1946
2011
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Anne Saunders
May 22, 2025
I only knew Paul briefly when I was a student at New Paltz in the mid 70s. I vividly remember him in that gorilla suit and the crazy horns sitting in a lounge chair directing traffic on Main Street. He was quite the character, but there was a whole other side to him too. I´ve thought of him many times over the years. Though he was only 7 or 8 years older I thought of him as a wise older sage at times. That is how I will always remember him and glad that I knew him for that short time.
scott c blauvelt
March 9, 2023
I worked at The Chance and when he would come bye he would always say "Hey White Boy". I went to high school with Gary Harris, a relative of Paul. He was an honest man. Truth counts.
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Randy Takacs
July 23, 2017
Known you since I was 5 years old, that was back in '67. Hadn't changed a bit in all that time. You were a dear friend, and you'll forever be in my families heart.
Kipp Green
July 22, 2011
I just heard the news (6 months later), very sad to see him go but happy he is going Home. My brother took a very nice black and white picture of him over 15 years ago on Academy St. wearing his straw hat, I wish I had it now to post up here. Jirel if you're reading this scan that photo and post that please for our cuz! Little known fact: He was an expert foot masseur (women only!), he inspired my pops with his foot fetish ways to open up his own business doing the very same! R.I.P. Paul!
Jacklyn Haight
January 20, 2011
R.I.P. Paul. Many love you and you will be missed by all who were blessed enough to have met you! I have fond memories of you from my youth.Until we meet again....Jacklyn Haight...Please tell Dad(Ed Haight Sr.) I love and miss him,too.
Ruth Ackert
January 19, 2011
I have many memories of Paul and it was not until I was older that I began to understand how smart he really was... definately missed.
Kathie Lievers-Cullen
January 19, 2011
I remember Paul from when I was a young girl. He would walk all through Poughkeepsie talking to people and sometimes just sang songs as he walked. He never seemed to forget people's faces as I always remember him calling me by my name. I remember Paul as I grew up and then again in my now middle age years. Paul never asked for anything but always had words of Wisdom to offer. Some people thought of Paul as a "crazy person" and those were the people that didn't know Paul. If you knew Paul from while growing up you eventually found out the story of his life and why he chose "His" path. It was a sad story that was up to Paul to tell. I put in quotes "His" path for two reason's.. 1. Was because of Paul's path and 2. "His" as in God knew Paul's true heart and how much he helped people through the years! "You truly will be missed Paul" Kathie
David
January 19, 2011
January 19, 2011
Paul, I remember you as a kid wearing a gorilla suit on rollers skates..or those famous horns..some asked why are you talking to that crazy fool? I replied because he has more wisdom,integrity and humanity than you can comprehend. Paul went to school with my eldest sister and always addressed my Mom as Miss Olga..even though that was not her name.
I remember talking with him for hours on park bench in the freezing cold never asking for anything and always offering what ever he had.
Paul I will always remember you in my heart and consider it an honor to have known such a great man.. you will be sorely missed by all.
~David
Dawn
January 19, 2011
Lighting this candle for Paul & his family. God bless you all.
Dawn
January 19, 2011
I had so many conversations will Paul and they were never dull. He was a very smart, kind and loving man. I went through a lot when I was a teenager and he always said the right things and helped me out with his encouraging words. I will miss how he smiled and would wink at me every time he saw me or how he would say, "I told you were going to be fine". You surely will be missed, God Bless and rest in peace Paul. Much love
Kimberly Saunders
January 19, 2011
Very intelligent teddy bear...at first Paul could come across a little intimidating (especially to a child such as myself at the time).I was standing at the bus stop,I see Paul approaching.It was early in the morning. Just him & me. I was a litle scared but I refused to let him know it. He asked me what was the book I had in my hand. I told him I had an English exam & had to remember a poem by Robert Frost. Wouldn't you know Paul recited the entire poem. Tilted his sombrero & bid me a good day.That was my biggest life lesson that we shouldn't judge a book by its cover. LOVE & MISS YOU PAUL!!!! Kimberly Saunders
Linda (Kobos) Thomas
January 18, 2011
Learning of Paul's passing brought back a flood of memories of days gone by...He was a very special soul. May he find peace...Condolences to the family.
Scott Blauvelt
January 17, 2011
paul would always say " hey white boy, how you doing". we called him the mayor of pok, remember the skates, cape, hat and trumpet. i've known paul for 30 years and he remembers everything and everyone. his final words were always "i never lie, i never lie" paul, you never did. R.I.P. MAYOR.
