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Sandra Ecker Obituary
Born in Harrisburg on April 19, 1952, she was the beloved daughter of Samuel Guida of Bartonsville and Ruth (Billow) Guida of Cresco. Sandy attended Pocono Mt. Jointure, graduated from Pocono Central Catholic in 1970 and from The Stroudsburg School of Cosmetology.
She loved the Lord Jesus Christ and knew much about the Bible. She was an extremely generous person and would help anyone in any way that she could. She will be sorely missed.
In addition to her parents, Sandy is survived by her fiancé, Daniel McGuinness, of Blakeslee; two sisters, Marjorie Beers of Swiftwater and Christine Tarnecky of Bartonsville; one brother, Andrew Guida and his wife, Debi, of Greentown; five nieces, Justine Beers, Melody Guida, Stephanie Guida, Nicole Tarnecky and Emily Tarnecky; and two nephews, Jordan Tarnecky and Elijah Beers.
The Rev. David Crosby will conduct a funeral service at 2 p.m. Tuesday, Dec. 30, at Bolock Funeral Home, corner of routes 940 and 390, Paradise Valley. Visitation will be held from 1 p.m. until the time of services at the funeral home.
Interment will follow at Keokee Chapel Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Feed the Children, P.O. Box 36, Oklahoma City, OK 73101-0036.
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for Sandra Ecker
Richard Blauvelt
August 9, 2020
Love you always and forever, Richard Blauvelt
Robert Hall
January 20, 2017
Thoughts and Prayers with the Guida family, I only recently heard of the losses to the Guida Family. God Bless you all.
Melody Guida
January 24, 2009
I remember the time when she used to babysit me alot, when my mom was a photographer. She introduced me to avacodos because she had grown her own. I was only, maybe, 2 or 3 years old. She fed me the avacodos and had me do dishes. I liked that because I felt like I was big and grown up. I remember she was very dramatic in situations, yet, very beautiful. She read me stories when I was a kid to help me fall asleep. She aquired me when I needed her. I love her and know she is with me from time to time
John & Billie Jeffery
January 6, 2009
Our prayers and those of the folks at Wayside Gospel Chapel are that Sandra's family experience the comfort and peace of the Lord during this time of sorrow. Our times are in His hands, and our hope is in Him. May that certainty, and that hope carry you through this deep valley, and draw you closer to Him.
"But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him."
1 Thessalonians 4:13-14
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Kevin Jackson
January 6, 2009
In remembrance of Sandy Ecker we will continue to pray for the Guida family to walk in God's peace that passes your understanding. For those of us who remain, death seems like a loss, but the Apostle Paul reminds us that death has no "sting" and that the grave is actually our final victory. We will see Sandy again.
Ruth Guida
January 5, 2009
Sandy, you were my first born and a loving gentle soul. You faced so many hardships during your life,but, you always had time for others. You truly walked the life Christ wanted all of us to walk. You always forgave those who hurt you the most. Forgiveness is something we need to undergo for Christ has said if you do not forgive then He will not forgive us our sins.
I love you very much and will see you again someday. Love, Mother
Stephanie Guida
January 3, 2009
Aunt Sandy will be greatly missed by all that knew her because her spirit was so uplifting and kind. Our family loved looking forward to holiday get-togethers because we made great memories. She was such a significant part of the family and always brought lots of food that she put her heart and soul into. She didn’t have the opportunity to have children but her nieces and nephews were her children. When I was growing up I would go next door almost every day and she and I would play board games together. It was nice having her live so close at the time. Things will not be the same without her. We will always love and miss her dearly until we all reunite in Heaven.
Love Stephanie
Marjorie Beers
January 2, 2009
Dear Sandy:
I can't believe I will never see you again on this earth. So many times over the past few days I was going to pick up the phone to talk to you, and then I remembered you weren't there. That hurt. We saw so many things the same. You had more understanding than I did, but no self-confidence. But you had a lot more wisdom than most people. I am sure god was most pleased with you.
I wish I helped you more, but I had so many things I had to do- No excuse. You were always giving of yourself. I expect you to have many rewards in Heaven. You and mother reflect Jesus more than anyone I know.
I think of things we wanted to do- go on the Barrett House Tour, go to Okracoke again, but never got around to them. Now we will never get to do them. I am the one who has lost in this and I feel it terribly. No one can take your place.
You didn't get the things you desired on Earth, but I'm sure your every desire is fulfilled now.
I hope you see dear Grandma and Grandpa Billow and Cliffie.
You were so interested in the kids in the family. I thank you so much for all you have done and meant to my kids. They will never forget you. You have helped me immensely in so many ways, and I will love you forever. And when that's done- I'll start all over again!
It just won't be the same without you. See you in eternity.
Love,
Marj
joe hamill
January 1, 2009
dan sorry to hear of your loss my deepest sympathy goes to you and your family, sandy was a very nice lady and a good friend , she will be missed very much God bless you and hang in there remember shes in heaven now and its a beautiful thing
Debi Guida
January 1, 2009
Dearest Sandy,
There are no bad memories of you for our family only good ones. The parties and picinics you threw, were always full of love and laughter.
You were an instant friend when we met so many years ago. You accepted me face value, never made me feel like an outsider to the family.
Sandy, I know our lives and get togethers can never be the same without you, your being gone will leave a void that no other person can ever fill. Yet I believe you will continue to be with us in spirit.
Thank you for your prayers and thoughtfulness throughout the 25 years that I've known you.
You were sorely loved, and will be sorely missed.
