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Robin Dodge
March 8, 2025
Im just a fan of the family guess not much meaning but still today I finish the saying... Lydia always said her saying and grandma added the drink...I loved it!!! RIP Grandma you may not have been my mom or my grandma but you influenced me in many ways
A viewer
October 29, 2024
While I personally didn't know the lovely Nonna personally, but I adored how she would "take over the shows" with her own method choices, ideas, songs and words of wisdom! I had no idea she was gone and I was just boasting today on Lydia and her relationship and their lovely camaraderie when I found out. Thank you for sharing her with us for all these years. May God continue to bless the family.
Dr. Rosemarie Till PhD's
February 16, 2024
I just seen a place where we can leave our condolences when Grandma entered God's Beautiful Heavens. What a wonderful woman to have in your life, she lived, enjoyed life 100 years. To my John a retired Master Chef (29 yrs) I couldn't wait to watch your beautiful show and instructions. And then you brought out Grandma, to taste your food and her singing her favorite songs that will never leave the memories of people who watched Grandma and Lidia everyday. Grandma has joined other family members now and is looking down over her family here on Earth. God Bless Grandma's family.
AnnaMaria DiLalla Schmidt
August 25, 2023
Condolences to the Family
Erminia made me cry every-time she sang her nostalgic Songs. It always took me back to my mom when she would sing hers too and also her smile and warmth brought tears to my eyes God love her. I will miss seeing her with Lidia on her TV Show . A loving Fan for over 25 years
Yvonne Byron
May 26, 2023
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Jeanette Starykowicz
May 15, 2023
Been a fan of Lydia's for a while, became a fan of her mother's while enjoying Lydia's show on local PBS. Always a pleasant presence on the show. Prayers and hugs to family and friends.
Robert M Grippo
February 26, 2023
We met Lidia and her Mom at a book signing on LI her Mom was simply wonderful - a loving kind and a full with heart - May She Rest In Peace condolences to the family
Rosanne Valdez
February 15, 2023
Still remember her beautiful smile
Cecilia Castro Hancock
November 5, 2022
My deepest condolences, I admire and always will be fan of Erminia / Grandma as Lidia said
What an example of strength, faith and love for family
Rest In Peace, just now I learned of her passing
Love and blessings to all the family
Bictoria Mejicano
October 13, 2022
She was A beautiful Person so Loving and A wonderful Cook! God Bless all the Family, and Rest In Peace With Our Savior Jesus Christ Amen.
Cathi Cogle
October 10, 2022
All the years i ahve watch Lidia´s cooking shows and Nonna has reminded me of my own grandmother. She was so entertaining and genuine! Rest in Peace, Nonna, you have earned it, and will be greatly missed by your family and friends!
Ann & Hector Nava
October 8, 2022
Dear Lidia, For many years we enjoyed your programs on PBS, especially with Grandma. She was animated, recalled fun memories from her childhood, and was beautiful inside and out. We wanted a grandma like her. In May 2020 we recorded and still watch every few months the last episode with Grandma. We memorized "Tutti a tavalo a mangiare" so we could say it together with you and her. How blessed your family is to have had her 100 years. Even now every day you remember something about her. May God bless your family for generations. RIP Grandma, we love and miss you!
Pamela Craighead
October 7, 2022
Lydia I just learned of the passing of your mother,I wanted to send my deepest condolences. Whenever I watched your show on our local PBS station in VA, I enjoyed seeing the love that you and your mother "Grandma" shared. And most of all I loved to hear your Grandma sing. She will truly be missed, but it the memories that comforts us on the the days when it seems so unbearable. Prayers to you and your family
Kaylee Campbell
September 22, 2022
I remember her well from the Lidia's Kitchen shows on the PBS Create channel in Reno, NV. She will be well missed, and my sympathies/condolences to the family. Thank you.
Al Biondi
September 11, 2022
May she rest in peace with the lord Jesus Christ. A life well lived,she lived a century because of her love of her family and her family's love for her along with a lifetime of great healthy food and a positive outlook on life. She will be missed by all.
