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Michael McElduff Obituary

Michael Thomas McElduff

Beacon - Michael Thomas McElduff, a lifelong Beacon resident, passed away at James J. Peters Veterans Administration Medical Center in Bronx, NY on July 8, 2013. He was 88.

Born in Beacon on August 26, 1924, Mike was the son of Mary Bree and Michael Hugh McElduff. On September 25, 1945 he married the first love of his life Peggy Coughlin who predeceased him in 1979. On January 29, 1983 Mike married the second love of his life Ann Fleming Coughlin, who predeceased him in 2012.

Mike grew up in Beacon surrounded by love and family. He was the oldest of eight siblings. He is survived by Mary Browne and husband Jim, Jerry and wife Anita, Ann Schultz and husband Bill, John and wife Sue, and Kate Huber. He was predeceased by his brother Pat and wife Ursula, his brother Danny and brother-in-law Gene Huber. He was also predeceased by his many Coughlin brother and sister in laws, and will deeply missed by his sister in law Mary "Aunt Mimi" Farley.

Mike and his wife Peggy, the youngest of ten Coughlin siblings, continued the tradition of large families. He was lovingly referred to as Poppy by his children, grandchildren, great grandchildren and many of their friends. The love that he spread so freely will be missed by his children Michael McElduff and fiancé, Terry Wallace, Charlotte, NC; Tim McElduff and partner, Mary Ellen Gertin, Webster, NY; Mary and Willie Vassalo, Fishkill; Lynn McElduff, Beacon; Jane McElduff, Hopewell Junction; Maggie and Marty McCann, Hopewell Junction; Sheila and Joe Bertolozzi, Beacon; Kathleen Lyons, Fishkill, Tricia and Steve Rothberg, Beacon; Sean and Lori McElduff, Wappingers Falls; Bridget and Gus Antalek, Beacon; Mary Ann Zinney, Marlboro; and Barbara Coughlin, Poughkeepsie. He was predeceased by his son Kevin McElduff.

Poppy also played a huge role in the lives of his grandchildren: Christopher, Mike & Laura, Sean & Rachel, Tim & Patricia, Brendan, Adam & Heather, Matt & Anna, Meghan and Terrence & Megan McElduff, Peggy and Kurt Mansperger, Kate & Adam Martiyan, Geoffrey, Kevin, Martin and Claire McCann, Sarah Bertolozzi, Cullen and Taylor Lyons, Calli, Billie, Casey, Brett and Jack Rothberg, Kelsey and MaryMargaret McElduff, Adele and Abby Antalek, Joseph & Jayme Flynn and Kelly & Keith Bialko. He is also survived by his great grandchildren, Mackenzie, Zachary, Serina, Annika, Gillian, Kaelin, Kieran, Madeline, Teddy, Liam, Fiona, Kaitlyn, Sean and Will McElduff, Ela Lyons, Crosby Martiyan, Alex, Riley and Jack Flynn, Summer Rose and Keith Bialko.

Mike's life also touched all of the many additional family members past and present, many dear friends, nieces, nephews, god children, and his most recent special friend and companion, Peg Ireland.

Mike graduated from Beacon High School and was an active member of St. John the Evangelist Church. He grew up working at his family's grocery store on Main Street in Beacon. He proudly served as an Aviation Radioman in the U.S. Navy Air Force from 1943-1946. With his wife Peggy he owned and ran an Arnold Bread Wholesale Business and Thrift Store in Beacon, NY. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus and the Kiwanis Club. After he retired, he and his wife Anna spent many winters in their RV touring the US and then enjoying RV parks in Mesa, Arizona and Sylvan Lake. He was a proud father and grandfather and his love for family and friends, along with his passion for storytelling, endeared him to all those who knew him or just met him.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, July 12, 2013 at 1 PM at St. John the Evangelist Church, 31 Willow Street, Beacon. Interment with military honoros will follow at St. Joachim Cemetery, 301 Washington Avenue, Beacon. Then all are welcome to the celebration of Mike's life at St. Rocco's Society, 26 South Chestnut St., Beacon, NY at 3PM.

A special thanks goes out to all the wonderful medical personell and staff at the Castle Point and Bronx VA facilities.