Nancy
January 16, 2011
May you rest in peace Paul...Shine on...Shine on...With the same love & peace...just another place. A final safe place to finally rest your head & soul. You will always be remembered in ours. Heartfelt sympathies to all of the family.
January 16, 2011
Rest in peace Paul, you leave behind wonderful memories for thousands of people. My prayers and deepest sympathy to the Harris family.
kathy minet
January 14, 2011
Paul Poughkeepsie will not be the same without you. In 1976 I had my first child. I was proudly walking him down the mall and Paul said let me see him its about time you had that baby. He picked up my son Johnny and stared in to his eyes . Put him back in the stroller then took out a pencil and wrote a poem it was beautiful I still have it to this day. Every time i saw paul I always told him i still had it ,he would smile and nod his head saying good. I will miss him. He was a lot of things to a lot of people rest in peace my friend until we meet again. Kathy m
January 14, 2011
Paul...although he was older than I...my childhood days were spent in the "YARD" (140 1/2 Church Street). Paul terrorized me almost daily and it wasn't until I grew up that I realized that he was a "Teddy Bear" and wouldn't hurt a fly. He kept me in line and alway had my back. What a big personality Paul had...I can still see him wearing the horned hat. Paul was Poughkeepsie and Poughkeepsie was Paul. "May your soul rest in peace." Sherry Davis Woods (Charlotte, NC)
January 14, 2011
I remember Paul from my childhood when he would wear his "buffalo hat "and that would bring great joy to the kids in my area,Paul you will be greatly missed,GOD Bless you.....
Ellen
January 14, 2011
RIP Paul I first met you at "What's It to Ya" when I was 16. You hadn't changed in the forty years I've known you. Our town will miss it's famous icon and your always friendly smile. You were unique. Rest in God's peace til we meet again.
Heather
January 14, 2011
U will be missed Paul:) U r a good man and i know you will receive many blessing in Heaven for all the good you've done here on earth! You will truly be missed.
January 14, 2011
A truly integral piece of the Academy St. fabric in beautiful downtown Poughkeepsie, NY...just to know him was enough ...Jimi
January 13, 2011
I remember Paul from about 12 years up to having my own family and wanted to give my condolences. He never forgot anyone or missed a trick. He always would talk to me and my mom since I was a child until I saw him one time and told him she had passed. He was something! He was quite the character. He is an icon in Poughkeepsie and will definitely be remembered and missed by my generation. Paul, R.I.P
Jennie Coons
January 13, 2011
R.I.P Paul you are such an inspiration to many poughkeepsie residents you will be missed. i grew in poughkeepsie seeing you everyday one year you even had Thanksgiving with me and my other family memebers you were a kind person to all you will never be forgotten.
Dominick
January 12, 2011
Paul, We'll miss seeing you come down the street this summer at The Chance. We all loved you. The fact that over 100 people came here to share a story or kind word about you speaks volumes of your character. You never lied...you never lied...
Kristy Roberts
January 12, 2011
My mother grew up with Paul...I used to see him and one time stopped to say hello. I told him who I was and who my mother was...He never forgot me or my mother and spoke to me every time he saw me...He would go on and on about what a great person my mother was. RIP Paul...
MRS. B.
January 12, 2011
I REMEMBER THE CONVERSATIONS WITH PAUL, HE WAS SOMETHING ELSE. YOU WILL BE SADLY MISSED PAUL. MAY YOUR SOLE REST IN PEACE. POUGHKEEPSIE WILL NOT BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU MY BROTHER.
January 12, 2011
Paul taught me to look for wisdom and joy in people. Much love to his family.
Benny Brooklyn, NY
Jerry Darrow
January 12, 2011
Paul, You are sorely missed by all your friends. You knew everybody. You knew their names. You would always speak to all your friends and even if you well not feeling well, you would always make an efford to speak to us. From your days in Pok High School, to roller skating to the Vikings....you loved everyone and everyone loved you. You Paul are truly one of a kind, and that is the kind heart you had. All of Poughkeepsie misses you as do all your friends who now live out of town. You will forever be in the hearts of all who knew you. May you rest in Jesus' hands and may you rest in peace, and may the Lord have mercy on you, forgive you your sins and let perpetual light shine upon you. RIP brother.