Shawn Clerkin
August 28, 2022
All of us were so blesses to have Mrs Motika share her stories and songs. Thank you for helping her be a part of all of our lives.
John Paul Musser
August 14, 2022
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Jane Bares
August 10, 2022
I just learned about your mom now. My husband of 51 years passed away February 15,2021. I had the honour of meeting your mom. She entertained us in your family home. She spoiled us. She was a gem. She let my children play pool.she stuffed us with food. She was so welcoming and warm. I enjoy watching you and following you. I am friends with Zorran and his children. My husband was godfather to Dillon. You were very lucky to have someone so special. Well I offer you my deepest sympathies. Sorry I am so late. I treasure the signed copy of your cook book your mom gave me. Anyway I will always be a fan.
Dondi
July 21, 2022
As a longtime viewer of your wonderful cooking show- so many recipes and methods you´ve used I´ve memorized and have become staples in my cooking- my favorite highlight being the moment your sweet mother would appear to bring a reverent sparkle and beauty to each meal you´d serve- I had missed seeing her appear, and am so sad to learn she has passed on. So lovely was she and her presence. May God bless and continue to fill your hearts with her loving precious memories and presence.
Thomas F. O'Brien
July 3, 2022
I just learned for your mother's death as I watched your show and saw "In memory of.." I was able to remember your mother and your family at Mass this morning.
Isabel Rivero
July 2, 2022
Lydia Bastianish please receive my very late but deeply heartfelled condolences on the passing of you Mother, Nonna Mima reminds me very much of my Mima also passed, I think they are both cooking and laughing in Heaven. All my love to you and your family, Isabel
Joel
June 5, 2022
I just learned of "Nonna Mima" passing. I loved her on PBS... talking, singing, and her love for food, wine, and most obviously her family. I am praying for you all! Always remember that although she´s not here anymore, she will always be with you! Love never dies!
Li Baptiste
June 1, 2022
Hello,
I learned of this great matriarch while watching PBS. I will miss her zest for life, passion for food, and great care from gardening to the family. I am grateful that she was able to be so vibrant and strong for such a long time. She even survived the worst of the pandemic! Thank you for sharing her with us.
Melanie Fogarty
May 22, 2022
Oh how you will be missed by not only your family and friends, but by so many of us who loved watching you on PBS with your daughter Lidia, and sometimes your grandchildren and great- grandchildren.
I know you touched many people over the years.
May your spirit live on and protect your loved ones.
Pat Hughes
May 8, 2022
Dear Lidia,
I just spent Mother's Day afternoon watching several episodes of your show on PBS, knowing the void that is especially felt on this day by anyone who has lost their Mom. I lost my grandmother who raised me 25 years ago and although time eases the pain, we never stop missing them. Your mother's last hairstyle made her look so much like my grandmother! Thank you for sharing her with your audience. I hope she realized how loved she was by everyone. Thinking of you on Mother's Day
Bianca Molinari
April 28, 2022
Dear Lidia:
I just learned through the watching of your program of the passing of your adorable mother Nonna Mima.
She was so full of grace and charm and added so much to your cooking show.
She will be inmmensibly missed.
Please keep on playing her singing so we can never forget her.
Bianca Molinari
Cara Lidia:
Being of Italian heritaage I could really identify with her sweetest charm. She added so much grace to your cooking shows
Please keep on playing her singing. She was so precious.
Rest In Peace adoratta Nonna..
Bianca Molinari
Katherine Alford
April 27, 2022
Love, peace and condolences. She is a precious soul and she brought joy to your programs. My mom is 99. We are blessed to have them so long!
Jennifer Laman
April 23, 2022
Dear Lidia, I'm a long time fan of yours and loved when your mom was on, stories of your grandma and the old country. On today's show you said something about "when life gets the better of us" and I started crying without knowing why. A few moments later I saw that this show was in memory of your mom and I understood. From one loving daughter to another, peace to you and your family.
