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Peter Wing Obituary
MILLBROOK - Peter J. Wing of Millbrook, NY died suddenly on Sunday September 28th. He was born in Millbrook on January 28th, 1947 to Charles and Margaret Wing. Peter served in the U.S Navy during the Vietnam war. He was married to Toni Ann Simoncelli in 1970. Peter worked as a local artist in the Hudson River Valley. His work includes murals, sculptures, architecture, and production of local children's Shakespeare theater. Peter also designed and produced the Millbrook and Stanfordville Haunted Houses. His best-known work—"Wing's Castle"— was not only a destination for visitors worldwide, but also home to him and his family. He was an avid member of the Hudson Valley Chapter of the Antique Motorcycle and Horseless Carriage clubs of America. He is survived by his wife and two children, Tara and Charles, and seven grandchildren. The viewing will be held at Wing's Castle from 2-8pm on Thursday, October 2nd. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at St. Joseph's Roman Catholic Church in Millbrook, NY on October 3rd at 10am. The family asks in lieu of flowers, gifts be made to the Dutchess County SPCA, as Peter was a protector of all animals large and small. For condolences please visit www.HudsonValleyFuneralHomes.com
Arrangements have been entrusted to Allen Funeral Home, Millbrook.
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Memories and Condolences
for Peter Wing
jeff mccabe
July 15, 2023
....sip...pete.....
joe schwarze and nephew jeff
maplehill623.blogspot.com
Barbara and Joe Ciferri
September 25, 2020
Toni I was recently in the area and drove by the castle on the outside chance that I would be able to catch you home. You may remember me Barbara Horton Ciferri and I was with my sister Judy Smith who is Ronnie Smith's widow. You and Peter also met them when they came to the castle years ago as Ronnie was looking at Peter's carousels. Anyway sorry to have missed you. Joe and I often speak about our life when we lived and went to school in Millbrook and you and your parents and Peter and his family always come up in the conversation with fond recollections. Peter was an unforgettable person and we wanted you to know that you and your family are always and forever remembered.
Linda Belben
September 25, 2020
It's 2020 and your still in our hearts and prayers. Since your passing, you have let us know you are with us. Last Christmas, sitting under the bench was a paper. Lone paper. I picked it up and it was a letter from you. Stating that the wooden wabbit that you carved out of a tree was a gift to my Mom. Her birthday, Christmas gift. Everyday gift. Your letter found under the bench was the best gift of all. Reminding us that God and you lift our spirits every day. We Love you Pete. And we talk to the wabbit every day...I wonder if the wild one living in the back yard is you??? We miss you. We will never forget you. Carl, Jean, Linda and Andy.
Laurie Szostak
October 26, 2014
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family during this difficult time.
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Hannah Guernsey
October 16, 2014
As a graduated member of the Annandale Troupe, I was very surprised and saddened to learn of Mr. Wing's passing. I have so many fond memories of Mr. Wing and his family graciously allowing us children to invade their home on summer days while we practiced our Shakespeare on the magnificent stage built just for us. On particularly hot days, we were even allowed access to the 'moat' pool to cool off and relax for a while. These wonderful memories will stay with me throughout my life and it is thanks to the Wing family that I have them to treasure. My thoughts and well-wishes go to his family members in this time of mourning, but I hope it will lighten their hearts even a little to know of the impact Mr. Wing had on his community and how fondly he will be remembered by so many.
October 8, 2014
Dear Charlie and family,
Please accept our most profound condolences.
Respectfully , your friends and brothers of Local 52 I.A.T.S.E.
Teena Hall NHR Tyrell rd
October 7, 2014
Dear Toni
I'm so very sorry to hear of your husbands passing, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
denise k.
October 7, 2014
Although I spent only a few hours with Mr. Wing in 2012, he made an impression that I will never forget. His vision, his humor, and most of all his heart will never be forgotten. My husband proposed to be that night we stayed in the castle. He was waiting for the right moment and, after meeting the Wings and seeing their beautiful home, he knew it was the perfect time and place. I think of the conversations we had with Mr. Wing often and I will continue to do so for the rest of my days. Knowing how strongly I felt about a man I barely knew, I cannot even begin to imagine the magnitude of sorrow his wife and family are dealing with now. Please know, that we are all thinking of you. We have some of his artwork hanging on our wall. It is our favorite and, now, it means even more. We think of him everyday and his art reminds us to live our dream - however crazy it may seem. His imagination was big but his heart was even bigger. Rest in peace, Mr. Wing. You are missed.
Greg Hawksley
October 6, 2014
Dear Toni and family I am so saddened by the news of Peters passing when I called on Thursday to talk to him. I was fortunate to stay at the castle this past summer. I truly enjoyed my stay, the greatest part of the stay was talking with the creator of this truly magnificent castle and the tour Peter gave me of the garage full of toys. I really think Peter took a liking to me as I surely did like his humor and the way he viewed things. I hope to someday visit again!!!! I will always be grateful of my stay with Toni and Peter.
