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Roger Cross Obituary

Cross, Roger David

Roger went to the Lord, unexpectedly on January 7, after a brief bout with pancreatitis at age 66. Born on June 18, 1947 in Chicago, Illinois, he grew up in Skokie, Illinois and spent most summers with his family and friends enjoying the pleasures of Waupaca's beautiful Chain O'Lakes. Roger was a Boy Scout and Sea Scout. He learned the joys of swimming, boating, water skiing, and scuba diving from his parents. They encouraged him as a teenager to challenge his self sufficiency with close friend, Bill Eckmann, on the Boundary Waters.

In middle school, Roger met another lifelong friend, Keith Lencho, and together they joined the area Young Republican Club. Roger always felt that it was a great honor to work as a volunteer for his congressman, the young Don Rumsfeld, later to become U.S. Secretary of Defense. Advice from Congressman Rumsfeld steered Roger to Marquette U. and enabled him to meet and fall in love with Linda. Hard work for candidates during high school earned Roger and Keith prized seats on the Goldwater train, as Republican presidential candidate Barry Goldwater campaigned through the Midwest. Also aboard was Miss Hilary Rodham (Clinton), then an Illinois Young Republican.

After graduating from Niles North High School, Roger met Linda Lee at Marquette University, Milwaukee, in Fr. Abbick's British Literature course during first semester, junior year. One common bond from the beginning was their love of William Shakespeare's works. Roger was already pursuing a military career as a member of Marquette's R.O.T.C. In the unit, he taught swimming to fellow midshipmen and very successfully competed on the Navy Rifle Team. Never allowing "grass to grow under his feet," Roger tapped into his high school band and music skills to teach pre-music at several Milwaukee elementary schools, becoming their much-loved "Mr. Saxette". Then on Saturdays, Roger taught trumpet and melophone at Steuben Jr. High.

The end of senior year brought a flurry of important events: Roger was commissioned a Lieutenant J.G. in the U.S. Navy; Roger and Linda graduated; one week later, on May 31, 1969, in St. John's Cathedral, Milwaukee, they began their 44 year odyssey together. Roger and Linda honeymooned at Roger's favorite place in the world--the family cottage on the Chain O' Lakes.

Soon engineering training took them to San Diego, and in October of '69, Roger reported for duty in what quickly became their 2nd favorite place in the world, Newport, R.I. There Roger went off to sea while Linda began her teaching career. Eventually, Uncle Sam took Roger to Naples, Italy for extended duty. Following that assignment, Roger and Linda vacationed in London over Christmas, falling in love with England's superb theater tradition. Then in Edinburgh, Scotland, Roger encouraged Linda to follow her dream by purchasing bagpipes and learning to play them.

After 4 years, Roger retired from active military duty. Then Roger and Linda took the Shakespeare Institute graduate course with Roger, in a kilt, portraying Shakespeare's Macbeth.

Back in Waupaca, Linda was tapped to teach in Hortonville, and Roger was hired by the state to work in New London. He also utilized his G.I. Bill to obtain his MBA degree from UW-Oshkosh and was later honored as Outstanding Alumni of the Year in Business School. Roger also graduated from the Kennedy School of Government, Harvard University.

Successful, fulfilling career moves included serving as Field Director for Toby Roth's first winning U.S. Congressional campaign; working as an in-house consultant at American National Bank, Chicago, on special projects; serving Reuters as a trouble shooter on their "cutting edge" stock trading systems in Franklin Park, IL.

From January, 1991 to 2003, Roger served Gov. Tommy Thompson and the people of Wisconsin as an innovative Administrator of Motor Vehicles. He focused the DMV on being a BUSINESS to SERVE the customers. That focus equally encompassed both customer service and the staff who provided it. One of his joys was going out to the customer service centers and working along side staff to provide quality customer service. He personally read and considered every customer comment card. Roger was passionate about his job and empowered his hardworking, dedicated staff. Together, they made Wisconsin DMV #1 in the nation.

During this time, Roger served as a Malcolm Baldrige National Quality Award Examiner, and held many leadership positions in AAMVA (Am. Assoc. of Motor Vehicle Administrators), and IRP (the International Registration Plan).

