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Gregory Cotter Obituary
BEACON - Gregory E. Cotter, 42, a longtime resident of Beacon, died on May 31, 2011 in Beacon.
Born on February 26, 1969, he was the son of Gerard Cotter and Esther Breedveld Cotter.
He resided in the South Shore of Mass. until the age of 19. He settled down in Beacon, NY where he lived with his wife and daughter. He graduated from the Northeast Broadcasting School in 1994 and worked as a contractor later owning his own business specializing in professional painting.
On August 18, 2004 in Ocean City, MD, he married the only woman he ever loved, Nancy L. Phillips Cotter, who survives at home. They shared 19 loving, wonderful years together. He was predeceased by his mother Esther Cotter and brother Gerard Cotter.
He is also survived by his daughter, Samantha Daniel; grandson, Izaiah Gaither; brothers, Joseph Minichiello and Thomas Cotter; sisters, Angela Minichiello, Jane Sinclair, Carolyn Schaupp, Angela Palmer, Elisa and Leah Hirsh-Cotter; and many other family members and close friends.
He was an avid Boston Red Sox and New England Patriots fan. He was passionate about music, exercising, and playing his guitar. His sense of humor always made you laugh uncontrollably and will never be forgotten.
Greg was the guy who was always willing to help anyone in need and was a loving father and cherished each moment with his grandson, who he called "Beanbag."
The Memorial Service will be held on June 14, 2011 at 10 am at the Fishkill Baptist Church, 107 Route 82, Fishkill. www.fishkillbaptist.net.
In lieu of flowers, a college scholarship fund for his grandson, Izaiah Gaither, has been set up. Contributions can be mailed to: Hudson Valley Federal Credit Union, C/O Izaiah Gaither College Fund, 159 Barnegat Rd., Poughkeepsie, NY 12601.
For driving directions, memorial donations, or to send the family online condolences, please visit www.mchoulfuneralhome.com.
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for Gregory Cotter
Karen
May 30, 2024
Hoping your at peace Greg can hardly believe you´ve been gone so long but never forgotten praying for your family today Rest easy
THOMAS COTTER
June 17, 2020
I miss my brother more every day love you brother .Brady went to Tampa bay . I will be a Tampa bay fan till he sucks you brother from Boston
Wayne Maher
May 30, 2019
I often think of you Greg from time to time since you passed on to the other side, certain moments in my everyday walk in like remind of the laughter we use to share and how extravagant you used to do everything. Boy you were something else at times LOL!!
Youre always there in my heart and Im so happy to leave you this message today. And one day I really dont know when Ill get to see you on the other side. Until then Ill miss you buddy. Do me a favor tell Bill I said hi
May 30, 2019
Miss you bro
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Nancy Cotter
July 5, 2011
Gregory, You always made sure we went to see some kind of fireworks every 4th of July because you knew how much I loved fireworks and Boston always out did them all.The hardest part about this weekend is you proposed to me on the 4th of July on our front porch after a great time watching the fireworks at Memorial Park. I was just there last night with Sam, Ellen,Barb and Adam with his 3 children and by God's Grace Adams 2 year old little girl was so excited and so happy I was actually able to feel Joy because of that precious little girl. That was a Gift... I still cry everyday Gregory... Right now I have a giant hole in my heart and I miss you so much but what's most important is you are now at peace and you're watching over all of us who love you so much.
I Love You Gregory... Forever... Nancy
From your sister Carolyn
Carolyn Schaupp (Pettipaw)
July 4, 2011
Greg...I left a message at your number last summer...because I visited NY...I really wanted to see you and meet your wife and all...wasn't meant to be...I believe we will meet again. Condolences to Nancy...and all your other friends and relatives in New York. My daughter Tinneke and I recently went to a Red Sox game...we hate the Yankees too. Rest in Peace little brother...till we meet again...love you.
Michelle Gregory
July 3, 2011
Greg, Every day that you are gone is one more day that I miss you. Our friendship is something that I will treasure forever. I miss our phone calls of encouragement to each other. You have made me a stronger woman, and for that, I thank you. I know now that you are feeling peace, and that was so hard for you to attain in life. Rest well, my dear friend!
Anthony Minichiello
June 28, 2011
Uncle Greg, We all miss you and love you. I'll never forget the time we spent together in Hull. I couldn't stop laughing the whole time. You're an amazing person and you will be greatly missed. I love you.
