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Thomas Aiello Obituary
Poughkeepsie, New York - Thomas F. Aiello, 58 years, of Poughkeepsie, lost his battle with cancer on Saturday May 30, 2020 at his residence surrounded by his family. He is sadly missed by his entire family.
He was born on Wednesday May 2, 1962 in Detroit, Michigan, the son of Frank P. and Patricia West Aiello.
On March 19, 2011 after being together for 18 years, Tom married the love of his life, Jo Ann Brinkerhoff in Poughkeepsie, New York.
Survivors Include his wife Jo Ann Aiello of Poughkeepsie, his stepchildren Heather M. Pelton and her significant other Eric Welch of Poughkeepsie, Shaun R. Pelton and his fiancé Jamie McDowell of Poughkeepsie, Timothy M. Pelton of Poughkeepsie, Tracy L. Tietje and husband Gregg of Poughkeepsie, Tom's brother Frank Aiello and his wife Naira of Florida and his sisters Lucinda Abra of Catskill and Chrisann Lohrman of Florida.
Thomas is also survived by 10 grandchildren, 1 great grandchild, 2 nieces and 3 nephews. Thomas was predeceased by his niece Alexis Sisniega
The family would like to thank the many Nurses, Doctors, Healthcare Workers and Hospice. A Very Special Thank you to Dr. Rachmalla, Stacy, Maggie and her entire staff also Dr.Papadopoulos and his great staff. You are all like family.
Funeral Services will be held Saturday July 11, 2020 from 2pm to 4pm at the Timothy P. Doyle Funeral Home 371 Hooker Ave. Poughkeepsie, New York 12603. Due to the mandated New York State guidelines, we are allowed 33 percent of our occupancy at this time to enter the building. Masks are required with social distancing measures to take place when entering to pay respects to the family. We kindly ask if you can exit promptly so we can continue to move those wishing to pay their respects to the family in an orderly manner.
If you would like to send an online condolence please visit our website at www.doylefuneralhome.com
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Mikayla
August 8, 2024
I remember when i lived at his and my grandmas house, we used to always sit together and watch random stuff he would explain to me
July 9, 2020
May the words at Isaiah 61:1,2 prove to be comforting to you. God will bind up the broken hearted... and comfort all who mourn.
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