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1964
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2011
Mark Massey Obituary
Wappingers Falls - Mark J. Massey, 47, a longtime Wappingers Falls resident formerly of Hyde Park, died unexpectedly Tuesday, November 29, 2011.
Born in Poughkeepsie on May 12, 1964, he was the son of the late Michael J. and Alice J. Ward Massey.
Mark attended St. Mary's School and Roy C. Ketcham High school, and continued his education at Dutchess Community College and SUNY New Paltz. He received his Bachelor's Degree in Human Services.
He was employed by the HRPC, Division for Youth, Rehab Services, Craig House, Dutchess County BOCES and most recently as a probation officer with the Dutchess County Department of Corrections and Probation.
Mark loved to travel, and with his wife saw many places together, and as a family, took many vacations together.
Mark's interests were football, baseball and painting pictures. He was an accomplished writer and published poet, and was a drummer in FTR, a local Hyde Park band, for several years. He also took piano lessons, and in his younger years, took flying lessons. An avid motorcyclist, he loved to ride.
Mark had a very sharp sense of wit, and loved to make people laugh.
On June 30, 1991, he married his best friend and soul mate, Catherine Percival, in the Village of Wappinger Falls. Mrs. Massey survives at home.
In addition to his wife, he is also survived by his very much loved son, Anthony T. Massey, who was the world to him, at home; step-children, Valerie L. Smith of Poughkeepsie, and Dean F. Smith Jr., of Surprise, AZ; granddaughter, Kalena J. Kulsha; three sisters, Maureen Simons and husband, Daniel, of Dover Plains, Donna Barton of Hyde Park, and Michele Massey of Poughkeepsie; two brothers, Michael Massey of Poughkeepsie, and John Massey; and six nephews, Richard and Chris Barton, and Salvatore, Daniel and Mark Simons, and John Tomlins.
There are no calling hours.
A Memorial Service will be held at 1 Pm, Sunday, December 4, 2011 at Sweet's Funeral Home, Inc., Rte. 9, Hyde Park. Rev. Arlene Dawber will officiate.
In keeping with Mark's wishes, cremation will take place at the convenience of the family.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to further his son's education may be made to Mark's family c/o Catherine A. Massey, 11 North Remsen Ave., Wappingers Falls, NY 12590.
To send his family a condolence or for directions, please visit www.sweetsfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Mark Massey
December 7, 2011
My sincerest condolences to Cathy and the entire Massey family. Cathy, I don't know if you remember me, but I worked with you and Mark at HRPC many years ago when he worked on the 4th floor. I could not believe it when I read of his passing in the paper. I am so sorry for you and your children and you, your children and the entire Massey family are in my prayers. Beth Lane
December 5, 2011
Dear Anthony,
Our sincere condolences are with you on the recent loss of you Dad. Our thoughts and hearts are with you.
Your McDonald's Co-workers
Kathy Lynch Tunison
December 5, 2011
My prayers & sympathy to the entire family of Mark Massey. Maureen & I went to Ketcham together a very long time ago, & I have a sister Mark's age who was working in the same field. God Bless!
Eileen Devine
December 5, 2011
Dear Massey Family,
When I think of Mark I think of laughter. We grew up together – he taught me how to flip baseball cards, we would share the gum inside the package. To do this, we would “secretly” meet under the arch of the lilacs between my house and the cottage where Maureen lived, next door. Then your mom would
yell for Mark to come in and he would shout back just as loud as he could “WHAT!”
The secret was no more. That's just one memory – there are many more. He
was hilarious, mischievous, and sensitive. He is a soul to be missed. I cherish my memories and send all of you my deepest and heartfelt sympathy.
December 5, 2011
God bless you Mark and your family, I will always remember the times growing up
Mike Welsh
December 4, 2011
My condolences to Michael and the entire Massey family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Barbara-Ann Bhadai Wappingers Falls NY
December 4, 2011
We are sorry to hear of the passing of Mark our prayers and thoughts are with you . The Welsh Family ( Wappingers Falls)
Virgil Crose
December 3, 2011
I am sorry to hear of Mark's passing. Please accept my condolences and my prayers and thoughts are with the family.
Tom Ciero
December 3, 2011
My sincere condolences to the Michael and the Massey family.
robert Hohn
December 3, 2011
my prayers are with his family.
we used to call him (styx)for his love of playing the drums.
rest in peace my friend
robert hohn
Jennifer McDonald
December 3, 2011
To Mark's Family,
I am so sorry. I've known him since St. Mary's and he was certainly one of a kind. I will miss him very much. My thoughts are with you.
