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Edward Fetzko Obituary
Edward J. Fetzko
of Binghamton
Edward "Ed" Joseph Fetzko, 69, of Binghamton, went home to our Lord on Monday, November 2, 2009, at Meriter Hospital in Madison, WI. Ed was hospitalized while visiting his son Mark in Madison in mid-October. He had battled non-Hodgkins lymphoma valiantly for nearly ten years. Ed was born May 5, 1940 in Shamokin, PA, a son of the late Thomas and Mary (Bednarczyk) Fetzko. Ed was a member of the Shamokin High School Class of 1958, and a graduate of Bloomsburg State and Cortland State Universities. A mathematics teacher for 36 years, Ed retired in June 1998 from Chenango Forks High School. In addition to teaching, he pursued his lifelong passion for sports as "Coach Fetz," beginning his coaching career as JV basketball coach (1962-1963); junior high wrestling coach (1964-1966); and junior high football coach (1964-1965). Ed coached JV football from 1965-1998 and was JV baseball coach from 1962-1983. As JV football coach, his teams experienced four undefeated seasons, but Ed cherished his players equally whether 0-9 or 9-0. While he enjoyed football, his first love was baseball. After over 20 years at the junior varsity level, he assumed head varsity baseball coach duties from 1983-1998, winning multiple division titles in the old "Sus" league and STAC ('88, '95, '96). Under his leadership, the Blue Devils also won Section IV championships in 1987 and 1988, progressing to the sectional finals again in 1989 before losing to Maine-Endwell. Ed's most accomplished team advanced to the state final in 1987, falling in a spirited 6-5 contest to champion Shoreham Wading River, a team led by future major leaguer Keith Osik. After retiring from teaching, Coach Fetz's final years as a coach were spent at Johnson City High School. He was the head JV baseball coach from 1999-2004, assisting with the varsity during the post-season. As an assistant, he helped contribute to JC's 1999 state championship run, earning the ring that eluded him 20 years earlier. In and outside of the classroom and field, Ed will forever be remembered for his booming voice, huge heart, constant quest for excellence, and eclectic, yet wonderful, sense of humor. Coach Fetz had an amazing ability to motivate and inspire his students and athletes to overcome challenges and to set and achieve their goals, all the while having fun. Outside of work, Ed was a devoted father and husband as well as an avid sports fan and prolific reader. He loved to spend time with his family near and far, traveling across the country and to Europe multiple times. With a zeal for life and learning, Ed accumulated many different hobbies throughout his 69 years. He was a talented golfer and successfully shot a hole-in-one. In the winter, Ed regularly hit the ski slopes at Greek Peak Ski Resort, where he was a season-pass holder after running the Chenango Forks Ski Club for many years. After retirement, he especially enjoyed playing pitch with his card group. Throughout his life, Ed had a servant's heart, regularly helping family, friends and neighbors in need. Ed leaves his loving wife, Mary Lou; three daughters, Christine, Karen and Stephanie; son, Mark; son-in-law, Christian Schulz; granddaughter, Sophia Schulz; two sisters and brothers-in-law, Mary Anne and John Jayman of Baltimore, MD, and Barbara and John Gotaskie of Sunbury, PA; one brother and sister-in-law, Phil and Jean Fetzko of Kreamer, PA; mother-in-law, Mary Wyszkowski of Whitney Point, NY; sister and brother-in-law, Patricia and Rahn Lawton of Binghamton, NY; nieces and nephews, John R. Jayman, Barbara Jude Jayman, John Gotaskie Jr., Jeffrey Gotaskie, Jennifer Fetzko, Mary Ellen Fetzko, Diane Wettig, Phillip Fetzko, and Alexis and Tyler Lawton; two great-nieces, Gabby and Alexis Wettig; two great-nephews, John Richard and Joseph Jayman; and several cousins. He is predeceased by brother, Thomas A. Fetzko. He was lovingly supported in his final days by Meredith Sax Bourne and Patrick Pilie, the girlfriend and boyfriend of his youngest two children, Mark and Stephanie. Ed was a devout Catholic and was a member of St. Mary of the Assumption Church after years of attendance at St. Christopher's. He enjoyed praying the Rosary. Ed will be forever cherished by his dear family, friends and former colleagues and students. God Grant Him Eternal Rest.
A Funeral Mass will be offered at St. Mary of the Assumption Church, Binghamton, Saturday at 1 p.m. Burial will be in Calvary Cemetery, Johnson City. The family will receive friends at the J.A. McCormack Sons Funeral Home, 141 Main Street, Binghamton, Friday from 4-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions in Ed's memory be made to Lymphoma Research Foundation, 1115 Broadway, 13th Floor, New York, NY 10006; or Meriter Foundation Inc., 202 S. Park St. Madison, WI 53715 using the Gift Designation.
