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Caroline Rider
October 26, 2021
Thinking of you, Drayton.... and of you, Wayne and of her beloved Boys.... the whole Valley misses you. Caroline Rider, Smith '71, NYU Law '74, early Hudson River Heritage director.... we had so much in common!
Robin Kaufmann
October 26, 2020
To the Family of Drayton Grant; working with Drayton was an ease; Drayton your name comes up often in this planning board office; your work on projects was effortless strategic and asset; can't phantom you have been gone this long; know you touched my heart and work ethics in so many ways. I'm grateful to have had the honor to work with you; see you in the stars ! xo
Robin Kaufmann
October 28, 2019
Drayton Grant, it was an honor working with you at the Town of Shawangunk Planning Board; you were a great mentor and I learned a lot; you have come up in conversation many times since your passing; you are still remembered and well respected. With sincere kindness Robin Kaufmann
Bruce Zablow
November 20, 2012
Wayne,
I just found out about your wife's passing. I am so sorry for you and your sons. She must have been a remarkable person from reading her obituary.
Robin Kaufmann
November 9, 2012
We lost a brilliant lady, friend. It was a privilege and honor to work with her at the Town of Shawangunk Planning Board. My thoughts are with her family
Jill Fisher
November 8, 2012
So sorry to hear of Drayton's passing today. Although I knew her only briefly through work for the Town of Woodstock, I felt like I had met a kindred spirit & only wish I could have known her better. My deepest sympathies to her family & friends.
"Death is not putting out the light...it is extinguishing the lamp because the dawn has come." R. Tagore
Caroline Rider
November 6, 2012
Wayne, Nate, and Sam -- I just this minute found out that Drayton is gone....I am SO sorry....I've known Drayton since we did an English seminar together at Smith...I think it was on Henry James....and then as a colleague and fellow preservationist. It is shocking that she has gone so early. Her warmth and energy will be missed. Take care.
Caroline Rider
Nevien Sidarous
November 3, 2012
With sincere sympathy to her family and friends. I had the pleasure of communicating with her a few times and she impressed me by being the remarkable women she is. She will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and loved ones.
November 2, 2012
Our most sincere sympathies go out to you Wayne, to you Sam, and to you, Nate. We are all so sad to hear this news. Drayton was always so warm to all of us whenever we got together at family events. It is so impressive to read about her dedication to environmental law and her many accomplishments and contributions. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief.
Love,
Sidney and Arline Graber
Andy Graber
Evan and Cindy Graber
Brienne and Michael Lemire
Bethany and Kelsey Graber
Richard cunningham
November 2, 2012
She will be missed in her family as well as all her friends in the community and anyone who was fortunate to have known her. Farewell, my friend until we meet again.
Maureen Gtaes
November 2, 2012
With deepest condolences, Drayton was an amazing woman. She was always willing to lead a cause or lend a helping hand. She has been and will be missed. Wishing her family comfort at this difficult time. May happy memories warm your heart and comfort you.
November 2, 2012
To the family of Drayton, I am very sorry for your loss. I first met Drayton when Sam and Nate were in Northern Dutchess Daycare and I was a teacher's aide. She left a lasting impression on me as a very dynamic person. Later we reconnected when I became a member of St. Johns in Barrytown where I have many happy memories of greeting with her and our talks at coffee hour. She has left quite a legacy and I for one feel blessed for being a part of her life. May you find peace in your memories.Sincerely, Bonnie Herdina
Jonah Triebwasser
November 1, 2012
I am saddened beyond measure by the passing of a respected colleague. In my years as Deputy Regional Attorney at NYSDEC Region 3, I always looked forward to working on cases with Drayton. Her dedication to environmental protection, her warmth and her sparkling sense of humor will long be remembered.
Sincerely,
Jonah Triebwasser,
Justice, Town and Village of Red Hook
Kiki Steele
November 1, 2012
I think Drayton was one of the most wonderful women I've known. We were in Rotary together, and she was always kind, funny, and full of endless questions about others, always listening hard to the answers. I miss her and her wonderful spirit already. May you have peace in knowing that she touched many hearts. Kiki Steele
November 1, 2012
Peace and comfort may come to you in this time of loss.
"He is healing the brokenhearted and binding his wounds".
Psalm 147:3
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