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Ron, Alayna, Jacqie, and Don (at Jacqie's wedding)
July 21, 2008
Ron, Kim, Jacqie, and Neil (at Jacqie and Neil's wedding)
July 21, 2008
Nikki Bella
July 9, 2008
Uncle Ron,
I dont even know what to say. Some of my earliest memories come from you and Uncle Don. Losing you is one of the hardest things I have had to go through. Every time I hear a guitar, laugh, smile, and get called funny names by my dad I think of you. How you made me laugh and feel so special every time I saw you. I think of all the birthdays and holidays our families shared together. How you loved each and everyone of us through some pretty tough times. Sometimes I don't know how smiling and laughter will ever be the same. You gave my dad someone to talk to when he needed to be heard the most. When he needed help dealing with three small children after a devistating divorce you were always there cheering him on to live his life to the fullest. I want to thank you for helping raise my sister and me. You are a great part of me now and will be for the rest of my life. No matter how much I change over the years one thing will remain the same; the love I have for you and the way you changed my life. Thank you for showing me a side of happiness and pure love that I have never seen in anyone else. I love you very much and I refuse to say goodbye, but rather that I will see you again someday.
Heaven’s Promise
Heaven so close to your fingertips
Swells in my mourning heart
Whispers in my ear t let you go
Tells me I’ll be safeelp me through all the hard times
Put a smile on my face from those memories we share
You sink into my mind
Living forever within me
Giving us all something to live with
For the rest of our lives
Jacqie, Don, Ron & Alayna at Ron's Wedding
July 8, 2008
Don, Ron & Lance at Ron's Wedding
July 8, 2008
Elizabeth (Palvas) Scott
July 4, 2008
Bianco family,
My heartfelt condolensces go out to you. Ron and I went to school together. I knew him as a friendly, kind and outgoing classmate. I wish I knew him better. My father passed away at the age of 39, I was almost 11. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him and his laughter and sense of humor has carried his memory. I tell my children stories about him. Ron's memory, because of his joyful spirit, will live on.
mary (cousin) Peterson
July 4, 2008
To my cousin ronny,
I remember when you and donny were 2 years old and at grandma's
house visiting (as we always did every sunday) Of course around nap time you and donny were cranky and I would rock you and your twin brother to sleep out on the porch.
Aunt helen was much grateful for that and I loved every minuete of it.
We haven't been much of a close family unfortunatly, however the sunday spaghetti dinners at grandma's and the laughter, memories of us cousins getting together remains wonderfully in my mind. I will hold you in my heart forever, until we meet again, kiss
grandma and grandpa for me and of coarse Aunt helen and uncle Angelo, who I Know for a fact were much proud of you and your accomplishments. If you can, please tell grandma I know she's watching over mom. I love you Ronny
cousin
Mary
How I will always remember my brother.
June 28, 2008
Uncle Ron with his pride and joy Brandon.
June 28, 2008
Alayna Bella
June 26, 2008
Hi Uncle Ronnie,
I'm sorry it has taken me so long to write. I didn't want to accept that you're really gone. I miss you so much. You were the greatest godfather I could have ever asked for. You have taught me so much whether it was music or life. I may not have the great talent with my guitar as you do with yours but I will play with you in mind and strive to do my best. I will cherish those lessons with all my heart. I wish I had so many more to come. You are one of the greatest men that anybody could have met and I am so happy to have had you in my life. I wish that I had more time with you but I am a better person by just knowing you for my first twenty one years. I love you and will think of you everytime I hear a guitar strum or a saxaphone blow.
I love you so much.
Your Goddaughter,
Alayna
Honeymoon in Sannibel
June 20, 2008
Ron's legendary tough bowler dance after getting a strike at daughter's birthday.
June 20, 2008
Daddy & Daughter Dance Feb. 2008
June 20, 2008
First married kiss (while dancing)
June 20, 2008
Dave Travis
June 18, 2008
suddenly...you were gone...
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Rest in peace, my friend
Steve Travis, Don and Ron 1987
June 17, 2008
Steve Travis
June 17, 2008
The world is a little darker today because we lost you.
I met Ron in science class in the seventh grade. He was this kid that had everybody laughing, so he made it easy to become friends with him. Ron introduced me to Don, who today is still one of my closest friends. I wasn’t really close to my brother until I was 16 and he went into the army. Without even knowing you were doing it, you two sowed me that I could be great friends with my own brother.