December 3, 2011
Dear Cathy - I will always remember Mark's laughter and sense of humor and his love for his family.I enjoyed working with him at HRPC and I remember all the fun times we shared with our kids.My prayers are with you and your family, Mary Veltre and family
Terri & Dave MacDonald
December 3, 2011
So sorry to hear about Mark's passing.
DONNA BARTON
December 2, 2011
I am reading all these wonderful messages about my brother MARK they are making the terrible sadness I feel a little less painfull. I want to say THANK YOU for all your kind words.I will miss and love my brother forever. MARKS SISTER DONNA
December 2, 2011
Maureen, I'm so so sorry for the loss of your Brother. A great friend of mine. I would love to hear from you some day just to talk. Anytime Zeppe (Joey Tomlins) 860-539-7279.
December 2, 2011
Cathy, Steve & I will never forget him. We shared a great and true friendship. I loved his wit and insight. I'm glad I knew him. He will be greatly missed. Scott M. and Steve P.
December 2, 2011
Maureen, I am very sorry to hear of Mark's passing. I can only remember him as a very young boy at your folk's house on Clapp Ave. and the newer house but I can't remember the name of the street it was on. My condolences to you and your family. Tom and Kathi Nenni
Mary Awad
December 2, 2011
Cathy, We are so sorry to hear about Mark. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this time. With deepest sympathy, the Awad Family
donna daughton
December 2, 2011
Dear Donna and Maureen and family,
I am so sorry for your loss, may your memories carry you.
lots of love
December 2, 2011
To All the Massey Family--- Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Mark was an outstanding guy. I am so sorry for your loss. Sincerely -- Jeanie Sheehan Jones
December 2, 2011
To the Massey family. May God bless and comfort you in this time of need. Always remember love never dies!!!!!!
Kurt Coleman
December 2, 2011
To the Massey family. May God bless and comfort you in this time of need. Always remember love never dies!!!!!!
Kathryn Profera
December 2, 2011
We are so very saddened to hear of Mark's passing. Athough I had not seen him in many years, I'll always remember what a fun youngster he was as Maureen and I spent so many hours with the boys. My heart goes out to you, Catherine, and to my dearest friend, Maureen, her sisters and brothers and family. My heart breaks for you all. He was such a wonderful success in his short life. Our prayers are with him, and all of you at this time. Love, from Kathie, Tony and Jay
Steve Martinez
December 2, 2011
To the entire Massey family,
You are in my prayers and thoughts, Mark worked close with us at work, and he will always be remembered as a stand up guy! I respected and admired him, My condolences to all.
December 2, 2011
Cathy, Michelle just called to tell me the news. I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sue ( your Apple Valley Friend )
Blair Singleton
December 2, 2011
Mark was my best friend at the Craig House and just a over all good guy. He will truly be missed. My prayers will go out for his wife Catherine and the kids.
Grace and Peace
Blair L Singleton
Leslie Butler
December 2, 2011
Cathy, so sorry to hear of Mark's passing. He was a great co-worker and friend, his sense of humor was THE BEST. May the love and support of family and friends bring you & your children peace during this difficult time. RIP, Mark. You will be missed and remembered always.
Katrina Tomlins Belding
December 2, 2011
I can't believe what I'm reading. I'm soooo sorry. Words cannot help your pain and sorrow. My thoughts and prayes at with you all.
Jackie Tapp
December 2, 2011
I was so saddened to hear of Mark's passing. All our thoughts and prayers are with the Massey family during this difficult time.
Jackie Tapp (Holly Springs, NC)
Anna Burns-Nivens
December 2, 2011
Cathy & Family - I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please let Anthony know that Charlie sends his condolences also. If you need anything feel free to contact me.
Lynette Eginger
December 2, 2011
I am so sorry to hear that Mark has passed. To Cathy my thoughts and prayers are with you. To Michele, Micheal, Maureen and Donna I will say a prayer for you all. My heart goes out to you. Much Love Lynette
Al & Mona Leone
December 2, 2011
So sorry to hear about the passing of Mark, my husband and I worked with him at HRPC. Great guy! Our condolences go out to Cathy and the rest of his family.
DONNA Lucas
December 2, 2011
YOU WILL MISSED I REMEMBER YOU AS A GOOD COWORKER PRAYER FOR THE FAMILY
Debra Long
December 2, 2011
May God Bless this family through this difficult time. I worked with Mark many years ago. What a GREAT person! He will be missed dearly. I will keep the family in my thoughts and prayers.
December 2, 2011
So sorry to hear of Mark's passing. He was a great co-worker and friend, his sense of humor was THE BEST. May the love and support of family and friends bring you peace during this difficult time. RIP, Mark. You will be missed and remembered always.
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