Dr. Richard Hellmann II, known to friends and family simply as Dick, or "Dr. Dick", was a lover of life -- an accomplished psychologist in his work life, a passionate world traveler, an avid dancer, and a close friend and confidante to family and friends. Dick died unexpectedly Saturday, Dec. 10, in Stroudsburg, of a heart attack. He was 59.
Born in Bronxville, N.Y., Dick moved with his family to the Stroudsburg area at the age of three, graduating from Stroudsburg High School in 1964. He later graduated from Duke University in 1968, and received his doctorate degree in clinical psychology from the University of Texas in 1979.
Dick's recent professional work included psychotherapy and consultation to patients in a variety of elder care settings for the past 15 years, both in Massachusetts and Pennsylvania. In addition, he maintained a small private practice, often providing his services pro bono.
Prior to this, Dick worked with children, adolescents, and adults, with a diverse range of problems including severe mental illness, developmental disabilities, addictions, as well as those with terminal illness. Much of his work took place in Key West, Fla., where he was a board member of the "Helpline", an organization that provided critical phone support to suicidal callers. He also worked with the local jail, schools systems, churches and taught at community colleges.
His sister, Dr. Margaret Hellmann, states, "In whatever he did, Dick retained the "big picture" perspective, recognizing that we are all in this life for a very short time, and that we better make the most of it. That attitude made him one of the most non-judgmental persons I knew, and it taught me a lot about my own life and work."
Upon returning to his home town, Dick became a deacon in the First Presbyterian Church in Stroudsburg, teaching adult Sunday School, and acting as a resource to the church's pastoral counseling and ministry.
In recent years, he avidly pursued his love of travel and scuba diving, frequently visiting Latin America and Europe, where he had numerous friends. An accomplished linguist, he shared his love of travel with his sisters and friends, who often accompanied him on his adventures. As his friends and traveling companions Jeff and Paul explained, "He was a world ambassador. Dick would always laugh in the face of adversity. Regardless of what went wrong, he would make it amusing."
Survivors include his two sisters, Gertrude Ginsburg of Baltimore, Md., and Margaret Louise Hellmann of Salem, Mass. In addition are his brother-in-law, James Ginsburg of Baltimore, Md., and two nephews, Matthew James Ginsburg, of Chicago, Ill. and Joshua Jackson Ginsburg, of Brooklyn, N.Y. In addition, there are numerous close friends around the United States and in many other parts of the world.
A brief graveside service will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, Dec. 17, at Laurelwood Cemetery.
Visitation with the family will begin at 11:30 a.m., followed by a Memorial Service at 1 p.m., at the First Presbyterian Church of Stroudsburg, 579 Main St.
In the spirit in which Dick lived his life, his family requests that, in lieu of flowers, contributions be made to Heifer International, a non-profit organization whose goal is to help end world hunger and poverty through self-reliance and sustainability, Heifer Project International, P.O. Box 8058, Little Rock, AR/USA 72203, or to a charity of their choice.
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Jerry & Alberto popolis/Martin
December 21, 2005
We met Dick at the gym in stroudsburg shortly after we bought a house in PA.. he became our friend right away. I have fond memories of Dick that will live on in our hearts and minds forever. watching him dance at parties and seeing him living life to the fullest will live on in our memory, we hope to live as good a life as he did and touch as many people as he did. We love Dick, we all Love Dick, and we will never stop loving Dick.
you will be truely missed.
Theo and Uwe Truijens; Tietjen
December 18, 2005
Dr. Dick will always be in our memory. We know him for 5 years and it is to short to say goodbye.
We regret that we do not have him in our middle anymore. But he will never be out of our live.
michele franchino
December 18, 2005
mio caro dr dick,mi manchi,non sai quando.sei stato speciale,e,continuerai ad esserlo tu lo sai siamo speciali.ti voglio bene.occhi come un celo terso,linpido,gentile l anima,chiara,trasparente come l acqua alla sorgente,pura sensazione di freschezza.canditi cristalli e la neve,cuore di fanciullo,innocente.nuvole leggere a spasso nell azzurro dei miei pensieri.sono nei pensieri dell amico mio.
Margaret Hellmann
December 17, 2005
I want to thank everyone who has written here and all those who are thinking about us and remembering all there was about Dick. I did not know about this way of communicating (the online guestbook) and I really appreciate this idea. Feel free to tell others. Dick would like it too. I know there are a lot of people out there who knew Dick and its hard for us to figure out who they all are. He connected with lots of people in lots of different ways.
We all miss him so much - from the sounds of his cheery banter to the thump of his feet down the steps of our home. Again, thank you for your thoughts. Maggee
Marivel Rapee
December 16, 2005
As a nurse I had the great pleasure to have met Dr.Hellman. He always displayed a happy spirit. We made each other laough. He would visit on Fridays on a mothly basis, and I would wear black scrubs on Fridays. He would call me "The angle of death" In a good way. WE laoughed. My thoughts and prayers to friends and family.
Marivel Rapee(Allentown,Pa)
Marie Cohen Boltz
December 16, 2005
I remember babysitting Dick and Tru when they were youngsters. You all were a wonderful family. I join my PARENTS, Murph and Audrey Cohen in extending deepest sympathy to Tru and Margaret and their families.
Dave Torzillo
December 14, 2005
I sat next to Dick in Latin class in 1962. He was a cheerfull, great, fun loving guy. Always with a smile on his face, and an upbeat, positive attitude. I will miss him very much.
Paul Toussaint
December 14, 2005
It was truely a great pleasure to have known Dr. Dick for the few years I have. He was always in good spirits and made me laugh, I have great photos of our trip to Costa Rica, i'll always cherrish. Having him here to help celebrate my Birthday in June was the icing on the cake.
I just wish we had more time togethe.. Thanks Dr. Dick for the smiles..
all my love to your closest friends and family
Paul Toussaint
Dee Luther
December 14, 2005
Maggee and Tru, I am so sorry to hear about Dick's death!
Thomas Lee
December 14, 2005
My sincerest condolences to Maggee, Tru, and all of the Hellmann extended family. I have good memories of Dick's spirit, energy, and zest for life; he will be missed, but his legacy of love and friendship will live on.
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