I have so many great memories I could write pages. One which sticks out in my mind is of your mother carting us around for a couple of years in that old Aspen wagon before we could drive. One or two years later we took that same car to Chicago in the pouring rain to see Rush. Phil and I were sitting in the back seat wondering why our feet were getting cold, when we realized that the floorboards were rusted all the way through and our pants and shoes were soaked. I also remember that every time we were in the car with you or driving behind you guys, Ron’s hand would be sticking out the passenger window sailing in the wind.
Some of my fondest memories are the ones between the ages of 15 and 21 where I spent most of my time in that cramped 12x12 blue bedroom with the twin beds with the red, white and blue striped sheets. Sometimes I’d listen to Don play guitar and Ron play the bass or guitar or keyboard or sax or, well you get it, he’s got talent! Other times we would just talk, but we would ALWAYS laugh.
I was wrong when I started this letter; the world is a lot BRIGHTER today for having known you.
With all the love a friend could give,
Tim Bianco
June 15, 2008
Where to start Ronnie? So many things to say so many places to go with this. Truth is there have been many before me who have expressed and articulated better then I can via the keyboard/ computer. The one common thread that is repeated over is "The Laughter". That was always the bond that existed ,no matter how long it was since the last time I seen Ronnie or Donnie soon as we seen each other ...it was on, the laughs and snorts and giggles and the just all out wail of a response to a comical expression from one or all of us A Jim Shorts comment or a Devon stab......Thats the real reason I went to the family functions , I knew it was going to be a riot . A absolute laugh party . I remember we'd end up almost huddled up in a corner of Grammas yard( or Uncle Tonys') or whatever reception hall we were at for whatever function and just crying laughing...so much everyone would look at us like we already had too much to drink,and we just got there!! Aunt Helen and Uncle Angelo laughing at us because we were laughing so hard . Everyone else wondering what the heck is so funny? Maybe a few wondering if they were the butt of our laughter. Never meant in harm we always found a way to laugh even in the darkest times at a funeral home or at a family picnic at Uncle Tony's (after Gramma passed)place we always had such a great time . Ronnie always was giving almost to a fault ...this is a example we all can learn from ... I truely believe Ronnie had a Christ like heart he gave of himself to benefit others and he truely was a great soul for his wonderful gift .I am sure you have everyone up there laughing by now Ronnie and they are glad to see you ,but we all have a void where you were in our lives .Surely for those who really knew you ,you will live on forever in our hearts mind and souls!!!! EYE to EYE HEART TO HEART SOUL TO SOUL
Brian Tretter
June 13, 2008
Ron,
I feel very fortunate to have known you. You are truly the kindest person I have ever met. I cannot recall a single time I was unhappy around you. While I am sad that I will never again see your infectious smile, I will be eternally greatful for the joyous memories you have given me.
Even in your passing, you brought us all together. It was remarkable to see the impact you have had on so many lives. And although there was no shortage of tears, the smiles and laughter were plentiful...which was a testament to the joy you have brought to others.
I can only aspire to touch people the way that you have.
You will be missed, but will live on in hearts of those who love you.
Jacqie Osborne (Bella)
June 12, 2008
Uncle Ronnie,
I want to thank you for all you have done for me. You and Uncle Don were friends with my dad before I was even thought of. You were there when me and Alayna were born. And later when Nikki was born. You two are our godfathers and have been the best godfathers anyone could ask for. The both of you were there as we grew up and laughed at us running up and down the hall. You made our childhood fun and full of love. I am so glad Dad chose you and Uncle Don to be his friends. I could not imagine not having the both of you in my life. I will miss you so much! I did not think you would be gone this soon. I just saw you three weeks ago at my wedding. I love you Uncle Ronnie and I will never forget you. You will live on in my heart and I am a better person for having you in my life. I will try to be as loving and caring as you have been and will try to think of others first as you did. Even though we were not blood related you are my uncle and no one can tell me differently. You are a part of my family. I will love you and remember you forever!
Bernie Campbell Jr.
June 12, 2008
The Bianco Family,
A little less joy exists in life now that Ronnie has passed. Growing up in Georgia Heights was made even better because of Ronnie, Donnie, and Michael. Ronnie was a person who never had a cross word for anyone and I seem to remember a smile, a smile that did not seem to go away. My condolences to all of you on such a loss.
