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Roy Bailey Obituary

SOUTH GLENS FALLS Roy Burdell Bailey Jr., 86, of William Street died Tuesday, July 29, 2008 at his home with his family by his side. Born Aug. 29, 1921, in Maplewood, N.Y. he was the son of Roy Burdell and Florence (Robinson) Bailey. Burdell attended school at Monticello High, Monticello, N.Y. Upon graduation, he served in various branches of the United States military. His final tour of duty was with the Army Air Corp during World War II, where he was a gunner and member of the liberation and mapping corps, in the Pacific Theater. Upon his discharge in 1945, he enrolled at Cornell University in Ithaca, N.Y., and graduated in 1949. In June 1945, he married Audria "Louise" Spillers of Eros, La. His career was in New York State Corrections working at Great Meadow at Comstock, Dannamora and retiring from Great Meadow as a judge advocate in 1983. His greatest joys in life were working with youth; He was a leader in the Boy Scouts and active in American Legion Baseball. Burdell delighted in attending Army affiliated reunions, spending time with nature, gardening and feeding the birds. He also was a putterer and had a passion for ingenuity. He especially enjoyed spending time with his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren in his large extended family. Survivors include his wife of 63 years, Louise, of South Glens Falls; four sons: Emmett L. Bailey and his wife, Linda, of Clifton Park; Bruce E. Bailey and his wife, Deborah, of South Glens Falls; Glen R. Bailey of Orchard Park, N.Y.; and Carl Q. Bailey and his wife, Lucie, of Hampton, N.Y.; his one daughter, Lois F. Seymour and her husband, George, of Schuyler Falls, N.Y.; his many grandchildren, great-grandchildren; his sister, Naomi McCracken of Fowlerville, N.Y. and several nieces, nephews and cousins. Calling hours will be on Thursday, July 31, 2008, from 4 to 7 p.m. at M. B. Kilmer Funeral Home, 136 Main St., South Glens Falls, N.Y. A funeral service will be conducted at The United Methodist Church, 15 Maplewood Parkway, South Glens Falls on Friday, Aug. 1, 2008, at 12 noon, with the Rev. Kelly Warner, officiating. Burial will follow at Southside Cemetery, town of Moreau. Pallbearers will be his grandchildren: Kristen E. Moore, Louise A. Seymour, Scott D. Seymour, Eric J. Seymour, David L. Bailey and Matthew J. Bailey. Donations may be made in his memory to: South Glens Falls United Methodist Church, 15 Maplewood Parkway, South Glens Falls, NY 12803; Moreau Emergency Squad, Inc., 1583 state Route 9, Fort Edward, NY 12828; C. R. Wood Cancer, at Glens Falls Hospital 102 Park St., Glens Falls, NY 12801 or The Hospice Community, 179 Lawrence St., Saratoga Springs, NY 12866.

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Published by Post-Star on Jul. 30, 2008.

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KRISTEN MOORE

August 29, 2008

When you are growing up you take for granted the people in your lives. You love them, because they are your grandparents, your aunts and uncles and part of your family. I never would have chosen for my grandfather to have died of such a horrible disease, but I am thankful for the past year. I am thankful that I took the time to ask him the questions I never had, I am thankful that I took the time to listen to the stories that he told, I am thankful that my kids got to know their great-grandfather and have memories of him to last the rest of their lives. I am thankful that I got to know my grandfather and love him; not just because he was my grandfather, but because I know what a great man he was. I have so much love and respect for him for fighting for his country, for raising a family of 5 children, for working hard his whole life and for dying with such dignity from a horrible disease. You will be missed and loved by Zachary, Kayla and me. I hope you are at peace and watching your over your beloved great-grandchildren!

Lois SEYMOUR

August 29, 2008

Today marks the anniversary of your birth. You would have been EIGHTY SEVEN today! We will celebrate it without you this year, but we will celebrate it!
Today also marks the anniversary of your leaving us. It has been a month today and we mourn our loss. Each of us misses you in our own unique way. We miss the things you did and said, the hugs, the smile, even the advise! We will carry on and do the best we can because that is one of the things you taught us! We will still miss you! Each one of us. Always. We know you are now at peace, painfree and happy once again.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD!