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Memories and Condolences
for Edward Fetzko
Sponsored by The Children of Edward Fetzko.
Jimmy Evans
March 9, 2018
Dear Fetzko family,
Doing some online nostalgia this evening, and I am so sorry to read of Ed's loss. As a friend and baseball teammate of Mark (and an "adopted member" of your family aka the kid who was always around) from about 1988-1991, your dad was very formidable in my life. I always looked up to him and he was 100% a hero of mine during those years.
I hope Marylou, Mark, Karen, Stephanie and the rest of the family are all doing great, and know your dad was always very well respected.
Gail Davidson (formerly Eberlin)
January 11, 2016
I just learned of Mr. Fetzko's passing. My prayer is that God has given you peace. He was a wonderful and spirited teacher. He inspired me to pursue teaching in my undergrad work, however, psychology grabbed me. I am into my 44 year as a Regional Consultant/social worker specializing in child protective services. I am blessed to have known him.
David Ambrose
November 30, 2014
When I think back to high school (class of '87) I have such great memories and many of them are with the Fetz. I had the pleasure of having him as a math teacher and J.V. football coach. His ability to engage every student was unmatched (even trouble makers like me). His Fetz-isms last a lifetime with his students. I can still hear his powerful voice and that says a lot about him. The success of the C.F. football program could be attributed to the Fetz. By the time athletes played varsity, they made it thru Fetz's J.V. system in which his leadership was outstanding. The education world could use so many more great teachers like the Fetz. His C.F. legacy will live on forever!
Nathan Claycomb
November 27, 2013
You were a great man, Mr.Fetzko.
bob jones
April 7, 2010
God Bless Ed and his family. I went to school and college with Ed and he was one of finest getlemen I ever met. I saw him at our 50th reunion and he had the same wonderful laugh and charm. You cannot meet a better person.
Bob Jones SHS class of 1958
Bryce Kelchner
March 15, 2010
As a former student of his from the early 70's, I am sad to hear of Mr. Fetzko's passing. He was an excellent caring teacher, patient and kind, but persistant in making a point and making sure that everyone in the class learned. We need more people like him on this planet.
My condolences to the family.
Kathi Bailey
January 13, 2010
Dear Christine, Karen, Mark and Stephanie, Thank you for keeping this online. I still cannot believe he is gone. I thought and prayed for you, your mom and all the family through the holidays... the firsts are the hardest. Please know that your dad will never be forgotten. Much love to all of you.
Mike Kimble
December 17, 2009
Awesome football coach. I truly enjoyed the time I got to play under his direction. He used to call me "Doctor." I loved that!
Michael Dellapenta
December 16, 2009
Coach, RIP lot's of memories!!! My deepest condolences to your family!!!
November 21, 2009
I just found out about Mr Fetzko's passing. Reading all the memories everyone wrote about bring back so many of my own. I used keep the tradition my brother started by taking in Kolocki, holupki and whatever other polish foods my mother would make. He was a great teacher, made learning math so much fun. My stepson could use a math teacher like Mr Fetzko as he has a hard time with algebra. I remember when he would talk to me in Polish the little I knew and the class would just look at us and say what?
My best to his family I know how much he will be missed, my thoughts and prayers.
Barbara Skrzypek Warpus
Christian Winfield
November 16, 2009
My deepest condolences to the Fetzko family: Mr. Fetzko was a truly caring teacher and mentor, and genuinely an excellent human being. Thank you for everything Mr. Fetzko, I owe you so much.
Hollis Bunker Healy
November 16, 2009
Such a wonderful man, and wonderful teacher, he will never be forgotten. My condolences, Hollis Bunker Healy
Fred Champion
November 14, 2009
Coach Fetz was a great coach, math teacher, and person who had a big influence beyond the classroom or football field. He taught me my first audible at the line of scrimmage, that being a jump pass to either tight end with the audible being "Pizza pie", the right end being "anchovies" and the left end being "mushrooms". Whitney Point never did figure it out. He also made math more fun than ever orginally envisioned by the scholars. And special memories of trips to visit Mom Fetzko for Sunday dinner in Shamokin and another to old Yankee Stadium the day they retired Mickey Mantle's jersey. We'll miss you Coach. Our most sincere condolences to the family.
J.T. Trinkle
November 11, 2009
Coach as i called him, was a great teacher and baseball and football coach.My friends and i till this day still say all his catch phrases....he was like a father to many of us that played sports, i loved him. I will always think of him.
J.T. and Dawn Trinkle(Atlanta, Ga.)
Kelly Faulkner
November 11, 2009
To the Fetzko family:
Having Mr. Fetzko as a math teacher is one of my favorite memories of high school. His upbeat demeanor and wonderful Fetzism's will never be forgotten. My condolences for your loss.