For 28 years Roger and Carl Nelson were partners in Chain O' Lakes Marine at Clearwater Harbor on the Chain O' Lakes. As water patrolman and later in partnership, Roger instructed youth in boating safety for 35 years.

Roger was a proud member of the Waupaca County Republican Party, serving as chairman and 44 years, volunteering on numerous campaigns throughout the state. He also took pride in the 50 year membership he has just achieved in the U.S. Naval Institute. Roger was an avid car collector and loved working the DMV booth at Iola's Old Car Show. He enjoyed Bible studies, loved detective stories as his grandmother did, delighted in singing and listening to many types of music, and loved seeing the world--sometimes on skis. He and Linda just returned from Ireland in November.

Roger is survived by his wife, Linda and puppy, Seamus. He was preceded in death by his father, James and his mother, Virginia (Ginger) Cross.

The Funeral Service will be held on Wednesday, January 15 at 11:30 AM at Victory Church in Waupaca with Philip Thompson, officiating. Visitation will Tuesday evening from 4 - 8 PM at the Holly Funeral Home and also on Wednesday morning from 10:30 AM until the time of services at the church.

Burial will take place later in the spring at Lakeside Memorial Park, Waupaca.

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Thanks to the dedicated doctors, nurses, and support staff of Riverside Hospital for the loving care shown to Roger and Linda.



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Published by Appleton Post-Crescent from Jan. 11 to Jan. 13, 2014.

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Mark and Kathy Mayer

April 10, 2021

Linda, I am so sorry to hear about Roger's passing. Kathy and I have been living and Florida and have decided to buy a summer home which we did in Kaukauna. I was in the process of looking you and Roger up when I stumbled on Roger's obituary. What a shock, I am truly sorry, what a great human being. The memories Kathy and I have of our time on the chain are truly special. The late afternoon conversations with you, Roger and Carl on the pier will always be special to us. These are the memories we will always think of when we think of Roger. With love, Mark and Kathy Mayer

February 4, 2014

Linda,

I was so sorry to read of Roger's death. He was a wonderful alumnus of the UW Oshkosh College of Business. I always enjoyed seeing him at the annual alumni dinner as he was very committed to UW Oshkosh and our college. We were proud to have him as an alumnus and to recognize him with the Outstanding Alumnus Award. It was much deserved.

You are in my thoughts and prayers. (I just learned this weekend of his death otherwise I would have written sooner.)

Al Hartman
Dean Emeritus
UW Oshkosh

Randy Leuschke

January 21, 2014

Linda,

Sorry to hear of your loss. I met Roger through our working on the IRP. What a genuine fellow.

Barbara Bieber

January 15, 2014

Linda...so very sorry for this great loss in your life...Roger will be missed in so many circles...the WI GOP for certain...Stay strong with your courage and faith.

Camille Solberg

January 14, 2014

Our deepest condolences to Linda and the rest of the family.

Jean Wiemeri

January 14, 2014

Mrs. Cross:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Many prayers are going out to you and yours at this difficult time. You are one of the best teachers I have ever had. May your find comfort in your memories with the one you loved.
Jean Wiemeri (Sliwinski)

Susan, Mike, & Stacy (Mischker) Boettcher

January 14, 2014

As your students, we were always bowled over by the tales of your travels and adventures with Mr. Cross -- you both gave us a sense that the world was so much bigger than Hortonville -- and so we were so sorry to hear this news; what a stunning and surprising and irreplaceable loss. We are keeping you in our prayers as you adjust. We hope you are comforted by many happy memories and surrounded by friends.

Shelly Ashline

January 14, 2014

Linda~
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.

A Hortonville Parent

January 14, 2014

Mrs. Cross~ just wanted to convey my condolences for the passing of your husband, Mr. Cross. My children all attended Hortonville High School with you as their teacher, and they talked of the wonderful places you both had been to. Goodnight Mr. Cross, and may God watch over Mrs. Cross until you meet again.