Diana Pine-Greco
October 6, 2014
Dear Toni and Family, It breaks our hearts to hear of your great loss. Pete was a gift to us all. We are blessed to have known him. Recently We watched a documentary on him. It was fascinating. Our prayers go out to you that the deep sadness is accompanied by sweet memories.
Many Blessings
Diana J Pine-Greco and Robert Greco
Buddy and Jane (Meyer) Dean
October 5, 2014
Toni and Family - We are so shocked and saddened to hear of Pete's passing. He was truly a unique individual and he will be missed and never forgotten. There are many memories that will be remembered.
October 4, 2014
Toni,
You may not remember me but I was your Lamaze teacher for your first child. I will always remember Peter's reluctance to attend as he really in his own words "didn't like doctors or hospitals". What I will never forget however is his pulling into my driveway on the morning your first baby was born to thank me for helping him share in the greatest experience of his life.
My deepest sympathy to you and your children.
Ann Kashatus
Charlottesville, Va
Derek Hafner
October 4, 2014
From our family to all of the Wing family, we are praying for you all. Heaven received another Angel. Thank you for the memories of my Home Town and knowing it is still ok to Dream Big!!!
Ann Jackson
October 4, 2014
I am saddened to hear of his loved ones' loss. I have directed many to the recycle-built house, and was around for the haunted mansions, the interesting apartment build in Pleasant Valley, and lots of stories, and always found him to be interesting. I remember years ago he hated TV, & it supposedly was not even permitted in the home. I believe I met his daughter once in a nice little shop of her own in Millbrook. Nice people. My thoughts go out to his family & friends. He will be missed.
Joe & Barbara (Horton) Ciferri
October 4, 2014
Toni and Family - We are so saddened to receive the news of Peter's passing.
Peter was a gift to all of us who were
fortunate enough to know him. We knew
both Toni and Peter from childhood and
through high school and that time is filled with many happy memories. Peter's humor and artistic abilities (which have no boundaries), and his and
Toni's friendship with everyone they met, will be our most memorable. May you find comfort and peace with your
family and friends as you share your
love of Peter and Peter's love of you.
Bless you all.
Jim Townsend
October 3, 2014
Sympathy to Pete's family at your loss.
Karl Sipperley
October 3, 2014
My heart goes out to the Wing family for your sudden loss. Peter was truly a legend in Dutchess County and a true humanitarian. I never had the pleasure of knowing him but have been acquainted with some members of the family over the years. What wonderful people who all have that wonderful humanitarian quality too. My heart aches for all of you.
Lisa Martin
October 3, 2014
I am very sad for your loss. We stayed at your bed and breakfast during the summer. We had a great experience. Peter was an amazing artist and a great man. I'm glad that we got a tour from him and got to listen to him explain his vision for the castle.
Daniel Ciferri
October 3, 2014
To the Family
I want to express my deepest sympathy to you and the family. When I growing up in Millbrook Peter and I have had many conservations and the one that I remember was when he was going to Build the Castle. Although I haven't been back to Millbrook I will always remember meeting Peter. He will be missed.
Susan
October 3, 2014
Dear Mrs. Wing, we are so very sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you and the entire Wing Family during this time of deep sadness. We did not know your husband in life, but knew of him. We knew that he was a kind and caring man, and an incredibly beautiful artist, a kindred soul who touched the hearts of so many through all of the wonderful things he did for this community. May be rest in eternal peace.
Candice de Stefano
October 3, 2014
To the Wing family, our dearest sympathy, When I first moved to Hudson Valley, and my dear friend Pamela Eberhard photographed the children from the Shakesphere Festival at Wing Castle for the HUDSON VALLEY MAGAZINE cover! all I could think was this is creation by an angelic artist! truly a wonderful contribution to Millbrook and the Hudson Valley! Peter Wing made living in the Hudson Valley a better place to want to be! May you find peace and family comfort.
Cathy Kimball
October 3, 2014
I am very sad for your loss. I will greatly miss talking motorcycles with Peter when he came in the office. He inspired me and always asked if I went to the Motorcycle Museum yet. I will go in his memory.
Alice Boatwright
October 3, 2014
Dear Toni and family, I am so sorry to hear the news about Peter. I remember you both vividly from the days when the Castle was a crazy dream, but you were both determined to live it -- and you did. Though I haven't see you in years, you have both been an inspiration and a happy memory. Wishing you the comfort of friends and family in this sad time.
October 2, 2014
Toni,
We are so sorry for your loss!! Peter was a great man.
Amy Budd and Robert Washburn
Linda Ferris Launhardt
October 2, 2014
With sympathy - May your memories of this remarkable man sustain you.
Debbie Hazel
October 2, 2014
Toni and family,
So very sorry for your loss. Pete made a difference in so many lives. He will be missed. Prayers to you all.
The Hazel family (Witch Hazel)
Nancy Higginbotham Barbour
October 2, 2014
So sorry to hear of Pete's
passing. Prayers to the Wing family...
My boys at Wing's Castle before "Shakespeare's Dracula" Make-up by Peter Wing
Amy Emke
October 2, 2014
Peter gave me and my son, Noah, a once-in-a-lifetime experience when he hired me to co-direct "Shakespeare's Dracula" at the castle in 2010. He was a true artist, and a kind-hearted, fascinating man, and I feel lucky to have gotten to know him. My sincere condolences to Toni, his family and his friends.