Kelly Gumbach-Faulkner, class of '97
November 11, 2009
Dear Mary Lou,
I was so sorry to hear of your husband's death from Melissa Collins last night at yoga. Please accept my condolences. I read his obituary and wish I had known him. He sounded like an exceptional person. I'm sure that you, your family and his friends will miss him very much.
Sincerely, Judy Dennis (yoga class)
Pete Doll
November 10, 2009
To the Fetzko Family:
Mr. Fetzko was one of the funniest teachers I have ever had. Every day in class he would make you laugh with all his quirky sayings. He would take the time to help his students whenever it was needed. Mr. Fetzko was a great teacher, coach and man.
I will never forget the experience of the '87 baseball team, I will cherish that memory for the rest of my life.
My condolences to you all.
Bill Davies
November 10, 2009
Mary Lou and family,
I saw of your husband's passing and just wanted to express our sympathy to you and your family. I didn't realize Ed was a Bloom graduate as well. I graduated from Bloom in 1971 and met you when you subbed at WP for Mary Ellen Lane. I retired from WP in 2002 after 31 years. Dotty and I also chaperoned the ski club at Greek Peak.
Bill and Dotty Davies Vero Beach, FL
Greene, NY Memphis, NY
Mary Jane McKercher
November 10, 2009
Dear Mary Lou and family,
Memories keep those we love close to us forever. May you find peace and be comforted by those memories.
With Deepest Sympathy,
November 10, 2009
We at Radio Free Europe/Radio Liberty had the privilege of meeting Mr. and Mrs. Fetzko a couple of years ago when they toured our Prague broadcast center, where their daughter Christine is our Deputy Chief of Staff. We could see immediately that Christine's father was an extremely kind person with a great sense of humor and a wonderful family. Our condolences go out to the entire Fetzko family in this time of loss and remembrance.
Jeff Gedmin, President
Beth Portale, Chief of Staff
Radio Free Europe/Radio Liberty
Prague, Czech Republic
November 10, 2009
We at Radio Free Europe/Radio Liberty had the privilege of meeting Mr. and Mrs. Fetzko a couple of years ago when they toured our Prague broadcast center, where their daughter Christine is our Deputy Chief of Staff. We could see immediately that Christine's father was an extremely kind person with a great sense of humor and a wonderful family. Our condolences go out to the entire Fetzko family in this time of loss and remembrance.
Jeff Gedmin, President
Beth Portale, Chief of Staff
Radio Free Europe/Radio Liberty
Prague, Czech Republic
Diane Weyna
November 10, 2009
Dear Mary Lou and all the family,
My most sincere condolences to you on the loss of Ed. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
November 9, 2009
"Take a walk on the number line," "Ya gotta burn to learn...DAD" and many more memorable Ed Fetzko quotes that jog our minds!
My memories of Mr. Fetzko are fond and indelible and functional too! Many a fine instructors taught but, Mr. Fetzko fed as well!
May the Fetzko family take solace in knowing he touched many of us
sincerely,
Todd Snover '72
Friendsville,Pa
November 9, 2009
He was a caring teacher and a great coach who left an indelible impression on a great many souls. Myself included. May he rest in peace. Brian Francis (CF class of '93)
Buck Wrighter
November 9, 2009
To the Fetzko family,
I'm sorry for your loss of a great man. I have some great memories of coach Fetz. He will be greatly missed. God bless you all
Kimberly Gregor
November 8, 2009
To the family of Ed Fetzko,
You were lifted in prayer today in church. We are deeply saddened for your loss and pray that God holds you in the palm of his hand during this very difficult time.
With deep sincerity, on behalf of
Union Presbyterian Church, Endicott
Kevin Clapper
November 8, 2009
Dear Marylou and family,
We are both saddened by your loss and are sorry we could not attend services for Ed "Coach". Unfortunately, the flu has gotten us all down at the Clapper household. We are grateful to have seen both of you at John McKedy's party and will keep Ed's smiling face in our memories. You are in our thoughts Marylou.
Fondly, Kevin and Kathy Clapper
Lisa (Eck) Putrino
November 8, 2009
It was very sad news to learn of Mr. Fetzko's passing. I truly believe there will never be another like him. He was creative, unique, caring and passionate about his teachings. He is a legend in his own right. Thank you Mr. Fetzko for without you, and all of the dedication you put into my "remedial", I never would have passed my Regents. My sincerest condolences to the Fetzko family. You've indeed made it to the top!
November 8, 2009
Dear Mary Lou, Christine,Karen,Stephenie, and Mark,
My most heart felt condolences to all of you.
I am encouraged to write this message to all of you to express my feelings on Ed's passing.He was a husband,father,teacher and best friend to many of us.