Mike was so proud of his children and grandchildren's efforts to keep their mother's memory alive by raising awareness and funds for the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer. Donations in his memory can be made to their Team "Peggy's Spirit" by visiting www.avonwalk.org or by sending a check made out to "Avon Walk" to Adele Antalek at 10 Sunny Fields Way, Beacon, NY 12508.

To send the family a personal condolence please visit www.halveyfh.com.

Funeral arrangements are under the supervision of Peter T. and Patrick J. Halvey.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Poughkeepsie Journal on Jul. 10, 2013.

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The Savoits

July 16, 2013

So sorry to hear of Mr.Mcelduff's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Terry Wallace

July 14, 2013

To all the McElduffs -

I am blessed to have know dear sweet Poppy and to have spent the last few days with all of you celebrating his life. Keep on celebrating!!!!! ILY'ALL VERY MUCH!

Linda Hunt

July 12, 2013

To all of Michael's family,
I am very sorry for your loss, and am praying for you all

July 12, 2013

Dearest McElduff Family,
We are sorry to hear of the passing of Your Beloved Poppy, you are all in our thoughts and prayers, what a wonderful legacy of love and family he has left in all of you. xox Lori Gary Tommie Johnny and George

benny galarza

July 11, 2013

My sympathy to the MCELDUFF family.MY thoughts and prayers are with you all.

July 11, 2013

Sorry to learn of Mike's passing. Have many wonderful memories we will always cherish. Love and prayers, Jeanne and John Dolan, Ft. Myers FL

July 11, 2013

Dear Tricia and Steve and Family
So sorry for the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Take comfort in your memories of a wonderful man who will be remembered fondly by all who knew him.
Jacqueline Arroyo and family xo

John & Toni Cina

July 11, 2013

Our condolences to the McElduff family.

Theresa Herzberg

July 11, 2013

Prayers and love to all the McElduffs. What a wonderful legacy Mike left behind. I have many memories of him and he was a wonderful man. Prayers for all of you.

July 11, 2013

Dear Jane and Family ~ Our hearts go out to you in your time of loss; although we'd never met your father, we can tell from knowing some of his kids that he must've been a strong, yet kind and wonderful man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. ~ Love, Bill, Maureen and Amber Gill

July 11, 2013

Dear Mary and family,
I am so sad to hear of your dad's passing. He was a great man.
Love you,
Marlene

Moira Dolan

July 11, 2013

My thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Your Dad was a terrific guy.
Moira Dolan and family

Bob McKinstry

July 11, 2013

My sincerest condolences to the entire McElduff family and many relatives on the passing of Michael.

Rose E Merz

July 11, 2013

Dear Dr. Jane and Family,I'm sorry to hear of your great loss, while at this time word do little to comfort us, please know that we are praying to Jehovah to give you strength, comfort and peace in your time of sorrow. Our sympathy is extended to all of you, may your memories of Mr. McElduff give you strength and motivation to honor and celebrate his beautiful life and legacy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, all may Jehovah bless your and your family and be with you in this time of need. Sincerely Rose, Anthony and William Merz

July 10, 2013

Dear McElduff Family,
My prayers and thoughts are with you all. Your Father was a kind and decent Gentleman who will be missed by all that knew him. I consider myself lucky for him to have crossed my path and will not forget him.Love Geoff Robillard and Family

Rojeana Bowden

July 10, 2013

Thinking of all my McElduff family ilyua

July 10, 2013

Dear McElduff family,
I send my sincere condolences on the passing of your beloved dad Michael. I remember many happy stories my late husband, Michael Murphy shared about the good times at the McElduffs when he was in high school. I know he and Jane were close friends, and I had the pleasure of knowing Sean and Laurie and seeing them over the years. I also think I went to camp foster's girl scout camp with Maggie (my cousin was Mimi Roach). I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers throughout these difficult days and as you move forward. I am sure your father is smiling at all of you.
Sincerely,
Pat Morel Murphy-Lynch

John And Louise McLoughlin

July 10, 2013

To the wonderful extended McElduff family, our thoughts are prayers are with you as you celebrate a life well lived.

Shelley Booth

July 10, 2013

Dear Dr. Jane and Family, Please know you are in the thoughts and prayers of Shelley and son Christopher Booth.
May peace be with you.

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