DIANE BROTHERS/EARLEY
January 12, 2011
mr paul,you'll be missed by many ...ill miss our talks n the kiss on the hand you'd give.. when we'd say till we have our talks n you where so good around my kids ...rest in peace my FRIEND
Vincent Dors
January 12, 2011
My brother Cliff told me about your passing Jan 11, Paul, and I immediately saw your picture in Poughkeepsie of those pleasant years growing up. I could hear you calling Susan Mills and the Dors' boys Clifton and Vincent while walking Gate St. Riverview Field did not need lights when PHS would play football or the gathering of friends while you were there. Your presence was like a beacon. You have touched many lives throughout your beautiful life in Poughkeepsie. The Poughkeepsie ICON is gone but not forgotten from the many streets you had walked and told of many stories. Paul, you were a unique individual and we were blessed to know you.
Michael Shanley
January 12, 2011
I knew Paul since I was a teenager. As I grew up got married, more then once, he always asked me how my current wife(by name) and hoe the children were doing. He always knew ther names when he asked and as the years passed he always knew their approximate ages. Then he would ask about the former wife. He never forgot a detail, simply amazing. One he had Pink Eye and one of mt=y kids had an unfinished tube. He let me put it in his eyes for about and finally he was cured. He used to tell people that I saved his life! He might have gone blind but he wouls have lived I would tell people. Fora man that was not my family and not a regular type friend, I truly felt love for the man. I will miss him for all the days of my life. Paul may you finally be at rest, one and for all!!!!
tabbie c
January 12, 2011
you will be missed ....my dear FRIEND
Robin Green - Meade
January 12, 2011
I do not get back to Poughkeepsie very often but I think of you every time I am there. RIP, Paul.
January 11, 2011
One of Poughkeepsie's landmarks. A unique Man with a unique look at Pough. and life....Always a pleasure to see Him.
R.I.P. Paul.
Michael Colacicco
January 11, 2011
One of Poughkeepsie's landmarks. A unique Man with a unique look at Pough. and life....Always a pleasure to see Him.
R.I.P. Paul.
dorothy cioffari
January 11, 2011
my god be with you, now and always!! I give his family much condelsences u will be missed, i remeber paul since i was a little kid he taught me how to ice skate @ morgan lake! mr. harris will live on and will be greatly remembered always!!!
Linda Reeder
January 11, 2011
To Paul and his family....I remember Paul as a good and kind soul. No matter where I was, he would speak no matter. A gentleman. He would always say to me, you remind me of my sis Ruby. I will miss you Paul. May you rest in peace now dear friend to all. God Bless. Susie (Mima) Reeder.
January 11, 2011
rip in heaven,you were a real good guy,may the lord be waiting for you.you are and always be flavor ,flav,yeah boy....it's to much he didn't meet you.you changed peoples lives,and may you be at peace,and remembered out of sight not out of heart and mind...much love pk resident...and god bless your family...love always ,sharon paganelli
Robyn Baptiste
January 11, 2011
rip paul you will be missed
Adam Nowik Jr
January 10, 2011
RIP Paul, I still remember the first time I met you and the times you would stop by our house for a cup of coffee and some interesting conversation. May the Lord welcome you with open arms.
JACQUALINE HOLMES
January 10, 2011
Remember
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.
By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation
gene habinowski
January 10, 2011
Our condolences to the Harris Family. We went to school with Paul , and our prayers go out to you
Gene and Brenda Habinowski
larry seeden
January 10, 2011
you will be deeply missed you have touch many hearts through the years pk will be sad without you rip
January 10, 2011
RIP in Paul...you will be missed
Don Cooper
January 10, 2011
Rest easy old friend, I'll always remember our days running track and playing JV football in the 60's at PHS
belmonte werth
January 10, 2011
lots of memories will never forget you pk will never be the same without you rip paul
Antoinette Brooks
January 10, 2011
Rest with Peace Mr. Harris. I dont know poughkeepsie without you on Mainstreet. smile. YOu were something else in my childhood up bringing..You kept me laughing.you'll be missed. Love Nette
Marilynn Vetrano
January 10, 2011
Condolences to the Harris family. R.I.P., Paul.
Tamonique Moody
January 10, 2011
My condolences to the Harris family. Paul will be greatly missed. Poughkeepsie will never be the same.
Judy Roger
January 10, 2011
Paul you will be missed.you were the legend of poughkeepsie.and one of a kind.You were like a history book of poughkeepsie.My prayers go out to the family.
January 10, 2011
Oh Paul... How I will miss you and always remember you with great fondness and laughter. Thank you so much for making feel at home on Cannon Street. You are an amazing soul and I will keep your memory alive. With love and a shared affinity for witch hats, Jennifer T.
Greg Boone
January 10, 2011
RIP Paul! I had so many funny adventures when Paul was around. He would show up out of nowhere and you were sure to have an adventure. He always complemented me and pushed me to do my artwork. Rock on Paul.