When speaking of memories, we all have many. My memories were simular to everyone elses; Best ever Teacher, and a great friend, with a sense of humor that overrode all that is not right in our world. His booming, attention grabing voice in the middle of my back swing :) was always forgiven.
Again, Ed will be sorrily missed, and I am eternally thankful for his gift of friendship.
Sincerely,
Pete Litchfield
Destin,Florida
Carole Anzalone Fink
November 8, 2009
As a middle school math teacher in Charlotte, NC, I find myself repeating the same goofy sayings Mr. Fetzko used to use with my class. I never thought I would hear them coming out of my mouth because at the time when I was in the peanut gallery, I thought they were so ridiculous. One day, I said to my class of 6th graders, "One bird plus one bird is two birds," and they looked at me like I was crazy. I laughed to myself and knew they would never fully appreciate what those meant to me. Rest in peace! My thoughts are with you all.
November 7, 2009
Fetz,
my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. your dad alway made me laugh!
hootie
Wendy Gorman
November 7, 2009
How wonderful to see so many familiar names from CFCS expressing their thoughts and memories of Mr. Fetzko. I remember dreading Geometry in 1970, but Mr. Fetzko managed to pull me through with a passing grade. Have I forgotten everything about theorems? Absolutely! But I still remember Mr. Fetzko in the front of the room writing on the blackboard with such intensity that the chalk broke and flew around the room.
To Mrs. Fetzko and your family, please accept my sympathy and prayers.
Kris Gibbore
November 7, 2009
I too had Mr. Fetzko as a teacher. He used to call me little Trav. He will be missed by all. He was a great man with a great voice. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of his family.
Kris Travis Gibbore
Jan Held Woodworth
November 7, 2009
When I think Of Mr. Fetzko I think of his sense of humor - he was always quick witted and made me laugh! I remember bus rides with the Ski Club - always a lot of fun and full of laughter, thanks to him! I also remember hearing him yelling down the hall in school - a voice you couldn't miss! He wasn't angry - but he sure did get your attention!! It's been a long time since I had him in school, but he's a teacher I will always remember fondly! My thoughts and prayers are with all of his family! May the wonderful memories you have of this wonderful man, ease your sorrow!
Suzanne (DeBlase) Heyda
November 7, 2009
To Marylou and the Fetzko family we extend our deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband and father.
Scott Decosse
November 7, 2009
To the Fetzko family -
Reading all the "Fetz-isms" has brought a great smile to my face. One of my favorites was the old "One bird plus one bird is two birds - not Larry Bird!" A great teacher as well as a great Coach.
Playing on the 1987 team that made it to the State Championship game, to this day, is one of the best experiences I've ever had. In the classroom, or on the sideline, his loud, booming voice was truly one of a kind.
My thoughts are with the entire Fetzko family.
November 7, 2009
Dear Mary Lou and family, Our deepest sympathy to you all on Ed's passing. What a great prson he was.! Remembering all our fun parties after the football games and those great football banquets.He was a wonderful coach and terrific teacher and will be missed greatly. Gail and Regina Wrighter and family
Joe Stoner
November 7, 2009
To the Fetzko Family:
Your husband and father was a wonderful teacher and coach, but he was even a better person. He left an enduring legacy with his students and colleagues. May you find peace and comfort in knowing that many fond memories of Ed will continue with those who knew him.
The Rosko family
November 6, 2009
Mary Lou and family - please accept our deepest sympathies for your loss. The world will be a dimmer and much less colorful place without Ed. He was one of the first people to go out of his way to make me feel at home when I arrived at CF and one of the people to have the greatest and most lasting impact on me. The lessons I learned having him as a mentor, lessons about teaching, coaching and being an adult are ones that have helped shape who I am. His influence, and your families lasting influence affects our family on a daily basis. He was a good man and we will miss him dearly.
Victoria Lee
November 6, 2009
To the Fetzko Family,
It was definitely an experience to be in Mr Fetzko's classroom! An experience never to be forgotten! He made math class so much more fun than anybody else could have! He will be deeply missed by all who knew him. Our sincere condolences to Mark and the rest of the Fetzko family.
Chad and Victoria (Hull) Lee
Colleen Ashman
November 6, 2009
Mrs. Fetzko and Family,
It was always a great experience to have Mr. Fetzko as a teacher and he always kept the the classroom a dynamic environment, to say the least! Although I remember all the Fetzisms that make me laugh outloud, I remember the times I have seen him after graduation. He always had a smile with laughter in his voice that just made me feel so great. He's a great guy and will surely be missed by all. Prayers to your family.
laurie danisa (Grippin)
November 6, 2009
My sincere condolences to the Fetzko family. Mr fetzko was an awesome mathematics teacher, and I enjoyed the algebra and trigonometry classes with great zeal. He used terms like "Dobald Duck and Mickey Mouse" to assist us in remenberng formulas. I still remember them to this day. He will be missed!!!