Louise Seymour

August 28, 2008

Dear Grandpa,
Four weeks have passed since you left us, I miss you dearly but am thankful you are now at peace. Throughout your battle, you stayed strong, remained hopeful and optimistic, you fought hard and exceeded the doctors’ expectations at which we are ever so grateful. I know the last several weeks were very difficult for you; they were difficult for all those around you as well. You did not give up until the end, when you became so weak. My last visit with you I did not say “goodbye” as I never imagined that that Saturday would be the last time I would see you, I was coming back in just a few days, but you didn’t wait -- you were ready…. I never got to say the things I wanted to say, but I am sure you knew and I am thankful that you are no longer suffering and that you went quickly & peacefully. I have so many happy memories of childhood & adulthood visits with you, I will cherish those memories forever and share the stories with my son and my nephews. You were a wonderful man! You may be gone from our presence, but never will you be gone from our memory. I will think of you every time I see a bird flying so freely, I will think of you at night as the stars are twinkling above and I will think of you all the times in between. Enjoy your new beginning…I Love You Grandpa!

Matthew Bailey

August 28, 2008

My Grandpa was a good, hard working man. I never heard him complain or say a bad thing to anyone. He was a rare breed, the likes of which they don't make anymore. It was people like him who made "The Greatest Generation" great. Grandpa, you will be missed not only by me and your entire family but by the world!

Debbie Barnes Bailey

August 28, 2008

Over the past thirteen months I witnessed Burdell defy the odds and fight a courageous battle with grace and dignity. I feel priviledged to have been able to share in his last Father's Day, family picnic, wedding anniversary and to see him enjoying all or his great grandchildren, especially when he held his new great grandson, Carter, for the first time with so much love and pride. I feel honored to have been able to spend some private time with him during his final hours and to mourn with his family during the days that followed his passing. For all of this I am so thankful. My deepest sympathy is with all of you. May he rest in peace knowing his legacy lives on in the children of his children's children, forever.

Judy Conrad

August 28, 2008

Summers - 2 weeks the boys would be in Glens Falls and Lois would be in Fowlerville. Something none of us has forgotten. Then there were the family reunions - something that Naomi really misses. Uncle 'B' always brought a smile to all our faces. John says the rodeo and we remember santa's workshop. He will be missed by the McCrackens'
Naomi, Gary, John, Judy & Guy

Alijah and Ashton Seymour

August 28, 2008

Our Great Grandpa Bailey, He was a very special man to us. Even though we didn't spend a lot of time with him but the time we did spend was very special. Remembering sitting on his lab in a quit comfort to Throwing a baseball and being amazed how hard he could trow. We will never forget our special moments we spent together and how lucky we were to know such a wonderful man. WE will miss u Grandpa B. Lots of love

Louise Bailey

August 21, 2008

To my Dearest Burdell, You fought a gallant fight against the cancer monster. We are so proud that you were able to enjoy a few more good times with us. Such beatiful memories!
Our 63 years of marriage were all an adventure of the best kind. I will miss you forever.
Your 32 1/2.
Louise

Sherry Young Webb

August 18, 2008

Uncle Burdell will always be the the first half of my uncle and aunt from New York. I remember so many visits at the farm, Grandmothers, and at Moma and Daddy's house. Uncle Burdell could come up with stories to match Daddy's. Of course the kids hung on every word. Uncle Burdell could throw a mean horseshoe too. I will sorely miss this half of my uncle and aunt from New York, but I truely know that Uncle Burdell and Daddy are telling stories now.Much love and prayers to all the family. Sherry

Traci Royea

August 17, 2008

Our families have been brought together by true and lasting friendship. We have shared in many walks of life, some ggod, some bad and some just that will never be forgotten!! In that said, having had the oppurtunity to know "Mr. and Mrs. Bailey" it was truely always special to have them in our company. With deep sadness we were made aware of Mr. Bailey's cancer and with concern we were keeping up on regular up-dates. He was a strong fighter and we are so proud of him for that, and grateful of a peaceful passing. He also had great hugs!! Mrs. Bailey we hope to see a lot of you here with Lois and may Burdell's memories grant you peace. With Love, Fran, Gene and The Royea's

Shannon Quinlivan

August 14, 2008

A few years ago, I was privileged enough to have "Burdell" become my grandfather. When I first met him I remember thinking how different he was from other grandfathers. He was always outside keeping himself busy. He was a strong man and he never seemed to let the bad things get him down. His family is all he needed to keep a smile on his face. Even when he started becoming more and more sick and became very weak, he still had a positive attitude. I didn't get to see him as much as I would have liked, but my mom and my daughter tell me plenty of stories about him. He will be greatly missed.


If tears could build a stairway,
And memories a lane,
I'd walk right up to Heaven
And bring you home again.