Camilla Iacolino
April 23, 2022
I smiled when I realized that she made her 100th birthday ...a grand birthday for a grand lady! She brought so much joy to her her beloved Lydia's show. My thoughts go out to you as you are blessed by the memory of Nonna Mima.
Karri Anne Huemoeller Jones
April 20, 2022
Our heart is with the family in this time of grief. Know God blankets you with his peace. GRANDMA was a very special person to so many !
Jennyann a Sorco
April 18, 2022
I just heard of your dear Mother's passing. I am terribly sorry. I loved watching her with you and your beautiful family on your show.
Kay Aldridge
April 15, 2022
I only knew Erminia from Lidia´s Kitchen. I loved seeing her smile. She was a gracious lady with great wisdom and charm! RIP
Candice Morrison
April 13, 2022
I am so very sorry for your loss! I am very sorry I just learned of this. I pray God gives you peace in your faith and memories of your mother, grandmother and just a fantastic lady. Everyone wants a mom or grandma like Erminia!
Vincent Fanelli
April 9, 2022
I used to watch Lisa's show alot with my mother. My mother used to get a big kick out of your mother. I lost my mom in 2018 and moved to Florida and I haven't watched the show lately. I just found out your mother passed and felt a great loss. Sorry for your loss and continued success.
Renee
April 4, 2022
My deepest sympathy. Your Grandma will be deeply missed. I love seeing her on the show. Thank you for sharing her with us and know that she is dearly loved.
Sandra
April 3, 2022
I'm very sorry for your loss. Your Mom, Nonna, & Grandnonna was a joy to watch & listen to whenever I saw her on TV. Such a feisty lady with a great sense of humor and sparkle, I'll always remember her.
Olga Morozewych
March 31, 2022
I sensed her recent missing on Lidia's show and admired her. She brought her daughter up to be a great business woman and to have a cooking show. I wish I had that push to shove in life.....maybe someday.
Janice and Oliver Bennett
March 28, 2022
Just saw on a recent Lidia's cooking show that Grandma has passed away. We are so sorry to hear that. She was a great lady. Thanks for sharing her with us, Lidia. We know you will all miss her greatly. We will miss her, too.
Latoya
March 27, 2022
Thank you, for sharing your mother and grandmother with us. She went to heaven, and I will miss her dearly. Be strong, be encouraged, and prayerful. Amen
Dan Austin
March 19, 2022
A real sweetie! Thank you, dear lady, (and Miss Lidia), for reminding me of my Grandmother & Life's inspiration, Lydia! (The orphan who raised 9 children, plus Grandpa!) HaHa!
Erick Ramirez florida
March 7, 2022
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Antoinette L
March 6, 2022
So sorry to hear about the loss of such a beautiful lady. She was always very happy and smiling on the show. I was watching a show today and saw that she passed. My daughter and I love watching the show. I will miss seeing her. My own grandmother lived to be 96 and what a pleasure to have her with me for such a long time. I miss her dearly! The lessons Nonna left behind will live forever!
Mary Jo
February 26, 2022
So loved seeing and listening to Grandma. Such a beautiful and full life. RIP
BP
February 20, 2022
She´ll be Dearly Missed, God Bless the Family Always.
Rosanne Valdez
February 15, 2022
Still miss seeing her
Claire
February 6, 2022
I adore hearing Grandma sing! At the end of all Lidia's PBS cooking shows. Thank you for sharing her joyous spirit. And life. Reminds me of my Italian Great Grandma...too.
Cathy
January 30, 2022
Every time I watch Lidia, I look forward to the end just to see Grandma sing & tell stories. I love it. Miss her very much.
Amanda Morse
January 29, 2022
So sorry to learn of Erminias passing. I too, loved seeing and hearing her sing on your show. She will be terribly missed.
Evelyn Carrillo
January 25, 2022
Erminia was a joy to watch and a gift to your family..but Lidia she left us YOU to continue bringing us that wonderful spark of tradition and love we often long for from countries all over the globe.