Gary Ginaven
June 11, 2008
Ronnie, You and I had soooo many memories. I loved doing all the impressions we could handle and then laughing ourselves silly, or talking and seeing movies or music or family or jobs or life or travel or just being. I still remember you coming over after we got off midnights togther and trying to watch a movie and then waking up to the credits. We had so much fun together and I was so hoping to get old together and see our families grow up with each other. You have been a wonderful friend and I will cherish your memory for the rest of my life. I hope to be the man you are and treat my family and friends like you always did. My life will never be the same now that you are gone. You are more like my brother than my friend. I miss you already. You were a part of so many lives and people that I feel life will not shine as brightly for us all. I am so happy that you had a full life and wonderful family you deserved it. I hope I see you again someday. Friends Forever.
Bill McCoy
June 11, 2008
You were always the funniest guy in the room, and carried the smile that made the MHS Band thrive. Even after 20 yrs, you remembered me at the reunion, and still made me laugh harder than anyone else could! Peace and blessings to all of your family and friends... you were one of a kind, my friend. We are all better for having you in our lives.
Jorge Guerrero
June 10, 2008
Ron,
we've known each other for years, starting at Harrison Jr. High through to H.S. Last we saw each other was at the HS Reunion. I'll never forget how much you made me laugh everytime we got together. You were always full of joy, and a wonderful person to everyone you knew. You will be missed and your laugh never forgotten. My thoughts and prayers to your family.
Kathy (Froman) Gideon
June 10, 2008
I am so saddened to hear of Ron's passing. I remember him vividly in the halls of MHS with a great smile, jovial laugh and kind heart. I will remember him fondly and I know he will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Margaret Abernathy (Eich)
June 10, 2008
Words are hard to come by when the world loses someone as dear as you. I haven't seen you or Don in eons, but I remember meeting you both in Kindergarten and you kept me laughing for years. I remember night summer games on your block when I'd stay at Kendra's house. Those were the best! My regret is having lost touch with someone as special as you after graduation. You were a bright spot in the day, now you will brighten heaven. 'Til we meet again someday old friend!
Georgia Nichols
June 10, 2008
The Ron Bianco Family,
I am so sadden to read of Ronnie's passing. I can't think of him without a smile coming across my face and laughing out loud. Cause that was what Ron was all about. Fun. I will always hold a special place in my heart for both Ron and Don and my memories of our time spent with Ross Summer Music Theatre. God bless you all at this time. May the arms that welcomed Ron into heaven be the same arms that hold you today.
Sis Morris
June 10, 2008
God Bless You, Your Family and Loved Ones. Rest In Heavenly Peace.
Michael Price
June 10, 2008
Ronnie B,
Or should I say BIIAANNCCOO......this is how I said hello to my friend for many years and his response was always "Mikey P whats going on in the kitchen". Ronnie is and always will be someone I try to be like, a man who brings joy and laughter into the hearts of everyone they meet. A man who never has a bad word to say about anyone and a man who leaves a lasting impression on the world around him. I will always chreish the memories of you, the nights at the pub,the singing, the jokes, the nights at the station were you listened to my complaining about the job, and most of all the way you always knew the absolute perfect thing to say to make me laugh and forget about what was bothering me. Brother, I love and miss you.
P.S. Dont forget to sing Gigilo for the man upstairs.
Joanna Hanzal (Lear)
June 9, 2008
My heart and thoughts go out to Ron and his family. I remember Ron and Don in school, always laughing and making jokes. Ron's laugh no matter what your mood, you just couldn't help but laugh too. Ron will be greatly missed.
Ryan Perkins
June 9, 2008
Although I did not know you very well at all I can say you are one of the funniest men I had ever met. The fish fry get to gethers will never be the same without you there putting a smile on everyones face. You will be deeply missed by all those who knew you. My condolences go out to your family. Keep them laughing upstairs!
Ryan & Amanda Perkins
Nick Sisamis
June 9, 2008
Ron was the most positive person I ever met, and I considered him to be more than a friend. My wife and I were honored to have him sing at our wedding. Our deepest sympathy to Ron's entire family. I will always be grateful that I had Ron in my life.
Tim Runholt
June 9, 2008
Although the last time I saw Ron was at the MHS Class Reunion, I can still hear his laugh. He will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Bianco family.
