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Ethel Payne Obituary

Payne, Ethel Age 60, of Gary, IN, passed away Saturday, March 16, 2013. She was born to Alpha and Virgil Payne in Gary, IN. She passed away unexpectedly at home. She was a lifetime resident of Gary and was educated in the Gary Schools. She was preceded in death by children, Danielle Payne and Shawn Smith. She leaves to cherish her memory, loving mother and father; devoted son, Joshua (Tramaine) Payne; godson, Mikey Chambers; beloved grandchildren, Shawn Smith Jr, Ja'Liyah, and T'Yauna Payne; loving sisters, Linda (Mark) Walters, LaJuene (Clem) Hollingsworth, and Melinda Harvey; nieces, Tomeko (Kevin) Hopson and Erica (Ephraim) Ruthledge; and nephew, Johnny Warren; special friend, Tyrone Hicks. Ethel truly loved her family, neighborhood, , and city. Memorial Services will be held Friday, March 22, 2013 at 11:00 AM at Guy and Allen Funeral Home, 2959 W. 11th Ave Gary, IN with Reverend Chet J. Johnson officiating.

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Published by Post-Tribune on Mar. 20, 2013.

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LaRhonda Turner

March 27, 2013

Dear family Virgil,Alpha,Linda and Josh, I was shocked and sadden by Ethel's passing.I love and miss you very much i have not forgotten anything, I was Shawn first babysitter and Tomeko's I had so much fun and thought Ethel and Linda were sooo, Beautiful!!!:)God Bless you and comfort you.Em dusting my knee's for you all.Big Smooches XOXOXO's and I Love You all...

The Haynes Family

March 23, 2013

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Beverly Loper

March 23, 2013

Payne / Smith family including all other relatives. Truly sorry to hear of this precious loss. Sister informed me yesterday after reading the newspaper. It hurts me too but Ethel is in a better place of peace, joy / harmony. God be with you and yours. Our true sympathy.

Beverly Loper / The Davis Family

Indianapolis, Indiana

Deniese Garlin

March 23, 2013

So saddened to hear about the transition of Ethel. She will be missed. Such a beautiful person in and out. May God bless and protect her loved ones.

March 21, 2013

Grief can be unbearable, but our special memories help us cope. Praying for strength for you and your family. (Ps. 46:1)

C Johnson

annette simmons

March 21, 2013

To the Payne family on behalf of the Simmons family we would like to extend our heartfelt sympathy in the loss of Ethel.Remember that earth has no sorrows that Heaven can't bare. We will pray for your strength for the days to come. Annette, Mickey, Devy & Ken.

March 21, 2013

To Cousins Virgil, Alpha Payne and Immediate Family of Ethel: The Poplar Family is sorry to hear about the lost of our Cousin Ethel. We know that this lost was unexpected and painful to go through. You have our DEEPEST SYMPATHY. Cousin Melvin Poplar and Family.

Lorraine Edmond

March 21, 2013

My dear sweet cousin words can not express the sorrow I feel at your lost... My heart is truly broken. you gave so much, you cared so much, God grant our Family the " peace that passes all understanding" and heal our aching hearts

Cathy Russell

March 20, 2013

To the Family,
I so saddened to hear the passing of my dear friend. Tears are flowing as I typed in Ethel's guest book. I will truly miss her so many memories from yard sales, phone conversations, Danielle's blanket that she gave me for my daughter and so much more. Ethel was talented, elegant and had a heart of gold. I will miss her. God Bless the Family.

Ruby Forrest

March 20, 2013

To the entire family. I have no words that could make up for your loss. I have known Ethel since I was 13. She was a strong woman and a good person. Know this, cherish the friends that you have now and always tell them that you love them. Though we had not seen each other in many years, I LOVE YOU ETHEL AND I WILL ALWAYS MISS YOU; I think that you know that. I am your sister not by blood but by love.

Kellee Carroll

March 20, 2013

Dear Cousin in-law, I understand that GOD doesn't make any mistakes. But, I'm surely gonna miss you! Al & myself will continue to treasure the good times we've shared. Tell my mother (your childhood friend) Shirley J. Perkins-Roby; that I miss her dearly! Tell Shawn, Alexander, Patty Cake, Grandma Jimmie & Pat that they're missed too. May your soul rest peacefully in Heaven. Love you

L. Mary Payne

March 20, 2013

To the entire family of Ethel. May the Lord cover you with His Love and Peace in this your time of pain. He will bring comfort for He cares for you. I am praying for you all and I know The Lord will answer prayer. Ethel will be missed. May the blessings of our Souvereing Lord Jesus Christ be unpon you and grant you all Peace.

March 20, 2013

Our deepest sympathy. So sorry for your loss. God will sustain you and help you to endure.

Virgil Harris

March 20, 2013

Uncle Virgil,Aunt Apha,Linda And Josh, I'm So Sorry For Your/Our Lost.My Cousin Ethel,My Angel,Who Protected And Guarded Me As A Child. I Love You Ethel,May God Bless You When You Get Home.

Zack Carter (HM 71)

March 20, 2013

To Virgil and the entire Payne family my prayers are with you.Ethel was my classmate at Horace Mann she will be missed.

Epps Family

March 20, 2013

Dear Josh

We are so sorry to learn of the loss of your mom. Although no words can really help to ease your pain, know that you are very close in every thought and prayer, and that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Also please know that we love you and are here for whatever you may need.

Daniel Williams

March 20, 2013

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

March 20, 2013

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Brenetta Perry

March 20, 2013

It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

March 20, 2013

It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

MARQUITA HARRIS

March 20, 2013

GOD what an ANGEL you got now.
GOD what a COUSIN you got now.
GOD what a FRIEND you got now.

ONLY WITH YOU WILL I SHARE....

Minister Martha Adams

March 20, 2013

To The Family: Earth has no sorrow that heaven can not heal. May you find comfort in knowing that Jesus is with you always.

Deborah Hemphill

March 20, 2013

I was shocked to learn about the passing of Ethel, I had not seen her since 1983. I visited my home in 2010 and had the pleasure of catching up on things with Ethel. You have my deepest sympathy. When you are out of your body you are present with the Lord. Rest in peace my dear friend.

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