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Catherine Gary Obituary

Catherine Stuewer Gary

On February 22,2015 Catherine Stuewer Gary, 46, died peacefully at her home surrounded by her loving family. Catherine was born on June 4th, 1968 in Poughkeepsie, New York. She was the daughter of Hans and Mary Stuewer of Poughkeepsie, NY. Catherine received a B.A. degree from Marist College, Poughkeepsie and a MSW degree from the University of Arizona School of Social Work. On July 29, 1995 Catherine married Michael Todd Gary at Vassar College Chapel, Poughkeepsie. They made their home in Tucson, Arizona. They have three sons, Brendan, Devan and Timothy. Catherine was a very involved mother in her children's schools and chaired many fundraising events. Cathy was employed by Oshyn Hospice. In the past she worked at Posada Del Sol and Pueblo Springs Nursing Homes. Catherine devoted her life to the welfare of others and was tireless in her efforts as advocate for clients. She was awarded the title of Social Worker of the Year for Arizona.

Catherine is survived by her parents, her brother Paul and wife Sheila, her husband Michael of 20 years, her beautiful boys, father-in-law Ronald Gary, mother-in-law Carol Poncelet, brother-in-law Steven Gary, sister-in-law Susan Stites, her loving aunts Josephine O'Neill, Helen Devoy Kilrush, County Clare, Ireland and her Uncle Senan Hartney Reading, England, six nieces and nephews, and numerous cousins in Germany, Ireland, England and Ireland.

The family wishes to thank Oshyn Hospice Staff for their compassionate care of Catherine during her illness, and to the many dear friends who lent support to the family in so many ways. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at St. Francis De Sales church, Tucson, Arizona on Saturday Feb. 28th at 12 pm. Burial will be at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, please consider a contribution to an educational fund established for the children's future education (www.donationto.com/teamcathy).

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Published by Poughkeepsie Journal from Feb. 27 to Mar. 1, 2015.

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Dianna Soto

August 18, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. Cathy was such a wonderful woman. God bless her husband and three Boys may God be with them and I know they have a special angel watching over them. Thoughts and prayers for the whole family.
Love from the Soto's

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Louie Goad

March 15, 2015

I pray for you Catherine.
Fr. Goad
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Wanda Pruner

March 2, 2015

Dear Mary,
I am so sorry for your loss. I never met your daughter but I can see she was an amazing woman. May God give you strength during this difficult time. Sending prayers to you and your whole family. God bless you.
Condolences,
Wanda Glover Pruner

Una Kochanowski

March 2, 2015

I was extremely saddened to hear of Catherine's death. My thoughts and prayers are with you and family.

V.C.

February 28, 2015

May the God of all comfort strengthen the entire family during this time of sorrow. Those who die God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. (Psalms 116:15) My sincerest sympathy.

February 28, 2015

Paul,
Very sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers to you and your family.
Cynthia

February 28, 2015

We were all so saddened to hear of the passing of Catherine. Please accept our deepest sympathy during this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of Catherine's family.

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February 28, 2015

Please accept my condolences for your loss. May God grant you peace and comfort. Psalms 83 : 18, Psalms 147 : 3

Ott YMCA

February 27, 2015

The family is our thoughts and prayer.

John DeNicola

February 27, 2015

Paul,
I am so sorry for the loss of your sister; My deepest condolences to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
John DeNicola

Mary Mc Daniel

February 26, 2015

Your pain and suffering has ended and you are whole once again. May your family find strength through family, prayer and God. You will be missed Miss Cathy. Rest in Paradise.

Kimberly Jardine

February 26, 2015

I'll miss our chats and halloween haunts. Most of all I'll just miss you.

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