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Donald McGrath Obituary

Donald Michael McGrath, Jr.

HOPEWELL JUNCTION - Donald Michael McGrath, Jr., beloved husband, father, and grandfather, died peacefully Saturday night, April 11, 2015. He was 66 years old.

Don was the son of Donald and Ann (McLoughlin) McGrath. Born in New York City on March 25, 1949, he was always very proud of his Bronx upbringing. After the family moved to Katonah, Don was an avid basketball player, all-county baseball player, and member of the first graduating class of John F. Kennedy High School in Somers, NY. He attended The College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, MA, where he graduated in 1971.

Soon after graduating, he married Kathleen Colby, his wife of 43 years, and moved to Cross River where he worked for his father in real estate. In 1975, Don and Kathy moved to Hopewell Junction where they raised their three children, Katie, Michael and Brendan and made lifelong friends.

Don was a Real Estate Appraiser for more than 40 years, founding McGrath & Company in 1984. He had a well-earned reputation and was universally respected in the real estate industry all throughout the Hudson Valley. He treated employees as if they were family and they loved and respected him in return. His business was his hobby as well as his passion, and his remarkable knowledge of most any property in the area made him an invaluable consultant to property owners, municipalities, and non-profit organizations.

Don was so proud to call the Hudson Valley his home. He was a past President of the Mid Hudson Chapter of the Appraisal Institute and the Chairman of the East Fishkill Recreation Commission for 13 years, for which he was recently honored by the naming of McGrath Field.



When not at home or working, you would find Don on the golf course in Cape Cod. In 1999, he and Kathy bought a summer home for their family in Harwich Port, MA. Their little beach at Allen Harbor was a special place for them for many years, enjoying countless trips with friends and family.

Don was predeceased by his loving parents Ann and Donald. In addition to his wife Kathy, he is survived by his children: Kate and her husband Neil O'Sullivan, Michael and his wife Nicole McGrath, and Brendan and his wife Elizabeth Birch.

He was also a proud big brother, survived by his devoted younger siblings Barbara and her husband Dick Johann, Tommy and Eileen McGrath, Kevin and Terri McGrath, and Brian and Kathy McGrath, and their children, whom Don cared for so much, along with countless aunts, uncles, cousins and more. He generously gave his time and care freely to them all, and to everyone he met.

But over the last eight years, Don's heart fully belonged to his six adoring grandchildren: Timothy, Bridget, Cleo, Ryan, Jack and Cora. To them, he was "Poppy," a man who could literally outplay them, as hours turned into days and luckily, years. Their memories are Don's greatest gift.

Calling hours will be held on Thursday from 2-4 and 7-9 pm at the McHoul Funeral Home, Inc., 895 Route 82, Hopewell Junction. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered on Friday at 10: 30 am at St. Columba Church, 835 Route 82, Hopewell Junction.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to: CLL Research & Treatment Center , North Shore Long Island Jewish Medical Center,

410 Lakeville Road, Suite 212, New Hyde Park, NY 11042, Attention: Dr. Jaqueline Barrientos. Please write "In memory of Don McGrath" in the memo field. To donate online visit: https://support.northshorelij.com/sslpage.aspx?pid=1040. Please indicate CLL Research & Treatment Attention Dr. Jaqueline Barrientos in the research area field.

For driving directions, online condolences, or memorial donations, please visit Don's Book of Memories at www.mchoulfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Poughkeepsie Journal from Apr. 14 to Apr. 16, 2015.

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Francis Lysaght

April 8, 2021

Still in shock to go so young. I still miss him,and hope the family are doing well.

Michael Enright

April 8, 2020

He will always be remembered by those whose lives he touched, no matter how long ago...

April 8, 2020

Can't believe it's been a year.Still miss a good friend every day.My prays are with you always..kit

Glen Wilson

May 12, 2015

Don was a welcome friend, always so thoughtful and appreciative. Surely a father figure for many of us, noted by the way he took us under his wing. I will miss him. My condolences to family and many friends.

May 10, 2015

Donnie looked over us and took charge. He found solutions that saved the day. In high school he taught me how to park a car with a pencil and paper a few hours before my drivers test. Kathy was never more beautiful then when she cared for Donnie. The love and devotion she showed will touch me forever. Grace Devierno/Lipson

Pat & Jim Coleman

April 21, 2015

Our deepest sympathy to all your family.
Prayers and thoughts are with you.

Lisa Galage

April 18, 2015

Dear Kathy and Family, Don was the father I always wished to have. He was a man of Integrity! I am so sorry for your loss. He will be missed.

Joe DeVierno

April 17, 2015

Donnie was such special person - we were all so lucky to know him. Altough I have not seen him in decades he is the kind of guy you never forget. Everytime I bounce a basketball with my fingers (as he taught me) I think of Donnie. Deepest sympathy to all of Donnie's family and friends.

Rosemary thorn

April 16, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss He was always a sincere and happy man that loved his family!