Sheila Giambona

August 13, 2008

I was only fortunate to have met Burdell a few short years ago. I cannot recall the specific time in which i met him, but i believe it may have been the holiday party. I do recall the laughter and the smiles when he watched all the little kids play. It was obvious he treasured those moments. Some people live life as such an asset and role model and true inspiration to those around them, Burdell was one of those people. The last time i saw him was his Fathers Day picnic. It was hard for me to see him because he looked sick. And he coughed, and i just wanted to go hug him and tell him i was sorry he was sick. Even that day when he wasn't feeling good and i'm sure he knew he may not see some of those people again, he still smiled and hugged those kids. He was amazing, he was strong and he was an inspiration to me. He will be missed very much.

Debbie Bailey

August 13, 2008

For the first year that I was a member of this family I walked around with eyebrows raised trying my best to understand "Burdellisms" that were evident where ever I looked....I gave up and accepted the fact that I would never understand.
I spent a portion of the second year sitting in waiting rooms and drs offices for the numerous tests to be done and results to be given....dad was an avid storyteller and I an avid listener, I never tired of his war stories that he told while passing the time....I tried to imagine what life in wartime service had been...I gave up and accepted the fact that I would never understand...
I have watched dad this past year or so battle cancer with determination and strength.I have seen the sparkle in his eyes, heard the laughter and seen the tears and I tried to imagine what he was thinking during this time.....I gave up and accepted the fact that I could never understand.
Now he is gone and as I watch as his family and friends wrestle with the love and grief they are feeling,I realize just how much he meant to this family,how much he has done for people and the community, how much he has helped, the impact he has had on so many lives, and how much he is missed...and this I understand.
Safe in Gods hands
We miss you

Roxanne Odom

August 12, 2008

I just learned of Burdell's passing yesterday. I knew him from bowling with the Glens Falls Seniors. Please except my condolences.

Lois Seymour

August 9, 2008

My dad left this world in a peaceful sleep in the early hours of July 29th, exactly one month short of his 87th birthday. He made the best of each day he was given and fought the cancer that grew within him. He defied the doctors predictions and lived thirteen full months after his cancer was confirmed. He set his goals one by one, and met and surpassed each of them. He celebrated the 63rd anniversary with his bride (Louise Bailey) on June 28th, and before that he spent Fathers Day with his family in a beautiful fun filled day watching his many great grandchildren playing and enjoying each others company. This is just a small part of his legacy. Those that knew him will remember him for his "special" ways and will smile when they come across them in the future. I know that I will miss him every day for the rest of my life, but am so thankful for all the days that I had with him. He was my DAD.

Barb Varin

August 5, 2008

I just learned of Mr. Bailey's passing. I worked with him at Dannemora and he was a very nice man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this time.

Jeanette Craig

July 31, 2008

Dear Carl, Lucie, and Family Sorry to hear about your love one. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincere sympathy.

John and Brenda Rock

July 30, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow. Pleae let us know if there is anything we can do.

Tory MacDonald

July 30, 2008

I did not know him at all but I do know and work with his Grandson Scott Seymour through the NA Six Horse Hitch Classic Series. From reading the obit he sounds like he was a great man. My heart goes out to you all in your time of sorrow. May your warm, fond and funny memories of him help to guide you through this most difficult time.
I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

James O'Connell

July 30, 2008

It was truly my priviledge to have worked with Burdell in Dannemora nearly 30 years ago. He always looked for the best in others and his dry sense of humor and wit were always appreciated. When speaking of his family, a smile always creased his face. He was one of the finest gentlemen I have known. May memories of wonderful times together help to ease the pain for his family and friends.

BUTCH AND PAT HURLBURT

July 30, 2008

in our journey through lifes corridor we are blessed with the memories of the great people and times that we meet along the way. Burdell is one of those who I take great honor in knowing. you were an asset to the American Legion programs
Butch and Pat Hurlburt

Bob Brileya

July 30, 2008

Sorry to hear of Burdells passing. Will have good memories of working with him at Great Meadow and seeing them at many of the church dinners that we always attended. Especially in North Granville Methodist Church.

Carol and George Knight

July 30, 2008

Lois and Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Hold onto the great memories.

Marcia Spillers

July 30, 2008

Dear Louise and family;

I so sorry to hear of Burdell's passing. I remember him well from those times at the farm in Chatham, and when he and Louise came to visit Al and I in Florida. Please know all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Wanda Young, Wilson

July 30, 2008

My heart and prayers are with you all at this time of sorrow.Always know my I love and pray for you at all times. Love Wanda, Ashlea and Pee Wee

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