Michael Wood
January 10, 2011
Rest in Peace Paul..... A True icon you will be deeply missed my prayers go out to your family.
Mark LaFalce
January 10, 2011
I would like to offer my condolences to the Harris Family and tell you that Paul was a wonderful person that helped me grow up looking more closely at life and keeping an open mind when trying to understand what life had to offer. He was an assett on so many levels and meant so many things to so many people on a positive level.
gary feldman
January 10, 2011
Rest in peace my friend....you were a bright spot in poughkeepse Pablo
January 10, 2011
Paul, RIP--- you will always be in my prayers and thoughts. Walk with the angels and this time the Buffalo hat will be solid gold.
May your family be in peace knowing you
are with god.
Helen J smith-Poughkeepsie NY
Brian T.
January 10, 2011
Paulie... "The Mayor of Academy Street" may you Rest in Peace! I knew Paulie from managing The Chance and Let's Dance for over 20 years. He always made you laugh and always had some tidbit of information to share with you... and don't ever walk by him without saying hello... you'd hear about it. May God Bless you and your loved ones...
Stuart
January 10, 2011
Rest in Peace, Paul. You will be missed.
Janet's Jerk Stop
January 10, 2011
Good Man, RIP Paul you will be missed you definitely was a PK Icon
Mari Lowry
January 10, 2011
Paul Harris was a big part of Poughkeepsie and our life, (The Frazier Girls & Family). I left home ten years ago and still remember Paul's smile, sense of humor and all that was Paul, right down to the gorilla. You will be missed!!!
January 10, 2011
RIP Paul and prayers for your family and loved ones. I remember growing up and seeing and chatting with you all the time on the streets of Poughkeepsie. You will definitley be missed and you are a true legend for the city of Poughkeepsie and all of its people, young and old...Til we meet again....Donna M.
Chasity P
January 10, 2011
R.I.P..Mr. Paul...you will def be missed by many people we all have so many great memeories of you being here in our hometown..you are the legend...my prayers are with your family...
Tom Davis
January 10, 2011
I met Paul on Main St.Pok. in 1965. I knew immediately that he was a good / unique person. I have lived in the south since 1969 but have never forgotten him. He will be missed by many. God bless you Paul! Tom Davis , Florence South Carolina
Dorothy Hollister
January 10, 2011
Paul you are one of a kind and poughkeepsie won't be the same without you. My prayers are with you and the family.
erin
January 10, 2011
rest in Peace Paul....you will always be a Poughkeepsie Legend and will never be forgotten
Jen Johnson
January 10, 2011
Paul Will truly be missed, he was a special part to the johnson Family. Jimmy, Tommy, Danny, Martt, Joey.
Deb P
January 10, 2011
Paul was one fo the good guys and a dear friend to all who knew him...his memory will always make me smile. RIP, dear one.
Don "OX" Dittus
January 10, 2011
Thanks for the memories. A man who walked to the beat of his own drummer. A man who never seemed to forget a face, a time shared together or a humerous story of that event.
Goodby old friend.....
Robin whitmore
January 10, 2011
Hey Paul you will never be forgotten you were always there when someone needed a hand and always trying to give us those HOT FIRE BALLS lol those were your favorite may you rest in god hands and you will be missed forever
Chris Bowser
January 10, 2011
If you took five minutes to get to know Paul Harris, you just wanted to get to know him better. Great stories, always something that made you ponder and think, and a heart of gold. Paul, thank you for being a gem in the Poughkeepsie community.
Ed Vitale
January 10, 2011
I first met Paul when I started to work in Poughkeepsie at Hamilton street. I used to look foreword to my "Breaks" so I could see Paul. We had some good times together and shared some deep conversations. I know he will be greatly missed. He was indeed one of Poughkeepsie's great ICONS
Cherish K.
January 10, 2011
RIP Paul-you always made me laugh and Poughkeepsie will miss you!
