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Gary Kilmer Obituary
Gary Lee Kilmer, 42, passed away unexpectedly on June 21st, 2012. He joined his mother, Kathryn; his father, Robert; and his sisters, Jill and Florence. He is survived by his loving wife of 13 years, Jolene (Barrett) Kilmer; daughter and special friend, Toni Angel and Brad Dougherty; and his son, Cody. Also surviving are his sister, Sue; his four brothers, Bob, Bill, David and Jim; as well as many extended family and friends. Gary was a loving husband and father who has touched many and will be sadly missed. A Graveside Service will be held Thursday at 11:00 a.m. at Floral Park Cemetery Johnson City, NY. Family and friends are invited to call at the Ernest H. Parsons Funeral Home, 71 Main St., Binghamton, Wednesday from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m. Interment will be at the convenience of the family. Those wishing may direct memorial donations in Gary's name to The Southern Tier Independence Center, 135 E. Frederick Street, Binghamton, NY 13905. Please visit ParsonsFuneral.Com to offer your condolences.
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kayla henry
June 30, 2012
best wishes to all of you... hope you guys are alright.
Kate Hillman
June 27, 2012
You have now attained eternal peace, Gary, albeit too soon. Please watch over your family from afar and gently guide them on the right paths in their lives. Even though your physical presence will no longer be seen, your love will be felt every day by those who knew you. Rest now, for one day, all will be reunited again and there will be no time to rest as there will be many celebrations.
Jolene Stoeckel
June 27, 2012
Jolene, Toni and Cody- words can not express how sorry I am. Know that he will be watching you guys and smiling that he has such a wonderful family and friends. I love you all. RIP Gary Kilmer--thank you for making my cousin soo happy, and for touching all the lives you have touched in such a positive manner. You will be missed.
June 27, 2012
Dear Lord, please comfort those in grief,
Love them, lift them, give relief
For loss they've suffered, sadness felt;
Make this sorrow slowly melt.
Lord, let happy memories ease,
Creating peace like a gentle breeze,
And as you help them make it through.
Draw them closer, Lord, to you. (Joanna Fuchs)
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colleen decker
June 26, 2012
I am glad to have met such a wonderful person! Thank you for making me laugh!! I will remember you from "chicas" house!!!! RIP Gary may you continue to watch over your loving wife and family!
June 26, 2012
With deepest sympathy to the family during your time of sorrow. Psalms 46:1 says: God is for us a refuge and strength during this difficult time and may God grant you the comfort to endure.
Debi Cotten
June 26, 2012
What a sad tragedy. Sincere sympathy to Cody and Toni. RIP Gary.
Brenda & Roger Salai
June 26, 2012
Jolene we are very sad to hear about Gary, Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family
June 25, 2012
Jolene, Toni & Cody, we are truly sorry to hear of your loss. Your entire family is in our prayers. Love, Aunt Connie & Uncle Dick
Tina King
June 25, 2012
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.
Linda Thomas
June 25, 2012
Jolene and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I pray you will benefit from all the love, prayers and support your friends and family are and will give you in the future. Please let me know if there is anything I can personally do for you beyond, loving you and praying for you.
Lora Holley-Lawrence
June 25, 2012
Jo, I'm so sorry for your loss..you & your children are in my prayers.
joan ramirez
June 25, 2012
Jolene,Toni and Cody- there are no words -stay strong and always cherish your memories love Joan and children
Melissa Yourn
June 25, 2012
Jolene And Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Jolene, if you need anything, please do not hesitate to call. My thoughts are with you and your family during this time of sorrow.
Dedra
June 25, 2012
So sorry for your loss.
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