Michael Crowley
June 9, 2008
Ronnie B. my friend,
There is such an enormous sense of emptiness in my heart, tears come very easily thinking about never being able to see your smile, hear your laugh, or be on the receiving end of one of your big bear hugs again, but remembering those times is how we will keep you with us. I am so thankful for meeting you. As a coworker and fellow smoke eater I got the opportunity to watch you work the back of an ambulance like it was second nature. You by far were one of the finest medics I have worked with. You were part of the brotherhood and always will be. Aside from our working relationship I will never forget and will always cherish the moments and times we shared away from the job. The get togethers I had that you attended and made everyone laugh with your jokes and impressions and just your total heartfelt way of making everyone feel welcomed and the smiles you put on all faces around will always stay with me. One such time will always stick out with me and that was the night we hung out until about 2:30 in the morning and both had to be at work at 5:30 in the morning. You remember that morning, you called me at 10:00 that morning and just laughed, only because I was on a four and a half hour fire. Little sleep, exhausting fire, but you know what that was allright because we had another fun and memorable time with each other. The times we got away together, St. Louis and Indianapolis, the moments from both trips are some of my fondest memories. We had some good times in both cities and what was amazing was how you would make complete strangers smile and laugh just like you made your friends and loved ones. You mentioned to me that there was one thing you wanted to hear from your father before he passed but never got the opportunity to. You heard it now my friend, your father was always very proud of you. I could type page loads of memories from each time we hung out but it is easier to say this. Every moment that anyone has encountered you is a cherished and special one. You had no enemies and made friends out of everyone you met. For the individuals that didn't get to spend even a minute of time with you is a great loss. You were the real deal brother, you had a sense of life within you that would make the darkest of days as bright as a hot, sunny, summer day. Everything you stood for and exuberated constantly will be the hardest aspects to let go of. Tears will be shed for a long time, but the final outcome of those tears will be smiles and laughs for no matter how sad we all are you will still bring the best out of all of us. I could go on and on about how great of a person you were, and i will through spoken words with friends and loved ones for years to come. Its time to say those hard words that you are never ready to say and take for granted you will have to say them someday. Goodbye my friend, you will never be forgotten and will always be in my heart. Friends forever!
Love Mikey
Eddie Guanajuato
June 9, 2008
To the Family and Friends of Ron Bianco
I can only share with you the deep hole in my heart because of the loss of my friend. Ron play Saxophone and Quads in Merrillville High School band with me in 1982-84. Ron also helped me with my "Mr. Bill" projects when we both got the film bug.
As we all know Ron, God is doing some very serious belly laughs now. Ron has by now met Rodney Dangerfield and I bet, Rodney is laughing just as hard as God.
Thank you so much for making my high school memory one big fun time.
Smashing my lunch, making cookie dusk and screaming out a chicken sound is making me laugh now.
I will see everyone at the Funeral.
Eddie Guanajuato, Indianapolis
Denise Rigot
June 9, 2008
I am a friend of Kim and Don Bianco, Ron's brother and sister-in-law. We are all so saddened by this horrible news. I can just see proud Uncle Ron watching Brandon win his two in a row pinewood derbys at Scouts. He was always there at all Scout functions helping the boys wherever he could. He was such a passionate and gentle man. My families prayers are with your whole family!! May you rest in peace Ron! You will surly be missed.
Denise Rigot and family
anonymous
June 9, 2008
Ron,
You probably would not have remembered me if we bumped into each other on the street, but I looked up to you, Don and Lance during high school. I really did not have one friend in school, but all three of you guys treated me so kind even though we were not close. You made me laugh all the time in band. You three always gave me a reason to keep going to school. I do not think I would have made it through those days without you guys. I have not really seen any of you since high school, but think of the three of you and your laughing, jokes and smiles often. You all made a nobody feel like a somebody even though we were not close. I cried so hard when I read of your passing. I wish I could have known you better and longer. God bless you.
Matt Tretter
June 9, 2008
Ron, you and your family have been an extension of ours for 25+ years. May God bless you, your wife & child.
Matt Tretter
John & Angela Staples
June 9, 2008
We are so Saddened to hear of Ron's passing. Ron and I worked together and my wife was in band when she went to school with Ron. Ron was always there with a helping hand, a kind word or just a smile. He will be remembered and so will you all. We will keep you in our prayers. USS has lost one of it's best! I've lost a friend!