My heartfelt condolences to you and yours, mothers are truly special.
Christine LaMonica
January 20, 2022
I was so sad to see on your show the memory of Erminia dedication. I loved seeing her on your program. I loved the scene of her gardening and hearing her stories and songs. She was inspirational and I'm sure your family misses her dearly but she has certainly left a legacy in your children. I look forward to seeing those clips on your show to let that legacy live on.
Carla Wyatt
January 15, 2022
She was a beautiful joy and everyone´s Grandma! When I learned that she´d passed close to my own Mother´s passing at age 93, I realized, we will never watch her together again. My deepest and most humble sympathies go out to your entire family as the love for her and her love in return was so visible on screen. God bless and the warmest of wishes during this difficult time.
Donna J Smolak
January 15, 2022
I loved your program when your mom drank and sang with you. That is so special. I watch all the time. God Bless Erminia Motika she must have been quite a wonderful influence on your life and your family. May she Rest In Peace
Fina de grijze
January 2, 2022
I loved watching her when ever she was on the cooking show. She will be greatly missed. It was a joy to hear sing also. R.I.P.NONA
Phil Smith Louisville, KY
January 1, 2022
I just found out of her passing a couple of weeks ago. She was such a special, special person. I loved her so much and looked forward to seeing her on Lidia's television show. Lidia, I am so sorry.
Carolyn Schneider
December 27, 2021
As a devoted fan of yours Lidia, I was so saddened to hear of the loss of your beloved Momma Erminia. She was a beloved addition to your show and had a wealth of wisdom to share with us all. What a shining example of class she had and her family shares. Rest In Peace Nonna
Sharon Gorskey
December 27, 2021
I watched Grandma for many years on her daughter's show. I will miss seeing her! Rest in peace. She sort of reminded me of my grandma.
Barbara Noto
December 25, 2021
I enjoyed seeing and listening to your Mom on your show. Such a Darling person. I will miss her much.OXOX My prayers are with you and your family..
Marie Stompanato Belsanti
December 25, 2021
My deepest condolences to Lydia and her family on the loss of her Mother. I loved watching her on Lydia´s shows. She was a treasure! Riposa in pace
Angela Sgro
December 25, 2021
Dear Lidia and Family,
I had no idea that "Grandma" had passed. I am so sorry. I was watching an episode of Lidia´s Kitchen and saw the "in memory of" at the end. It made me cry. I felt like I knew her. She seemed like such a lovely woman. My heart goes out to you, but I hope it comforts you to know that strangers the world over feel like we also lost a beloved family member. Rest with the angels in heavenly peace dear lady.
May God Bless you all. With sympathy and love,
Angela Sgro & Family
Anastasia Katagas
December 21, 2021
May her memory be eternal.Rest in peace sweet lady
Lucille Fascitelli
December 18, 2021
My prayers go out to Erminia's family. Ill miss Grandma on Lydia's cookng shows on PBS.
Gary Watson
December 18, 2021
Please accept my belated condolences at Grandma's passing. Thank you Lydia for sharing your mother with me. I enjoyed you both together on the show.
Naomi Brandner
December 14, 2021
I'm very sorry for your loss. I loved Grandma on Lydia's Italy. My thoughts and prayers are with you this difficult time.
Ellen Grabowski
December 12, 2021
So sorry to hear about your Mother's passing. I loved watching her on Lidia's show. She reminded me of my Nonna, who was also named Erminia.
Aneesa Aazimi
November 30, 2021
Rest in Peace Nona.
I will miss watching her on Lidia's cooking show on PBS. She was so vibrant and fun. Thank you Lidia for letting us know her. How nice that she lived to a 100.
Ronald E Abel
November 24, 2021
Lydia. I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother and matriarch of your family. I'm a huge fan of yours. Your mother was so amazing and I loved watching her on your show. She is now with our maker and you no longer have to worry. May God bless you and your family at this time.
