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Ernest Grenville Obituary

Ernest "Ernie" Grenville passed away on January 31, 2023 at the age of 86, in his home in Florida. His battle with medical issues in his recent years never diminished his love of good conversation including sports and politics along with visits with family and friends.

Ernie was born to Elisa Grenville (Belisle) and Thomas Grenville in Niagara Falls, NY. Prior to his 32 years at Dunlop Tire Corporation as a Senior Manager of Distribution Centers, he graduated from LaSalle High School, attended Kent State University, University of Buffalo and was enlisted in the United States Army. He married the love of his life, Carol (Davenport) Grenville September 7, 1963. They lived in the Western NY area for most of their married life where they were active in their churches in Wilson and Lockport celebrating their Christian faith.

Ernie is predeceased by 2 brothers Thomas & Dennis Grenville and sister Lorraine Welsh. He is survived by his wife of 59 years Carol, daughters Caryn (Bernard) Shanahan, Stacey (Gregory) Potempa; his beloved grandchildren Bridget (Steve) Kneeland, Kyle (Cal) Shanahan, Michael Potempa, Morgan (Ethan) Duryea and Marc Potempa; 2 great-grandchildren, his siblings Theodore Grenville (Malone, NY), Madeline Reece (Youngstown, NY), Sandra Grenville (Alleghany, NY) and several cousins, nieces and nephews.

A memorial service will be at the convenience of the family with internment at Glenwood Cemetery in Lockport, NY.

Donations in lieu of flowers may be sent to Family Church (Port Charlotte, FL), Salvation Army, or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

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Published by Sun Newspapers from Feb. 5 to Feb. 2, 2023.

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Karen Rice Shoup

September 19, 2023

Carol, as I am preparing to return this coming weekend to Keuka Park for the 60th reunion of the class of '63, I began to wonder how and where you are so I began looking. Sadly, I learned of Ernie's recent passing. I am thinking of you and your family and wishing you well. I believe you are living in Florida ? We are in California. I'm so sad that I lost my connection with you. Feel free to call me: 209-605-4411 or drop us a line at 2217 Christmas Tree Ct., Riverbank, CA 95367. Chuck also was sad to hear about Ernie. He was such a nice smart guy.

Patricia Bessette

August 25, 2023

Ernie and Carol had Marty and Pat as guests in their home in Tonawanda NY .Carol and I worked at GMAC in NYC
Pat Attridge O´Gorman Bessette, Naples.

Paul. Von der Empten

February 12, 2023

Carol I am so sorry to hear of Ernie´s passing. He was the best boss I ever had and I friend. My sympathies to you and you whole family.
Paul von der Empten

Stacey Potempa

February 3, 2023

Bill Welsh

February 2, 2023

I fondly recall Uncle Ernie piloting the boat on the Niagara river with Mr Davenport valiantly trying to teach us how to ski. Well...that was hopeless but we had great fun! Loved visiting you on Grand Island. My love to you Aunt Carol and your children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Laurie Millard

February 2, 2023

Whenever Uncle Ernie came to visit, we knew there would be fun! If we were lucky, he would bring his old guitar and we'd sing silly songs. Grateful that in our later years we found ourselves on the same page...see you (just a bit) later Unc!

Stacey Potempa

February 2, 2023

Lynn Manning

February 2, 2023

I have only good memories of Uncle Ernie, as a gentle and kind man. He was loved by us all, especially by his big sister, my mother Lorraine. When I was just a little girl, he seemed like a giant of a man! Well, he was a giant of a man. We are sorry for your loss Aunt Carol. All our love to you and the entire family.

Gillian and Elwood Blake

February 1, 2023

Ernie was a wonderful gentleman and a delight to talk to. He was so knowledgeable in so many subjects but the best conversation was when we talked about the Buffalo Bills. He will be so missed at Waterside Club IV and especially when we were all in the "Pit". Our deepest sympathy to you Carol and your entire family. Love Gillian & Elwood Blake

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