Lisa Prock

January 13, 2014

Dear Mrs. Cross: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this time; and I sincerely hope that your happy memories comfort you now and over time. As my absolute favorite high school teacher(Hortonville HS 1983)- I credit you with inspiring me to aim high with my educational goals; and I only hope my own children are fortunate enough to encounter teachers as gifted, dedicated and inspirational as you. With the greatest sympathy and respect - Lisa (Hoeft) Prock

Neil Schuster

January 13, 2014

Linda,

I joined the AAMVA staff about 6 years ago and never had the opportunity to work with Roger, but I did get to share a very nice lunch and afternoon with him in Wisconsin a few years ago.

I am truly sorry for your loss. We will miss Roger and want you to know our thoughts are with you at this time.

January 13, 2014

Linda,
My heart aches for you. Wish we could be there to give you a hug. Lisa and Dave join me in sending our deepest sympathy to you, our favorite English teacher and friend. There really aren't enough words to tell you how sorry we are that you have lost Roger. May your many warm memories sustain you, Linda.
Our Love, Gloria Hoeft
Santa Maria, California
Dave Hoeft
San Francisco, California
Lisa Hoeft Prock
Wellesley, Massachusetts

George Lehl

January 13, 2014

So Sorry for your loss Linda. I remember Roger from Chain O Lakes Marine. We bought one of the first boats from there . You and Roger both left a very good impression on us way back in the mid 80s.God bless you and wrap His loving arms around you in your time of grief.

Tony Van Kampen

January 13, 2014

Linda, we are so sorry for your loss, Roger will be missed. You are in our prayers. Lorraine & Tony

January 13, 2014

Mrs. Cross, so very sorry to hear about the passing of your husband. Thinking of you with sympathy.

Christine Milheiser (I was Chris Loos in your high school classes)

Bev Witt

January 13, 2014

Linda, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this hard time. May you find comfort in all your years together and the joys you shared.

Janet Ohlde

January 12, 2014

Linda, my thoughts and prayers are with you . You and Roger have had so many wonderful journeys together . Hopefully, you will find comfort in all those memories. God's Blessings to you.

Janet Ohlde

Lylla Lux

January 12, 2014

I first met Roger & Linda back @ Tara Mansion 1981.One of those Couples I bragged about knowing. I enjoyed visiting at the Marina . GOD BLESS Saliente

January 11, 2014

Mrs. Cross:

I enjoyed working for Roger at the DMV he was the best. He will be missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Parkis Waterbury

John Foote

January 11, 2014

Linda, so sorry for your loss. Roger was one of the really, really good guys. He will be missed.

January 11, 2014

Mrs. Cross,
Our sympathies to you on the loss of your husband. You are a great teacher and we enjoyed hearing stories of your travels with your husband.
All our best,
Kelly (Murphy) VanAlstine and Hannah VanAlstine

Lou McKellar

January 11, 2014

Linda, I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you at this time.

January 11, 2014

Linda, I am so sorry to hear this news today. I am Samantha(Sam)Brockman. I had you as an English teacher. You were one of my favorite teachers. I graduated in 1989. I am not sure if you remember me. What a beautiful write up in the paper.I will send you a card. I wish I could make it to the funeral. Well, I know your puppy is there to give you lots of hugs. Take care and I will be thinking and praying for you. Sam Brockman

January 11, 2014

Dear Mrs. Cross, I am so sorry to hear about the lose of your husband. You were my favorite teacher in high school, and I credit your teaching to much of my success as a professor at UWL and author of many articles in peer reviewed journals. My thoughts are with you. Your work has made a big difference in my life. Robin Miller McCannon (1981 HHS graduating class.

mark bessette

January 11, 2014

sorry for your loss. Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever -

Paris D.

January 11, 2014

I am very sorry for your loss. May your memories of him give you comfort. Always remember, " God is our refuge and strength, A help that is readily found in times of distress"- Psalms 46

January 11, 2014

My deepest sympathy Linda. He will be missed and rememberd by many. What an honor to have known both of you. Sincerely, Marcy Breyer and family.

Diane Baumgart

January 11, 2014

Linda, I'm so sorry to learn about Roger. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

January 11, 2014

Linda,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your strength and wonderful memories will certainly ease your pain. Knowing that you and Roger are in the prayers and thoughts of friends and loved ones may give you some comfort.

Tim Crowe

Orville Seymer

January 10, 2014

Roger was a very dedicated and hard working man

I will miss him greatly

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