Debra Rothstein-bergman

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Debra Rothstein-bergman Obituary

Debra Rothstein-Bergman

Highland, NY - Debra Rothstein-Bergman, a 9 year resident of Highland, NY, formerly of New York City, entered into rest on Thursday, September 12th, 2013. She was 57.

Daughter of the late William and Selma Rothstein, she was born July 3rd, 1956 in Manhattan and raised in Bayside, New York.

She was a freelance accountant/bookkeeper, survived by her partner of fifteen years, Scott Pett, and her loving daughter, Billie Bergman.

She was a devoted partner, mother, sibling to her sister, Lisa Mickel, and brother, Todd Rothstein.

An animal lover, she experienced such pleasure riding her horse, Hennessey, and caring for her canines, Taco, Cassidy, and the late Philly.

Debra had a knack for touching lives in ways that one will carry forever. Whether it was listening, talking or just the occasional favor, helping people was her ultimate joy. If you met her once, you would never forget her. She had a light about her that everyone gravitated towards. With a heart of gold, her love for her family and friends was unconditional.

A graveside burial will be held on Sunday, September 15th, 2013 at 11 a.m. at Wellwood Cemetery on Pinelawn Road in Farmingdale, New York.

To send the family personal condolences, please contact the Michael Torsone Memorial Funeral Home Inc., 38 Main Street, Highland, NY 12528, www.torsonememorial.com Donations may be made in Debra's name to The American Diabetes Association at Diabetes.org.

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Published by Poughkeepsie Journal on Sep. 14, 2013.

Memories and Condolences
for Debra Rothstein-bergman

9 Entries

Danielle Weed

September 18, 2013

I had the pleasure of working with Debbie at Interference Inc. for several years. Debbie taught me how to temper strength and professionalism with sensitivity-- a skill that I will employ throughout my life. I will always think of her fondly and with a smile. Wishing her family and closest friends peace as they celebrate a life well-lived.

Julia Dash

September 17, 2013

We have all come here today not to mourn but to celebrate Debbie's life. There are many friends who live far and cannot be here today but we all shared our thoughts and I am here to speak for all of us.
No one had a bigger heart than Deb. When Deb loved you it was completely and forever. She wore her heart on her sleeve and it was a heart of gold. She would move mountains to help anyone she cared about. Vivacious, fun loving, cool, Debbie had it all going on. Debbie lit up the room with her smile and her deep contagious laugh and as Rob said her tight tight hugs! Deb was the ultimate Clearview girl. One of the Guys. A guys girl. Everyone shared so many memories of our days at the 209 park and the wonderful summers of TSP. As Roy said Debbie could play basketball better than most guys and ride a horse the way Michael Jordan played basketball. A love of horses she passed on to her daughter Billie and a pastime they shared, So many beautiful memories to always cherish Billie. Billie you were your mom's pride and joy. Everyone expressed how your Mom would grab any chance to talk to us all about you. Her dreams for you were endless and you have already accomplished so much! I look at you Billie n I see your mom. You are so beautiful as she was.
In 4th grade I remember a day in glee club. We sang "You'll Never Walk Alone" Deb broke down in tears as that was her special song with her Dad, her dad she had lost way too young. That memory has stayed with me forever.
On a fateful day in 1990 when I had just lost my husband I ran into My angel "Debbie" on the corner of 17th ave and willets point. 2 single Moms with 2 very special daughters. We understood each other in ways no one else could. We shared so many amazing times. A magical vacation in Disney world, a vacation we would reminisce about to this day. So many special memories of those years together I will cherish forever.
I know life was a struggle for Deb in later years and I only wish I could have made it all better. Rob Rattner and I talked right after we learned of Debbie's passing. Rob said Debbie will be reunited with her Mom and Dad and her beloved Roles, Ivan, Goldie & Einhorn. That thought gives me the greatest comfort.

I will finish up with a quote I heard and loved. "To Live in hearts we leave behind is not to die". Debbie you will be forever in mine and in all your friends you left behind. Rest in Peace My Special Friend.....

September 16, 2013

Debbie was a wonderful and fun person. I knew her when she was a young girl and she always made me laugh. May she rest in peace forever. My condolences to her family. Rita & Steve Scott

Rudy Pavlin

September 15, 2013

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Diana Paul

September 14, 2013

Debbie was such a wonderful person and her passing is such a great loss for many, especially Billie, Scott and her pets. Debbie had such a beautiful and charismatic personality which her charming daughter Billie also inherited. Rest in peace!

Howie and Ellen Davis

September 14, 2013

So sorry for the family's loss. She will be remembered and missed.

Sean and Maureen Fanniff

September 14, 2013

Our hearts go out to Billie and her family. We are thinking of you and sending our love. May your Mom Rest in Peace.

Stephanie Doland

September 14, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with "Billie, Scott and their Families" during this difficult time. I havent worked at RHR since 2008, but was lucky to know Debbie, she will be missed.

Lori Amato

September 14, 2013

Beautifully written words... I am so, so sad and will miss Debbie, I always looked forward to seeing her and will remember her in so many wonderful ways.

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