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Stephen Terstenyak Obituary

Stephen J.

Terstenyak

Pine Plains, NY - Stephen J. Terstenyak, 65, passed away on Thursday, January 3, 2013 at Vassar Brothers Medical Center in Poughkeepsie after a lengthy illness.

He was born on March 27, 1947 in Manhattan the son of Stephen and Steffina (Brezinak) Terstenyak.

Mr. Terstenyak was a Detective and worked for thirty three years for the Town of Poughkeepsie Police Department. He was also a certified firearms instructor.

He was a Corporal with United States Marine Corps during the Vietnam War.

On August 23, 1968 in Pine Plains, NY he married Linda (Cahill) Terstenyak. She predeceased him on April 12, 2002.

Survivors include a daughter Erin Kowalewski and her husband John of New Baltimore, NY; a daughter, Tiffany Terstenyak of Pine Plains, NY; a grandson, Ethan Terstenyak of Pine Plains, NY; a sister, Steffina Sanbria; three nieces, Ranira, Rebecca, Nicolette and two nephews, Paul Terstenyak and Joseph Terstenyak.

He was predeceased by his brother Joseph John Terstenyak on November 20, 2008.

Mr. Terstenyak is a member of the Pine Plains American Legion Post 426. The Pine Plains Sportsman's Association, a member of the Marine Corps League and the National Rifleman's Association.

Calling hours are 4 to 7 PM on Tuesday, January 8, 2013 at Peck & Peck Funeral Home 7749 South Main St. Pine Plains, NY.

Funeral and burial will be at the convenience of the family.

Memorial contributions are requested to the Pine Plains Rescue Squad PO Box 100 Pine Plains, NY 12567.

To sign the online register please access peckandpeck.net

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Poughkeepsie Journal from Jan. 5 to Jan. 7, 2013.

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Bob Viola

January 9, 2013

Steve was a great guy, met him in Marine Corps, will miss him and his great sense of humor. Semper Fidelis friend.

January 8, 2013

On behalf of the men and women of the Town of Poughkeepsie Police Department, I extend our heartfelt condolances to the entire Terstenyak family . Steve will always be remembered for his dedication to duty , great sprit and most of all his friendship to all of us throughout these many years . May he rest in peace.

Chief Tom Mauro

Paul Sullivan

January 8, 2013

Steve was a loving husband and a caring father. I knew Steve when he was employed by the Town of Poughkeepsie as a police officer and often worked in the Court. He was always there to lend a hand and I remember so many great times. He had a great sence of humor and I recall so many contributions that he made to the Court. He was a great Officer and will always be remembered fondly. Today's session of the Town Court will be adjourned in his memory. We have lost a great friend and he will be remembered fondly.

Melissa Couse

January 7, 2013

So sorry to hear about your dad!

Judith & Thom Christopher

January 7, 2013

Dear Tiffany and family,
Our tender and warm thoughts are with you. The poet Tagore says.."Death is not extinguishing the light but putting
out the lamp because the dawn has come." Thom and Judith Christopher

Erik Lindmark

January 6, 2013

I had the great honor of serving with Steve as a Police Officer. It was even greater honor to become friends with Steve over the years. He was a unique individual who loved his family, his Marine Corp and serving the public as a cop, as well as being a mentor to cops like me. Semper Fi Tersto! Hope you are still hugging the love of your life now that you are with her...miss you pal

Bob Hornick

January 6, 2013

I worked with Steve during his early years as a Policeman. It was always a pleasure to be on duty with him, his outlook was always positive. I don't recall a negative thing about Steve. My prayers for Steve were not answerd as the Lord had other plans for him. I count on eventually being with him in the Kingdom of the Lord.

January 5, 2013

Dear Tiffany and Erin,
I'm sorry to read about your dad.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Kathy (Dr.Pavels office)

Lynn Murphy

January 5, 2013

Tiffany.. Hugs and kisses to you!! Our thoughts and payers are with you at this difficult time. Please remember dad is in a better place. May he rest peacefully now. God bless.

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