Judy & Victor Mastronardi
November 6, 2009
Dear Mary Lou....our deepest sympathy to you and the children
Todd James
November 6, 2009
To the Fetzko Family;
My condolences are with all of you at this difficult time. I have so many great memories from my time in the classroom with Fetz as well as from playing baseball for him. He was a great teacher and coach, but an even better man. I will never forget playing in the state championship game for him, but more than the game it was the heartfelt letter he wrote to me after expressing how much the trip meant to him and how we would remember it forever. Fetz always spoke from the heart and that is one of the qualities that made him a special person. I have become a math teacher and coach and still use some of the fetzisms with my students. Term into term and you will burn. When in doubt...factor out. Does that b-b-b-bother you? They look at me like I'm nuts. Just part of the legacy passed on by the Fetz. He will be greatly missed.
Pat Lawton
November 6, 2009
Ed, You may be my brother-in-law but in my heart you are the brother I never had. I never once heard you complain about not feeling well- you were always upbeat. You were an amazing husband to my sister and an amazing father to my nieces and nephew who I consider to be my children. I love you!
Kevin Pospisil
November 6, 2009
I fondly remember having to sit in the "Bob Uecker" section of his classroom for more than one math tests. A great teacher and a great person, he will be greatly missed.
Jennifer Thorn
November 6, 2009
To The Fetzko Family:
My Deepest condolences to your family on the passing of a great teacher, coach, and great man. He will greatly be missed by all who came in contact with him and came to know him. He was one heck of a teacher to those whom he taught. He had a unique way to get you to understand something when others couldn't. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Former CF student. Class of 1997.
Kevin Aukema
November 6, 2009
Coach Fetz
He was an amazing man that has created lots of stories from his uncanny way of words. We called them Fetzism in highschool. We counted 33 in highschool from "get out your Jersey Joe Calculators" "You fish" "When in doubt mash potatoes and sour croute" etc. He was was a very inspirationsl man that has helped me become a football coach and a teacher myself. Fetz will certainly be missed but lets cherish the memories that he has created with everyone that knew him.
Tom Martin
November 6, 2009
Coach Fetzko was the greatest. When we played for Coach we learned to have fun but play to our upmost abilities. I will never forget his fur hat he wore to keep his ears warm, it became known as the Hunyak hat...and we were his fellow Hunyaks! Heaven now has a winning team as they will now have the BEST of Coaches. God Bless You, Coach Fetzko,,,you will be missed!
Joe Guccia
November 6, 2009
Fetz represented everything that we should be teaching today's youth about 'everyday heroes'. He was a man who was passionate about everything he did and who took great pride in his family. I had the privilege to work with Ed for five years, and he made a lasting impression on me. He was a true role model in every sense of the word. My thoughts and prayers are with Mary Lou and the family.
Timothy Gardner
November 6, 2009
My sincere condolances to you Mrs. Fetzko and family. Coach Fetzko touched my life over 30 plus years ago, and it's obvious by the guest book, he touched many others, and was an inspiration to us all. Although deeply sadden by the the news, a smile comes to my face, when from afar, in a deepened voice I hear those words " GET THE COBB OUT!!". Tim Gardner (Las Vegas, Nevada)
Tim Bailey
November 6, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Fetzko family. "Fetz" was an amazing person, teacher, and of course my favorite baseball coach! We will miss you!
Cori Balogh
November 6, 2009
I'm a close friend of Ed's niece Jennifer and I would like to extend my sincere condolences to the Fetzko family.
Kathi (Mazursky Bailey
November 6, 2009
It is amazing how the word of his death got around. My daughter, who lives in Sydney, Australia rang me to tell me. As I sit here and read the entries, the tears are streaming down my face... first from laughing so hard because I remember every single little ditty Fetz would say (and I wish I could remember more of them) and then from the heartache for the loss of a great teacher, Chenango Forks coach, and friend. He was my teacher back in the 70's and my children's teacher in the 90's. In class, when there was always a certain one who needed assistance during a test, he would happen by their desk and give the most hilariously "big red truck" clues that if anyone who had half a brain could not get it wrong. My kids grew up and went to school with his kids, so we were now friends... Go figure. I would see Ed anywhere with that big smile on his face and he and I held that priceless bond of being fellow "Pollacks" and our greeting was always in Polish, something I will never forget and will always miss. The Fetzko family is blessed to have had such a character as their patriarch, and now as their guardian angel. My prayers and love will be with you all, though I know that the blessings that he left you will lift you the rest of the days till you are with him again. He is in heart forever, . Much love and prayers to you all! Odpoczywaja (pozostawac) w pokojowym moim przyjacielu! (Rest in peace my friend!)
