the Effross family, as well as the Stroudsburg community, did not leave our minds the entire time. Our community has lost a truly inspirational teacher and friend. After having Sarah in class at the Junior High School, I remember asking Mr. Effross what the trick was for raising such an outstanding young woman. I can only hope that our young daughter is as kind-hearted and sincere as Sarah has always been. Please know that your family is in our prayers.
Eric Sebring
July 1, 2007
My deepest sympothy to the Effros family. I graduated with Jay and saw him at the school and he taught my son. Jay was a gentleman and all around nice guy. We have all lost a good friend.
sanguani young
June 30, 2007
Mr. Effross was a true inspiration and it seems so unfair that he is gone so sudden. He will be missed but never forgotten.
Melissa (Janiec) and Matt Reed
June 30, 2007
Mr. Effross touched our lives in such a positive way. Whether it was on the basketball court, on the soccer field, in the classroom , or just in a friendly manner. Our condolences go out to his family.
Shirley Shackelford
June 30, 2007
To The Effross Family, With Deepest sympathy In The Loss of your Beloved Son Jay. May The Lord Bless You In Your Time of Grief. There Are So Many Things That I Think Of that make Me Laugh When I think of Jay Since we Graduated Together In 1978. I Was just Beyond Words, I Was In Total Disbelief. May God Keep You.
Chris
June 30, 2007
Mr. Effross
i only spoke to you once and that was to ask you were my locker was i wish i could've gotten to know u more but unfortunatly i could'nt so just know you'll forever be in our hearts.
thnk you for everything.
Holly Palmer
June 30, 2007
Mr. Effross was one of the best and funniest teachers i ever had. his was the gym class i would always try to get into. He was always so happy and energetic, and he made sure we were too. He would run up and down cheering for both teams and making jokes. He was the "fun" chaperone at the FBLA trip and at prom. I am so sorry that my younger brothers will never have the chance to have him as a teacher. My condolences to his family, and to the students and teachers at SHS.
Eileen & Irving Karpe
June 29, 2007
Expressing sympathy is always difficult. but all we can say is how sorry we are. Our sympathy and warmest thoughts are with you now. Our family contacted us here in Arizona. They share in this message.
Erica Clarke
June 29, 2007
wow...this is so sad... Mr. Effross was the funniest teacher and great person, actually saw him on Saturday but I don't think he remembered me lol, so sad and shocking condolences to the family
Nate Mangan
June 29, 2007
I, like many, met Mr. Effross when i was 3 or 4 years old at Clearview Rec, tagging along with my older bros as Jay ran the show. He taught me about sports, taught me how to drive, taught me about respect and countless other guidance. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family. I'm a better man for having known him, great citizen and great asset to the community. Mr. Effross, You will be missed.
Craig Dellamo
June 29, 2007
My condolences go out to Mr. Effross's family as well as to anyone who knew him. He was a great teacher that always push for the best to come out in his students, he made it a memorable experience at Stroudsburg High School.
R.I.P Mr. Effross
Stacey
June 29, 2007
I am so sad! He was such a wonderful person. He was actually my gym teacher when I was in high school years ago. Always smiling and always so cheerful. We will all miss you!!
Denise Poulos-Spirou
June 29, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Effross family. Jay was my middle school gym teacher and later became my colleague in the Stroudsburg Area School District (I also graduated with Andy). As a teacher and a colleague, he was truly an inspiration. Jay always had a positive attitude and a love for teaching.
God Bless,
Leonard Houloose
June 29, 2007
I grew up a couple of blocks from Jay, spent countless summer mornings and afternoons with him on the baseball diamond or basketball court behind Clearview Elementary. Based upon the content of the other memorials, it's clear that Jay's class, humor and concern for others carried into adulthood, and that a good childhood friend turned into a great man. God Bless Jay and his family.