My Heart... Ocean City, MD 2009
Nancy Cotter
June 26, 2011
Nancy Cotter
June 26, 2011
Hi Gregory, I miss you more everyday... It isn't getting easier but I am so happy you're in Heaven riding the waves in the ocean, playing guitar and of course making everyone in heaven laugh. I wish so many things so I'm not going to go on and on but I can't wait to see those beautiful eyes again one day. Until then You already know I will Love You Forever and never stop missing you. I Love You, Nancy
My Heart.... Ocean City, MD 2009
Nancy Cotter
June 26, 2011
Greg & Bill a.k.a. stick of gum Ocean City, MD 2009
Nancy Cotter
June 26, 2011
brandon cotter
June 20, 2011
i had just spoken to my unlce greg prior to deploying..i always enjoyed my motivation talks on the phone with him..from the very beginning of my time in the marines, until i deployed, he was always intrigued and wanted updates on my every move...i will never forget the celtics and bruins games he treated me to when he visited, all the those years back...a 20 minute phone call with someone u love in ur life, and when they are genuinely interested in ur current circumstances, truly goes a long way with me, especially so close to leavin the states
Samantha Daniel
June 18, 2011
Dad its not getting any easier as the days go by like everyone said it would. Tomorrow is Father's Day and you're not here to read the card I got for and cry like you do every year! The pain is so unbearable. God I would give anything for just one more hug!!! I love you so much!!!
james casey
June 16, 2011
wouldnt trade one second of our friendship your laugh was contagious.your humor was epic.truely a great loss.i will miss you my brother.may gods love embrace you
Cheryl Spencer
June 14, 2011
To the Cotter Family,
I knew Greg during elementary school days at Humphrey School. It doesn't surprise me to read the many posts about Greg being the one to make everyone laugh! That is what I remember most about him! In 6th grade, each student was to create an "invention" and present an oral report or "marketing message" to the class. While most had an "average" report, students from both 6th grade classes were invited to see Greg's "Automatic Breakfast Machine", complete with a plate of real bacon, eggs, and toast, which came out of a box that Greg made to look like a machine. Although "you had to be there" to see this truly humorous and unique invention, the ones who knew Greg well, I'm sure could picture the talent that took place. I always compared Greg's sense of humor to actor Robin Williams, who also made everyone laugh. My deepest sympathy to the entire Cotter family.
kevin odea
June 13, 2011
greg the nite we played basketball,at geering park was one to remember.you me and willie,against those three from albany.that one guy really smoked you,and that is why we lost consecutive games.the guy that took your serenity away was good enough to play with the pros.
it was also nice to teach you songs on the guitar,although i wasn't into metal
i taught you what i knew.
i knew greg for many years,and he hated yankees,and by the way i met david ortiz yesterday.
i was stunned to hear about your dimiss
and i love you,and always will think about our jam sessions together.
karen euber
June 13, 2011
to the entire cotter family: I am so sorry for the loss of greg. we go back many years,i have the most cherished childhood memories of greg. I can hardly beleive he is gone. he will be greatly missed and always remembered! rip greg!
Izaiah Gaither
June 12, 2011
Grandpa,
I will always love you. You're deep in my heart. I'll miss you because you taught me how to play guitar and talk. I'll miss you taking me out in my car and going on our nature walks.
Love, Beanbag
Ellen Haspel
June 10, 2011
Nancy, I am so sad for your loss. Greg is someone I will never forget. He had the biggest heart and he loved you with ALL of it. Some people are put on this earth to make us smile. I am smiling now just thinking about how much fun it was to be in the same room with him. He was the quickest wit and a real teddy bear under that tough guy facade. i was lucky to have known him.
A happy day in Beacon
June 10, 2011
Jenny Minichiello
June 10, 2011
I'll miss him very. He was an awesome person.
Wayne Maher
June 9, 2011
Greg I'll miss you very much there is a special place in my heart for you. Over the years we had many laughs and boy how you could put me in stiches at times. I enjoyed our friendship and the memory of you will be with me always. God bless you! I'll miss you, see ya in heaven brother! And Nancy, Samantha, and Beanbag please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of a husband, father, and grandfather and AWSOME person. I love you all very much and you can bet you'll all be in my prayers. See you all later.
Sent from my iPhone
Ron & Aggie Scozzafava
June 9, 2011
As we learn of Greg's passing we all mourn for his family and friends. But, we do celebrate of how Greg affected each and everyone of us in his own special way. His laughter, wisdom and joy. His work on Earth is done and he is now with God. The memories of his life will be with us forever. We are grateful that we have met him and enjoyed knowing him. You will always be in our hearts.
God Bless,
Ron & Aggie Scozzafava
Wayne Maher
June 9, 2011
Greg I'll miss you very much there is a special place in my heart for you. Over the years we had many laughs and boy how you could put me in stiches at times.I enjoyed our friendship and the memory of you will be with me always. God bless you I'll miss you, see ya in heaven brother! And Nancy, Samantha, and beanbag please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of a husband, father, and grandfather and AWSOME person. I love you all very much and you can bet you'll all be in my prayers. See you all later.
Marguerite
June 9, 2011
Dear Nancy,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family during this difficut time.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Coleen Delaney
June 9, 2011
Rest in Peace<3
Marisa Monaco Davis
June 9, 2011
To The Cotter Family:
I knew Greg as a teenager in Hull, He was always very nice to me and I'm sorry we lost track of one another. I will be praying for Greg and his family
for peace and comfort in this time of loss.