Cris Markham/Broderick
November 6, 2009
I had to laugh as I read my sisters message, sent from Tampa. I too was asked to sit in the "peanut gallery". Ed Fetzko defined CFCS as a great place of education. How lucky we were to have been placed in his care. As members of his family, I can only imagine how blessed you are with memories. Peace be with you.
November 6, 2009
It was my good fortune, and great pleasure to have Fetz as a teacher and coach. As Tom points out, coach Fetzko was truly a pioneer of the Forks football tradition. Great teacher, great coach, great man. Thanks coach, and thanks to his family for sharing him with all of us. George Thomas
Don Dunham
November 6, 2009
I played for Coach Fetzko and passed his 10th-grade math class only because of the extra help he kindly gave me. the Fetzkos also stood as godparents to some of my family (Lesso side) in Shamokin. I'll pray for Ed and for his family.
November 6, 2009
When I think of Chenango Forks, Mr. Fetzko is one of those that stands out as an icon that symbolized the best of what you'd expect a teacher and a coach to be. This guy was larger than life and will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Andrew Rogers
November 6, 2009
When I think of Chenango Forks, Mr. Fetzko is one of those that stands out as an icon that symbolized the best of what you'd expect a teacher and a coach to be. This guy was larger than life and will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Pavol Gura with family
November 6, 2009
Dear Fetzko Family,
I am sorry for your loss.
My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you
Ed, nech Ti je zem lahka a svetlo vecne nech Ti svieti!
David McFarland
November 5, 2009
Sincere condolances to all of Ed's family and friends, he will be dearly missed.
Ed was my favorite coach and aguably my favorite teacher of all time. I'll never forget his references to the "A-Team", and how a mistake was referred to as a "Murdock." Without the Math I learned from him, I never would have been able to pass the qualifying exams for the Naval Nuclear Power Program. Great memories. Gone but NEVER forgotten.
Charlie Bryant
November 5, 2009
I offer my deepest sympathies to the family of Ed Fetzko. He was a great teacher, coach, father, and friend to many people over his many years at C.F. and will be sorely missed. I can still hear his voice.
Tina Shaul
November 5, 2009
Fetzko Family every student and player who knew Mr.Fetzko surely feels your loss. My favorite Fetzko-isms were "he who hesitates is lost" and "its a cake walk everybody wins"
His voice will always reverberate soundly in my head, and bring a smile to my face. What a guy!!!
David Shaul
November 5, 2009
“When in doubt – factor out!” I still believe in this crazy philosophy to this day! It wasn’t just about Math. It wasn’t just about Football. He taught us all about life. I will/do miss him. Again. My teacher. My coach. My friend. And I would love to hear him call Jon Emm a “Honyack” again. He was a special man.
Greg Davie
November 5, 2009
As a long time fan of the old Susquenango League sports scene, I recall Coach Fetz from when Sidney and Forks matched up on the baseball diamond. His teams were fundamentally sound. Rivalries like that remain priceless, as you always respected the baseball program there.
It is clear that he had just as many memories created in the classroom as any sports venue. As an educator, he made a difference; so rare in this day and age.
Condolences to the family and Chenango Forks community.
David Shaul
November 5, 2009
“When in doubt – factor out!” I still believe in this crazy philosophy to this day! It wasn’t just about Math. It wasn’t just about Football. It wasn't just about Baseball. He taught us all about life. I will/do miss him. Again. My teacher. My coach. My friend. And I would love to hear him call Jon Emm a “Honyack” one more time. He was a special man.
Rob Ames
November 5, 2009
Coach Fetzko. What a great man,teacher and coach. You will be missed. I will always remember "Eat your Bananas" during football season and his many sayings!
Tina Shaul
November 5, 2009
Fetzko Family, every student and player he ever had surely feels your loss. Two of my favorite Fetzko-isms are "he who hesitates is lost" and "its a cake walk everybody wins" God Bless you all. Tina (Root)Shaul
Lisa Cardullo Mann
November 5, 2009
My deepest sympathy to your family. Reading through these posts, my memories of high school math came rushing back!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Brent Ingraham
November 5, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with the family members in their time of grief.
I have many fond memories of the "Fetzer" from the moment he moved into the CF district to start his teaching career. There were many many football games, golf matches, world series games ect but the most memorable time was a trip to California to the Rose Bowl game between Ohio State and Stanford. What a funfilled week.There were many more, too numerous to mention.
God rest his soul.
Mike Connell
November 5, 2009
To the Fetzkos and his closest of friends,
I was saddened when Tom Hellerud emailed me last night informing me that Coach Fetzko had passed. He certainly is a legend on the grounds of CFCS. My thoughts are with all of you in this difficult time.