April 16, 2015

Kathy, it's been awhile but there is no doubt that we send love and prayers out to you and your family. Donny will always be remembered as a really nice person and a gentle man and always recognized with his smile.....Judy and Frank Vitolo

Lorrraine Tyler

April 16, 2015

I am so sorry to hear about Donnie's death. I have such fond memories of him and his family. I grew up a few houses away on Lily Pond Lane in Katonah and was Donnie's classmate at St. Mary's. Donnie was always genuinely nice and fun to be around. I know he will be missed by many.
Lorraine Darretta Tyler

Kenneth Martabano

April 16, 2015

Great man , great family our sympathy to all for for your loss

Barry Synnott

April 16, 2015

My deepest sympathies to everyone in the McGrath family.

Marc Gerber

April 16, 2015

Don, or Donny as I knew him, was a class act when I met him in the early seventies. My respect and admiration for him continues.
May Kathy's and the family's memories of him sustain them now. I am so sorry.

Frank Matteo

April 15, 2015

Kathy, sorry for your loss.He was a special guy , spent many memorable hours at the basketball courts in Van Wyck and rec and had good times together.He will be missed.

April 15, 2015

With Deepest Sympathy
Our Thoughts & Prayers
to the MCGRATH Family
Our condolences from the Hagen Family

Tom Mullins

April 15, 2015

Don was an incredible human being and a great mentor. I owe my career to him. He gave me a life changing opportunity in 1986 when he allowed a twenty-something, unemployed auto mechanic to come to work for him. He taught me not only the appraisal profession but to always be honest and respectful in business. I truly do not know where I would be today if it were not for Don's generous giving of his time and knowledge to me. I will be forever grateful. My heartfelt condolences to Kathy and all of Don's family.

Joseph Angi

April 15, 2015

My sincere condolences to the entire McGrath family.

Jeryl Jusko

April 15, 2015

Prayers from the Jusko Family. The McGrath's are a family who helped put our Hamlet on the map - not just in real estate but in the boys antics! God Bless You ALL and may you carry on the Legacy.

Lavelle Shields

April 15, 2015

Prayers, thoughts and sympathy to all of the McGrath family. I have good long time ago memories of Donny. Sincerely, Lavelle Dwyer Shields

Michael Enright

April 15, 2015

Don was a remarkable man from an equally remarkable family. God rest his soul.

April 15, 2015

Don was one of the nicest,caring ,helpful people I knew. He will be missed by all who met him.
our prayers go out to Kathy , all the kids, siblings, and family and friends who knew him and will miss him. Kit & Carole

Robert Cappellini

April 14, 2015

To everyone in the McGrath family. I met Don a couple of times when I worked with his father at IBM years ago. Sorry to hear about your loss. Nice guy. My condolences to everyone....Robert

Ethel Walker

April 14, 2015

Kathy, Katy, Michael and Brendan.
How deeply sorry I am to hear of Don's death. He was just an amazing person! I am so grateful and honored to have worked with Don on so many East Fishkill recreation projects over the past 20 years. He was the ultimate professional to all of the various residents and sports groups. I often wondered how he was able to get any appraisal work done because of the time and unselfish dedication to the recreation . He was someone very special to all who knew him. Honest, caring , personable, intensely knowledgeable , tactful and someone who passes through your life and you will never forget! Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers through this incredibly difficult time. I only wish I was able to share this with you in person.

Kelly Shannon Bortle

April 14, 2015

My thoughts are with all of you.

John Hand

April 14, 2015

To the entire McGrath family - I am so sorry for your loss - I first met Donny when I transferred to the old St. Mary's High School in Katonah - he was a tremendous athlete who welcomed me into the school - we became very good friends and always bumped into each other at local golf courses - he is a great man who will be greatly missed - he will be forever in my thoughts and prayers

April 14, 2015

Don was the consummate all around gentleman. Love to Kathy and the kids and most of all, the grandchildren who he doted on. How blessed we all are to have known Don. I was privileged to be part of his extended family circle. He is remembered with love and will be sorely missed. Maureen Boylan

Edward Ginsberg

April 14, 2015

Always the consummate gentlemen and professional,I will miss him greatly.
My deepest condolences to his family.

April 14, 2015

Our sincere and deepest condolences for the McGrath Family, so sorry for your loss, God Bless.
Mike & Ann Marie Kenny

Trevor O'Keefe

April 14, 2015

Donnie was a fantastic man, father, grandfather, husband and friend. He touched everyones life in so many ways. We have all been blessed by his very existence. A wonderful man who will never be forgotten and will always be cherished by those of us who had the great pleasure to know him. Love Always...

April 14, 2015

So very sorry for your loss. Don was very respected by all of the Assessor's. Putnam County Assessor's Assoc.

April 14, 2015

I am so sorry to hear about Donnie's death. May his family have the peace of Christ.

Rick Johann

April 14, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with the McGrath family, so sorry for the loss of your beloved Don.
love,
Rick Johann

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