D'Angelo
June 29, 2007
Dear Sarah,
No one loved you more than your father. I got to see that love first hand when you were in Little Wonders Day Care. I shared many joyful times with you and your dad. One thing I know for sure is, you were the love of his life. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Steve Sommers
June 29, 2007
I knew Jay while he was growing and remember him fondly. The Effross
family has known me since I was born. My heart goes out to you.
Kindest Regards,
Steve Sommers
Coral Gables, Florida
Joe and Vickie Celin
June 29, 2007
We were so saddened to hear of Jay's passing. It has been over 10 years since Vickie and I have left SHS, but Jay's constant smiling glow still remains fresh in our minds. God Bless all who feel his loss. He was a great human being. Rest in peace Jay.
Erika and Alison Feigles
June 29, 2007
Our deepest sympathies to the entire family. He was an exceptional coach and teacher, and above all a wonderful person. His legacy will remain, as will all of the loving memories you have of him.
Christine (Unger) Nowik, SHS Class of 1991
June 29, 2007
My deepest sympathies to the Effross family. Jay was a wonderful teacher, mentor, person. I wish you all peace and strength.
Kathy Snyder
June 29, 2007
It was a great pleasure knowing and playing tennis with Jay Effross, a fun and caring son, brother, father, teacher and coach. He will be sadly missed by his many friends. My heartfelt sympathy to Jay's "Pop," Irv, and his family.
Robin Talbert
June 29, 2007
We were so sad to hear about Jay. We are happy we were able to meet him in May - all the wonderful tributes here seem to capture the dynamic and outgoing man he was. Our sincerest sympathies to the entire family. Bruce Goldstein/Robin Talbert, Elliot and Ben
Mona Lisa Harrison
June 29, 2007
May God be with you Sarah at this time. Though I didn't get a chance to know him better, I could see how proud he was of you and what a help you were to him. Our prayers are with you and your family.
June 29, 2007
To the Effross family:
We all hope for success for our children. We wish that their lives are happy and that they leave positive contributions to their world. Take comfort in the fact that Jay has touched so many lives in such a positive way. He may not have had the gift of a long life but he packed so much good into the years he was given. We all hope for that kind of legacy for our children. Our memories of Jay will always be fond ones. God Bless you all.
Fr. Arthur Conquest, Class of 1995
June 29, 2007
Dear Effross Family,
My deepest sympathies to you during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and in the days to come.
Joshua Wetmore
June 29, 2007
Jay Effross. What a wonderful human being. The best teacher and person one will ever meet in their life. Mr. Effross helped me each year grow as an individual, and I am glad that God has graced me with his presence. Your in a better place. My condolences to Sarah and the rest of the Effross family. Rest In Peace.
June 29, 2007
I met Mr. Effross through one year of gym and sports club. He is an amazing person.. I cant find words to describe him. He could walk into a room and make everyone smile. I am fortunate enough to know such a funny and caring person, yet unfortunate that I didnt get to know him better. Stroudsburg really did lose one of its best.
To the Effross family, and especially Sarah, you are in my prayers.
I will always be thinking about you. You will be missed beyond belief. You will be in our hearts forever.
Mr. Effross, THANK YOU.
Surge Chaudhry
June 29, 2007
Mr. Effross was simply "the man". He always knew the right thing to say and he gave everyone the attention they deserved. As a graduating Senior at the Stroudsburg High School, I realize he is what every guy wants to be when they reach their adulthood. He was full of energy, humor, generosity, and intelligence. His legacy will never be matched and I will miss him. My prayers are out to Sarah and the entire Effross family. He will never be forgotten.
Debbie (Brodt) Gschrey
June 28, 2007
To the Effross Family:
From the time I became friends with Maralyn at Howard Johnsons, Jay was a bright face and cheerful demeanor that became an extra to the bunch as he grew up in high school. You should be very proud of his family and professional accomplishments. I know his death is a shock and I send my deepest sympathy to your family. He was a wonderful person and an invaluable and irreplacable asset to the community. I read about this in the Morning Call this morning. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Maralyn, I will call soon old friends will always be there if you need them.
The Futchko Family
June 28, 2007
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.