I Love You Dear Sandy,
I hope now that you are with your Savior, you have found complete JOY and PEACE that you so desreved.
Love,
Debi G. your sis in law
Katie Jackson
January 1, 2009
I was very saddened when I heard about Sandy's passing. Since childhood I have always remembered her kindness and fun spirit. My heart goes out to the Guida family. May God give everyone peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Eric Iovino
January 1, 2009
It is so hard to say goodbye to the people we love, especially when God takes them from us so suddenly and without warning or preparation. I am still shocked over Sandy's passing, just as the rest of her friends and family are. While I did not know her as well as the family she left behind, it did not take many encounters or conversations with Sandy to get to know the depth of her love and compassion for people, her family, and her faith in Christ. There was an immediate sense of comfort she gave to the people she would come across and who got to know her. I guess you could call it humility, but it was more than that. She was kind, and deeply moved by the things she believed in the most. Although I only had the chance to spend time with her during family events and holidays, I always felt at home talking to her because she was the real deal. No walls or masks, just a kind, gentle spirit who loved the Lord with all of her heart. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her. We love you Aunt Sandy.
Charles Jackson
January 1, 2009
I
am so sorry to hear of your family's loss. Words cannot express how
sorry I am knowing the loss of Sandy.
Please accept my most sincere condolences. We are left behind, only
Sandy now truly knows the Glory of the Heavenly Kingdom You have my
heart-felt sympathy for your loss. May you find peace. My sincere
sympathies to Sandy's family
Rachel Jackson-Ziefle
January 1, 2009
Aunt
Sandy, I vividly remember your kindness towards me and my family and
your great sense of humor. And because of these virtues you will be
greatly missed, remembered and hold a special place in my heart.
daniel mcguinness
December 30, 2008
Sandy,
I can't believe you're gone. This is all a bad dream. You were my world, my best friend, my soul mate. I love you with all my heart. I am so lost without you, it hurts to the core of my soul. You were so caring, honest, loving, compasionate. Most importantly, you led me to Christ. You were always willing to spread the good word, and you prayed for your friends and family daily. My life is so empty without out you in it, your laughter, your jokes, everything that you did for me. You were always at my side and my strongest defender. Your loyalty and compassion for me truly changed my life. You led me out of the wilderness and into the sunlight. Baby, I miss you so much, I just feel numb. The only thing keeping me from falling apart is knowing that you are in heaven now, at peace with Jesus.You brought joy and smiles to everyone you met. You accepted everyone for who they were, and never judged anyone.
Life for me will never be the same without you. God bless you and keep you honey. I love you.
Dan
Donna Pope
December 29, 2008
I was very sad to hear about Sandy going to Heaven, but I know she is in a better place. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Guida family and Sandy's friends at this difficult time... Sandy, I was so fortunate to be able to be with you and the family this summer. It will be the summer I will never forget just as I will never forget you. You were always there for me and Melody, as she was growing up, you always gave good advice, and you were always so kind, caring and loving. I can still hear your laugh. You will be sadly missed by all that knew you, but for now we have to share you with God.
Christine Tarnecky
December 29, 2008
Sandy,
My beloved sister. I can't believe that you aren't with us anymore. Our family will forever have a missing piece. We will love and miss you forever!
What a blessing it was that God picked you to be one of my sisters.
You're caring, giving and unselfishness will carry on.
My love for you, will be everlasting. Rest in peace...my dear sister. I Love You with all my heart.
Love Forever,
Your "little" sister
Chris
XXXOOO
Henry Tarnecky
December 29, 2008
Her caring heart will be sincerely missed... I can't believe she is gone. I feel so fortunate to have seen her on Christmas day and to have recevied her loving gift of Christmas cookies. My heart felt prayers go out to her dear family and friends for their loss. I know God will advance her soul in loving peace.
Elijah Beers
December 29, 2008
Aunt Sandy,
You were always there for us when we needed help throughout the years. You gave us memories that won't ever be forgotten. You taught us things that will help us in the years still to come. The most important of your lessons was to be generous no matter what your own circumstances are. Although our family has gone through hardships, I'm sure we can live in a way that would honor you. You will always be in our thoughts and in our hearts.
Love, your nephew,
Eli
kathi maher
December 29, 2008
Sandy,
You were so kind to every one and every thing. Your kind and quiet nature will be missed by all. Especially your soul-mate Dan and your loving family.
Rest in peace in God's Heavenly Arms.
God Bless,
Kathi & Tom Maher
Nicole Tarnecky
December 29, 2008
Aunt Sandy,
I can't believe that you are gone...you will always be in my heart!! I will always remember your laugh and fun loving spirit! I had so much fun with you this Christmas and I was looking forward to spending many more with you. Unfortunately for us, God decided to take you sooner than we ever expected. I hope you are enjoying yourself in heaven...I miss and love you so very much!!
Love,
Nicole
Andy Guida
December 29, 2008
Sandy, I will miss you more than you'll ever know. You were not only a good sister but you were a good human being who cared about others. You were always the first one to remind us that we have to forgive and forget. You were an example for the rest of us. You prayed for others daily and always shared whatever you had with a cheerful heart. Family gatherings will seem so empty without you. I will always love you. Goodbye - for now. Your brother, Andy
Left to right - Mom, Andy, Marj, Dad, Chris, Sandy.
December 29, 2008
We will miss you more than you'll ever know.
December 29, 2008
John Wolfe
December 29, 2008
Although I had not seen Sandy for quite a while, it was still a shock to see her listed here. My sincere condolences to all her family and friends.
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