Dot Delarosa
November 20, 2021
I loved seeing her on her daughters cooking show Lidias kitchen. She was so sweet! I´m sorry for your loss.
Maryann
November 20, 2021
I always enjoyed watching your mother on your show. I would always say to my husband she looks like my grandmother. I showed him the one picture I have of her and he said yes she does look like Lydia's mother. God Bless.
Christine Armigo, MSN, RN
November 20, 2021
To Lidia and family: it is so lovely to see the abundance of warm messages to you, from viewers, about your sweet Mama. She was the highlight of each show where she appeared alongside you. Blessings!
Mary Alice Brittingham
November 20, 2021
I cannot express enough to tell Lidia and family how wonderful it was that you shared Grandma with us all through the years of PBS television shows. Thank you. I know that you will miss her tremendously.
Libby Hedrick
November 20, 2021
My family sooooo enjoyed her. Her thoughts and her singing as seen on Lydia´s wonderful cooking program on PBS were always a joy. She was a bright light and we looked forward to her cheerful presence. We miss her. May she happily reside in Paradise.
The Grider-Hartman Family
November 19, 2021
Lidia we offer our deepest, heartfelt, sympathies for the loss of your sweet momma.
Janice
November 18, 2021
I felt it when I learned of Grandma's passing. We all will go that way someday, but I will miss seeing Grandma on Lidia's show. She was always so cheerful and beautiful. Lidia and Grandma had such good camaraderie. God bless Lidia and the family. Grandma has left a wonderful legacy for her family.
Puccinelli Family
November 18, 2021
Our condolences to the family. Erminia always put a smile on our faces and thank you for that.
The LaPreziosa Family
November 14, 2021
Just learned of the passing of "Nona". ( She seemed to be everyone's Nona). When my family and I would see her on screen I would feel warmth and you could see the pride she had in her daughter.
Blessings to you all!
Laura and Larry Floral Park NY
November 14, 2021
To Lydia and family. We just finished watching your show and learned of Nonna´s passing. Sorry for your loss
Siobhan, Marin County, CA
November 14, 2021
O, mi dispiace. I learned just now that Nonna has passed away. I just LOVED her on Lidia's show. What a jazzy lady with lots of spirit & heart. Keep having fun, Signora.
Mariam & Max
November 13, 2021
Our condolences to you and your family Lidia, we enjoyed seeing your mom on tv here in Toronto Canada. She had a great sense of humour, we loved watching enjoying the food and singing and Italian riddles. Rest In Peace Nona.
Mariam & Max
The Nelson´s
November 13, 2021
Our condolences. We enjoyed seeing her and Lidia talking and singing. Rest In Peace. You´ll be missed.
Charlene case
November 13, 2021
Lidia and family,
I was so very sorry to see of your mother´s death. I only know her from your show, but I loved to see her in the end and to hear her sing. She seemed so sweet.
Peter Gesell
November 13, 2021
The world has lost a special person. May you find peace in your cherished memories.
Millie Ruprecht
November 13, 2021
I just found out today that of Nona´s passing.
I am very sorry for her loss. I loved watching Lidia´s shows with Nona coming to lunch , her singing and how proud she was of Lidia and I´m sure of her full family.
Again, God bless her and her whole family.
May she Rest In Peace
Rosemary Cabral Moreno. South Carolina
November 13, 2021
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. My heart goes out to you and your family. She was such a wonderful woman. My she rest in peace. She will be missed by so many people. I'm in tears. just saw at the end of your show today that she passed. My heart breaks for all of you. Grandma made this world a better place. Rest in peace.
Diane Beaudoin
November 9, 2021
Such a pure, honest, hard working soul reminding us of many ancestors has greatly affected the betterment of our world. Deepest sympathy.
CJ
November 7, 2021
I am a long-time viewer of Lydia's show and just learned today of 'Grandma's' passing. I had kept all episodes of the show that included her in them so I could watch them again and see this wonderful lady; she was just so precious and funny and 'real', telling Lydia to give her a little more of this or that, and I loved her little anecdotes and songs. This family was so blessed to have her. May she rest in peace. (From a grandmother in Montreal).