Randy Garis
June 28, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy and condolences to all of Jay's family. I didn't see alot of Jay after graduating with him in 1978, but I did hear much about his work. If I would see Jay he would always make his way to see you and make you feel welcome and glad to see him. There was a true sincerity about him, he was a very good man who made a difference, he will be remembered.
Denise Stile Marshall
June 28, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the family of Jay Effross. I feel lucky to have spent my college days with Jay - though I have not been in touch for many years, the tributes from everyone here demonstrate an incredible sense of accomplishment and giving, and that Jay has always remained the kind, funny, wonderful person that I know him to be. The sky is rumbling tonight, Jay, and I know it is because you are up there telling jokes - we're smiling with you.
Kristina
June 28, 2007
Mr. Effross, you always made my day whether it was in class or just seeing you in the hallway. Stroudsburg High is going to miss you so much and I'll never forget you.
Marty and Nanette Sagofsky
June 28, 2007
To the Effross Family and friends,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. Our deepest condolences.
Marcie and Norman Rabinowitz
June 28, 2007
To the Effross family,
With deepest condolences in your time of sorrow.
Bob Bailey
June 28, 2007
On behalf of the entire Pocono Mountain East athletic program we wish to express our deepest sympathies to the Efross family and our friends in the Stroudsburg athletic department. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Erika (Ford) O'Hearn
June 28, 2007
The Coach Effross I remember from being an SHS student over 15 years ago leaves me feeling so saddened tonight, after hearing of his loss. I remember his great pride in our championship boy's basketball team; he was the team's biggest fan and was always a kind, honorable man both on and off the court. I remember his big smiles while carrying around his little daughter after the games. My deepest sympathies go to his family and friends; please know how many lives he touched so positively!
Dirk Sattler
June 28, 2007
The message hit my like a lightening. You always had an ear for me when I needed it. You always helped me when I had problems.
You were just a great person!
Pat Murphy
June 28, 2007
My deepest sympathies to the entire Effross family as well as the community as a whole. A great man has been lost. I had the pleasure of being coached in soccer by him for many years, from YMCA leagues thru high school. Mr. Effross always had a smile. Thank you for the love and respect you showed us all. You will be missed.
S.H.S. Class of 1991
Diane - Artzt
June 28, 2007
Dear Edie and Irv
My family and I are so saddened by Jay's loss. We have only the fondest of memories of him. Our sincere condolences.
Rick Hoover
June 28, 2007
My deepest sympathy goes out to all of Jay's family. Jay was a terrific guy, my best friend in college, my best man for my wedding, and continued to be a great friend over the years. He touched so many lives with his humor and will be missed terribly.
Tony Choida
June 28, 2007
The Effross family will be in my thoughts and prayers. The smile he had for everyone lives in all of us. Let us all pass it on to others as Jay did to us.
Sarah Rusk
June 28, 2007
AAAhhhh the wonderful high school soccer memories...Coach Effross was awesome and I am so lucky to have played for him for four years. I am thinking of you, Sarah, and sending hugs and prayers.
Lianna Newman
June 28, 2007
Mr. Effross was an amazing teacher, coach, and person. I was fortunate enough to have him for gym for two years while at Stroudsburg High. I send my condolences to his family.
Nicole Reincke-Class of 2005
June 28, 2007
Before moving up to the high school and meeting Coach Effross, I already knew how highly respected he was as a teacher and coach. My excitement of being able to play the sport that I love under a man so dominant in the soccer community was undescribable. He has made myself and every one of my teammates throughout the years on the Stroudsburg Girl's Soccer Team better players, and better people. He kept the sport fun, and competitive, and took Stroudsburg soccer to a whole new level. He was the one of the most lively and energetic, halarious people I have ever met. My deepest sympathies go to his family, and Sarah--I love you girl, keep your head up.
