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Leo Darling Obituary

Due to inclement weather, funeral services for Leo J. Darling, 77, of Poughkeepsie, will be held on Tuesday, December 28, 2010 at 11 am at the Pleasant Valley United Methodist Church, Martin Road, Pleasant Valley. Burial will be in Poughkeepsie Rural Cemetery, Poughkeepsie.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Timothy P. Doyle Funeral Home, Inc., 371 Hooker Ave., Poughkeepsie, NY.

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Published by Poughkeepsie Journal on Dec. 27, 2010.

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Harriett & Doug Ziegler

December 27, 2010

We are so terribly saddened to hear about your loss of Leo. We always admired and respected him, as did Daddy (J. C. Wilks). Daddy had the utmost respect for Leo both at IBM and as a personal friend. Leo was such a sweet & wonderful man and always a gentleman. The love that he had for his beautiful wife, Evelyn, and his family was reflected in his eyes. He will be missed by many, many people. We shall cherish knowing him. You're all in our thoughts & prayers.

Harriett & Doug Ziegler

December 27, 2010

Doug & I are so terribly saddened over your loss of Leo. He has always been such a dear, sweet, man and always such a gentleman. Seeing the love in his eyes for his beautiful wife, Evelyn, has always touched our hearts. He was a man whom we have always felt great admiration & respect for.

Bob Gieseler

December 27, 2010

Sorry for the loss of Leo. My prayers are for him and his family.I worked with Leo at IBM in the 50's. Leo was a great sports official and he helped other officials at the college level. I spoke to him often at the Marist games. Sports was his passion and he will certainly be missed.

Ron & Elaine Patterson

December 27, 2010

Saddened to hear of Leo's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Ron and Elaine Patterson, Cardinal, ON Canada

Marion Berardi

December 26, 2010

Dear Kelli,
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Let your memories keep him close to your heart.

Harry & Annie Myers

December 26, 2010

We are saddened to hear of Leo's passing.
Our sincere thoughts and Prayers for the family and friends.

Jean Pittman

December 26, 2010

Doris, Tony and I are very sorry for your loss.

Tony and Jean Duncan Pittman

Don Dingee

December 26, 2010

To Evelyn and family.Sorry for your loss.We saw Leo in September and October before we left for Tucson He was a good man and will be in our prayers.Excellent idea about Scholarship fund.
Don and Anita Dingee

Deb & Daryl Magill

December 26, 2010

To Aunt Ebby, Gary, Karen, Sherri, Kathy and all of your extended families,
Daryl and I were so sorry to hear about Uncle Leo passing. Daryl has fond memories of his Dad's stories about his and Uncle Leo's basketball days. Delores, John and myself reflected on all the "holidays" spent in Stanfordville, which I was so lucky to have been apart of my "extended family". We send our condolences and thoughts with you at this "not so easy" time.
Deb & Daryl Magill

December 25, 2010

Karen, I'm so sorry for your family's loss.
Jean from Staff-Line, Inc.

Sharon (Rogers) Henkel

December 25, 2010

Evelyn, Kathi and family,
I am sorry to hear of your loss, my prayers are with you. I still have such fond memories growing up and going camping, watching him referee, and I still can see him watching the Yankees and the Rangers games dowstairs in your family room.

December 25, 2010

I remember Leo as an excellent basketball referee. He refereed several of the games we played, in the Poughkeepsie area, in the 70's and 80's. He was fair, solid, tolerant of a little complaining, but also let you know when you crossed the line. I always knew we were going to get a good game when he reffed. He was one of the good guys.
Ed Hartmann

Edward Pittman

December 25, 2010

Many memories of a gentle man---on and off the basketball court. He always took the time to say "Hello." Ed Pittman PHS '78

richard mchugh

December 25, 2010

Leo was a great referee. you knew you as a fan you were watching the top game when he officiated. a long time fixture at the mccann center as he made reports on the college officials that night.my brother played against him in the 1970 town of poughkeepsie little league championships. leo was the better coach. leo was a good person. quiet and respectful to all. he will be missed.

Wendy Karn

December 24, 2010

Mr. Darling was a 2nd Dad to me when I was growing up. Our families share so many wonderful memories that made our childhood great! He loved seeing my kids in church and was always quick with a hug, kiss on the cheek, and "how everything...how's Mom and Dad"...Keep his warm smile, laughter, generosity, and love in your hearts...we will all miss him very much. God Bless your family...now and always.

Mark Nassar

December 24, 2010

Leo or Mr. Darling, as we called him, was the manager of our Little League team in 1970 when we won the Town Championship. How lucky we all were to be under the influence, at a young age, of a person with with such upstanding character. He taught us respect for others, ourselves and the game we played. He treated us like young men when we were still boys and as consequence, young men we became. Thank you Leo and sincere condolences to a wonderful family.

Duffy Friss

December 24, 2010

Evelyn I'm so saddened to hear of the passing of Leo. I first met Leo at a basketball game at St. Mary's of Hudson in 1964 and he was my inspiration to become a basketball official. He will live in our minds and hearts forever

December 24, 2010

Leo was a wonderful man, whose smile and kind words for all will be missed by the world. My deepest sympathies on the loss of this wonderful person! ~Nancy Besio

December 24, 2010

So sorry for your loss
Joy Dzwilefsky

December 24, 2010

To Ms Kelli and her family
im so sorry about the lost of your grandpa...it was nice to have meet him..
love shawn jr.

Denise (Martin) Gjone

December 24, 2010

Leo was a great, all-around guy. He'll be sorely missed by those who knew and loved him. Please accept my condolences.

Joan Kampfer/Brewster

December 24, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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