Scott Feneck
June 8, 2008
I lived one block behind the Bianco family. I will always remember his infectious smile and sense of humour. At the 20th high school reunion, he still remembered me after all these years...God Bless, old friend
Stacy & Jerry Gaza
June 8, 2008
We are saddened by the loss Ron. He was a wonderful friend who we considered part of our family. We have so many great memories of him that we will always remember. He would make us laugh to the point of crying. We miss him terribly and will never forget him. He was such a genuine, loving, and kind person. Goodbye, "Mr. Rockafeller" we love you!
Kim Steininiger (Peters)
June 8, 2008
I was so sad to read about Ron's passing. I went to school with Ron & Don, & always loved them so much. Ron was a very special, sweet guy. I loved to run into him on occasion, & he always had a big smile & hug for me. We will see you again one day, my friend. Love you.
Lance Bella
June 8, 2008
Ron,
You have been my best friend in the world for over 27 years. We've shared so many memories together. Starting with our first year in Merrillville High School and continuing on through our adult lives. Through it all, you have always been there for me. You were there at the hospital when my children were born and helped me to raise them. You treated my children as though they were your own kids, helped me take care of them, giving me advice when I needed it. You laughed with me as the girls did funny things. You always got such a kick when they were little and they would run around in their room when they were supposed to be going to sleep. I would yell up, asking them, "What are you doing?" The reply would always be, "nothing", which always made you burst out laughing. You and Don were the best God Fathers any children could ever have. There was something special about having twin brothers be the Godfathers of my twin daughters. I am proud to have chosen you to be Alayna's Godfather. When I went through my several hard times, you were there to take care of me, give me advice or just listen. Over the years, we have laughed together, cried together and shared a lifetime of memories. I was so happy for you when you found Kim, the love of your life. You always wanted a family of your own, and late last year, finally got it. I know you loved your new family with all of your heart. You were the happiest, most uplifting person I have ever met. You always could light up a room, just by walking into it. You had a heart bigger than life, and would give the shirt off of your back to help anyone who needed it. I already miss you so much, and my life will never be the same without you. There will not be a day that goes by in my life when I will not think of you in some way. I don't think any time would have been enough to have you with us, but I feel cheated that it had to end so soon. The world is definitely less happy and less bright without your shining presence. You were more than a friend to me, you were a brother. You will always live in my memories and in my heart. I Love You and Always Will.
Karen Broadaway
June 8, 2008
My dear friend Ronnie is gone and has left an emptiness that can never be replaced. Kim - You are an angel that was sent here to bring this wonderful man happiness. He loved you and your daughter more than life. I am a better person because I crossed Ronnie's path in life.
Dawn Haskell
June 8, 2008
To the Bianco family,
My deepest sympathies to you all. Ronnie B was truly a great friend, all that knew him thought of him this way. If anyone on this earth was close to perfect it was Ronnie. He had that infectious laugh that always made you feel happy. I am so grateful for Kim and Brook to have come into his life. I had never seen him happier, Thank you both, he loved you so much. God must have needed this funny musician to make heaven a little more entertaining and the Lord knew Ronnie was the man to do it. I love you Ronnie and I will see you again some day. Love and miss you with all my heart, Dawn
Veronica Williams
June 8, 2008
To the Bianco Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Ronnie was such a terrific person and friend. I loved him so much, he made my corner of the world so much brighter. He was always there when anyone needed him. I don't know what I would have done without him when I lost my dad he helped me a great deal with that. Good 'Ol Ronnie B, I love you and I know you are smiling down at all of us. We weren't ready to say goodbye, but the Lord decided you had done enough on earth and needed you to be with him.
I know you felt your life was complete, your wife and wonderful daughter. You glowed with such love and happiness when you spoke of them.
I love you Ronnie B, and I will miss you more then you will ever know.
Kim Bianco
June 8, 2008
Ron,
You are the love of my life. You have been the best husband and father in the world. I cannot imagine my life without you. You have changed me forever. My only consolation is that one day I will see you again. Brook & I already miss you so much that it hurts to breathe. You were my husband and best friend. You were my constant beacon of joy, hope, love, and laughter. I miss your laugh. I miss your voice. I miss your hugs and kisses. I miss your impersonations. I miss your sense of humor. I miss just the simple comfort of knowing that you are there. I miss your encouragement. I miss your positive attitude. I am happy that you have touched so many peoples lives, but am sad that we did not get to share ours together for longer. However, I know how very lucky I am to have had the pleasure of having you in my life, as my best friend and husband. I know, only now, what the words true love really mean. I could go on forever describing what an incredible man you were, but anyone that has ever met you, already knows.
All of my love always,
Kim
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