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Elmer Custer Obituary

Elmer K. Custer Jr., 84, husband of Ruth "Daisy" (Spieth) Custer, formerly of Oaks, passed away after a lengthy illness and six year stay at Parkhouse Providence Pointe. Born in Kenhorst, he was the son of Elmer K. Custer, Sr. and Edith (Bortman) Custer. He graduated from Phoenixville High School in 1944 where he played basketball and baseball. In December of 1944, he left for the Army and served in the Philippines and Yokohama, Japan until September of 1946. Elmer and his brothers, Russell and Irvin owned and operated Custer's Garage in Oaks. They also owned Custer's Garage School Buses and drove for Spring-Ford School District for twenty seven years. He was a member of St. John's Lutheran Church, Phoenixville. He served as a firefighter and has a life membership at Oaks Fire Company; donated 11 gallons of blood to the Red Cross, and was one of the men who started the Oaks-Audubon Little League. He was also active in playing basketball, baseball, softball, and volleyball for many Phoenixville teams. He enjoyed the Phillies, the Pittsburgh Steelers, and working in the yard at the home he and Ruth built. In addition to his wife of 61 years, he is survived by three daughters, Carol, wife of Charles Cully, of Phoenixville;Cindy, wife of Paul Gadzicki, of North Coventry, and Bonnie, wife of Brian Henderson, of Greensboro, NC. He has six grandchildren, Christopher Cully, Amanda (Cully) Greninger, Rachel, Paul, and Madison Gadzicki, and Carlee Henderson. He also has two great-grandchildren, Charlie and Lucy Cully. He is also survived by two brothers, Russell and Irvin, and predeceased by two sisters, Mildred McArthur and Nedah Weigner. Relatives and friends are invited to attend his funeral service at the St. John's Lutheran Church, 355 St. John's Circle, Phoenixville, on Friday, March 4, 2011 at 10:30 a.m. Officiating will be the Rev. Dr. Cynthia L. Krommes. Burial will be held in the St. Paul's Episcopal Church Cemetery, Oaks. Friends will be received at the Campbell-Ennis-Klotzbach Funeral Home, Inc., Main Street at Fifth Avenue, Phoenixville, on Thursday, March 3, 2011 from 7-8:30 p.m., or at the church on Friday, March 4, 2011 from 9:15-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the Memorial Wreath Fund of St. John's Lutheran Church at the above address. Condolences may be offered online by visiting www.PhoenixvilleFuneralHome.com.

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Published by The Mercury from Feb. 28 to Mar. 1, 2011.

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Debbie Bright Pierce

February 22, 2025

A very good bus driver through all kinds of weather. Friendly and a jolly good fellow we would say

Deborah Bright Pierce

February 22, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Ruth and Charlie Crawford

February 24, 2021

We remember Elmer fondly from visiting with him and Daisy at Parkhouse. Our Mother/Mother-in-law, Agnes Crawford, was a resident there also and we met Elmer and Daisy in the dining room and had many pleasant conversations with them. We greatly remember Elmer's love of sports and particulary Penn State Football and Joe Paterno!

Ruth and Charlie Crawford

Debbie Pierce

February 22, 2020

He was a Jolly Good Fellow and remembered Kenneth William Bright, my Dad when he worked at Shop6 at the Phoenixville Iron and Steel Company back in the early 60's. We would always sing Ajolly Good Fellow on the bus to him when the time was right. We all loved him.

Ruth and Charlie Crawford

February 23, 2019

We continue to remember Elmer and how kind and caring his family was to Agnes Crawford's family at Parkhouse. How quickly time passes - Maddie danced for Agnes and brightened Agnes' days - and now she is a Penn State student! The bond between the Custers and Crawfords continues on, with many happy memories.

Karen (Bright) Blackwell

April 4, 2011

My deepest sympathy to the family of Mr. Custer. My name is Karen (Bright) Blackwell and my 5 sisters & I had him as our lifttime busdriver. He always had a smile and got us safely to and from school.

Deborah Bright Pierce

April 2, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. I use to be your neighbor on Longford Road. I remember Elmer as our bus driver for many years driving us to school. He was a Happy Person. I have many memories of the Custer family. I am the oldest of the Bright Family , Debbie Bright who rode her bicycle all around the neighborhood and who would buy eggs and cider at Spieth's house. He is a friend to me for life he will not be fogotten and as for the Custer Family please accept my deepest sympathy. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. For He is a Jolly Good Fellow such as we sang on the bus at times. Kenneth and Mae moved to Birdsboro, Pa. I married Wesley D. Pierce, moved all around and now in Houston, Texas. My sisters, some in Pa., and Athens, Greece. From Phoenixville, Pa./now Houston, Texas near Katy.

Sandi Maerz Marchese

March 8, 2011

I am so so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing, but I know some one who is waiting for him with open arms and a good joke, my Dad. The Custer boys and Oaks.

Lillian & Gary Barker

March 6, 2011

Dear Custer Family,

I have known you all for what seems forever.., I have fond memories of the Custer Family in Church and through many trials and tests of faith.
Please accept my deepest sympathy & know that you are all in my thoughts & prayers. Mr Custer is not fogotten... and kept alive in your hearts & minds. May God give you strength in the days ahead. Be comforted by the support offamily, friend and others who knew the zest for life Mr. Custer held and the love of his family ( and, yes, baseball).

March 4, 2011

Daisy, Carol, Cindy and Bonnie, We are saddened to learn of your loss. May you be comforted by the love of God and family and friends. Marge and Neal Hummel (E. Stroudsburg, PA)

March 2, 2011

Mrs. Custer, Cindy, Bonnie, Carol, and families...I was so sorry to hear about Mr. Custer. I have so many great memories of him...driving the bus, helping when we had car problems, and always keeping an eye on me, to keep me out of trouble. My prayers are with you all.
Nancy MacDade Ingram (Misenheimer, NC)

March 2, 2011

Daisy, Cindy and Family,
Although I wasn't there to see my Mom Agnes Crawford, often. I do remember the kindness she received from you. We are sorry for your loss, and know that he is in God's hands and in special care.
We are thinking of you at this time.
Ellen & Mike Stefanski

Ruth and Charlie Crawford

March 2, 2011

Daisy, Cindy and all your family - We are sorry for your loss and have such fond memories of Elmer, Daisy and Maddie visiting Agnes at Parkhouse. May God bless you and give you strength and peace, now and in the days ahead. Elmer's was a life well lived!

Eddie & Carole Kehr

March 1, 2011

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Thomas Tomasco

March 1, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

March 1, 2011

Mrs. Custer, Cindy and family... so sorry to hear of the passing of Elmer. He was one of my favorites, especially when driving us to basketball/baseball games, and later seeing him at several athletic events at Spring-Ford. ... My sincere condolences. Don Seeley

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