Jake Percey
June 28, 2007
To the Effross Family,
My deepest condolences go to each of you and I hope that you will pull through with a smile as Jay would wish you to. I was lucky enough to know Jay for the past 10 - 15 years, as a fellow sports lover, an opposing coach, and a friend. My last memory of time spent with Jay was at the PV/Stroudsburg girls soccer game this spring at PV. I spent the first half of the game talking with Jay. We had laughs, talked soccer and of course talked about Sarah and how she was doing. It was a pleasure knowing Jay, he made you a better person just being around him. I hope we can all remember Jay with a smile, he would have wanted it that way.
Wayne Nilsen
June 28, 2007
The world lost a great person. I always got my classes moved around to get him as a teacher. He was such a good person.
Phyllis&Floyd Genauer
June 28, 2007
What a tragedy! He will always be remembered in our hearts. Our daughter graduated Stroudsburg H.S. in 1990. What a loss to everyone who knew him.
Rachel Byrne
June 28, 2007
Mr.Effross you were such a great person and teacher.
Gym was definitely not my favorite class but you made it enjoyable with your enthusiasm and spirit.
You will be missed terribly.
My deepest sympathy to the Effross family.
You were too good for this earth Mr. Effross.
Rest easy.
Joan Phillips
June 28, 2007
Dear Irv and Eda,
My prayers are with you, what a wonderful outpouring of love for your son. He will be missed. May God Bless you.
Roxane Beharry
June 28, 2007
He was a very nice person and had a great sense of humor. My deepest condolences to his friends and family.
Diane (Brouse) Lobb
June 28, 2007
To the Effross family my deepest sympathy. I met Jay at a Lock Haven homecoming for Phi Mu Delta years ago. He was my big,big,big,big brother at PMD. When I came to ESU to do my masters work he showed me around the area. When I got my teaching job at Bangor High School, everyone knew Jay. His reputation as a teacher/coach and citizen in the community were unbelievable. Peace be with you Jay and your family. We will all miss you!
Scott Reese
June 28, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with the whole Effross family in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
After reading the messages that have been posted, it's great to see that Jay touched so many people lives.
Debbie Edwards
June 28, 2007
My sincere sympathy and prayers to the Effross Family. I played tennis with Jay and his dad once, and often with his dad, who is a very funny and kind man. My heart goes out to you at this difficult time.
Sue Butz-Ellis
June 28, 2007
To the Effross family, Please accept my deepest sympathy. I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Brian Caufield
June 28, 2007
To the Effross Family:
Words cannot express the deep sadness the Stroudsburg community feels nor can they give you all a sense of the profound impact Jay had on so many lives. This guestbook is a reflection of only a fraction of the lives Jay affected.
The joy he brought each day to his students, colleagues, and undoubtedly his family, will never be forgotten. The guidance and instruction he gave to so many will forever live on--and so too will our memories of him.
God Bless Effross family; all of our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Maria Triano
June 28, 2007
Didn't know this great man, but can clearly see the importance of his life.
Gregg Barlie
June 28, 2007
Mr. Effross was one of the greatest individuals I have ever met. His love for teaching is what inspired me to be a physical education teacher myself. He was a teacher, friend, and mentor to me. I hope to become half of the teacher he was and have such a positive influence on so many lives.
Pamela Cahn
June 28, 2007
Irv,Eda & family,
I send my deepest condolences and love. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. The entries in this guest book are a tribute to Jay. They show he will be long remembered for the great son, father, teacher, coach, friend, and human being he truly was.
Bill Robinson
June 28, 2007
I met Jay Effross when I was maybe five years old at the Clearview Elementary summer recreational program. He must have still been in his late teens then, but he was the guy that all the boys and girls wanted to hang around with - because he was fun and he cared! Even at an early age, he was in his element, having fun with kids and playing sports and teaching. While I got to know him in a far different capacity when I was a teenager and he was an educator and Head Basketball Coach at SHS, he never lost the ability to mold lives and to have fun (even though that first Championship Season in 1990 was a stressful nailbiter). "Coach" was a class act and his loss is felt deeply by me personal level and it is a great loss to the community.