I never had him as a teacher, but I did play for one of his JV football teams in the early days of his career. While I too fondly remember a lot of Fetzko-isms and his coaching style, I only have one "Ed Fetzko story" that I can remember because it directly involves me. I ran into Coach Fetzko maybe five years ago when we both had appointments at a doctor we were both seeing that day, so we had a nice talk. I related my story to him and he actually remembered it because he finished the story before I had the chance! I am so glad I had that chance meeting with him that day.
Rest peacefully Coach Fetz
November 5, 2009
Mr. Fetzko was my favorite math teacher. To this day, I cannot listen to the theme from Beethoven's 5th Symphony without remembering his wacky way of teaching Trigonometry. Who else could make math so much fun? He will be missed.-- Jennifer James Wissink, CF Class of 1987
Julee Gell
November 5, 2009
I am remembering and honoring Mr. Fetzko today. His quirky sense of humor made math fun...and to this day I am unable to see sauerkraut without saying out loud "factor out, sauerkraut and mashed potatoes". My husband and daughter think I'm NUTS! Thanks Mr. Fetzko. You touched and enriched my life. I am holding your family in my heart.
Pamala Markham-Vazquez
November 5, 2009
My fondest memory of Mr. Fetzko will always be that each and every time I asked a math question he'd smile, shake his head, and say "Markham,take a seat in the peanut gallery."
He was a great teacher and taught at a great high school~ My best to his family.
November 5, 2009
Dear Fetzko Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Mr. Fetzko's passing. I will never forget all that he taught me. About a week ago I was helping one of my students with math, we were both stuck until I yelled out, "when in doubt factor out, mashed potatoes and gravy!" I'll remember him fondly. He will be missed.
Karen Ruston
Stephanie (Bailey) Lidbury
November 5, 2009
So many of us have known Mr. Fetz since we were little, just starting school. What a genuinely nice man... someone who was always there with a smile, always available when you needed him for anything, and ready to give you some Catholic guilt when you were tempted to blow off your math homework. He will be greatly missed.
Tina Barber
November 5, 2009
So sad...Mr. Fetzko was my math teacher Junior year...although quadratic equations have been long forgotten, I've remembered his unique sense of humor all these years later. My deepest sympathies.
November 5, 2009
I first met Mr. Fetzko when I entered Algrebra class in room 109 at the old CF high school. He was one of those teachers that impacted you for your entire life. We were all lucky to have shared time with him. All my prayers to your family.
shirley girton
November 5, 2009
I first met Mr. Fetzko when I entered Algrebra class in room 109 at the old CF high school. He was one of those teachers that impacted you for your entire life. We were all lucky to have shared time with him. All my prayers to your family.
shirley girton
November 5, 2009
I first met Mr. Fetzko when I entered Algrebra class in room 109 at the old CF high school in 1964. He was one of those teachers that impacted you for your entire life. We were all lucky to have shared time with him. All my prayers to your family.
MONICA SACKETT
November 5, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
November 5, 2009
I was saddened by the news of Ed's passing. I taught and coached with Ed at Chenago Forks, he was a great teacher, a great coach and most importantly a great person.
Jim Vaughn
November 5, 2009
Hey MaryLou, Chris and the rest of the offspring Fetzers,
The world has lost one of a dying breed...teachers like Fetzer. He was one of us who embodied the love of being outrageous and effective and an individual who could get along with and love other people who were likewise individuals.
His love of teaching will always be remembered, especially his great use of playng cards in the classroom.
There is zero probability that another person like Fetz will ever come along.
Cherish the memories he gave you and the strengths he allowed all of you to express and be proud of.
L'Chaim.
jim shear
CF Retired
Monica Bradley Usiak
November 5, 2009
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Debbie Card
November 5, 2009
Ed Fetzko will always hold a very special place in our hearts as a wonderful friend and man. We treasure every memory we have of spending time with Ed. He was a true gentleman. MaryLou, Christine, Karen, Mark, and Stephanie, our heartfelt condolences to each of you and the rest of your family. Ed touched our hearts in a way we will never forget. We are so grateful for the gift of his friendship and the honor of knowing him. Love, Dave, Debbie and Bobbi-Jo Card.
Barry Gell
November 5, 2009
Mr. Fetzko was my math teacher and JV football coach in the late '70's - before our first game he was trying to inspire us and started singing "We Are Family", which soon became our team motto. Who can forget math class with phrases like "Katie Bar the Door" or "Get out your green weenies" or the infamous song and dance for SOCCAHTOA! Mr. Fetzko inspired me both as an athlete and student and taught me leadership skills that have lasted a life time. You are a Forks legend Mr. Fetzko.