Nancy Cotter
June 9, 2011
I miss the sound of your voice,I miss those beautiful eyes that spoke to me without you saying word.You have my heart forever and God is now looking into those beautiful eyes.
I will Love You Forever.
God Bless You My Love
Nancy
Joe Minichiello
June 8, 2011
To my little brother Gregory,
I will miss your smile, I will miss the funny conversations and laughter we shared. I am praying for you.
I love you, God bless
Joe
Pam and John
June 8, 2011
Greg had great integrity and talent. His sense of humor was legendary. We wish Nancy and his family peace.
brandon cotter
June 7, 2011
to nancy and family. iam writeing this on behalf of my son .iam so sorry to her about my uncle greg .i was home for a visit and i talk to my uncle a couple of times in early may.my dad got permission for me to call home from afghanistan love lc corp brandon g cotter usmc
AL Lombardi
June 7, 2011
Joe, my sincere condolences to you and your family. I was very sorry to hear about the loss of your brother ! May God bless him and be with you and your family always ! Call me if there is anything I can do for you !
Jane Sinclair
June 6, 2011
We may not have kept in touch over the years, but when we did get together and talk it was like it was yesterday. Our conversations were open, honest and caring.
The picture in the guest book is how I remember Greg the last time that I saw him and how I will continue to remember him - with a great big smile and joy in his heart.
To my baby brother, God loves you and blesses you and so do I.
Your big sister,
Jane
Craig and Susie Hansen
June 6, 2011
We will miss you Greg. The way you could make us laugh; how helpful you were to us. Your patience. We are so glad that you were part of our lives and so honored to have shared time with you. May you find the peace that were searching for. Nancy and Samantha our thoughts and prayers are with you now and forever.
John Flynn
June 6, 2011
I miss you Greg, you were so much a part of our family. I appreciate everything you have done for us over the years. I will always remember you as one of the good guys. Sorry to see you go so soon, brother
June 6, 2011
So sad to hear about the loss of Greg. Thniking about his wife, daughter and grandson. You will always be a part of my family. Denise Loud Kilrain (Quincy, MA)
Michele D'Onofrio
June 6, 2011
I met this amazing man 23 years ago, he made me laugh through some of the hardest times in my life. Always gave me good advice and had a way of giving me much gratitude in life. After not seeing him in many years he visited me while i was camping and in no time had us all laughing hysterical. He was impressed at our all girl camping skills and had many jokes about it! I will keep you in my heart forever. My prayers are with his family and close friends. As for Greg i will see him on the other side! Till then Much Love my friend.
Jean Kessler
June 6, 2011
Dearest Sammmie & Family,
Our Thoughts And Condolences Go Out To You In The Loss Of Your Loved One.
With Our Deepest Sympathy, The Kessler Famliy
thomas cotter
June 6, 2011
to my brother i love you and miss you who will i talk to about boston sports. i hope the bruins win it would be great. nancy and your family are in my hart . brandon loved you very much
Lee Ann
June 6, 2011
Greg had a special way of making people laugh when they wanted to cry. He will live on in the hearts of those who's life he touched.
Rebecca Brilliant-Fusaro
June 6, 2011
I am so, so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to the family.
Diane Phillips
June 6, 2011
I will miss you deeply Greg. I love you and will always keep you close in my heart. You had a wonderful way about you and could always make me laugh.
Greg Camping
Michelle Gregory
June 6, 2011
Michelle Gregory
June 6, 2011
Greg, you were one of the best friends I could've ever asked for. I know you are now in peace, but I will miss you terribly always.
Samantha Daniel
June 5, 2011
Daddy, you dedicated your life to me and I still can't accept that you're gone...so I wont. You are the most amazing, funny and loving father any girl could ask for. I'll never ever let you go!!!!! I love you!!!!!
Claire, Greg and Owen Browne
June 5, 2011
We were so sad to hear about Greg. Our prayers are with all of you.
Diane Phillips
June 5, 2011
Greg I miss you and love you. I know that you are finally at peace
ellen flynn
June 5, 2011
Greg you were like a brother to me a son to my mom you were the best addition to our family I will keep close in my heart all the memories and times you bought joy into the lives of all the people you knew . I'll miss you forever
Phil Luciani
June 5, 2011
We laughed hard together im going to miss you bro
Joe Minichiello
June 5, 2011
Greg, I will miss you deeply. I pray that you are at peace in Gods hands.
I love you always, Joey
Joe Minichiello
June 5, 2011
Joe Minichiello
June 5, 2011
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Joe Minichiello
June 5, 2011
Bob & Pat Neff
June 5, 2011
Our condolences to Greg's family and friends. He was truly special, helped whenever he saw a need. He will be missed.
My Husband, My Love, My Friend
Nancy Cotter
June 5, 2011
I Love You Gregory... I will Always Love You...I will miss you Forever...
You are finally at Peace...
June 5, 2011
Daddy i love you!!
Dawn Harris
June 5, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with all of Greg's family during this very difficult time.
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