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Drayton Grant

Rhinebeck - Drayton Grant, an early and dedicated protector of the environment and practitioner of environmental law for more than 30 years, died October 31, 2012 after a fierce battle with lung cancer. Drayton was born June 11, 1948 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, the first child of Dr. Joseph L. and Mary Drayton Grant. As a very young child she accompanied her parents to postwar Germany and occupied Vienna. Drayton grew up in Hanover, New Hampshire and Norwich, Vermont. She is a graduate of the Westover School in Middlebury, Connecticut, Smith College, and Brooklyn Law School, where she was an editor of the Law Review. Drayton started her career as a lawyer in 1975 at the New York City law firm of Donovan Leisure Newton & Irvine. After Donovan Leisure, she served as an attorney with the New York State Department of Environmental Conservation, and from 1983 until 1987 she served as a Deputy Commissioner of the Department of Environmental Conservation with responsibility for New York State wide land use and conservation programs. From 1988 until recently she practiced environmental and land use law throughout the Hudson Valley from her offices in Rhinebeck, New York with the firm of Grant & Lyons LLP.

John Lyons, who has been Drayton's friend for 20 years and her law partner at Grant & Lyons, the firm she co-founded, said: "Drayton was an extraordinary person and in the course of her life was an inspiration to many. Her tremendous capacity to love her fellow men and women, her rock solid integrity and character, her easy sense of humor and boundless joie de vivre, her intelligence and indomitable spirit were known by all. Her positive impact on those she knew and loved and on her community will be a lasting testament to her spirit and her life. She left her friends, her community and our world so much better than she found them."

Drayton had a long professional and personal interest in the environment and was a recognized expert in environmental and land use matters. Among her many interests, Drayton served on the Boards of Dutchess County institutions Hudson River Heritage, Winnakee Land Trust, Hudsonia, the Sloop Clearwater and Northern Dutchess Hospital. She was also a long time and devoted member of Rotary. She also served on the Board of the Westover School in Middlebury, Connecticut in the mid 1980s and as a trustee of St. John the Evangelist in Barrytown, New York for many years. She was a principal mover in the creation of Burger Hill Park in Rhinebeck, New York, a 76 acre privately owned park.

Drayton loved to ski and was an avid golfer and great proponent of teeing off forward of fairway hazards. Drayton was also a member of the Northeast Harbor Golf Club and the Edgewood Club of Tivoli, and a long time Patron of the Metropolitan Opera.

Drayton was a direct descendent of Benjamin Rush, a signer of the Declaration of Independence, and John Drayton, a president of the Insurance Company of North America. She was also a direct descendent of the pioneer neurosurgeon, Francis Grant, and a founder of the international law firm, Morgan Lewis and Bockius, Francis Draper Lewis.

Drayton made her home in Rhinebeck, New York for more than 29 years and summered all her life in Seal Cove, Maine. Drayton is survived by her husband of 30 years, Wayne Baden, her 2 sons, Samuel Grant Baden and Nathaniel Rush Baden, her sisters Barbara Grant of Shelburne, VT and Priscilla Grant of Cleveland, Ohio, and her brother Charles Grant, of Tacoma, Wa., and her mother, Mary Drayton Grant of Shelburne, VT.

Calling hours are Friday, 4 to 8 PM, at the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home (dapsonchestney.com), 51 W. Market St., Rhinebeck . Funeral services will be held Saturday, 2 PM, at the Church of the Messiah, 6436 Montgomery St. Rhinebeck, NY.

Drayton asks that in lieu of flowers or other memorials, donations be made to the Winnakee Land Trust, P.O. Box 610, Rhinebeck, NY 12572.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Poughkeepsie Journal from Nov. 1 to Nov. 3, 2012.

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Caroline Rider

October 26, 2021

Thinking of you, Drayton.... and of you, Wayne and of her beloved Boys.... the whole Valley misses you. Caroline Rider, Smith '71, NYU Law '74, early Hudson River Heritage director.... we had so much in common!