Sheli O'Hara
November 5, 2009
Dear Mary-Lou and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. He was a great man and left a wonderful legacy behind. May you all be comforted by the many people that he touched. God Bless, Sheli and Ed O'Hara
Dawn (Patak) Langdon
November 5, 2009
What a terrible loss to this world. Mr. Fetzko was an amazing teacher. I loved having him for math because there were always "Mickey Mouse" problems! And then there was "the final door"-which was the last time we'd walk out of his room before the Regents. Those days are memorable and I still talk about him to my son, who loves math as much as I did when I was taught by "Fetz". God Bless you Mr. Fetzko. You will definitely be missed!
Tom Gell
November 5, 2009
There are a million "Fetzko-isms"
But my all time favorite that "I will always remember and never forget" is "Thou shall not, have a radical in the denominator, Dummy!"
See you on the other side Coach!
November 5, 2009
To the entire Fetzko Family.
My deepest condolences on the passing of Mr. Fetzko. I have many fond memories as an old CF cheerleader and ski club member. May he rest in peace after a life well lived. God Bless.
Luann Miller
Pat and Ed Whirty
November 5, 2009
To MaryLou and the Fetzko Family,
We are so sadened to hear of Ed's passing. We extend our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family. Don't hesitate to call on Marleen and Butch in the days ahead. You both mean so much to them. I feel grateful to have met you and Eddie through them. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Pat and Ed
Trevor Carpenter
November 5, 2009
Moke Whalen called this morning to inform me about Ed's death. Ed and I were very close friends after graduating from Bloom and getting jobs in Binghamton. We called eadn other "Duke" because we always sand the Duke of Earl together. Ed was a special person. Our sincere condolences. Trevor and Betsy Carpenter
Bobbie Nevinger
November 5, 2009
I am sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers to your family during this difficult time. I have a lot of great memories of Mr. Fetzko at Chenango Forks.
Bobbie (Goga) Nevinger
Dennis Shaul
November 5, 2009
Mrs. Fetzko and family,
I can honestly say from the bottom of my heart,Mr. Fetzko was my favorite coach of all time at Chenango Forks. I have the deepst respect for all other coaches there, but Mr. Fetzko taught us a passion at an early level that carried us on throughout our years. To this day my family and in laws speak highly of him and the sayings he would teach us for math "SOCATOAH", "When in doubt, factor out saurkraut", "Kielbasa and beans", Waltz Me Matilda (a baseball pick off sign)" and my families favorite, his nickname for us "SHA.." He was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed but never forgotten. All the best to you and thank you for letting us enjoy Mr. Fetzko's teaching, coaching and personality.
Dennis Shaul and family
Tom Shaul
November 5, 2009
To the Fetzko Family,
And by that, I mean family, friends and all those that Mr. Fetzko touched...I had the honor of being educated by, as well as playing ball for Mr. Fetzko. There are just too many FUN stories to go into. Although I will always remember making him a 'PB&J' ("with extra jam SHAW") during a 'card party' at my folks house one time. I'm sure he's already started his new 'coaching' assignment. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. God bless you all. Tom Shaul
Chris Cushing
November 5, 2009
I had the priviledge of having Ed (Mr. Fetzko) as both a teacher and coach. I have many fond memories of both. There are not enough people in the world like Ed. He was not only a teacher, mentor and coach, he was also a friend. He was one of my father's dearest friends and fellow baseball coach. I can remember him at our house when I was young and his booming voice. I can remember him dancing polkas at his wedding to Mary Lou. I had recently had a conversation with one of my closest friends who also played ball for Ed. We both have fond memories of "looks like we're going to have hot dogs and beans for dinner after the way we played" or "you guys are going to run 10 30s for that performance". We had several names for Ed including "Daddy Fetzko" and just "Dad". I guess when you look back at it, you don't just call anyone "dad". I had not seen him for many years and ran into him on the slopes at Greek Peak a couple years ago with Mary Lou. Though he had been battling illness, his ever present smile was unchanged. I can remember him saying "been up to the top yet"? Just like he did in ski club many years ago. Say hello to my dad for me, I'm sure that you found each other already and are having quite a discussion about the World Series in heaven. Thank you for your guidance and friendship. God Bless.
Ken & Barbara Lenish
November 5, 2009
Mary Lou and Family,
We just learned of Ed's passing in today's pressconnects. We are so sorry and want to extend our deepest sympathy. We have had many good times together. You will be in our prayers and our thoughts are with you. Sincerely,
November 5, 2009
Coach Fetz started coach JV baseball about the time I starting umpiring. I did many of his games. I remember his
voice booming "hall drill" [what was that?] If I umpired on the softball field I could still hear him! My son,
Todd, played for Fetz on the team that went to the state final four in 1987.
A great experience. Our sincere condolences. Dick James
Amy Rauschmeier-Murphy
November 5, 2009
The Fetzko family,
My thought ans prayers are with you. He will surely be missed
Emily Laude
November 5, 2009
I have fond memories of being in his math class. My thoughts are wtih your family.
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