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Melissa McCane Obituary

QUEENSBURY -- Melissa Ruth McCane, 51, passed away on Saturday, July 9, 2005, at Glens Falls Hospital, after a courageous fight with cancer, surrounded by family and friends.

Born on Dec. 5, 1953, in Glens Falls Hospital, she was the daughter of George Ladd and Marge (Smith) Ladd.

For the last 12 years, Melissa worked as the human resource manager at North American Industrial Service in Ballston Spa.

Melissa graduated from Adirondack Community College with an associate degree in 1994. She also attended Taylor university.

She was a member of the South Glens Falls School Board, serving five years.

Melissa enjoyed the outdoors, traveling, reading and watching the Yankees win. She loved spending time with her three children.

Her father, George Ladd, predeceased her.

Melissa is survived by her son, Josh McCane, and his fianceé, Jessica Gordon, and Melissa's first granddaughter, Hannah, of Fort Edward; her daughter, Katie McCane and her boyfriend, Dustin Johnston, of South Glens Falls; daughter, Meghan McCane and fiancé, Michael Howard, of Glens Falls; her former husband, Dan McCane, of Hartford; her sister, Melody White and husband, John, of Schuylerville; her brother, Dan Ladd and wife, Dee, of Queensbury; her sister, Sue Wilder and husband, Ernie, of Hadley; her brother- in-law and sister in-law, John and Sandy McCane of Queensbury; and her mother, Marge Ladd of Zephyrhills, Fla.; and several nieces and nephews.

A memorial service will be conducted at 5 p.m. Friday, July 15, 2005, at Regan and Denny Funeral Home, Saratoga Avenue, South Glens Falls, with the Rev. Jeremy McDougall of the South Glens Falls Baptist Church officiating.

Family will receive friends from 4 p.m. until the time of services on Friday.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in Melissa's honor to the Melissa McCane Scholarship Fund for South Glens Falls School, BankNorth Quaker Road, Queensbury, NY 12804, attention Judy Dee.
Published by Post-Star from Jul. 11 to Jul. 13, 2005.

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Susan Wilder

August 4, 2005

To know my sister was to love her. I'm thankful for the times we shared, her neat sense of humor, and the great memories we made. She touched the lives of so many of us in a positive way.



I didn’t attend BOCES with Melissa and Ernie but I listened to them tell about the fun and mischief they created on the bus. Melissa was always full of fun and on occasion visited Mr. Rummel’s office because of those antics. Melissa was taking courses in Cosmetology. Her desire to become a cosmetologist probably started with her first trip to the beauty shop. Being the first of her siblings to take the matter of hair style change into her own hands she cut many locks of hair from her forehead so she could be a boy like her brother, Dan. Mom took one look at her and rushed her to the beautician to trim her hair evenly. It was so short because of her attempts to cut her own hair that she looked like a little pixie.



Before Melissa was married she would go camping with us in our converted mail truck. Ernie had added a small counter complete with stove top, sink, and ice chest. He put in a booth that made into a bed and installed an over head bunk for the boys. Melissa would roll out the air mattress and sleeping bag and sleep in the aisle of the camper. One year we decided to stay the day after Labor Day in the Lake Eaton Campgrounds of Long Lake with the bears. There were very few campers and the rangers had started to close up for the season by removing the garbage containers. Along about 2 a.m. I heard a noise so I investigated by crawling over my sister who was asleep on the floor. I made my way to the front of the camper, pulled the curtains apart and peaked out into the night only to find the biggest bear I’d ever seen cleaning out our cooler, which we had hidden under the camper so the bears couldn’t get it. Melissa asked me what was out there and I invited her to come watch the bear with me.

She said, “I can’t.”

“But Lise it’s a bear!” I said.

She replied, “No, You are standing on my hair.”

The commotion in the camper never disturbed the bear so Ernie started the camper and the bear ran off.



Melissa touched the lives of so many of us in a fun and positive way. Her devotion, determination, and strong conquering character were qualities I admired in her.

She is greatly missed.

Gail (Smith) Swota

July 14, 2005

Marge, Sue, Dan & Melody,

I am so sad for you.... When I think of Melissa following Sue and I around when we were kids, I'll always remember that wonderul smile and twinkling eyes. It seemed like Melissa was always 'up to something'. She brought joy and laughter to anyone who met her! You'll all be in my prayers...

Don & Eileen Farleigh

July 12, 2005

To the family of Melissa,



Please know that you are all in our prayers and we know that Melissa is in the best of all places; with our Saviour and King for eternity, having left these earthly bonds. She was always full of happiness and joy and fun. A truly special person with a great smile and sense of humor. Cherish all the memories. We love you all.

Billee Petteys

July 12, 2005

Dear Dan and Dee, Please know that I feel your pain as I lost my sister Sue on the same day....I always thougt of my sister when you spoke of your sister and could understand how you felt but had no idea it would happen this soon. I know we all had a lot in common, but wow! You are all in my thoughts and prayer too at this difficult time!!!! Love Billee and Neil

Sue Wilder

July 11, 2005

Coffee’s ready! No 'fancy pants' coffee for me Lise would tell me. I'm thankful for the times we shared, her neat sense of humor, and the great memories we have. My sister touched the lives of us in a positive way and she will always be a part of me.

Charles Witherbee

July 11, 2005

One of the nicest people we've ever met, she'll be missed by all who knew her

Jeff St. John

July 11, 2005

We have been fortunate to know Melissa. She will always remain in our hearts, we will always remember her laugh and great sense of humor. Thank you for letting us be a part of your life!

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