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McPherson, Robert E.

Robert (Bob) Edward McPherson Jr., a resident of Grand Chute, died on September 24, 2015, at the age of 80. He was born on January 29, 1935 and raised in Oshkosh, Wisconsin, the son of the late Robert E. and Eleanor Goetz McPherson, and grandson of the late Harry and Gertrude McPherson and the late Philip and Anna Goetz. He attended Oshkosh High School and was a graduate of Wayland Academy in Beaver Dam, Wisconsin. In 1957 he graduated from Ripon College with a degree in economics. He was a member of Sigma Chi Fraternity. In 1960 he married Sara (Sally) Spicer in Oshkosh.

At a very early age, Bob developed two loves: sailing and singing. From the age of 15, he sailed his beloved Snipe in area lakes, and crewed for other boat owners in regattas. He was a member of the Oshkosh Yacht Club for many years and later also a member of the Neenah Nodaway Yacht Club.

In 1949 he began singing in a barbershop quartet and went on to perform in high school and college at various shows and concerts. Following college, he performed as a baritone with the St. Louis Civic Opera, on television and with the St. Louis Municipal Opera Company, where he appeared with Bob Hope, Andy Devine, Margaret Hamilton and Alan Jones, among others.

He and Sally moved to Miami in the early 1960s where he sang with the Miami-Dade Opera companies and other major companies in Florida, Including Tampa and the Florida State Symphony. He was a founding singer in the Palm Beach Opera Company. He appeared with many singers, including Placido Domingo, Licia Albanese, Salvatore Bacalonni, Ferruccio Tagliavini, Richard Tucker, Robert Merrill, Heidi Krall and Teresa Stratas.

After moving to New York City, he received a full scholarship to complete his Master's Degree at the Manhattan School of Music. He eventually dropped out of the program because he was given roles that were unsuitable for his voice range. He later changed his voice from baritone to tenor and toured with the then Guber, Ford and Gross "Straw Hat Trail" in their east coast productions of Camelot and Oklahoma, appearing with Gordon MacRae, Earl Wrightson, Lois Hunt, Bill Hayes and Roderick Cook.

He performed with a number of east coast opera companies, including Stamford Opera, the Connecticut State Opera, the Garden State Opera of New Jersey, the Long Island Opera Showcase Theater, the DaCapo Opera of Cape Cod, the New York State Opera Company, the Apollo Opera Company of New York City, the New Haven Opera Society, the Ruffino Opera Association of NYC, the New Rochelle Opera Company, and the Monmouth Opera Festival of New Jersey. He made a number of guest appearances, including the Westchester Conservatory of Music, the Pelham Symphony Orchestra, and the Performing Arts Society of Westchester County. He sang with the Metropolitan opera chorus for almost ten years.

Bob retired from singing professionally in the mid-1990s, and in 1997 he and Sally returned to Wisconsin. The lure of boats never left Bob, and in the early 1970s, in addition to singing, he opened a business as an independent contractor performing cosmetic and structural fiberglass repairs to boats. Following the move to Wisconsin, he continued his business in the Fox Valley area as well as singing at area churches and for special events.

Bob was a member of All Saints' Episcopal Church in Appleton, Wisconsin.

He is survived by his wife: Sara of Grand Chute; his son: Robert of New Rochelle, New York; his sister Beth (Bob) Ruger of Franklin, Wisconsin; his brother: James (Lynn) McPherson of Bremerton, Washington, and several nieces, nephews, and many cousins.

At Bob's request, no flowers, but memorial donations may be made to All Saints' Episcopal Church of Appleton, Wisconsin, or to a charity of the donor's choice.



Arrangements for a memorial service at All Saints' church are pending and notice will be posted on the website for Heart of the Valley Cremation Service, www.hovcremation.com

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Published by Appleton Post-Crescent on Sep. 27, 2015.

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Dennis McCarthy

January 17, 2016

Bobby exemplified the definition of master craftsman. With his wit, smile and occasional spontaneous song, he was a pleasure to learn from and work with and is sorely missed in NY. RIP my friend, fair winds until we meet again...

October 20, 2015

What an honor it was to know Bob in his days on City Island. We will never forget his magnificent voice, twinkle-eyed smile, and friendly ways. Bob will be missed by all who knew him. Sally, you are in our prayers and thoughts. Love, Mary Lou and Bob

October 7, 2015

We always enjoyed seeing and working with Bob when we had our boat at the Pioneer. Loved his stories about NYC and his singing.He was an expert working on Sailboats. We will miss him. Our prayers, peace and fond memories. Dan & Pat Bacon Green Bay
"The Stars & Stripes"

Charley Pawlosky

October 4, 2015

I first met Bob at the Pioneer Marina 14 years ago as he did needed repairs on my boat. What a gentleman. Always had time to spin a yarn and always a kind word for everyone. You will be missed. May you have fair winds and following seas.