Debby
November 7, 2021
Dear Lidia -
I only recently learned that "Grandma" passed away. Although I love all of your programs, my favorites were those with her. Her sense of humor, love of singing, and appreciation for well-prepared food always brought a smile to my face.
Although I didn't personally know her, I shall miss her very much.
Jackie Hauser in Beaverton OR
November 6, 2021
We share your tears and joyful memories. Your show is always a tribute to Grandma.
S. I. Drake - Lt/IPD | IMPD (Ret)
November 6, 2021
Grazie, nona. Condoglianze alla tua fimiglia.
Susan Bavlish
November 4, 2021
I loved seeing grandma and hearing her stories and songs. I´m very sorry for your loss. I will miss her beautiful soul. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Nancy Lang
November 3, 2021
Grandma's zest for life, her everlasting exuberance and beautiful smile will be long remembered - may she forever rest peacefully !
Adele Kupchik
October 30, 2021
I just saw your wonderful, dear mom passed back in February, on my mom´s birthday. I lost my mom in 2015. Erminia was such a sweet and gentle soul. I guess Motika is a common name as we have a branch of our own family of Motykas, just spelled differently. I´m actually crying over your loss because Grandma will be dearly missed. Condolences to you and you family, Lidia.
Donna in Memphis
October 30, 2021
Oh, how Grandma will be so missed by so many - especially her singing. Til we meet again.
Glenna Huls
October 30, 2021
So sorry to hear of your mother's death. She greatly enjoyed her long life and enriched the lives of many. I always enjoyed her presence on your cooking show. Mourn well, remember her well.
Eileen McGranaghan
October 30, 2021
Dear Lidia and Family,
I just saw at the end of your PBS cooking show that Grandma passed in February. I felt so sad for you all. All of your viewers enjoyed her dearly and she will be missed. She was lovely! So much fun! My grandmother was so much like her and died at 93 y.o. Thank you for sharing her with us. Heartfelt Condolences.
Eileen McGranaghan, Northwood NH
Monty and Candice from Nashville
October 30, 2021
So sorry to see Grandma passed away. We loved her as much as any other part of the show.
Marcia Loudin
October 30, 2021
I just watched Lidia's Kitchen and saw that grandma has passed. My heart is broken. I so enjoyed her being on the show. She was such a sweetheart. My deepest sympathies to the family. I will miss her as I watch the show from now on. Thank you grandma for the sayings and the songs.
Eileen & Steve Faughnan
October 30, 2021
We´ve just watched Lydia´s Kitchen and saw the dedication. We were not aware of "Nona Mima´s" passing and had to take this opportunity to extend our condolences! We are fans of the show and will sorely miss her. How fitting it seems that she passed on Valentine´s Day! And how special that she was able to celebrate her 100th birthday-we hope it was a happy day for her! A loss of a parent/grandparent/greatgrandparent is a great loss no matter their age. But the lovely memories you must have-We hope you celebrate them as much as possible. We love what we see of your family and wish you all peace and joy. Especially "Nona Mima"!
Debra C.
October 30, 2021
I just saw that Grandma passed away my deepest condolences to you and your family. She will be truly missed thank you for sharing her with us.
Jane & Mike Goulart
October 23, 2021
We just watched your show tonight and saw where Grandma died. I am wiping tears. I am of Sicilian decent and Grandma so reminded me of my Great Aunt Francesca. I feel like I lost a family member. We so enjoyed when she was part of your show. She had a great wit and what. Beautiful lady! Sending condolences.
Janice Druskis
October 23, 2021
Dear Lidia and Family; I offer you my sincere sympathy for your loss of dear "Grandma". I feel so sad at the thought of never seeing her taste your fabulous meals and treats. I really loved Grandma and will miss her so much. I'm so sorry for the pain you are going through with her gone. Love from San Francisco, CA. Janissima
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