Landon Gray
January 10, 2011
Good Bye Old friend until we Meet Again. WE will go fishing in the Big Ocean>>>>>
DJ EASE
January 10, 2011
PAUL HARRIS A ICON IN POUGHKEEPSIE GONE BUT NEVER EVER FORGOTTEN
S L
January 10, 2011
rip paul meet you when we lived on main street in poughkeepsie when i was a lil girl and the best was when you always told us some funny stories,you was the poughkeepsie buffulo may you rest in peace
January 10, 2011
RIP Paul, A Poughkeepsie icon. I saw him in June when I was home and he remembered the times he visited us when I lived on Mansion St. with David Hill. He was always the same and will be remembered with good memories. I will miss you, Paul, but be sure to keep watch over the City you loved. ..Betsy Ahrens
January 10, 2011
RIP PAUL YOU WERE MISS BEFORE YOU WERE GONE BUT IAM HAPPY I GOT TO SEE YOU BEFORE YOU LEFT I REMEMBER YOU TELLING ME NOT TO TELL NOONE YOU THAT U WERE AT THE HOME.I WAS GLAD TO KN YOU WERE SAFE.YOU WILL BE TRULY MISS. MABLE
C Salter
January 10, 2011
Believe it or not, when I moved back to PK after 8yrs. Paul was one of the ppl I wanted to if he was still living around here. He always made your day when you saw him. Once you've known him, he is unforgettable! R.I.P
Charles Garin
January 10, 2011
I will miss Paul Harris very much. He was a straight shooter and a great person. He will be missed and Poughkeepsie is losing it's most famous resident.
JoJo & Tom S.
January 9, 2011
I was so sorry to hear about Paul- I think everyone thought he would be around Poughkeepsie forever. While growing up I used to see him hanging out on Cannon or Hamilton Streets & he would always have the hat with the horns on.
I'm sure he probably likes the one he wears now...the one with a halo on it! Thanks for just being you Paul!
Terri Holman
January 9, 2011
R.I.P. Paul this is not goodbye...I will see you and will bring the french fries lol! You are a man of all men! Love you much....til we meet again!
Ann Holmes-Ruby
January 9, 2011
Paul was a wonderful friend. His Mom and Mine worked together at VBH. He was always warm and helpful. I always looked for Paul when I came home to visit. I am saddened by his passing, but know he is with our Lord in Heaven, helping others, as he helped me. God Bless You All.
Andrea Scheer
January 9, 2011
I will miss you Paul, I have so many memories of you through the years, from the late 70's on the Main Mall up to the present. I loved to stop and talk and catch up on gossip and Paul Harris Philosophy. I hope that your soul is at peace and I know that you won't be forgotten. Rest in Peace my friend.
Diana Lasher/Minners
January 9, 2011
I remember Paul being the one constant in the city of Poughkeepsie when all else was changing. God Bless, and God's Speed Paul
mrs.alphonzo williams
January 9, 2011
like it said he was always around.he was a nice guy.we will miss him
sheila miller
January 9, 2011
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
DARLENE SCIPIO
January 9, 2011
REST IN PEACE PAUL.YOUR MEMORIES WILL LIVE ON.
paul m
January 9, 2011
paul harris you were the best u will be missed byb everone that new you you called me white boy i will miss you pal
Anjie Walker
January 9, 2011
Paul ,I'll never forget the many mornings you helping me get on the bus to Atlantic City. You were a sweetheart and I've thought of you often, over the years. Rest In Peace My Brother!
Joyce & Tom S.
January 9, 2011
I was saddened to hear about Paul. It really did seem like he would just be around forever! Growing up in Po'k I would constantly see him on Cannon or Hamilton Streets wearing his trademark "horns."
It is safe to assume that they have been replaced by a halo- I think he would have worn this proudly also! Thx for the memories.
John DuBose
January 9, 2011
Paul, I know the residents of VooDoo manor will miss you but you were more to me than you will ever know. Thank you for you "Street corner wisdom" and your gentle heart. Sleep my brother, sleep. John F. DuBose
patti
January 9, 2011
R.I.P paul u will be missed
angel esquilin
January 9, 2011
pual will be missed and will be in gods hands now r.i.p. my friend.
January 9, 2011
" I grow up in Po'k and I would see Paul and he would always say I think we are related to me because my mom last name was Harris, very kind person who would say hi to everyone, my condolence to the family. Daphne Silburn
Pauline Snyder
January 9, 2011
I met Paul years ago at the ice skating rink at Eastman Park. So long ago, it was when the rink was at the south end of Riverview field. He always called me by my last name, Darrow, and continued thru the years. What a great friend. RIP Paul
Vernon Roberts
January 9, 2011
Paul Harris the name brings memories that go deep into your soul. Everyone has a Paul Harris story that will make you smile. My heart go's out to his sister's and all the Harris family.
Pauline Darrow Snyder
January 9, 2011
Many many years ago I met Paul while ice skating at the very old Eastman park ice skating rink, way back when it was south of Riverview field. Paul was an excellent ice skater and always called me by my last name, Darrow. We stayed friends through the years, although I hadn't seen him in the last 10 years or so. May he rest in peace.
January 9, 2011
Mr .Paul Harris was a educated man he was funny and boy dont actlike you didnt see him and you pass...Ms Anita Johnson
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