Joe Metzgar
June 28, 2007
My deepest sympathies to the Effross family. He was a great man who did a lot for the community. He touched a lot of hearts, and minds, and will be greatly missed.
Casey Melcer - '96
June 28, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the Effross family. Mr. Effross has touched countless lives over the decades in our school and community. He will be missed by all.
Vicki Marin (Shakesaft)
June 28, 2007
I was surprised to hear about Mr. Effross. He was a great teacher and full of life. Every time I saw him in the halls he had a smile on his face. He will be missed.
John Baylor, class of '95
June 28, 2007
My Mom called me this week to tell me that Mr. Effross had passed and I am still in shock. From middle school and high school gym teacher for eight years, since he moved to the high school when our class did, I knew he was a good teacher and good man. One of my fondest/funniest memories is in middle school when he would come into the locker room after 5/6th grade gym class, shouting "Don't forget to put on that deodorant boys!" Another good one is our ping pong battles in high school gym class. He one most of the time using his distracting trash talk. The Stroudsburg community has lost a great man.
Mary (Kunz) Uranowski
June 28, 2007
Mr. Effross was a great influence in many lives; he taught us how to be motivated individuals, not to sweat the small stuff and to shine as bright as the stars in the sky, like he did everyday. He will be greatly missed.
Noelle Kehoe
June 28, 2007
To The Efross Family:
Jay was a very special person who would avail himself to anyone who needed his assistance!! When I first met him at a "Meet the Candidates" Board of Ed. meeting a few years ago, I told him I was interested in applying for a teaching position at SHS. He gave me his email and said I could use him as a reference, and to contact him if I had any questions. He was extremely kind, thoughtful and helpful.
Although I did not know him beyond that one encounter, he demonstrated tremendous character, compassion and sincerity. Our community, school, his family and friends will mourn the loss of a wonderful man!!
I extend my deepest condolescences and sympathy to all who knew him!
Fred Peck
June 28, 2007
I never had the opportunity to meet Jay, but I have been more than fortunate to have a relationship with his father, Irv. Since meeting and working alongside Irv, the things he taught me, both professionally and personally, will always have a profound impact on me. To have him as a father must have been an amazing experience and judging by the outpouring of the community around Jay, he and Eda raised quite an amazing guy. I am very sorry for the loss of your son, the amazing father, teacher and mentor. I cannot comprehend the pain of a loss like this, stay strong and remember to laugh, the Effross way.
-The Pecks
Stroudsburg Alumni 1999
June 28, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the Effross family and all those that knew him. May we all find comfort in knowing that although he is no longer here with us, he will forever live in our memories. Anyone who has ever met Mr. Effross has their own special memory. Stroudsburg High School has lost a great teacher and coach, and the community has lost an amazing man. When times get tough remember Mr. Effross' sense of humor and the smile that he always had, he is now smiling down on all of us.
Leon Michael Phillips
June 28, 2007
Mr. Effross, you are going to be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. I'd like to thank you for always being there for me and others in our times of need.
Rebecca Storm (Shoemaker)
June 28, 2007
Mr. Effross was a wonderful teacher who always stood by his students. I know he will be greatly missed among his SHS family. To the Effross family, you have a wonderful angel looking over you.
Class of 95
Jennifer Munch
June 28, 2007
To the Effross Family-
It is with great saddness that I offer you my deepest condolences. Death is difficult and brings with it a deep mourning.
May you always remember the happy times and fond memories. If we hold those close to us, then we will always keep our loved one alive. I will rememember his great sense of humor, his immense compassion, his "love of the game", his constant dedication to "The Relay for Life", his high energy, and his ability to make even the weakest individual feel strong.
God bless and know I am thinking of you at this dificult time. I thank you for sharing Mr. Effross with all of us over the years.
Sincerely,
Jennifer Munch (Class of 1996)
Sarah Evasic
June 28, 2007
Jay was such a personable guy. He truly did care about everyone he met. I am happy to have known such a wonderful person.
He will surely be missed!
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