Paul&Betty Rockefeller
October 2, 2014
Our Deepest Sympathy
Scott Colao
October 2, 2014
Pete was a unique and talented individual. He was brilliant and will be missed dearly. RIP Pete
Jim Shockley
October 2, 2014
Toni and family, Party and I wanted to let you know how deeply saddened we are to hear of Pete's passing. For as long as I've known Pete, he was always the most creative guy in the room, wih a personality that still brings a smile to our face in repeating the many stories. Since being in Florida I have missed his company, and sympathize with you all , his loss. God Bless Pete, and your family.
Jim & Patty Shockley
Linda Belben
October 2, 2014
Toni and Family, we are so sorry for your loss. We have had the honor to shoot cannon and mortars with a man that made us laugh till we cried. Made us smile when we were sad and most of all a friend that will last forever. We will miss you my friend till we shoot again. Love, Carl T. Gibb Jr., Jean, Linda, Andy, Mike and Ed. The Second Hampshire Regiment and the wabbit.
October 2, 2014
I'm so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts & prayers.
Val Sommerville
October 2, 2014
I'm very sorry to hear about Pete. My condolences to the Wing family. You are in my prayers. God Bless.
Mike Eades
October 2, 2014
Your all in our prayers.Our deepest condolences.
The Morgan Family,Millbrook NY
October 2, 2014
Dear Toni, Charlie and Tara,
Words just can't express how we feel about this tragedy and loss. We loved Pete so much as we do you and hope you find peace and comfort in God's loving embrace. Deepest sympathy, Jim, Bea, Diane Roach and family
(John) Nicholas Adams
October 2, 2014
Toni, I remember Pete from our basketball days and you from Millbrook. A great team you are. Take heart in your children and close friends as they support you in the days and years ahead. They tell us we will get through our respective trials. I'm rooting for you.
Nancy Lundgren
October 1, 2014
My sympathy to all of the Wing family. We were neighbors on the Shunpike for many years.
Ron Wendover
October 1, 2014
He was one of a kind. He will be missed by everyone .RIP PETE
Rita Seeley-Hein
October 1, 2014
with deepest sympathy.
christine chodan
October 1, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Toni Ann and your family my heart hurts for you all....blessing
Bruce Nielsen
October 1, 2014
Pat,
Condolences from a kindergarten classmate.
Miss Magnarella was our teacher and Jack Dick and Bumpy Olson were other classmates....You may recall that I was the polio kid with braces from Stanfordville.....It's been a while....
Regards,
Stephanie McElroy
October 1, 2014
Toni,So sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. Prayers to you and your family.
October 1, 2014
Toni, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire Wing family at this very difficult time. Linda Klaproth
Ann Froman & Rodney Silvernail
October 1, 2014
Peter Wing, you had the Genius to create & make anything. You & your beloved Toni built a Castle so Unique. Filled it with treasures all antique.We all will miss you Now that your gone, no one else on earth could have made a stone castle from a Farm. Hugs from all
Dotti Still and family
October 1, 2014
So very sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts will be with you through this difficult time...
Chrisie Shaw
October 1, 2014
Chapter 265 Brooklyn NY of Star Touring & Riding Association send our deepest condolences to the Wing Family on the passing of a very talented and most original man. We loved hearing Peter's stories and seeing his magnificent Castle. May you Rest in Peace in the big Castle in the sky!
Charlie & Nancy Race
October 1, 2014
We are very sorry to hear that Peter has passed. He was a very creative person with a special personality. He will be missed by everyone. We send our deepest condolences to the family.
Larry Freeman
October 1, 2014
My condolences go out to the family
mary jean hoss
October 1, 2014
Toni, Remembering Peter's phone message to you last Saturday....
Al and Vinnie Coonradt
October 1, 2014
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you Toni and Family. Please accept out deepest condolences.
Lew & Lynda Lee
October 1, 2014
We are so sorry to hear of this loss. May the Lord comfort you and provide for all your needs. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Toni Ann, and all of your family.
Claudia Coenen
October 1, 2014
Toni Ann, my heart swells for you and your family. I hope Alby has arranged for some strange and wonderful music for Peter's transition from human genius to angel.
Robin
October 1, 2014
Sorry for your loss. Prayers to your family.
Tom Briggs
October 1, 2014
Toni- Mary and I feel like we've lost a family member. Condolences to all your family.
Pete and Charlie, Kent, Conn Show 1989.
David Brennan
October 1, 2014
Toni, Charlie, and Tara. I am at a loss for words. Just know that I am here for all of you if you need me. I will be there. Tex.
October 1, 2014
Toni and family Remember Pete
The Barry family Pete and Mary Barry
Mitch Levine
October 1, 2014
You will be missed my friend !!
Ken Crossfield
October 1, 2014
Toni Ann, I'm saddened. Peter was a good friend and I will miss him. Very sorry.
Nola Lee Weit
September 30, 2014
Toni and family, So sorry for your loss. Pete will be missed by many.
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