Scott Dickson

October 4, 2015

We are going to miss this guy!

Bob had a wonderful talent of music, of boat service repair, and of kindness to all.

Grace and peace to Sally and the family.

Dave Smith

October 1, 2015

Sally, So sorry to hear of Bob's passing. He was a true gentleman with tremendous talent. May God bless you and yours.

Alex Helen Lawrie

October 1, 2015

We were so sad to hear today of Bobs passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Sally and family. We first met Bob and Sally when they escorted his grand dad to the UK in 1965 although Helen had been a pen pal of Sally since 1947. We met up again in Appleton in 2000 and Cromer in 2001. We will never forget those times

Steve Spicer

September 29, 2015

September 29, 2015

Andre Mayo (Nye)

September 29, 2015

Tonight Robert and his immediate family are the topic of my prayers. Wishing the family the strength and perserverance to overcome this unfortunate loss and pain.

Michael Brem

September 29, 2015

You came. You taught. You always showed great patience. You didn't teach many different things... just the important things. You will be missed.

Claudia Deich

September 28, 2015

I miss Bob's singing as he drove down City Island Ave. You would hear him before you saw him :)

Anna and Rod Cooper

September 28, 2015

He once came into the shop where I worked and announced with a big smile, "I'm your Uncle!" He was really my dad's cousin ... twin cousins Grandma called them as they were inseparable when they were young. It was a delight to meet him. Since then I've stayed in touch with Sally online and was blessed to see Bob again at a lunch gathering this past August. He was entertaining, my husband and I truly enjoyed talking with him and I'm so glad we had that opportunity. Sally and Rob, our thoughts, love and prayers are with you both.

September 28, 2015

Bob... I enjoyed working with you over the past 15 years. You made me laugh and I always loved your company. I am honored to have known your friendship.

Sean O'Connell - Pioneer Marina

pete and cheri Mott

September 28, 2015

Bob was a true blessing to us all and will be missed very much. I only met you a few times but you left a deep impression.

September 28, 2015

Always enjoyed your singing,Bob. We will miss you. Sandee Keppler

Charles Williams

September 28, 2015

I met Bob at the OYC when he asked about my cousin moving back to town and learned that Bob knew my grand parents, father, aunts & cousins growing up at Sunset Point. He was always a ready source for our family history. Also got to see him sing opera to my 96 yr. aunt twice! We'll miss you Bob and your kindness to all.

Betsy Comstock

September 27, 2015

I was 11 or 12 when Bob first came over from Sunset to Oakwood to sail with us. A few years later, I crewed for him on Wild Honey, the Snipe he restored to perfection. It was wonderful to have his friendship again 60 years later when I moved back to Oshkosh two years ago. He and Sally together were the most hospitable of friends. I loved Bob's bright, silly spirit. I wish our friendship could have lasted longer.

Craig & Pat Hauser

September 27, 2015

Our sincere condolences to the Sally and family.

September 27, 2015

bob and i grew up together thru our grandparents at sunset point and enjoyed a warm friendship. bob sang at out wedding on november 1956 in oshkosh. i am sad at his passing and he is in our prayers.fondly, janet mcdonald haddad; st louis, mo.

Richard & Nancy Geurtz

September 27, 2015

Farewell Friend. We feel blessed for having known you. Rest in Peace Bob.

Chris Conklin

September 27, 2015

Bob, it was a supreme pleasure having you for a friend.

Richard & Nancy Geurtz

September 27, 2015

Goodbye friend. We feel blessed to have known you. Rest in peace, Bob

Jim Spicer

September 27, 2015

Our brother, Bob, was fun to be with. He always had an entertaining story and tales about his adventures. Once when Sam was 12 I took him to City Island and NYC for a trip. Bob was taking flying lessons in New Paltz, NY and had arranged for us to drive with him to the airport. There, while Bob was flying, Sam and I were treated to a short flight and Sam took over for several minutes. Bob couldn't see the delight on Sam's face, but I'm sure he knew. We miss you, Bob.

September 27, 2015

Sally,
All Saints Sunday's and events will not be the same without Bob. So many mornings walking in with him tuning up! Loved his cheeriness and continued spunk. Love and prayers to you and the family. Love Sue and Phil Stenz

Steve Spicer

September 27, 2015

I called him "Uncle Bob." I don't know why. Maybe because "Brother-in-law Bob" was a bit awkward. A great friend, a jovial and unassuming man, Bob is, and will be, greatly missed.

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