Robin Kaufmann

October 26, 2020

To the Family of Drayton Grant; working with Drayton was an ease; Drayton your name comes up often in this planning board office; your work on projects was effortless strategic and asset; can't phantom you have been gone this long; know you touched my heart and work ethics in so many ways. I'm grateful to have had the honor to work with you; see you in the stars ! xo

Robin Kaufmann

October 28, 2019

Drayton Grant, it was an honor working with you at the Town of Shawangunk Planning Board; you were a great mentor and I learned a lot; you have come up in conversation many times since your passing; you are still remembered and well respected. With sincere kindness Robin Kaufmann

Bruce Zablow

November 20, 2012

Wayne,

I just found out about your wife's passing. I am so sorry for you and your sons. She must have been a remarkable person from reading her obituary.

Robin Kaufmann

November 9, 2012

We lost a brilliant lady, friend. It was a privilege and honor to work with her at the Town of Shawangunk Planning Board. My thoughts are with her family

Jill Fisher

November 8, 2012

So sorry to hear of Drayton's passing today. Although I knew her only briefly through work for the Town of Woodstock, I felt like I had met a kindred spirit & only wish I could have known her better. My deepest sympathies to her family & friends.
"Death is not putting out the light...it is extinguishing the lamp because the dawn has come." R. Tagore

Caroline Rider

November 6, 2012

Wayne, Nate, and Sam -- I just this minute found out that Drayton is gone....I am SO sorry....I've known Drayton since we did an English seminar together at Smith...I think it was on Henry James....and then as a colleague and fellow preservationist. It is shocking that she has gone so early. Her warmth and energy will be missed. Take care.
Caroline Rider

Nevien Sidarous

November 3, 2012

With sincere sympathy to her family and friends. I had the pleasure of communicating with her a few times and she impressed me by being the remarkable women she is. She will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and loved ones.

November 2, 2012

Our most sincere sympathies go out to you Wayne, to you Sam, and to you, Nate. We are all so sad to hear this news. Drayton was always so warm to all of us whenever we got together at family events. It is so impressive to read about her dedication to environmental law and her many accomplishments and contributions. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief.
Love,
Sidney and Arline Graber
Andy Graber
Evan and Cindy Graber
Brienne and Michael Lemire
Bethany and Kelsey Graber

Richard cunningham

November 2, 2012

She will be missed in her family as well as all her friends in the community and anyone who was fortunate to have known her. Farewell, my friend until we meet again.

Maureen Gtaes

November 2, 2012

With deepest condolences, Drayton was an amazing woman. She was always willing to lead a cause or lend a helping hand. She has been and will be missed. Wishing her family comfort at this difficult time. May happy memories warm your heart and comfort you.

November 2, 2012

To the family of Drayton, I am very sorry for your loss. I first met Drayton when Sam and Nate were in Northern Dutchess Daycare and I was a teacher's aide. She left a lasting impression on me as a very dynamic person. Later we reconnected when I became a member of St. Johns in Barrytown where I have many happy memories of greeting with her and our talks at coffee hour. She has left quite a legacy and I for one feel blessed for being a part of her life. May you find peace in your memories.Sincerely, Bonnie Herdina

Jonah Triebwasser

November 1, 2012

I am saddened beyond measure by the passing of a respected colleague. In my years as Deputy Regional Attorney at NYSDEC Region 3, I always looked forward to working on cases with Drayton. Her dedication to environmental protection, her warmth and her sparkling sense of humor will long be remembered.
Sincerely,
Jonah Triebwasser,
Justice, Town and Village of Red Hook

Kiki Steele

November 1, 2012

I think Drayton was one of the most wonderful women I've known. We were in Rotary together, and she was always kind, funny, and full of endless questions about others, always listening hard to the answers. I miss her and her wonderful spirit already. May you have peace in knowing that she touched many hearts. Kiki Steele

November 1, 2012

Peace and comfort may come to you in this time of loss.
"He is healing the brokenhearted and binding his wounds".
Psalm 147:3

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